Are you hot and horny in the Highlands? We have you covered. For any person, male, female, young or old, we bring you our guide to finding sex in Scotland.

From club and bars, sex clubs, red light areas and dating apps, there is no shortage of ways to get your kicks in Scotland. Whether you are single and looking for some fun, a couple looking for sex and swinging parties or into something a bit kinkier, Scotland’s energetic nightlife and sex clubs are sure to get your pulse racing.


According to a data analysed from popular search terms, Aberdeen is a hotbed for swinging with over 5,000 monthly searches on average. While Edinburgh and Glasgow topped the poll for the kinkiest searches with Edinburgh searching for BDSM a whopping 2,000 times per month and, not to be overshadowed in the kinky stakes, Glasgow search data reveals they have varied sexual interests and fetishes including electrostimulation which is the act of electrocution for sexual pleasure, often in the genital area which is searched an average of 3,000 times a month. (source)


Scotland has plenty of sex and swingers clubs to suit all tastes and budgets. Mostly spread between the larger cities of Glasgow, Edinburgh and Aberdeen.

Burke and Hare – Edinburgh

Edinburgh’s famous Burke and Hare is located in the notorious ‘Pubic Triangle’, so called because of its three strip clubs. Your traditional pole dancing club with central dance floor and private rooms to the sides. Popular with stag do’s.

Bottoms Up Showbar – Edinburgh

A slightly classier lap dancing venue hidden behind a rather tiered exterior. Large main room with lots of dancers, private booths and classy décor make Bottoms Up one of the better choices for a sexy night out in Edinburgh.

Q Store – Edinburgh

Located in the gay quarter of the city centre, Q Store sells a range of adult toys and paraphernalia. Catering mainly for the cities gay scene, Q Store also stock sex toys and good for straight couples.

CJ’s adult parties – Glasgow

“CJ’s adult parties have all you need for a fun & enjoyable night out in safe & comfortable surroundings with a relaxed atmosphere.” CJ’s are Glasgow’s longest running and probably best known swingers parties offering a relaxed, professionally run regular swingers event.

Club Kudos – Dundee

Club Kudos is Dundee’s largest adult entertainment venue offering multiple rooms, showers, sauna and a steam room. They run different nights throughout the week including Gay, Bi, BDSM and swingers nights.


Glasgow has an acknowledged red light area, which is covered by CCTV cameras and well policed. Women in the main are not charged with soliciting offences within this area. This is a unique approach to prostitution in Scotland.


My Bed or Yours has a vast, active database of users in Scotland, most notably in Glasgow, Aberdeen and Dundee. Unsurprising really considering the dense population if these area. More interesting is the percentage of mature women in Dundee looking for local hookups so, if bedding a hot MILF or Cougar around Dundee is your thing, you are looking in the right place!