Browse our members in North
The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current North based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.
Find sex in North
Welcome to NZ's leading sex and open lifestyle site for couples and singles seeking excitement. MyBedOrYours connects users all over NZ who enjoy flirting, chatting about sex or are actively looking for casual meet ups in their area. With a large database of active members in NZ, we connect more users daily than any other premium personals site around.
The fast, fun way to find local sex partners
Search our members. It's easy to get started and find your match.
Updated profiles
Happily married but sex isn't really part of the equation any more. I really do like sex so if anyone is willing to enjoy a good time I'm keen.
Alan sent you a message: "Go on" (yesterday at 2:24am) Alan winked at you (yesterday at 2:24am) Alan winked at you (Monday at 1:16am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Sunday at 12:30am) Alan winked at you (Thursday at 12:04am)
I am easy going, good natured, intelligent, reasonable fit (Not quite a gym rabbit- but I have other rabbit habits), caring and kind. Looking for a player - nothing too serious to have fun with a good laugh at the world and our ourselves and who is open (legs lol) I mean open to explore each others fantasies...
I am looking for some uncomplicated fun. I like to meet new people and if things are sparking then I'll go with the flow. Everything else will come with the moment
Alan winked at you (15th Apr at 4:07am)
Rick winked at you (yesterday at 3:12am) Rick winked at you (19th Apr at 5:33am)
In an unhappy relationship wanting to have some fun.
Not passed it yet. Looking for a little adventure. Enjoy the outdoors, be it beach or bush. Enjoy cuddling on the couch or fun in the bedroom. Having a laugh with good company.
Heiea has yet to add her profile.
Cable winked at you (yesterday at 1:39am) Cable winked at you (Wednesday at 1:11am) Cable winked at you (Tuesday at 2:01am) Cable winked at you (Sunday at 1:29am) Cable sent you a message: "xx" (Saturday at 1:16am)
I'm looking for a good time not a long time I'm staying in huntly have my own place too come hava drink
Chris sent you a message: "Hi Jane," (20th Mar at 2:29am)
i am a short very cuddly woman i like the touch of a mans hands , i like swimming and water play i am a girl trap in this older womans body i like my body being explored and i am just staying to get into kinky sex i like wating prono as who knows we might learn some thing from there lol or get us in the mood
Bazz sent you a message: "Hi whats happining" (yesterday at 1:06am) Bazz winked at you (Friday at 4:56am)
i would like a lover just one with the same chemistry and friendship I am a writer but have been in the Careers a long time other situations, looking for a friends and lover. I am trying this site also to just see which suits me best 58 to 72 please no young ones
Leila sent you a message: "Im looking for a love. Someone..." (yesterday at 2:25am)
Dolly has yet to add her profile.
I'm a 44 year old professional guy, good looking, seeking a bit of fun. Very open minded and would try most things. Searching for a special someone for a bit of discrete fun.
Bod has yet to add his profile. Ask Bod for more info.
im here for one thing only and that is to fuck with no strings or dramas
Stop beating around the bush, Get what you really want with NZ's leading adult contacts website
There is no need to be shy or coy when meeting new people on mybedoryours.com. When you join an adult personals community like ours you can be as forward as you like. All our members are here for the same reasons
- Finding casual sex
- Meeting local swingers
- Looking for affairs
- Finding regular fuck buddies
So, they will not be offended when you cut to the chase and say exactly what you are looking for. Obviously, not everyone has the same tastes or are attracted to the same people so you may be turned down a few times before you hit the jackpot but surrounding yourself with like-minded people makes the process of finding willing sex partners easy.
Tip: try to include at least one recent photo in your profile. Members with photos receive an average of 70% more interest than those without.
So how do you go about finding swingers in North?
It's so easy to find local swingers in North as well as anywhere else in NZ with My Bed or Yours. All you need to get started is an account. Registration is free and your account is instantly activated, no waiting for your account to be approved or any credit card details to provide. Once you are logged in you can start searching members. There are a variety of ways to search. You can search by postcode, characteristics, interests or a combination off all of these. Once you complete your profile our compatibility matching system will suggest members it believes are a good match to get you started. When you find members you like the look of, just send them a short message or a flirty wink and see where it takes you.
Joining NZ's leading sex contacts website couldn't be easier. Just fill in you details above to get started. No payment is required. Your details are kept secure and never disclosed and you could be meeting other members for some casual sex tonight.
Why should you join My Bed of Yours?
At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.
Verified Profiles for Peace of Mind
We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.
Discreet & Safe Sex Dating
Privacy is paramount to us. We understand the importance of discretion, especially when it comes to intimate connections. Our commitment to anonymity means that your personal information is always kept confidential. Our in-house security team works tirelessly to ensure that your privacy is protected.
Security & Data Protection
Your safety is our top priority. That's why we've invested in robust security measures to safeguard your data. There aren't any apps to download and install so your membership can remain private.
At My Bed or Yours, we're dedicated to providing you with a safe and enjoyable online dating experience. Join us today and discover a community where you can connect with confidence.


