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Welcome to NZ's leading sex and open lifestyle site for couples and singles seeking excitement. MyBedOrYours connects users all over NZ who enjoy flirting, chatting about sex or are actively looking for casual meet ups in their area. With a large database of active members in NZ, we connect more users daily than any other premium personals site around.

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HOND, 34 from Helensville, Auckland

Hond sent you a message: "Want to meet up in the weekend" (27th Apr at 1:22am) Hond winked at you (27th Apr at 1:22am)

TOMTOM, 30 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Tomtom has yet to add his profile. Ask Tomtom for more info.

JIM, 72 from Owhiro Bay, Wellington

I'm looking for a companion to have a good time with. NSA works for me but, if things do go well, films, dinner, and, just maybe, some dancing (I seem to be somewhat rhythmically challenged). I like the outdoors for all sorts of activities and enjoy the space and privacy of the bush on a warm summer's day, but also walking, especially with a couple of dogs, swimming and sailing. If the weather is too awful, there are art galleries and museums and lots of interesting out of the way places to explore, or just curl up in front of a fire with a glass (or two) of my finest. Right at the moment I'm not expecting a fully committed relationship but I'm happy to see where things may lead and have some good times and adventures along the way.

VICK, 54 from North

Looking for nsa fun,when I'm in your area,day/night between Manawatu,National Park,Otaki, Pahiatua to Masterton. Horny enjoy sex,the more the better, anytime, anywhere. Fit and able. Day time visits suits me well Mon-Fri, sometimes overnight Masterton and Ohakune. Love to meet you in front of my warm fire in Ohakune Ski lodge. In Auckland 13th Feb 2017 for the night-Drop me a line.

GEOFF, 57 from Tokoroa, Waikato

Daytime delights,from Tokoroa,usually cruisey..giving body rubs(happy ending)I'm no sugar daddy,a romantic though .LADIES ,sorry but I'm gone from R. R .

BRENDON, 53 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Brendon winked at you (Saturday at 3:27am)

ROB, 46 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi ladies I'm a 46 year old horny guy who hardly gets it any more i am looking for discrete sex I will lick, suck and xxxx you all night and give you multiple orgasms so if this sounds like something you could be into look me up.

SHYGIRL, 38 from Oamaru, Otago

Unhappily married for a few years looking for sum fun to brighten up my dull life

MARY-JANE, 38 from Oamaru, Otago

Unhappily married and wanting to find someone to have fun with

JULIE, 39 from Papamoa, Bay Of Plenty

Julie has yet to add his profile. Ask Julie for more info.

KIM, 36 from Manakau, Auckland

Hi I am a lovely lady that is honest and trustworthy I don't like to be used or played on I am looking for absolutely everything in a man I am a hard worker and a awesome mum that has abit of a wild side love to dance let me show you what I got

EDWINA, 42 from North

Just moved to Tauranga - looking for girls and couples keen for a good time with no strings, no expectations and no rules. I love trying new things, ticking off fantasies, will try anything twice and love making women cum. As it gets warmer, I'd love to have some outdoor adventures and I have a fuck buddy who lives in Auckland who I play with time to time who's blonde, hot, curvy, loves to suck and fuck cock and pussy and will do my bidding... Did I mention she's only 24? Anyways, She is definitely not compulsory - just an option that you can add to our party if that's what turns you on. If you like what you've read, and seen, want to have a great time then get in touch and let's hook up for some hot, horny, passionate fun.

ROMAN, 81 from Albany, Auckland

Roman sent you a message: "C" (6th Jan at 7:48pm) Roman sent you a message: "C" (4th Jan at 2:09am)

SUKHVINDER, 51 from North

Sukhvinder has yet to add his profile. Ask Sukhvinder for more info.

CHAD, 42 from Ilam, Canterbury

I'm a single guy looking for an awesome girl for a friends with benefits kinda thing. I'm a genuine kind of guy, fit healthy and slim and love a girl with a great sense of humor. I love to please and make your fantasies come true, send me a message if you'd like to know more xx

JAMES, 46 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

James winked at you (28th Apr at 4:17am)

CRAIG, 43 from Feilding, Manawatu-Wanganui

Easy going with good sense of humour.separated and looking for no strings attached sex.Am looking to fulfil some small fantasy's.

TOM, 42 from North

Open-minded easy going adventurous down to earth..

SAMMY, 22 from Auckland, Auckland

Sammy has yet to add her profile.

MATT, 39 from Mangere, Auckland

Matt sent you a message: "Role play" (yesterday at 1:24am) Matt winked at you (Monday at 1:10am)

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