Browse our members in North
The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current North based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.
Find sex in North
Welcome to NZ's leading sex and open lifestyle site for couples and singles seeking excitement. MyBedOrYours connects users all over NZ who enjoy flirting, chatting about sex or are actively looking for casual meet ups in their area. With a large database of active members in NZ, we connect more users daily than any other premium personals site around.
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I fantasise a bout Sex in public, where you could get seen or found out by someone who you don't know
Hello I'm Daniel, A fit 38 year old married male. I Have a high sex drive, love foreplay, and naturally looking for a casual friend, is this you? If you like my pic send me a message and I will be happy to show you more. D
I'm a lesbian wanting to try some cock! I want the opportunity to suck and fuck all night on the low low.... it's gonna be fun xx
James sent you a message: "O2i 83 Ooo3" (25th Dec '16 at 3:11am) James winked at you (25th Dec '16 at 3:10am) James added you as a Favourite (25th Dec '16 at 3:10am)
Love to please a woman with my fingers and tongue. Great at massage Can travel
Looking for casual fun with like minded nice but naughty girls
Hey all you beautiful girls. I'm a retired professional. I live alone, comfortable and lonely. Got what it takes and more for sharing. Can host or travel. I'm hot and horny. I may be a senior but still in good condition and working order. Looking for a short time as its no good planning too far ahead these days. NSA fun is on my agenda but a bit of travel with a willing partner could be fun.
well im looking for some no strings attached pure sexual fun. I am not interested any any long term relationship.
Jasonthomas has yet to add his profile. Ask Jasonthomas for more info.
Tall toned endowed slim truck driver . Have some tats . Im easygoing laidback guy who is bored on the road and would like to play with likeminded women for nsa fun. I also live on the west coast near Greymouth so if anybody travelling this way hit me up
I'm looking for someone who is hot, horny, wet and a nice tight pussy
Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (13th Apr at 1:13am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (13th Apr at 1:08am)
Sasealover has yet to add her profile.
Sensual Leo, into giving an pleasuring, love oral, an sharing passion, Discrete friend or casual encounter, chat, fun, whatever :) In Glenview area,
Brendon has yet to add his profile. Ask Brendon for more info.
Well lady's let's get it on I'm on here for u and myself love to give whatever u like
I love to eat puci and talk naughty while doing you with my stiff tongue or dick
I love exploring every part of a women's body with my mouth and tongue.. :)
Jim winked at you (Monday at 9:47pm)
Looking for a regular wholesome playmate. I got a list to tick. Top of the list is you treat women nicely. Discretion is a must.
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There is no need to be shy or coy when meeting new people on mybedoryours.com. When you join an adult personals community like ours you can be as forward as you like. All our members are here for the same reasons
- Finding casual sex
- Meeting local swingers
- Looking for affairs
- Finding regular fuck buddies
So, they will not be offended when you cut to the chase and say exactly what you are looking for. Obviously, not everyone has the same tastes or are attracted to the same people so you may be turned down a few times before you hit the jackpot but surrounding yourself with like-minded people makes the process of finding willing sex partners easy.
Tip: try to include at least one recent photo in your profile. Members with photos receive an average of 70% more interest than those without.
So how do you go about finding swingers in North?
It's so easy to find local swingers in North as well as anywhere else in NZ with My Bed or Yours. All you need to get started is an account. Registration is free and your account is instantly activated, no waiting for your account to be approved or any credit card details to provide. Once you are logged in you can start searching members. There are a variety of ways to search. You can search by postcode, characteristics, interests or a combination off all of these. Once you complete your profile our compatibility matching system will suggest members it believes are a good match to get you started. When you find members you like the look of, just send them a short message or a flirty wink and see where it takes you.
Joining NZ's leading sex contacts website couldn't be easier. Just fill in you details above to get started. No payment is required. Your details are kept secure and never disclosed and you could be meeting other members for some casual sex tonight.
Why should you join My Bed of Yours?
At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.
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We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.
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