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I would like to find a lady who wants to have their clothes ripped off and have their legs spread, so I can lick her pussy and get her nice and wet so I can slip my now nice and hard cock in her and fill her with my hot cum. A nice 69 would be great, suck me while I am licking your pussy and arse.
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Nick sent you a message: "Hey there...." (Thursday at 1:42am) Nick winked at you (Thursday at 1:41am) Nick sent you a message: "Hello there......" (24th Jan at 10:34pm)
I have just moved over here so yeah looking for people To meet
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The wildest thing I have ever done is to make love, naked, on top of a mountain
Am i who your looking for? We are both here and possibly for similar reasons. Like me you seek more, you need more. You are a sensual, sexual person and like it! You want to explore every part of that. You think about sex - a lot! You think about what you would like to do and you fantasize about the people you would like to do it with. You've lived life and are completly at ease with who you are. You like your body, it's not perfect but but it feels great and you long to share it with someone who appreciates and desires it. You want to use it in every way possible. You don't judge and have no time for those who judge others, You wish that people would just accept themseves and others for who they are. You gave up any inhabitions long ago but you also value your privacy, discretion and maturity are a must. You want to give pleasure as much as you want to recieve it. But most of all you want sex and you want it long, hard and often, you want to get naked and FUCK - because it just feels, well, fucking awesome. I am who you are looking for, we are both here for exactly the same reasons. So I suggest we get together you and I and fulfill a fantasy or two.
Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (yesterday at 1:06am) Bob sent you a message: "What's Jane upto?" (Wednesday at 1:56am) Bob winked at you (21st Jan at 1:18am) Bob winked at you (7th Jan at 1:21am) Bob sent you a message: "is jane up for some fun?" (6th Jan at 1:46am)
Cable sent you a message: "W T F ???" (18th Jan at 3:30am) Cable sent you a message: "no profile" (15th Jan at 6:01am)
Alex winked at you (12th Jan at 6:08am)
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Hond winked at you (26th Jan at 1:55am) Hond sent you a message: "0 2 1 1 2 1 7 8 6 2" (26th Jan at 1:55am)
Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 1:17am) Fuckandgo winked at you (yesterday at 1:15am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi!!" (yesterday at 1:08am)
David winked at you (28th Jan at 1:53am) David sent you a message: "Jane" (21st Jan at 1:06am) David winked at you (21st Jan at 1:06am)
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i am eagerly waiting for an encounter with sweet young lady which i can satisfy your need and go for wild pleasure
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Hi I am a tall slim guy who I'm often told looks much younger than my age. I am semi retired and still doing some biodervirsty contract work. I have spent all my life working in Biodersity and environmental work and management. I own my own home and am finacially secure. Recently I have been working in North Canterbury and have now decided to return to the Naki. I am very fit and enjoy wild life photography, light bush walking, diving, and fishing. I so love the beach. I take a lot of pride in myself and my home. I am very active. I would love to meet an attractivel lady within my age group who has a good sense of humour and fun to be with, without any baggage. I value honesty and intergrtary. I also think that the past is the past. We cannot change it. So I personaly look forward to what the future may bring. I am a very positive , content, and happy man. I do not like negativity. I love to dance and like good music. I have been seperated for aquite while, soon to be divorced and offically single. I'm very passionate and considerate in a real and careing relationship. Friends first and then see what happens. I will not reply to young girls who are old enough to be my daughter. Cheers Kerry
Im medium built shy type, but very horny. Here for one night stand and casual encounters. Im a businessman, im not really active in activities but i do have my garden enjoy plants .
Lucky winked at you (9th Apr at 1:03am)
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