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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current North based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Welcome to a huge source of genuine New Zealand adult contacts, a place where open minded adults meet for casual encounters, share naughty photos and stories or engage in adult online chat. A place where there are no limits, where you are free to express your naughtiest desires and deepest sexual fantasies.

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We all fantasise about meeting strangers for some no strings sex, no commitment, no complications. Well, here at My Bed or Yours we connect many users a month looking for exactly that. Look for horny guys and girls in North safely and meet securely online either via our secure website or new, dedicated mobile application.

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ANDRE, 50 from Glen Eden, Auckland

Andre sent you a message: "It of chit" (yesterday at 12:44pm)

MATT, 39 from North

Matt winked at you (yesterday at 1:10am)

STEVE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Looking for encounters with exploring women who are passionate And who love to kiss and like receiving oral

DANEBY, 72 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Am an active young at heart older guy. Separated past 13 years. Enjoy female company of similarly active, outgoing and fun loving. Social drinker. In good physical condition and not overweight. Scuba dive, fishing, socialising and enjoy good dining. Would welcome a giving and caring person. Not too prude

RICHARD, 59 from North

Hi. I am very easy going and discrete personality. Very easy to get on with. Love to Cuddle. Love to Please and pleasure You. I am Looking for Casual encounters and Adventure with ladies. 173cm tall medium slim Build (78Kg ) Ok Looks. Other Interests, Portrait - Discrete Nude Photography Etc. Looking for Ladies. Who would like Good quality photo of themselves for either person use or for adding to this site. (Free -- No Charge ) Semi Professional Nikon DSLR camera

WILL, 44 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Just an average horny guy looking for fun!

STACEY, 53 from Remuera, Auckland

I'm single. Great job. Got my life sorted - all except the intimate side. Prefer to chat for a little bit, if seems to be connection meet for a drink and if chemistry then move onto the next level of NSA fun. Prefer to build relationship with one person though / nit into different partners every night of the week. I guess in short a fun time with no expectations. I enjoy going to the gym, the beach, socialising, and spending time with nice and fun people.

JIM, 34 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I'm pretty calm, quiet but secretly I'm wicked... like to go the gym, but like my food way too much like to wine and dine, but like a good fuck (or several) Like to laugh, learn about people

JAMES, 37 from Remuera, Auckland

hi great looking fun guy looking for adventure

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael sent you a message: "u horney" (yesterday at 12:16pm) Michael sent you a message: "u like" (2nd Feb at 1:39am) Michael winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:39am)

GREG, 57 from North

I'm a very compassionate guy , am reasonably fit and are healthy ! Am a hunter and fisherman ! Have Triumph that I ride when the weather is good !! Work for NZ Government and live with and look after my Mum who has dementia !!

CHRIS, 38 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Chris winked at you (22nd Jan at 8:58am) Chris sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (12th Jan at 2:04am)

STEVE, 43 from North

Slim and fit, interests inc swimming, astronomy, science, watching good movies. Recently separated. Have two kids boy 11 girl 8.

VINCENT, 38 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Just looking for women to have some quality time.

DAVID, 30 from Auckland, Auckland

I'm an extremely well hung 26yo Always Hot Hard & horny

JONATHAN, 40 from Hamilton, Waikato

Jonathan winked at you (yesterday at 6:26am) Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am) Jonathan winked at you (12th Apr at 1:38am)

JOHN, 32 from Rolleston, Canterbury

Simple guy looking for some short term fun. Well mannered Educated Looking to start with a few emails to get the ball rolling. Then eventually meeting up NSA.

STEVE, 54 from Silverdale, Auckland

Steve sent you a message: "Hi Janes." (Friday at 1:46am) Steve winked at you (Friday at 1:31am) Steve sent you a message: "Hi Jane." (Thursday at 1:09am) Steve sent you a message: "Hi jane" (Monday at 8:57pm) Steve winked at you (Monday at 8:56pm)

JASE, 41 from Hawera, Taranaki

Hey ya, im a super busy guy with work and a CF Box. Ready to share my passion for life with like minded sexy cougar that is happy, fun and Awesome! So if your free of drama and wanna chat or know more, please holla J

DONNA, 48 from Hamilton, Waikato

Well what can i tell you ,i love to laugh im 6ft1 cuddley down to earth.i want a real hard man to have fun with..the rest of the news about me is a surprise mmmm

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