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Welcome to NZ's leading sex and open lifestyle site for couples and singles seeking excitement. MyBedOrYours connects users all over NZ who enjoy flirting, chatting about sex or are actively looking for casual meet ups in their area. With a large database of active members in NZ, we connect more users daily than any other premium personals site around.

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GRANT, 49 from North

Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs:Quirks: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. Looking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.

TEMPTED, 48 from Auckland, Auckland

. Myself and my friend are Interested in good safe nsa meetings. We love to play together but would love to have a man for some extra fun. Willing to be taught new things. Not interested in kissing any frogs.

IEM, 23 from Manurewa, Auckland

,Open to anything really youll never know if you never ask. Mummy- complicated-23- ive Never done this before but we could try. Respect to be Respected.

XTINA, 41 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Xtina sent you a message: "..." (Saturday at 9:02am) Xtina sent you a message: "I'd really like to know more a..." (2nd Aug at 10:30am)

INKANDIRON, 22 from Hamilton, Waikato

Inkandiron has yet to add his profile. Ask Inkandiron for more info.

XTINA, 41 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Xtina sent you a message: "..." (yesterday at 9:02am) Xtina sent you a message: "I'd really like to know more a..." (2nd Aug at 10:30am)

MARK, 51 from Orewa, Auckland

Landscape Gardener Interested in Ford cars,sports going out and having a good time. Meeting a beautiful lady and having amazing hot sex.

TRACY, 35 from Auckland, Auckland

I want a gud time and a hard pounding with a man, or some hardcore pussy eatin from a women ( I want u 2 teach me how 2 eat pussy, yes that's right never bin with a girl but really want 2 give it a go so think u could help) or have the best of both worlds have both 2gether ;) :)

BLISSH, 24 from Manurewa, Auckland

Blissh has yet to add her profile.

LETSCHAT, 41 from North

I'm interested in Older men only!! 55 plus

NIA, 30 from North

Nia has yet to add her profile.

RAVEN, 48 from Hamilton, Waikato

Im looking for erotic chat or txt that may lead to more.To start with just looking to chat with a female,if u r a sexy lady send me a message n lets see what fun we can have.. Im a happy,sexy woman who njoys trying new things,into bdsm Im married and it was my husbands idea to have fun and try this.

JIMBRUCE, 45 from North

Jimbruce winked at you (yesterday at 1:31am) Jimbruce winked at you (Tuesday at 1:03am) Jimbruce winked at you (29th Apr at 1:17am) Jimbruce winked at you (24th Apr at 1:23am) Jimbruce winked at you (23rd Apr at 1:17am)

BIGBEAUTY, 26 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Hi my name is Samantha and I'm 26 years old :) Never been on a site like this before and thought I would try it. I'm a big girl who likes to have fun. very inexperienced and would like someone to show me the ropes ;)

CROSBYP, 44 from Melville, Auckland

Crosbyp winked at you (Saturday at 8:35am)

FIERYWAFFLE, 32 from Te Atatu Peninsula, Auckland

My husband and I are looking for some playmates to have fun with, come join us....

SHAZZA, 30 from Te Rapa, Waikato

Well built tall Caucasian and ready for a good time

MONTENA, 36 from North

You have to enjoy life. Always be surrounded by people that you like, people who have a nice conversation. There are so many positive things to think about.

IEM, 23 from Manurewa, Auckland

,Open to anything really youll never know if you never ask. Mummy- complicated-23- ive Never done this before but we could try.

EVANGALINE, 28 from Mount Albert, Auckland

Evangaline sent you a message: "Me" (yesterday at 4:22pm)

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