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North sex personals

My Bed or Yours is a dedicated adult dating site - we want you to live out your sexual fantasies. We've built an exclusive service to bring people together who have one thing on their minds. SEX. Feel the rush of touching someone new for the first time, discovering new secrets and desires. We don't believe looking for new sexual partners should be dominated with dodgy sites and dubious looking profiles. MBOY offers you genuine profiles and a discrete service.

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SILA, 27 from Mount Albert, Auckland

Am looking for someone to have fun with nothing serious.

MYSTIQUE, 47 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

wouldn't it be fab to snuggle up in front of the roaring fire, watching a rom/com? Or having a romantic picnic at the park? all the better for the build up to the big bang at the end. how romantic, x I am in love with being in love. want someone to give my all to, someone that i know has got my back in all situations. would move the earth for me. i want to FEEL that kind of love, unconditional. It is the 'silly little things' that mean the most to me. I HAVE NO INTEREST IN MARRIED MEN, THANKS My 'kids' are in their 20s, so if you are too, I'm definately NOT interested.

DAVID, 33 from Auckland, Auckland

David winked at you (28th Jan at 1:53am)

TYLER, 32 from North

Newly single, message if you want to meet up

JASON, 41 from Whangaparaoa, Auckland

Hi ya genuine Kiwi MAN good looking fit and healthy looking for open minded ladies to have some NSA fun with, love the outdoors and meeting new and exciting people, straight to the point don't want a relationship just SEX I am well hung and can certainly please a lady. keen then lets hook up and make it happen

MARK, 26 from Christchurch, Canterbury

recently got out of a longish relationship and looking for some fun!!!!

KELZ, 50 from Taumarunui, Waikato

Ok a little bit about what I want. I'm very laid back and regularly keep in shape by walking. I'm out for NSA action only...

DAMIEN, 50 from North

Damien winked at you (yesterday at 4:04am)

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (Sunday at 2:56am) Michael winked at you (11th Feb at 8:01pm) Michael sent you a message: "u horney" (10th Feb at 12:16pm) Michael sent you a message: "u like" (2nd Feb at 1:39am) Michael winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:39am)

WILL, 46 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

A mature very well payed six figure club working man who needs a good woman to wine n dine and have fun with now n then! Your place or mine it's no problem or if you prefer a high end motel or hotel....absolutely no worries at all! Sorry not into married woman!

JONATHAN, 53 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (yesterday at 2:18am) Jonathan winked at you (Friday at 1:10am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi there jane" (Thursday at 1:41am) Jonathan added you as a Favourite (Thursday at 1:36am) Jonathan winked at you (Thursday at 1:36am)

MASTEROF, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

First things first- I am of Indian origin. Apparantly, skin color n race is far more important for many than being a genuine, well-spoken guy with a sense of humour. And if you are still reading then thanks heaps.Besides I am a better person who do not discriminate based on looks and body type, intelligence is way better turn on than showing your privates. A working professional enjoying life and would like to explore some new horizons. Here to meet some like minded people and expand my circle (have NSA fun n be naughty ofcourse). I am respectful, understanding and love to please women (trust me ladies once you brown you never frown ) Cheers

VEE, 36 from Botany Downs, Auckland

Vee winked at you (12th Apr at 1:47am)

LACHY, 51 from Wellington, Wellington

A active male that looks after himself looking for lady who is into a friends with benefits, I dont have time for a relationship, if someone is in a relationship discretion assured,

BUBBLE, 31 from Pakuranga, Auckland

Sugar and spice.....I love gifts and I show my gratitude in a very satisfying way;)

CIPHER, 57 from Opawa, Canterbury

Semi-retired, educated, active, businessman, looking for woman to wine, dine, indulge and pamper. The emphasis is on having some NSA fun and laughter.

PULLINYATIT, 46 from Dunedin, Otago

Pullinyatit sent you a message: "Hiya" (yesterday at 1:35am)

PAUL, 33 from Hamilton, Waikato

Tall, single, never married - live by myself get a bit lonely. Laid back casual guy like to keep busy - looking for someone to hang out with and have some fun - FWB

CON, 41 from Titirangi, Auckland

.....single, clean, discreet, open-minded with very large hands - LOVE playing with \ eating pussy / making women orgasm lots (hopefully enough to squirt - or soak me with piss) kind of shy at first but will open up to decent people who chat

TRESS, 45 from Takanini, Auckland

Laid back easy...drama free...no issues...no tissues...here to enjoy sexual adventures with like minded...to explore those taboo boundaries nostrings pleasuring...so cum lets connect and go from there!

Finding some casual, no-strings fun in North is easy

Our adult personals service is a fest and convenient way to meet new exciting people to explore your wild side with. No tricks, false promises, fake profiles - just a simple, discreet online sex finder. Our powerful location search lets you find matches close by and our fun communication tools allow our users to connect easily and discreetly.

We don't stop at providing great features

Having the best features, mobile application and competitive rates isn't what makes us great. Yes, it makes us pretty good but we didn't stop there. We also wanted to ensure we provided the best possible customer support via our dedicated team on hand and lastly, we wanted to be sure we had the best kind of members too. To combat the normal high levels of male to female members we offered the "women go free" promotion. A promotion which proved so popular we decided to keep it running giving us unbeatable male to female membership ratios.

Is adult dating safe?

As with meeting strangers in any social environment there can be a certain risk involved. We recommend you get to know people online first before giving any personal details out like your full name, home phone or address. Try to spend some time chatting on the site and then maybe try talking over skype or web cam for a bit. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and move on. If someone causes you any concern or is abusive you can report them to our membership team who will investigate them. If anyone asks you for money or asks you to do anything illegal please report then right away. While we do everything we can to keep this site free of scammers and timewasters, they do get through from time to time so we urge you to exercise the same caution you would when meeting a stranger in any other setting.

Now the safety stuff is out of the way, lets get back to the good stuff... Getting the sex!

  • Step 1 – Sign up for free using the form above to get instant access
  • Complete your personal member profile including a recent photo if possible (members receive over 50% more interest if they have a photo). Completing your profile will enable other members to find you and allow our auto matching application find potential partners for you. Don't worry, we never publish any of your personal details.
  • Start checking out other members profiles, have a look at their naughty photos and sexy member diaries. For extra convenience, check out our new 'who's near me' application which will show you members near you on an easy to use interactive map without giving away your exact location or any personal details. Start contacting members. Don't worry if you are shy, try an icebreaker or a cheeky wink to get the ball rolling.
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