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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current North based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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MyBedOrYours is likely the most convenient way to find fuck buddies in North. Simply register for free, search online or use our neat new mobile sex finder app to find suitable matches near you, message them and meet for some NSA fun. It really is as easy as that.

It's not just about the sex

Not all our members are looking for casual sex. Some are just interested in some innocent flirting, chat or some naughty web cam sessions with strangers. Whatever you are looking for, we have many genuine members looking for someone like you.

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CHICKY, 35 from Hamilton, Waikato

35 year old female looking for NSA discreet encounters..

KIWIGAL, 29 from North

Kiwigal has yet to add her profile.

RICK, 76 from Foxton Beach, Manawatu-Wanganui

i fantitise for lonely mature sexy lady

SHANE, 44 from Wellington, Wellington

Shane sent you a message: "Hi" (Tuesday at 6:32am) Shane added you as a Favourite (Monday at 10:15pm) Shane winked at you (Monday at 4:37am) Shane sent you a message: "Hi" (10th May at 7:02pm) Shane winked at you (9th May at 2:41am)

BRENDA, 58 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I am who I am. Honest, open and just me.

XTINA, 40 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Xtina winked at you (yesterday at 3:19pm) Xtina winked at you (25th Apr at 6:22pm)

DAVID, 35 from Auckland, Auckland

David sent you a message: "Hi," (30th Apr at 1:38am) David winked at you (30th Apr at 1:37am)

VJ, 31 from North

Vj sent you a message: "Hey babe" (Monday at 1:49am) Vj winked at you (Sunday at 1:08am) Vj sent you a message: "No pic?" (Saturday at 1:02am) Vj sent you a message: "NSA fun" (11th May at 10:10pm)

SAPIOGIRL, 38 from Nelson, Nelson

*PLEASE READ BEFORE MESSAGING* Sapiosexual. Pluviophile. Tattooed. Hetero flexible. Bbw. Lover of humour and good manners. I'm not your average girl so an intelligent approach is more likely to get you a response. Looking for the Daddy that can scratch this baby girls itch. Not looking for casual. Looking for that deep connected bond this dynamic comes with when real. Must have leather belt *grin* Please no Bi men. I like mine 100 straight and 100 a top. No switches sorry. If you're in here being unfaithful keep scrolling passed me....PREFER 50+

NYZAH, 25 from Timaru, Canterbury

I'm located in Ashburton not Timaru. I am a mum of 1 who is 5 years old and loves with me. I tend to have every 2nd weekend off as she goes to her fathers. Just down for a good fuck, I'm all about the pleasure of it (works both ways)

SAM, 39 from Hamilton, Waikato

Looking for NSA fun...have a great career and marriage but would like a little discreet fun from time to time

RAGNAAR, 37 from North

I am an outgoing adventurous individual that loves a challenge. Fitness, love life and here for nothing but NSA ; hot nasty fun.... I have a large sexual appetite with tons of endurance... are you up for it? then join me?

YENGPRESTON, 27 from North

Yengpreston has yet to add her profile.

NYZAH, 25 from North

Nyzah has yet to add her profile.

SARAH, 43 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

43 yrs old with nice body size 10 looking for fun with young guys

SASSY, 35 from North

Introducing myself is so tricky so here it goes. I am a bubbly and positive person.I see good in people. I try not to judge anyone regardless their past. I am new on this site and I am quite suprised and overwhelmed by it all. I think maybe everyone on this site are here to find someone to have fun with or more. Well Im going to see if I could do both lol thats if I do find one that is compatible or not. We'll see how it goes.

PHONESEX, 23 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

Phonesex has yet to add her profile.

XGRACEX, 22 from North

Live in Wanganui , 25 years old. Love to meet new people on this :)

JAMIE, 39 from Hamilton, Waikato

I'm looking for someone to hang with once in a while, i'm pretty picky so not into anyone whos shagging anything that goes but keen for a little fun

TIGHTHOLE, 21 from Mangere East, Auckland

I want anal

Take your pick from local swingers, doggers and exhibitionists and averyone in-between looking for sexual adventures around North. Just say what you're looking for and wait for people to get in contact with you or be a bit more adventurous and send a flirty message, wink or icebreaker and take it from there.

So how do you go about finding a fuck buddy in North?

It really is easy to find local fuck buddies in North as well as anywhere else in New Zealand with My Bed or Yours. To get started you just need to register your free account by completing the above form. Once complete you will get instant access to the site, no waiting for your account to be approved or any credit card details to provide. Once you are logged in you can start searching members. There are a variety of ways to search. You can search by postcode, characteristics, interests or a combination off all of theses. Once you complete your profile our compatibility matching system will suggest members it believes are a good match to get you started. When you find members you like the look of, just send them a short message or a flirty wink and see where it takes you.

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