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NIKKI, 34 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

I am a petite, attractive, intelligent and professional woman who values intellectual conversation, charm, wit and a man who knows himself confidently, without arrogance. A lot to ask for perhaps, but I'm after a quality lover, not a quantity ;-) In return I'll deliver similarly.... I am married with one child. My husband and I practice consensual non-monogamy, with a 'Don't ask, don't tell' approach. After many years together we understand that humans have needs that can no longer be satisfied in the habitual nature of marriage, work and parenting. I am someone who has a passionate and vibrant approach to life and seek to keep Desire alive. My photo is discrete for identity purposes but I will provide more to the right person. I hope to meet a man who can provide the occasional escape into not just sex, but deep conversation, passionate kissing, intimate exploration, in the moment connection and a respectful friendship when we are not together as lovers.

KITTEN, 25 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

Just a kitten looking for a master, if you think you can handle me ;)

MICHELLE, 41 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Hi new to the NAUGHTY FOURTY ERA. I am a bi-curious, happily married to a liked minded, open minded, bi- curious partner. We are both looking for new fun no drama, no strings attached, casual encounters with DISCREET locals of like minded experimental, exciting people, couples singles ALL WELCOME

BERT, 50 from Grafton, Auckland

Bert winked at you (4th May at 9:46am) Bert sent you a message: "Role playing" (16th Apr at 6:30am)

RODGER, 61 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

One night stands. I like singing, dancing and having a good time. If you are interested message me.

MARIA, 64 from Auckland, Auckland

I like the harmony in everything, life, nature,, with family ,friends and in a relationship.

APPLE, 22 from Dunedin, Otago

Apple has yet to add her profile.

RACHEL, 31 from Manukau, Auckland

Im here for so crazy sex before I leave NZ

LINA, 27 from North

Not interested in idiots P.S I have gotten some really out of it messages which can be sometimes awkward so if you are one of them you won't be getting a reply! Oh yeah and BTW I am a Pacific islander FYI too the guy and every other person that may what to know!!!

HONEYPANTS, 36 from One Tree Hill, Auckland

Honeypants has yet to add her profile.

HERA, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Really enjoy training hard, would be keen to chat with similar minded guy.

SOREN, 36 from North

Soren has yet to add her profile.

JOHN, 48 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

John winked at you (5th May at 6:52am)

KANA, 29 from North

Kana has yet to add her profile.

ELLE, 39 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi there. I'm looking for naughty discreet fun with a real man who is strong, well groomed, classy, experienced and respectful. 35-45 age range would suit. Sorry not interested in boys with no experience or stamina. Hope that doesn't sound too harsh. Only here for one off encounters, NSA. Happy to chat first to see if we have chemistry.

THATGIRL, 35 from Paihia, Northland

Just her looking for some discreet fun, sorry not into older men 40 is my age limit.

TASH, 28 from North

Love older guys, must be gentle. So if you love a big girl, then you're my type x

MISCHIEF, 51 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

lonely lady needing attention...seeking discreet date/friendship with a nice respecful guy.. Meet up.dinner, drinks then see where that leads...can make it a casual thing....weekly etc....what suits both party's....if interested let's talk...prefer older gentlmen....

SWITCHHIT, 48 from Mangawhata, Manawatu-Wanganui

Switchhit sent you a message: "Hello" (15th Apr at 4:29am)

KELVIN, 37 from North

HI ladys my name is Kelvin I'm a fun guy up for a good time any time

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