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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current North based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

With new members signing up every month looking for some fun, finding new people who share the same needs and fantasies as you has never been easier. Simply register for your free account, complete a few details about yourself (don't worry, any personally identifiable information is kept confidential and never revealed to other members) and upload a photo (a photo is not required but highly recommended to receive the most interest from other members), and start searching for new sex partners, swinging couples or just a fun buddy for some harmless online flirting.

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DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (19th Dec at 1:44am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (18th Dec at 1:50am)

CHRIS, 36 from Paraparaumu Beach, Wellington

Asian Jack Rabbit

CR, 45 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

SensationalPleasures Looking for NSA fun Life is an adventure

PETER, 46 from Albany, Auckland

I'm looking for no strings attached fun , discreet and safe. I'm clean 6'2 healthy and very loving with a good job . I could make you squirt if that's what you like , love giving massage and to spoil you with my tongue till you explode in my mouth . Let's chat and see. Lest have some fun ladies

BOB, 44 from Grafton, Auckland

Bob sent you a message: "hows jane going?" (yesterday at 2:00am) Bob winked at you (Saturday at 2:36am) Bob winked at you (17th Dec at 2:50am)

KENNDRA, 52 from Greenmeadows, Hawke's Bay

II have great body also keep very fit & love life to the maxs Looking for lady to compliment not complicate my life !!!!!! I'm a fun loving person living for today !!!! Self employed builder in the bay for 15 years also work overseas I would like to meet afunloving lady

LETMETRY, 30 from Botany Downs, Auckland

I get turned on by the reaction to my touch, this is why I quite enjoy giving oral. Being sentual and being in the moment. And who doesnt like to cuddle. Ideally would like to find a regular friend with benefits. Someone that understands when we were together were 'together' and when were not, were not. Im not looking for someone to be my other half, but maybe i could be your bit on the side. Im the laid back type. I dont want drama and im not one to cause it. If you fulfill my desires, theres no reason why i wont fulfill yours.

ANTHONY, 56 from North

Hi there my most favourite thing to do is giving oral I love it and to please a women.to let her do what she wants to me.Im up to trying anything.I want to meet a sexy women who loves that sort of man are you out there.If you are Im ready for you don't be shy I love all races favourites are Asians But it really doesn't matter to me I just love to please a women no matter what race.

LLOYD, 53 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Fit strong and healthy...looking for friend to share personal space and pleasures...

CHERRYMAY, 25 from Burnside, Canterbury

I like no commitments, no drama and no holding back! At the weekend you would find me outdoors or surrounded by concert jungle with a cold beer and some chilled tunes.

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (13th Apr at 7:26pm) Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (2nd Apr at 8:22pm) Michael winked at you (2nd Apr at 8:22pm)

ANNA, 34 from Fitzroy, Taranaki

BBW in need of a good time

LONLEYBOY, 43 from North Shore, Auckland

Lonleyboy sent you a message: "I see you viewed me" (10th Apr at 2:13am)

BIGFUN, 44 from North

Fit, fun, sexy, professional, discreet, respectful male with a Scottish accent, an open mind and a penchant for pleasing ladies. Well endowed,excellent at licking pussy and also capable of an intelligent conversation and having a laugh too :-)

TEAWHI, 21 from Opawa, Canterbury

Teawhi has yet to add his profile. Ask Teawhi for more info.

WANTING, 39 from Auckland, Auckland

Fit, clean and drug free. Looking for discreet NSA fun. Maybe FWB. Enjoy a nice wine with movie or music. Like to take time to please and tease ;o) No wham bam thank you ma'am.

DAVID, 48 from Wellington, Wellington

David sent you a message: "Newby" (yesterday at 1:55am) David sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 1:53am)

REBEKAH, 22 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Bisexual bondage freak Love oral. Nothing makes me wetter than having a girl sit on my face, gagging on a nice fat dick or getting my pussy and ass licked. I am switch depending on the chemistry, though I love dominating guys I also love to be challenged. For the sub guys, I have a strap on and I know how to use it. Come to me in handcuffs and prepare to leave sore, satisfied and covered in my golden shower nectar. This takes a bit of trust for me to go full submissive but when I do I go DEEP. The only time I've ever had multiple orgasms is tied up. I am very tight so a long teasing session to get me dripping and stretched before a rough pounding is amazing Also looking for bisexual encounters. Will submit very easy to woman. Love it. Love it love it love it I am currently submitting in an open relationship to my Mistress who is a goddess and hot as fuck. We are open and honest and she provides me with all I need. I'm looking for some X factor. I have a massive sex drive and an overblown imagination Guys, don't open with "what's your number" or "let's meet up for some kinky hot sex" ffs guys get creative. I am turned on by mental stimulation and engaging the grey matter. I am a dirty bitch,but I'm also insulted if you think I'm easy. Looking for online only at the moment but not ruling out more in the future Message me for more

ANDY, 49 from North

Andy winked at you (16th Dec at 10:11pm)

KERRY, 65 from Stratford, Taranaki

Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Wednesday at 1:33am)

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