Browse our members in North
The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current North based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.
Find sex in North
Welcome to NZ's leading sex and open lifestyle site for couples and singles seeking excitement. MyBedOrYours connects users all over NZ who enjoy flirting, chatting about sex or are actively looking for casual meet ups in their area. With a large database of active members in NZ, we connect more users daily than any other premium personals site around.
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Updated profiles
Gn winked at you (28th Feb at 5:43am)
Brian sent you a message: "Hi" (Sunday at 5:07am)
Neal has yet to add his profile. Ask Neal for more info.
looking for a like minded lady who is discreet and after nsa adult fun.
Super Native After Permission More Erections
Good looking, smell good, clean, respectful, down to earth and easy going guy who loves sex, kisses, cuddles and snuggles.
Sam sent you a message: "I won't bite..." (10th Mar at 12:47am) Sam sent you a message: "Don't be shy!" (10th Mar at 12:46am) Sam sent you a message: "Hey there Jane" (10th Mar at 12:31am) Sam winked at you (10th Mar at 12:30am)
Masterof sent you a message: "." (18th Mar at 9:22am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (9th Mar at 8:55am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (8th Mar at 1:09am)
gentil lover of older women has been a long time but am keen as for nsa with older women one nighter and ongoing sex do like trying new thing and am whating to have three some with two older women if you are keen .i know what i like and there are some sexy grannies out there form 60 t0 80 year old
Paul winked at you (24 minutes ago) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)
Who wants to have some quality time spent below mmmm. Not looking for a relationship at this stage. A fwb situation would be perfect thanks. Not a girl every night. Rather play with one women that I like "lots"
Jamesxxx has yet to add his profile. Ask Jamesxxx for more info.
Scottie sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 1:17am) Scottie winked at you (yesterday at 1:10am)
Paul winked at you (Sunday at 7:57am)
Maddy winked at you (yesterday at 2:05am) Maddy sent you a message: "looking for some fun tonight ?" (yesterday at 12:09am) Maddy sent you a message: "Interested in Fun" (Saturday at 12:55am) Maddy winked at you (Saturday at 12:41am) Maddy sent you a message: "Text me" (Saturday at 12:06am)
Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (yesterday at 12:30am) Alan winked at you (Thursday at 12:04am) Alan winked at you (Wednesday at 4:42am)
Surf winked at you (12th Apr at 11:19am)
Bazz winked at you (Friday at 4:56am)
Sam winked at you (22nd Mar at 12:06am)
Jaffacake has yet to add her profile.
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There is no need to be shy or coy when meeting new people on mybedoryours.com. When you join an adult personals community like ours you can be as forward as you like. All our members are here for the same reasons
- Finding casual sex
- Meeting local swingers
- Looking for affairs
- Finding regular fuck buddies
So, they will not be offended when you cut to the chase and say exactly what you are looking for. Obviously, not everyone has the same tastes or are attracted to the same people so you may be turned down a few times before you hit the jackpot but surrounding yourself with like-minded people makes the process of finding willing sex partners easy.
Tip: try to include at least one recent photo in your profile. Members with photos receive an average of 70% more interest than those without.
So how do you go about finding swingers in North?
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At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.
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We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.
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