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J, 29 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

Hey there, I am recently single and looking for a bit of fun.

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (23rd Apr at 8:58pm)

STEVE, 54 from Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui

Hi attached bi guy looking for discrete meetings with like minded people

ANDRE, 47 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi am just here to fuck no strings attached. PAP piercing. ANYONE UP TO IT.

BRETT, 45 from North

I like to think that I'm an easy going person that enjoys doing just about anything

PEDRO, 48 from West Harbour, Auckland

Hi There - I'm a hard working, professional family man - and want to stay so. Discretion is essential. Occasionally i get strong urges for some random horny fun. I would love to see what may come from invites or requests - perhaps these will define my boundaries? I look forwards to hearing from you. cheers. Pedro p.s. I LOVE to eat pussy!

MARK, 47 from North

I'm a married man trapped in a sex less relationship.I need some discrete sex in my life Help me please.

SHANE, 38 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Hey ladies! I'm an easy going, fun and adventurous guy looking for someone to share good times with,if you think this could be a bit of you then get in touch ;-)

CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

Cable sent you a message: "hi" (Thursday at 6:59pm) Cable winked at you (Thursday at 6:56pm) Cable winked at you (Thursday at 6:37am) Cable winked at you (Tuesday at 3:12am) Cable sent you a message: "xx" (5th Mar at 2:22am)

ALEX, 67 from North

Alex sent you a message: "Hi.....R U 4 Real?" (yesterday at 12:13pm) Alex winked at you (Friday at 8:42pm) Alex sent you a message: "Carpe Diem....on line NOW!" (3rd Mar at 1:45am) Alex winked at you (27th Feb at 10:37am)

GRANT, 57 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Honest straight up easy going outdoors loving kind of guy wih a good sense of humour

KARAN, 33 from Grafton, Auckland

Karan has yet to add his profile. Ask Karan for more info.

BILL, 78 from Otaki, Wellington

Bill winked at you (Friday at 10:16pm)

PETER, 65 from Wellington, Wellington

Fit retired male, own home, recently widowed. More information available if requested. Prefer to meet with women aged 40 and over

QUITECHILL, 24 from North

I'm back, after a two months of focusing on other things. I keep in good shape not interested in a relationship just something causal nsa fun message if your inserted.

JON, 50 from North

Jon winked at you (Friday at 3:04am) Jon winked at you (Wednesday at 3:42am)

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked winked at you (Friday at 12:00am) Naked winked at you (Wednesday at 1:58pm) Naked sent you a message: "Hello Ms Jane" (25th Feb at 1:39am) Naked winked at you (25th Feb at 1:39am) Naked winked at you (10th Feb at 2:36am)

JOHN, 52 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hi I'm In a committed but mostly sexless (last couple of years anyway) long term relationship.so not looking for a soulmate or to go out and about clubbing but would Like some very discreet sexy times with a mature lady For some no strings fun times

GOODBOY, 62 from Twizel, Canterbury

Here for fun and saucy chatting. Maybe casual and discreet NSA sex if it feels right for both of us.

JESH, 35 from North

I am physically fit and take you for a ride. I may be large for some but guarantee full pleasure. Always up for trying new things. My photo is 100 real. I love being fit to impress. Try me and you will get hooked up.

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