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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current North based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

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MASTEROF, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Masterof sent you a message: "." (9th Mar at 9:55am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (8th Mar at 2:09am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (24th Feb at 1:11am)

MATT, 26 from Blockhouse Bay, Auckland

Young fun (awesome) guy just browsing this site, seeing what kind of interesting people are here! Looking to chat with good people, and see if that leads anywhere.

LUCKY, 31 from Grafton, Auckland

Lucky winked at you (26th Feb at 1:08am)

MANWELL, 34 from Greenmeadows, Hawke's Bay

I like older woman. I would like to explore sexual pleasures with someone in a safe and fun way.

SAM, 36 from North

Sam the man ! I'm open minded guy, clean and easy going. I love doing body massage as I'm trained! I'm drugs free! Alcohol may be up to few drinks :). I enjoy laughing and traveling. I drive a lot with musik on. I'm single ! I can host ! I play safe!

SAM, 35 from Auckland, Auckland

Basically just looking for NSA, FWB, etc..

PAUL, 57 from Pukekohe East, Auckland

Hi to you all and thanks for checking me out, hey I'm a regular kiwi bloke, shouldn't be on this site but here I am.. really love my wife but just need good sex way more regularly ok.... is this a crime I hope you understand my situation...by the way I love pleasing ladies with nice slow entry and long deep thrusts i love bone on bone and ladies arching their backs and thrusting their hips skyward to take my big love muscle deep inside their dripping wet pussies, I really think having good sex is magical.

HONE, 28 from Belmont, Auckland

here for a bit of fun

CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

Cable winked at you (yesterday at 1:39am) Cable winked at you (Wednesday at 1:11am) Cable winked at you (Tuesday at 2:01am) Cable winked at you (Sunday at 1:29am) Cable sent you a message: "xx" (Saturday at 1:16am)

HARRY, 63 from Hamilton, Waikato

I'm separated and looking for a lady who looks after herself for some NSA fun. I very much enjoy oral sex, both giving receiving and trying different positions. I love having sex outdoors, both for the freedom and the excitement. Willing to give anything a go so why notgive me a go ))

ANDY, 41 from Cromwell, Otago

Tall athletic..love to be a sex slave.. taken advantage of. Also would like to have submissive for my own pleasures..? Im open minded and adventurous

MADDY, 34 from North

Maddy sent you a message: "hi" (yesterday at 1:32am) Maddy sent you a message: "hey" (yesterday at 1:18am) Maddy winked at you (4th Mar at 1:10am) Maddy added you as a Favourite (4th Mar at 1:10am)

MASTEROF, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Masterof sent you a message: "." (yesterday at 10:22am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (9th Mar at 9:55am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (8th Mar at 2:09am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (24th Feb at 1:11am)

NICKO, 72 from North

yes I am married but have not had sex with my wife for some 30yrs medical reasons yes I have seen other women over the last 25yrs I love having sex and enjoy it I also like my partner to enjoy I just want casual relationship not live in I love lots of foreplay too I am a straight up kind gentle guy but don't want to talk on here for very long please

MATT, 39 from Mangere, Auckland

Matt sent you a message: "Hi" (Thursday at 1:04am) Matt winked at you (Thursday at 1:04am)

CR, 45 from Taupo, Waikato

Cr winked at you (Thursday at 1:04am)

DENNIS, 65 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Not passed it yet. Looking for a little adventure. Enjoy the outdoors, be it beach or bush. Enjoy cuddling on the couch or fun in the bedroom. Having a laugh with good company.

SIMON, 51 from North

Like a man who's yours for the calling when you feel like some sensual pampering, or to have whichever way you like best - no questions, strings or judgements, with a man you'd soon feel comfortable and safe with?

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked sent you a message: "Email me Jane :-)" (24th Apr at 10:53am) Naked winked at you (8th Apr at 9:05am)

IRONMIKE, 44 from North

Been in longterm relationship now am not and am keen to makeup for lost time hot body good with the tongue

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