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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current North based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Welcome to NZ's leading sex and open lifestyle site for couples and singles seeking excitement. MyBedOrYours connects users all over NZ who enjoy flirting, chatting about sex or are actively looking for casual meet ups in their area. With a large database of active members in NZ, we connect more users daily than any other premium personals site around.

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JIM, 55 from Pakuranga Heights, Auckland

Hi, I'm out to have fun Out to give pleasure. .

WILL, 46 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

A mature very well payed six figure club working man who needs a good woman to wine n dine and have fun with now n then! Your place or mine it's no problem or if you prefer a high end motel or hotel....absolutely no worries at all! Sorry not into married woman!

EDDY, 23 from Ellerslie, Auckland

European guy, easy going and adventurous ;) Graduate electrical engineer

VERN, 32 from North

Vern has yet to add his profile. Ask Vern for more info.

RIDET, 44 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Ridet has yet to add his profile. Ask Ridet for more info.

HARLEY, 41 from Grafton, Auckland

Hi there I'm a builder by trade a biker at heart club member love life shy honest country guy looking for a friend/s with benefits must be discrete xx

MADDY, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Maddy sent you a message: "free tonight??" (23rd Apr at 1:21am) Maddy winked at you (22nd Apr at 1:22am) Maddy sent you a message: "some fun tonight" (14th Apr at 1:18am) Maddy sent you a message: "are you free tonight" (8th Apr at 1:09am) Maddy winked at you (8th Apr at 1:08am)

CROSBYP, 44 from Melville, Auckland

Crosbyp has yet to add his profile. Ask Crosbyp for more info.

TRTOG, 31 from North

Just want sex..no strings attached

JAY, 25 from North

Jay winked at you (yesterday at 1:07am)

LACHY, 51 from Wellington, Wellington

A active male that looks after himself looking for lady who is into a friends with benefits, I dont have time for a relationship, if someone is in a relationship discretion assured,

ANDY, 54 from Christchurch, Canterbury

find the perfec play mate on line phone 1or in person Pretty normal with few added to keep things interesting.

XXXXXC, 50 from Takapuna, Auckland

Xxxxxc has yet to add his profile. Ask Xxxxxc for more info.

MADDY, 34 from North

Maddy winked at you (Sunday at 1:47am) Maddy sent you a message: "hello" (Sunday at 1:31am) Maddy sent you a message: "hey hun" (1st Apr at 1:16am) Maddy sent you a message: "Hi" (27th Mar at 1:16am) Maddy winked at you (26th Mar at 2:05am)

SCOB, 29 from Auckland, Auckland

Scob winked at you (1st Apr at 3:17am)

XGRACEX, 22 from North

Xgracex has yet to add her profile.

ALAN, 44 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Tuesday at 1:29am) Alan sent you a message: "Tx" (Monday at 1:23am) Alan winked at you (Sunday at 2:43am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (1st Apr at 1:36am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (1st Apr at 1:33am)

HONE, 28 from Belmont, Auckland

Vacancy: An adventurous babe for a mad genius to conduct experiment. You are required to use my paraphernalia in stiletto high heels. You must be willing to work extra hours and speak in tongues when I do carry out my practical sessions.

STEVE, 48 from Parnell, Auckland

I am looking for that friends with benefits for a week day day time relationship. Sorry you will have to host but I can travel . Happy to meet for coffee to get to know you. Just name the place. I promise to totally focus on you.

VEE, 36 from Botany Downs, Auckland

Vee winked at you (12th Apr at 1:47am)

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