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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current North based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

Looking for sex in North

Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

With new members signing up every month looking for some fun, finding new people who share the same needs and fantasies as you has never been easier. Simply register for your free account, complete a few details about yourself (don't worry, any personally identifiable information is kept confidential and never revealed to other members) and upload a photo (a photo is not required but highly recommended to receive the most interest from other members), and start searching for new sex partners, swinging couples or just a fun buddy for some harmless online flirting.

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ATELIER, 46 from Auckland, Auckland

Living life to its fullest without regrets.The choice I make mine alone.Do not restrict or limit me.

MAGGY, 55 from Belmont, Auckland

Dreamers and time wasters look no further..No once upon a timers either...Single and sizzling then lrts get it on...i love to have my toes sucked and my earlobes nibbled...Love bubbles and bubbly with candlelight glow..Sex in the surf is my wet dream yet to be fulfilled..Beaches all around me...just need the main ingredient...You.

ANTHONY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I'm Anthony I'm 25 single,Looking for some fun

MALORY, 27 from North

Malory sent you a message: "Looking for open-minded and ho..." (Saturday at 5:02am)

ANDRE, 47 from Auckland, Auckland

I am pretty much a straight up person. I was wondering if there is any one lady to be daring. And willing to play truth and dare instead of just talking. Let's see you come out and play if you dare. I am married and looking for single ladies who are lntrested in maried men. Or married woman who intrested in married men.Love to please ladies who enjoy sex and i understand a womans needs. Always willing to take sex to next level cause it's has endless possibilties. I like clean shaven ladies who have nice attitude and sense of humour also who have nice toe nails and fingernails I really adore this. I am clean shaven on my chest and penis area as I don't like body hair.

ANDREW, 40 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

loyal discreet and willing to please! What is your pleasure?

JIMMY, 48 from Wakatu, Nelson

Up for fun from all directions, I will throw you around the bed and do you right, over and over. You will be dripping top to bottom.

STEVE, 55 from North

Steve winked at you (10th Apr at 10:12am)

ROMAN, 81 from Albany, Auckland

Roman sent you a message: "C" (Friday at 7:48pm) Roman sent you a message: "C" (Wednesday at 2:09am)

PAUL, 53 from Takapuna, Auckland

Paul sent you a message: "Hi" (18th Dec '16 at 1:35am)

MIKE, 57 from Glenfield, Auckland

Just looking for some horny fun. Thought I'd see who else might be too :-) I'm a reasonably fit and active, Euro kiwi male, keen to find someone to enjoy some summer fun with. Am very discrete, friendly, outgoing. Enjoy hot teasing, touching, kissing. I love fucking at the beach, in grassy fields, parked up in the car - anywhere where we might get caught. I'll feel your pussy under the table in restaurants, in the dark at the movies, as we're driving in the car. I'll sneak a feel of your breasts and tweak your nipples whenever I get the chance. We'll go shopping for sexy lingerie and clothes that show you off and tease. I'll take you out commando in sexy short skirts and shorts. If you're up for it, I'll let you get completely naked in front of others. I'd love to watch you tease another man's cock, or lick out another chick's pussy. Or lie back and enjoy being touched by a stranger's hands and tongue.....male or female. And I'd love to watch you touch yourself....so hot to see a gal bring herself off. Let's have some fun....message me!

ANDY, 49 from Botany Downs, Auckland

Andy sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Wednesday at 1:15am) Andy added you as a Favourite (Wednesday at 1:14am) Andy winked at you (16th Dec '16 at 10:11pm)

PUNEET, 25 from Wanaka, Otago

Puneet has yet to add his profile. Ask Puneet for more info.

CRAGITY, 47 from Methven, Canterbury

I'm a down to earth farmer Clean living and intelligent. I have a nice home and nice truck. I just don't get the opotunity to meet many Women!!

TREV, 73 from Waihi, Waikato

I am just an average guy ( in all ways ) that is lacking in "Personal TLC".. Have many, many interests ( incl Golf.). Love soaking in Hot pools... Great S O H.. which can be a bit cheeky at times...:-) Looking for a nice woman that has similar interests... if we click ??/ who knows ??? I am a believer in making Love, not just out and out Sex... I could put you an a High.. if my profile interests you, would love to hear back from you... :-)

RICO, 35 from North Shore, Auckland

Seeking enjoyable adventures, will like minded souls... Curious? Drop me a line to find out more.

JONATHAN, 53 from Auckland, Auckland

Good sense of humour, old America cars ( have two ) boating and having a good time, fishing looking for fun and good sex with sexy ladys

JON, 32 from Mount Albert, Auckland

Hi , in Auckland looking in this site . I love sport out going n friendly . hook me up later.

MEG, 21 from Wakatu, Nelson

I'll do anything to make you happy

DEE, 55 from Kaiti, East Cape

Fit...Healthy...Fun loving...good sense of humour... confident and strong.... Good manners...easy going....

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Genuine sex contacts in North

You would be surprised at the types of people who use adult personals as a way to fulfil their sexual requirements. The old fashioned stigmas have long gone and adult dating is now widely accepted as a genuine way for busy people to enjoy a fulfilling sex life without needing to get involved in a complicated or time-consuming relationship or resorting to hiring the services or a prostitute or escort. With so many different people out there looking for some no strings sex and a simple, easy to use platform like ours to connect them, there is no need to pay for sex or go without. Just in-case you are concerned about your own privacy, we take this very seriously and never display or disclose your personal details. We never sell or rent out your email address or any other information to marketing companies or other websites. Being a paid service allows us to run a professional service without the need to resort to trading members details or showing ads in order to pay the running costs.

Women looking for adult dating partners in North

We have men logging in to MyBedOrYours every day looking for sex. You can take your pick from NZ's finest selection of randy guys who are waiting to show you a good time.

Men looking for sex partners in North

If you are a guy looking for casual sex with no strings attached, a couple looking for an open minded woman for a fun threesome or even a married guy looking for some extra marital action, you will find a large database of genuine, active female users in NZ here on My Bed or Yours.

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We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.

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