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We all fantasise about meeting strangers for some no strings sex, no commitment, no complications. Well, here at My Bed or Yours we connect many users a month looking for exactly that. Look for horny guys and girls in North safely and meet securely online either via our secure website or new, dedicated mobile application.

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SMACKNDABOX, 33 from North

Hey me or we are searching for some random good times.im not pessimist man who thinks all women are bad. But a optimist who just hopes to meet some chicks who really are fun and a little bad.looking to meet some cool genuine as straight or bi/curious chickys for some nsa boozy nites and discreet times to join me and my young chicky mate who is bi curious for naughty secret fun )

BRIAN, 60 from Waihi, Waikato

I am easy going love my photography Beach is good Am fisher

JACK, 55 from Terrace End, Manawatu-Wanganui

Looking to have some very discreet fun, because i just love hot sex! Never before had experiences outside of marriage, so a bit nervous but ecstatic with excitement... Really looking forward to finding someone hot and horny like me and give you heavenly ultimate pleasure via your hot spots.... and mine.... I enjoy all shapes and sizes, what matters to me most is foreplay and longevity. Keen to try out some toys that you like to ignite...lots of creativity, bring it on!! Have so far wasted lots of time chatting. Ideally would like to chat briefly, then meet for a quiet glass of wine somewhere to see if we click, and go on from there.....! I'm in superb shape (have always trained) and if you like a strong well toned body with plenty of thrust, with a rock hard rod, then I'm your man! Ever seen the movie 5 til 7? That movie inspired me! A flexible once a month type arrangement would be super but one offs great too!

ANDRES, 47 from North

Andres sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 1:12am)

BEAR, 40 from Kohimarama, Auckland

I'm an Islander with a thirst to tease and please you. I'm a married man who is sexually frustrated as my sexual desires are being deprived. Secret sexual/sensual encounters or just chat would be great. Don't make me beg for it.

GOODHANDU, 51 from Stratford, Taranaki

looking for a like minded lady who is discreet and after nsa adult fun.

THOMAS, 37 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

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PETER, 61 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi I am any easy going guy looking for a bit of NSA fun. I am adventurous, passionate and willing to try anything at least once. I love exploring the female body

WOOD, 26 from Auckland, Auckland

Wood winked at you (yesterday at 1:27am)

JONATHAN, 40 from North Shore, Auckland

Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am) Jonathan winked at you (12th Apr at 1:38am)

SHANE, 45 from Dargaville, Northland

Single male back in NZ after 7 years in WA. Like to meet with like minded people. Spent last 3yrs with a lady who introduced me to the swinging scene and loved it and still do. We would have gatherings at ours and meet a lot awesome people cause of it, and would like to now I am back in NZ. I am polite, respective of others and not pushy, happy to sit and watch or join in when asked to. Like meet with couples and single ladies. I am open minded and never judge. So I hope to hear from you soon if I fit the mould

ANDY, 50 from North Shore, Auckland

I am open minded about most things ,I don't sweat the small stuff , go with the flow, I am not married and not in a relationship. I dont judge how someone looks, I rather have Fun and personality will sort that. I am a bigger guy so if it's not your cup of tea it's OK if i don't hear from you Im looking for no strings attached fun, will try most things, NOTE for married women: No Dramas, or insecure husbands

MIKE, 46 from Glen Eden, Auckland

easy going, horny, into most things

JIM, 61 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

I'm 61 slim single and sexy romantic humourous lover !! I enjoy sexy ladies younger and older !! I enjoy sex one night stands casual sexy encounters Online sexy chats !! Enjoy fun sexy times !! Dates etc !!!

SS, 41 from Inglewood, Taranaki

Well I hate this but I'm a hard worker not a liar fun funny fit well built da badest lover well hung passionate fair caring no stress I just sort it I help lots of people with different problems an agreat host I live music....

RICHARD, 49 from Mount Victoria, Wellington

I'm a healthy and active person who enjoys the outdoors, sports, simple pleasures in life and good conversation. I'm looking to share discreet time and fun with a lady with the same needs as me.

JOSH, 22 from Waitakere, Auckland

Josh has yet to add his profile. Ask Josh for more info.

SCOTTIE, 40 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Scottie sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 1:17am) Scottie winked at you (yesterday at 1:10am)

GLEN, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Fun out goin love to try new things and seriously keen to have some fun email me

RYAN, 26 from Pakuranga, Auckland

Just after some NSA fun.

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