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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current North based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Meeting likeminded people in your area is what this site is all about. We connect open minded adults all over NZ looking for some NSA sex or some harmless online flirting. Adult dating sites offer many benefits over traditional dating sites.

Firstly, there is no need to be deceitful. All our members are here for the same reason, finding new sex partners. There is no need to pretend to be looking for something more just to get sex. Here you can be completely open and honest about what you want. Secondly, our privacy settings are generally more strict than that of other forms of online dating sites. Due to the nature of the sex dating scene our members appreciate anonymity.

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SAM, 40 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 1:38pm) Sam winked at you (yesterday at 1:37pm)

DONZ, 30 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

Like to have a good time...... Love big dick .... The bigger the better........ Keen for a bit of fun ........ Very very kinky ... Experience a must !!!! Toys or other female company welcome...

SHORTY, 39 from Weymouth, Auckland

Hi there I'm 6ft tall male of Maori decent , like the ladies im here for fun I like most thing social drinker/smoker not looking for anything serious I enjoy the company of funny confident mature ladies. I love sex especially when you've been satisfied I enjoy the outdoor sex the thought of been caught is exciting love giving oral.

PAUL, 58 from Pukekohe East, Auckland

Paul winked at you (24 minutes ago) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)

CHRISTINA, 63 from Point Chevalier, Auckland

I think i am okay and enjoy sharing in all ways

GEORGE, 46 from North

George sent you a message: "Happy Birthday Jane" (24th Jan at 2:05am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (23rd Jan at 1:18am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane only one week to go Hu..." (22nd Jan at 2:17am) George winked at you (22nd Jan at 1:05am) George winked at you (19th Jan at 1:34am)

FRASER, 31 from North

NSA or just hang out not fussed no drama

SHORTY, 39 from Weymouth, Auckland

Shorty has yet to add his profile. Ask Shorty for more info.

MAC, 36 from Auckland, Auckland

Mac sent you a message: "Hey" (Friday at 1:15am) Mac winked at you (8th Jan at 1:18am)

PHILIP, 50 from Glen Eden, Auckland

Want to share passion with passion, pleasure with pleasure.

NICK, 46 from Auckland, Auckland

Nick sent you a message: "Hello there......" (24th Jan at 10:34pm)

SAM, 29 from North

Sam winked at you (22nd Mar at 12:06am)

LUKE, 56 from Papakura, Auckland

Active and personable businessman with sense of humour, tall and fit and looking for regular fun meetings with lady for chat and pleasure. If you are in or near Auckland and like good conversation and nice sex drop me a line! I like good conversation, coffee meetings, movies and motorsports and long foreplay sessions

MAX, 58 from Albany, Auckland

Max winked at you (25th Mar at 6:47pm)

JOHN, 67 from Taupo, Waikato

John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (Sunday at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (Sunday at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Role playing" (19th Jan at 2:22am)

TONY, 36 from Kaiti, East Cape

Keen as to fk let's see what happens ;)

SURF, 41 from Auckland, Auckland

Surf winked at you (12th Apr at 11:19am)

MICHAEL, 31 from Auckland, Auckland

Looking for casual connection - from adventures in nature, to dancing, to cooking together, to passionate and affectionate sex and snuggles all the way to a wild fuck and fetishes. I love to connect, learn, grow and have fun on all levels - innocent or not. Must be casual as I have many different things going on, businesses, hobbies, to running and building my travelers community. I'm a dreamer that is driven to achieve whats in my head - no mater how crazy or alternative they are. Embracing life and aiming to make the most and live it to the fullest.

ELIZABETH, 39 from Newton, Auckland

39yo single mum, 168cm tall, curvy size 18. I like to be told what to do in a respectful way and I'm fairly good at following instructions ;)

KEV, 60 from North

Sporty fitish guy lol Great sense of humour I know my way around a lady :p

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