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Love older guys, must be gentle
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Hi there. I'm looking for naughty discreet fun with a real man who is strong, well groomed, classy, experienced and respectful. 35-45 age range would suit. Sorry not interested in boys with no experience or stamina. Hope that doesn't sound too harsh. Only here for one off encounters, NSA. Happy to chat first to see if we have chemistry.
I love exploring every part of a women's body with my mouth and tongue.. :)
40 Married, naughty, and horny, 153cm tall, 74kgs curvy big boobs. Love to go out riding my 250cc motor scooter when ever i can. Also love going out walking to keep fit. Looking for a caring guy not someone that is rough.
Im here for so crazy sex before I leave NZ
Hi new to the NAUGHTY FOURTY ERA. I am a bi-curious, happily married to a liked minded, open minded, bi- curious partner. We are both looking for new fun no drama, no strings attached, casual encounters with DISCREET locals of like minded experimental, exciting people, couples singles ALL WELCOME
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Not interested in idiots P.S I have gotten some really out of it messages which can be sometimes awkward so if you are one of them you won't be getting a reply! Oh yeah and BTW I am a Pacific islander FYI too the guy and every other person that may what to know!!!
I like the harmony in everything, life, nature,, with family ,friends and in a relationship.
Just a kitten looking for a master, if you think you can handle me ;)
Love older guys, must be gentle. So if you love a big girl, then you're my type x
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Single male looking for some NSA fun.
lonely lady needing attention...seeking discreet date/friendship with a nice respecful guy.. Meet up.dinner, drinks then see where that leads...can make it a casual thing....weekly etc....what suits both party's....if interested let's talk...prefer older gentlmen....
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