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If you have made it this far, chances are you are searching for the best way to find NSA sex partners, discreet affairs or local swingers. Your search can end here. MyBed OrYours is the ultimate adult personals site, connecting new members every month looking for sex, no-strings fuck buddies or naughty online chat.

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To put it simply, adult dating is online dating for people looking for casual relationships rather than people looking for love although we do have many members who are just interested in some saucy online fun, chatting, messaging and flirting without actually meeting strangers for sex. It's up to you how far you wish to take it, why not sign up for a free account and take a look around. Everything you do on the site is secure and confidential so you can relax and be yourself.

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DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (yesterday at 1:50am)

PAM, 48 from Botany Downs, Auckland

New to bdsm and looking for the right dom to help me explore

LEO, 32 from Queenstown, Otago

Argentinian living in qt crazy for sports and outdoor activities. Let's meet up and have some fun.

JAMES, 78 from Halswell, Canterbury

in to someone who is in to filthy chats

MIKE, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Fun, into nsa. Enjoy hours of cunnilingus, exploring, role playing. Let's explore our fantasies together.

ELLEN, 58 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

I like to ride my motorbike, fly my drone, swimming and walking. I like having dinners out and the occasional movie.

ATELIER, 46 from South

Skip the small talk I love sex so holler

SAM, 39 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam winked at you (Friday at 6:49am)

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (yesterday at 1:44am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (Sunday at 1:50am)

MIKE, 39 from Auckland, Auckland

Keen for fun times with fun people. tease me with your sexy knickers

CALLUM, 46 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Callum has yet to add his profile. Ask Callum for more info.

JAZZYPHAY, 25 from Manurewa, Auckland

Jazzyphay has yet to add her profile.

MADDY, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Maddy sent you a message: "free tonight??" (23rd Apr at 1:21am) Maddy winked at you (22nd Apr at 1:22am) Maddy sent you a message: "some fun tonight" (14th Apr at 1:18am) Maddy sent you a message: "are you free tonight" (8th Apr at 1:09am) Maddy winked at you (8th Apr at 1:08am)

TJUWANA, 39 from Hamilton, Waikato

Tjuwana has yet to add her profile.

SANDRA, 20 from Wellington, Wellington

I don't know why I'm here, well I guess I do.. He doesn't love me anymore does he? I know he cheated \u0026 right under my nose, now he thinks he can get away with it and it's all water under the bridge... You can forgive but not forget.

SHELBY, 39 from Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui

Looking for a long term, regular fuck buddy on these cold nights, need to have sex regularly! Must be SINGLE..if you are unhappy in your marriage leave.

BRENT, 48 from Hamilton, Waikato

Former elite athelete. Carrying a couple of extra kg. Ok looks? You can decide that. Time poor. Not wealthy. Need a lot more sex than I get at home. Love oral especially giving, but recieving too. Will try most things. Start out safe.

QUERCUS, 52 from Dunedin, Otago

I'm a travelling outdoor guide, and all this fresh air and travelling in our beautiful country makes me bursting with vitalitly and lust. I'd like some stimulating female company, share a drink or a meal together, and have a nice chat. If there's a spark, we could retreat to my hotel, or your place, for cuddles and.... .sex. I'm a Leo: I like to be loved and love in return . I respect women and I'm gentle. I have a good appetite for sex, nothing kinky. I'm not interested in a relationship, but if we have a good time - we could perhaps meet again?

MATT, 53 from Taupo, Waikato

If you want to know more message me

GAVIN, 47 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

Hi all just like inform that I am slim average and like give you all the jor you desire and sorry but unable to host.

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