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ALAN, 44 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Alan sent you a message: "Mmmm" (yesterday at 2:10am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (4th Apr at 1:29am) Alan sent you a message: "Tx" (3rd Apr at 1:23am) Alan winked at you (2nd Apr at 2:43am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (1st Apr at 1:36am)

RICK, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi. I'm inquisitive and interested in meeting new people and investigating new experiences ...

PAUL, 43 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Good sex wild sex, sex with me what you want, you get!!! And then as soon as you are hooked and in loveI RUN LIKE MAD!

STUART, 61 from Fitzroy, Taranaki

I am a Dominate a Gentleman who would love to find a sub women who would like to join me in some kinky fun I'm here to find like-minded women who love to enjoy pleasures are you open to new experiences and having kink in your life? Do you want to travel with me and take that chance????? I am a Master who is a good, kind but strict Master and respectful. I fully understand a "Masters Duty of Care" so that my slave feels loved, protected, safe, secure. I also know the difference between submissive and slave if you are opening your mind and body to the feelings of being submissive I would like to explore some of your inner feelings and maybe challenge your submissive ways Maybe be this is a way for you to grow and feel safe in your submissive

BOB, 45 from Grafton, Auckland

Bob winked at you (7th May at 1:06am) Bob sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (6th May at 1:04am) Bob sent you a message: "Hi Jane I think you should tal..." (30th Apr at 11:54am)

STEVE, 50 from Point England, Auckland

I'm easy, love to cuddle naked all day and enjoy ourselves. I maybe 50 but still 18 on the inside

SCARLETT, 23 from South

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LONLEYBOY, 43 from North Shore, Auckland

Lonleyboy sent you a message: "I see you viewed me" (yesterday at 2:13am)

SAM, 35 from South

Sam winked at you (3rd Apr at 2:06am) Sam winked at you (19th Mar at 3:16am)

JIMBRUCE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Jimbruce sent you a message: "Hey" (yesterday at 1:11am) Jimbruce winked at you (Thursday at 1:20am) Jimbruce winked at you (Wednesday at 1:31am) Jimbruce winked at you (Tuesday at 1:03am) Jimbruce winked at you (29th Apr at 1:17am)

ELLA, 21 from Auckland, Auckland

Ella sent you a message: "fun and exciting" (Saturday at 11:12pm)

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked winked at you (Saturday at 9:05am) Naked winked at you (3rd Apr at 11:49am) Naked sent you a message: "I'm Tony" (30th Mar at 2:58am) Naked winked at you (30th Mar at 2:01am) Naked winked at you (15th Mar at 6:42am)

ZIGZAK, 46 from Remuera, Auckland

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THOMAS, 37 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Thomas winked at you (Friday at 6:17am) Thomas winked at you (31st Mar at 6:42am) Thomas added you as a Favourite (25th Mar at 2:03am) Thomas winked at you (25th Mar at 2:03am) Thomas winked at you (21st Mar at 3:21am)

JUSTME, 38 from South

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KAU, 54 from South

life is short , having fun and see where it leads us , I give anything a go , dont be shy drop a line , never know wat tomorow will bring us , live today , not in the past , kool kool

POPONUTZ, 38 from Mangere East, Auckland

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BRENT, 51 from South

So Im naughty but also very nice and I do like erotic hot fun as Im sure you do also. I can only chat with you if you message me so if you think Im worth chatting to then you can flick me a message lol im sure you can work it out. So if you like a truly naughty guy just tempt me and then try me out. xx

FILTHYT, 27 from Papakura, Auckland

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CHRIS, 62 from Albany, Auckland

Chris sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (2nd Apr at 1:27am) Chris sent you a message: "Hi Jane," (20th Mar at 2:29am)

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