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We all fantasise about meeting strangers for some no strings sex, no commitment, no complications. Well, here at My Bed or Yours we connect many users a month looking for exactly that. Look for horny guys and girls in South safely and meet securely online either via our secure website or new, dedicated mobile application.

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BRENT, 48 from Hamilton, Waikato

Former elite athelete. Carrying a couple of extra kg. Ok looks? You can decide that. Time poor. Not wealthy. Need a lot more sex than I get at home. Love oral especially giving, but recieving too. Will try most things. Start out safe.

SHELBY, 39 from South

Looking for a long term, regular fuck buddy on these cold nights, need to have sex regularly! Must be SINGLE..if you are unhappy in your marriage leave.

R, 37 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

R sent you a message: "BBC" (16th Apr at 2:41am)

KAWANAZG, 39 from South

Kawanazg has yet to add his profile. Ask Kawanazg for more info.

DAVE, 51 from South

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (yesterday at 1:44am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (Sunday at 1:50am)

JAZZYPHAY, 25 from South

Jazzyphay has yet to add her profile.

MIKE, 54 from South

Learnt a lot in my life, love to give NSA pleasure, (giving oral is a fav) & explore fantasies. Love the adventure of naughty sex, be it outdoors or heated liaisons. Healthy & fit.

MIKE, 39 from Auckland, Auckland

Keen for fun times with fun people. tease me with your sexy knickers

GAVIN, 47 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

Hi all just like inform that I am slim average and like give you all the jor you desire and sorry but unable to host.

MADDY, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Maddy winked at you (yesterday at 1:22am) Maddy sent you a message: "some fun tonight" (14th Apr at 1:18am) Maddy sent you a message: "are you free tonight" (8th Apr at 1:09am) Maddy winked at you (8th Apr at 1:08am) Maddy winked at you (2nd Apr at 1:47am)

ANDREA, 33 from South

Andrea winked at you (Friday at 6:36am)

GARETH, 30 from South

Gareth winked at you (Friday at 1:02am) Gareth winked at you (Thursday at 1:05am)

SAM, 39 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam winked at you (Friday at 6:49am)

SANDRA, 20 from Wellington, Wellington

I don't know why I'm here, well I guess I do.. He doesn't love me anymore does he? I know he cheated \u0026 right under my nose, now he thinks he can get away with it and it's all water under the bridge... You can forgive but not forget.

MUZZ, 53 from South

I keep myself fit & healthy. I love giving pleasure :-) - nothing beats forgetting about tomorrow & living in the moment! If you're real, leave a way for me to get in touch :-)

ARCHER, 29 from Mangere East, Auckland

I am an outdoors, adventurous human who lives fairly rural and doesn't get alot of opportunities to meet people. My closest city is Manukau, keen to come to Auckland to have some indoors fun.

PAM, 48 from South

New to bdsm and looking for the right dom to help me explore

ELLEN, 58 from South

I like to ride my motorbike, fly my drone, swimming and walking. I like having dinners out and the occasional movie.

TJUWANA, 39 from Hamilton, Waikato

Tjuwana has yet to add her profile.

ATELIER, 46 from Auckland, Auckland

Skip the small talk I love sex so holler

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