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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current South based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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My Bed or yours is a sex contacts site for sexually liberated singles and couples who enjoy sex and need a fast, easy way to connect with similar people for casual meet-ups, online sex games or just some innocent flirting or voyeurism.

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We are a friendly community of very different people from a range of backgrounds sharing a common interest in sex and erotica. There is nothing dark or seedy about what goes on here, it's simply a fantastic way to meet other people for local sexual encounters.

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MIKE, 53 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

Hi would you like to meet over dinner drinks then have some fun

RIRI, 25 from Manurewa, Auckland

Riri has yet to add her profile.

PAULO, 70 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Paulo sent you a message: "Jane," (Monday at 5:49am)

KINGDANIEL, 26 from Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui

Kingdaniel has yet to add his profile. Ask Kingdaniel for more info.

RICK, 39 from South

Rick has yet to add his profile. Ask Rick for more info.

BRIAN, 60 from South

Brian sent you a message: "View" (17th Dec at 1:09am) Brian winked at you (17th Dec at 1:07am)

FATMAN, 51 from South

Fatman has yet to add his profile. Ask Fatman for more info.

CHRIS, 27 from Devonport, Auckland

Chris sent you a message: "Hey" (28th Apr at 1:58am)

WAYNE, 50 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I am here for some fun times skin to skin contact I genuinely love to eat pussy so if you're interested get in touch

SENDKIK, 26 from South

Sendkik winked at you (Monday at 7:16am) Sendkik added you as a Favourite (Monday at 7:16am)

THOMAS, 37 from South

Thomas winked at you (Saturday at 7:43am) Thomas winked at you (23rd Apr at 2:54am) Thomas winked at you (19th Apr at 1:45am)

DAVEY, 47 from Papakura, Auckland

Hi ladies looking for mean nsa filthy fucking lol

GRAEME, 54 from Oamaru, Otago

just looking for some one to have a bit of fun with

BIGBEARS, 35 from Onekawa, Hawke's Bay

Single male I own my own home live by my self have just put in a spa pool for the cold winter nights looking for some 1 on 1 good times

JOHN, 34 from Forrest Hill, Auckland

I'm 33, 158cm, 65kg - like to keep in shape and fine dining. Keen to meet someone who knows themselves, and isn't afraid to act on it :)

JAMES, 23 from South

I have just moved over here so yeah looking for people to say hello

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael sent you a message: "hay helo" (17th Dec at 3:11am) Michael added you as a Favourite (17th Dec at 3:11am) Michael winked at you (17th Dec at 3:11am)

SCOTT, 44 from South

Horny bored hubby looking for fun sexy times so come on lady's if you dare come take this bull

KEENTODO, 54 from Hamilton, Waikato

Keentodo sent you a message: "Hey there" (yesterday at 1:11am)

BRIAN, 61 from Taradale, Hawke's Bay

I'm an above average guy (funny, smart, generous, intelligent) with all the usual "bloke" habits, but I love to satisfy. All tastes are catered for. Very tactile. I love all the usual tongue (and hand/finger) to skin touch, taste and feel. All the way from Toes to top. I love ears, neck, hair and under arms as well as all the sexy erogenous zones. I love toys and mutual play. If it feels good I like to do it. I am a bit overweight, especially around the middle, but it doesn't affect my performance. Always happy and keen to please. It doesn't matter where we are, hotel, motel, my place or yours. Maybe not the back of the car tho'. I will walk with you on the beach, drink coffee with you and maybe even ply you with chocolate, but you need to tell me what you really want. I can and will do any, and all of the above. :) I would love to further my skills on orgasms and climaxes. I don't mind being on the wet spot, as long as we can create one. If you don't get that wet, just give me a chance and I'll get you there screaming and panting. And again and again... :)

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