Browse our members in Southland
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Find sex in Southland
Welcome to NZ's leading sex and open lifestyle site for couples and singles seeking excitement. MyBedOrYours connects users all over NZ who enjoy flirting, chatting about sex or are actively looking for casual meet ups in their area. With a large database of active members in NZ, we connect more users daily than any other premium personals site around.
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I am an outdoors, adventurous human who lives fairly rural and doesn't get alot of opportunities to meet people. My closest city is Manukau, keen to come to Auckland to have some indoors fun.
Life is too short to be tied down to one person. So if you know how to cheer dis old grl up pls do so..My moto in here now tap n go.No small talks also..
Hilal has yet to add his profile. Ask Hilal for more info.
Hii.. i am young girl looking for partner
Sam winked at you (Friday at 6:49am)
adventure, exploration, penetration
Muscular.horny.up for anything really
Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (yesterday at 1:44am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (Sunday at 1:50am)
Looking for an much older man to fulfill my fantasy fetish.I want to be his sex toy. I am not messing around and that's why my pictures are of my naked pussy and my breasts. I am looking for the man that can make me cum multiple times and deeply and I will make that man the happiest on this earth. One PIC is me skipping after being nipple clamped and oiled. The other one is of me in bed with my partner using a dong between my legs. He's completely supportive. We have an open relationship.
Mike sent you a message: ":)" (Thursday at 2:08am)
Tjuwana has yet to add her profile.
Learnt a lot in my life, love to give NSA pleasure, (giving oral is a fav) & explore fantasies. Love the adventure of naughty sex, be it outdoors or heated liaisons. Healthy & fit.
Looking for a long term, regular fuck buddy on these cold nights, need to have sex regularly! Must be SINGLE..if you are unhappy in your marriage leave.
I keep myself fit & healthy. I love giving pleasure :-) - nothing beats forgetting about tomorrow & living in the moment! If you're real, leave a way for me to get in touch :-)
Mature and respectable...I believe that a woman should always cum first ;-)
New to bdsm and looking for the right dom to help me explore
Keen for fun times with fun people. tease me with your sexy knickers
Stephen sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (21st Apr at 11:45am) Stephen sent you a message: "Hello Jane" (7th Apr at 10:46am)
Former elite athelete. Carrying a couple of extra kg. Ok looks? You can decide that. Time poor. Not wealthy. Need a lot more sex than I get at home. Love oral especially giving, but recieving too. Will try most things. Start out safe.
I like to ride my motorbike, fly my drone, swimming and walking. I like having dinners out and the occasional movie.
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We welcome members of all ages (over 18's please), shapes, sizes and sexual experience. Please do bear in mind that this is an adult community where members discuss topics of a sexual nature and post images often of a sexual nature. If this offends you please do not continue. If you are open minded and keen to try now things then please, make yourself at home. Register for free and introduce yourself with an icebreaker.
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