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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Just some fun in the bedroom (or wherever you like it). That's what we want to find for you. We know not everyone wants a relationship, but pretty much everyone wants a good time in bed. My Bed or Yours matches you up with people in Southland who are just looking for bedroom playmates. You both get to enjoy yourselves without worrying about the "where is this going" question.

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DANEBY, 72 from Hairini, Bay Of Plenty

Daneby has yet to add his profile. Ask Daneby for more info.

JEWEL, 48 from Botany Downs, Auckland

Im opened minded. But a little guarded. Curious

MAT, 36 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

i like big butts i can't deny , and all other shapes, sizes

SHANE, 44 from Wellington, Wellington

Here to have fun enjoy trying new things love to lick mmm enjoy woman who squirt if you'd like to know more just ask

JIM, 41 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

Jim sent you a message: "Hey" (Monday at 1:12am)

CHARLENE, 20 from Ellerslie, Auckland

Looking for someone to have fun with until I'very reached my limits. Really want to try two at a time if I get the chance :)

BOHEMIA, 28 from Auckland, Auckland

Bohemia sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Jan at 6:05am) Bohemia sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Jan at 6:05am) Bohemia winked at you (16th Jan at 6:05am)

PAT, 54 from Hamilton, Waikato

Looking for genuine ladies, for descret fun encounters, no time wasters please, absolutely hate chatting and for long periods, like to get down to it, so to speak lol.

KERRY, 64 from Southland

Hi I am a tall slim guy who I'm often told looks much younger than my age. I am semi retired and still doing some biodervirsty contract work. I have spent all my life working in Biodersity and environmental work and management. I own my own home and am finacially secure. Recently I have been working in North Canterbury and have now decided to return to the Naki. I am very fit and enjoy wild life photography, light bush walking, diving, and fishing. I so love the beach. I take a lot of pride in myself and my home. I am very active. I would love to meet an attractivel lady within my age group who has a good sense of humour and fun to be with, without any baggage. I value honesty and intergrtary. I also think that the past is the past. We cannot change it. So I personaly look forward to what the future may bring. I am a very positive , content, and happy man. I do not like negativity. I love to dance and like good music. I have been seperated for aquite while, soon to be divorced and offically single. I'm very passionate and considerate in a real and careing relationship. Friends first and then see what happens. I will not reply to young girls who are old enough to be my daughter. Cheers Kerry

MATT, 39 from Mangere, Auckland

Matt sent you a message: "Role play" (yesterday at 1:24am) Matt winked at you (Monday at 1:10am)

JESS, 31 from Mangere East, Auckland

I am just looking for some fun. No strings attached

RICK, 26 from Southland

Am 25 skinny about 5f love my fat guy and woman. looking for bbw woman or bears fat guys. Love to meet sum old young big chubby fat.

SUKHVINDER, 51 from Papakura, Auckland

Sukhvinder has yet to add his profile. Ask Sukhvinder for more info.

HOND, 34 from Helensville, Auckland

Hond sent you a message: "Want to meet up in the weekend" (27th Apr at 1:22am) Hond winked at you (27th Apr at 1:22am)

BRENDON, 53 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Brendon winked at you (21st Jan at 3:27am)

MERCY, 24 from Auckland, Auckland

I'm young just looking for some good d

SIMON, 36 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Regular crossfitter and footballer seeks easy going casual for good times and NSA Im leaving the country soon and so looking for some casual fun before I leave... Only interested in women that look after themselves and are clean and fun. Anything goes

MATT, 24 from Southland

Young, horny, wants to eat pussy, who's keen ;)

STEPHEN, 63 from Papakura, Auckland

Stephen winked at you (Thursday at 3:13am) Stephen winked at you (12th Jan at 2:00am)

JOHN, 67 from Taupo, Waikato

John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (29th Jan at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (29th Jan at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Role playing" (19th Jan at 2:22am)

Single guy or girl in Southland looking for some no strings fun or possibly an open minded couple looking to expand their horizons?

My Bed or Yours is an adult contacts service for people of all shapes, sizes and backgrounds looking for some discreet sexual encounters. Cast aside your misconceptions about your average adult contacts site member. Believe it or not, most of our members are not sad, lonely, bald, fat guys although we have a few or those if that's what takes your fancy. The majority of our members are the average guy or girl next door who just enjoy sex and need a quick, convenient way of satisfying their sexual needs without getting into a long, complicated relationship or hiring the services of a 'professional'.

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Whatever type of people make your horny, we can help you find them. Our advanced search lets you cut to the chase and just show you the members you are interested in: couples, older, younger, larger, smaller, in Southland.

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