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Good looking, smell good, clean, respectful, down to earth and easy going guy who loves sex, kisses, cuddles and snuggles.
I'm a very caring person who would love to make you feel special. I'm very fit and healthy, young in mind, body and spirit! I care about my appearance and like to keep in shape. I am passionate and positive about life in general.The intimate and sensual side of a relationship is equally important to the rest. I give unconditionally. I look, feel and act much younger than my age. Articulate and professional, who knows how to treat a lady and with respect. Liberal and very tolerant. Look at life positively and something to make the most of - too precious to waste...
Harry sent you a message: "Hi Jane from Harry" (24th Apr at 9:25am) Harry winked at you (24th Apr at 9:23am) Harry added you as a Favourite (24th Apr at 2:32am) Harry winked at you (19th Apr at 5:07am)
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Tagline M4F+ - Northland Intro Ive been talking to ppl and reading lots not so much learning but being reminded of stuff and that it applies in this slightly different situation the 1st thing Ive been advised is that I should tone my shit down and talk about the weather b4 I tell U to bend ova ... well guess what ... I loathed doing this in the 'vanilla' world and really wanted to skip the hows your job going in the hook-up / swinger / kink / BDSM scene well I guess if U play the game ppl like u To start at the beginning ... especially the fairer sex ... so here goes ... Hi Im a nice guy no really ... I am a gentleman I usually bury all my dark desires in a rusty chest deep beneath the surface but more on that l8r ... A bit about Me Well everything and nothing is special about me. My 8 (eight) pack (abdominal muscles) is years gone. ( No really the times I have bothered developing a six pack stomach i have ended up with an extra 2!) At the moment I have a Relaxed Tummy ... but the Rest is quite yummy My best feature is my eyes which are grey, green, and brown with gold flecks (picture to come) If there is anything else you simply must know before meet me, ask. But understand some information will remain private even after I verify your identity and intent to play. I more concerned with who you are not than who you are. The who you are MIGHT come later. Please note in cyberspace I am a pan-sexual bizzy being polyamorous trisexual with the only 'no go sorry' being SCAT But iRL I am almost exclusively heterosexual...
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Sam sent you a message: "I won't bite..." (10th Mar at 12:47am) Sam sent you a message: "Don't be shy!" (10th Mar at 12:46am) Sam sent you a message: "Hey there Jane" (10th Mar at 12:31am) Sam winked at you (10th Mar at 12:30am)
Mavrock winked at you (8th May at 7:24pm) Mavrock winked at you (8th May at 1:06am)
Who wants to have some quality time spent below mmmm. Not looking for a relationship at this stage. A fwb situation would be perfect thanks. Not a girl every night. Rather play with one women that I like "lots"
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Hi about me well 6foot 2 got my own hair slim likes to have a good time loves the ladys and to go down on you just loves sex so come on ladys
Michael sent you a message: "helo" (12th Mar at 5:52pm) Michael winked at you (12th Mar at 5:51pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (4th Mar at 5:15pm) Michael winked at you (4th Mar at 5:11pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (1st Mar at 6:08pm)
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Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (yesterday at 12:30am) Alan winked at you (Thursday at 12:04am) Alan winked at you (Wednesday at 4:42am)
gentil lover of older women has been a long time but am keen as for nsa with older women one nighter and ongoing sex do like trying new thing and am whating to have three some with two older women if you are keen .i know what i like and there are some sexy grannies out there form 60 t0 80 year old
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