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JUCE, 30 from Southland

That's me in the pics first time user on this Wanna hook up get at me Oh too One Oh double for double Oh free for

HOLDEN, 47 from Southland

Hi on here for NSA fun I been told I'm funny and great to be around Just looking for some fun and someone keen to try new things if you can handle that give me a hi

JED, 48 from Pukekohe, Auckland

48 year old male in good physical shape, looking for a dominant woman who will use me as her personal sex slave. i am 176cm height a little grey but good looking, 6" uncut thick cock. happy for you to deal to me with a strap on or alternativley happy to pleasure you in any way that pleases you. Profesional and discreet, and very good with my hands and tongue.

CROSBYP, 44 from Melville, Auckland

Crosbyp winked at you (Saturday at 8:35am)

LUKE, 56 from Southland

Luke sent you a message: "Hi" (Sunday at 11:09pm) Luke sent you a message: "Hi" (15th Mar at 1:58am) Luke sent you a message: "Hey" (8th Mar at 2:40am)

MARK, 51 from Orewa, Auckland

Landscape Gardener Interested in Ford cars,sports going out and having a good time. Meeting a beautiful lady and having amazing hot sex.

FIONA, 43 from Takapuna, Auckland

Am just a simple person, who respect other cultures. And loves sex

OSCAR, 23 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hey im from Mexico City, actually im 22, Im looking forward to have some fun with beautifull women. I do crossfit and I like to take care of myself. Looking for women who are intrested in some young meat, opened for any kind of experience and I love doing oral sex I could be down there for hours.

LOVELOOKER, 38 from Southland

I am drama free, educated, sweet, and down to earth lady who loves to be introduced to new places and things. I am very affectionate and love to please. I enjoy meeting and getting to know someone the old fashion way after a connection.

TYSON, 30 from Christchurch, Canterbury

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DAN, 26 from Auckland, Auckland

Hey looking for fun

JIMBRUCE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

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RICHARD, 49 from Dannevirke, Hawke's Bay

Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (4th May at 1:52am) Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (3rd May at 8:29am) Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (29th Apr at 12:19am)

MASTEROF, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

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HOLDEN, 47 from Auckland, Auckland

Just here for NSA fun if you can handel that then give me a yell only real people please

GRANT, 49 from Manaia, Taranaki

Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs:Quirks: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. Looking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.

BUNNY, 46 from Southland

Here for some erotic fantasies. And wild imaginations.

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael sent you a message: "helo" (12th Mar at 6:52pm) Michael winked at you (12th Mar at 6:51pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (4th Mar at 6:15pm) Michael winked at you (4th Mar at 6:11pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (1st Mar at 7:08pm)

KHLOE, 36 from Taupo, Waikato

Friendly Scorpion looking for a FB or 2.. M/F I'm open to both.. I'm bi-curious, wanting to know how it feels to be with another female as I've never experienced it before! Will try anything once maybe twice.. WILLING to learn lol.. Maybe a couple or besties?? Not sure just keeping my options open MUST be discrete! I'm here for fun cos really aren't we all Hope to hear from you soon!

MATT, 39 from Mangere, Auckland

Matt sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Mar at 1:04am) Matt winked at you (16th Mar at 1:04am)

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