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Long gone are the days of old fashioned adult personal ads in the back of local newspapers and adult magazines. Often, no picture was supplied, descriptions were very cryptic and you would have to wait weeks for a response. My Bed or Yours is modern incarnation of traditional adult personal adverts for the internet age where members are available instantly. View the sexy photos, send them messages, upload videos, all instantly with no waiting around.

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PAULO, 70 from Southland

Paulo winked at you (6th Apr at 4:24am)

CJAY, 33 from Southland

i wont bite, unless thats what your into. Keen energetic individual, always keen to make the ladys super wet!

JIM, 55 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Hi, Recently broken from a relationship and feeling like some female company, I am not looking for a relationship, just someone nice to play with. Im an intelligent, self employed business man. Im clean and like to keep myself in reasonable condition. Im in Auckland every weekend with work and now maybe some play :)

DAVID, 33 from Auckland, Auckland

David winked at you (Saturday at 1:53am) David sent you a message: "Jane" (21st Jan at 1:06am) David winked at you (21st Jan at 1:06am)

NICK, 46 from Southland

Nick sent you a message: "Hello there......" (24th Jan at 10:34pm)

SAM, 40 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Monday at 1:38pm) Sam winked at you (Monday at 1:37pm)

RACHEL, 27 from Avondale, Auckland

I love sex and a good time:-) Be sure you read my profile before messaging me. I am not skinny, I don't have a slim figure, I am a chubby woman and I don't do hook up's with married men or men that have separated from their wives and not divorced yet and guys with girlfriends. I only want fun times with men that are single.

BIGD, 24 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

Bigd winked at you (9th Jan at 1:23am)

BIGUN, 61 from Cromwell, Otago

Bigun winked at you (Monday at 1:09am)

IAN, 49 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Ian sent you a message: "hey there" (10th Jan at 2:21am)

ANDREW, 75 from Grafton, Auckland

Andrew winked at you (24th Jan at 4:09am)

THOMAS, 37 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Thomas winked at you (23rd Apr at 2:54am) Thomas winked at you (19th Apr at 1:45am) Thomas winked at you (7th Apr at 6:17am)

LUKE, 56 from Papakura, Auckland

Active and personable businessman with sense of humour, tall and fit and looking for regular fun meetings with lady for chat and pleasure. If you are in or near Auckland and like good conversation and nice sex drop me a line! I like good conversation, coffee meetings, movies and motorsports and long foreplay sessions

MANUEL, 41 from Nelson, Nelson

Love to take the time to have hot foreplay to give u so much pleasure. ...love to please, am discreet and respectful. Work at saterday market........flowers.....no face pic sorry

HAMA, 32 from Thames, Waikato

I'm keen 4 some fun big guy that loves it

JARED, 42 from Southland

Check out my photos and holler back at me please

JOHN, 52 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hi I'm In a committed but sexless relationship.so not looking for a soulmate or to go out and about but would Like some very discreet no strings or baggage sexy times with a mature lady,someone Who wants to have some uncomplicated stolen adult time, who likes to wear sexy outfits :-)(a real turn on) A horny lady who wants a man to give her what she wants 8:::::::D - - - \(i)/

STEVE, 37 from West Harbour, Auckland

I'm an easy going person. Easy to get to know someone new, good sense of humour. Love my music, plays the piano. Also love to work on cars. adventurous and would love to try different things. Been in Auckland for 16 years now and loving it... I'd like to keep things simple. So tends to go with the flow. I am ready to settle down with the right person. I'm looking for someone that can accept me as I am, easy going person and ready to settle down type of person. Can be 'bad' sometimes but can be good and sincere too.

JONATHAN, 53 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan winked at you (Friday at 2:33am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (Friday at 1:41am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (Friday at 1:41am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (Friday at 1:41am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (Friday at 1:41am)

SHANE, 46 from Dunedin, Otago

Just looking for some one to fuck and go down on and have some fun and good times with No Strings Attached maybe in the future something else. My interests are mountain biking fishing the outdoors dancing meals out movies most sports

Been married a long time and looking for something more exciting from your sex life? It's very common for both men and women to feel sexually frustrated in a long term relationship and want to experiment a little. It's completely normal. M.B.O.Y can help your find people who are feeling exactly the same as you. Even people local to Southland with our advanced search options. Whether you want to play with your partner or on your own we can help you find a new casual partner. If it' your first time you may want to take things slowly by swapping a few messages first to find the right one. It's up to you and all at your pace.

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