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JON, 57 from Southland

Jon sent you a message: "Hi from Wellington" (Friday at 12:53pm)

PAT, 54 from Hamilton, Waikato

Pat sent you a message: "Are you keen." (4th Feb at 1:14am) Pat winked at you (4th Feb at 1:12am)

DONNA, 48 from Hamilton, Waikato

Well what can i tell you ,i love to laugh im 6ft1 cuddley down to earth.i want a real hard man to have fun with..the rest of the news about me is a surprise mmmm

ROGER, 63 from Albany, Auckland

Roger added you as a Favourite (3rd Apr at 10:10am) Roger sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (2nd Apr at 8:02am) Roger sent you a message: "What can i do?" (29th Mar at 2:03am)

STACEY, 53 from Remuera, Auckland

I'm single. Great job. Got my life sorted - all except the intimate side. Prefer to chat for a little bit, if seems to be connection meet for a drink and if chemistry then move onto the next level of NSA fun. Prefer to build relationship with one person though / nit into different partners every night of the week. I guess in short a fun time with no expectations. I enjoy going to the gym, the beach, socialising, and spending time with nice and fun people.

VINCENT, 38 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Just looking for women to have some quality time.

STEVE, 62 from Southland

Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (Wednesday at 10:23am) Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (Wednesday at 10:19am) Steve sent you a message: "Jan" (4th Apr at 9:40am) Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (29th Mar at 8:41pm) Steve winked at you (29th Mar at 9:47am)

STEVE, 54 from Silverdale, Auckland

Steve sent you a message: "Hi Janes." (Friday at 1:46am) Steve winked at you (Friday at 1:31am) Steve sent you a message: "Hi Jane." (Thursday at 1:09am) Steve sent you a message: "Hi jane" (Monday at 8:57pm) Steve winked at you (Monday at 8:56pm)

JOHN, 45 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hi, l am looking for someone to have fun with. I love to be naked in the great out doors. I liked to be watched and to watch u. So come play with me :-)

JAMES, 37 from Remuera, Auckland

hi great looking fun guy looking for adventure

CHRIS, 38 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Chris winked at you (22nd Jan at 8:58am) Chris sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (12th Jan at 2:04am)

MASON, 28 from Southland

Mason has yet to add his profile. Ask Mason for more info.

JAMES, 68 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Jimmy, x military pilot,,airforce, navy,Vietnam vet,home lake edge lake rotoiti, 33ft launch on jetty,spa,sauna, cruising, fishing, nookie,o/nighting on launch remote bay bbqs,have some battle scars but on outside not inside!!! Successful businessman.

CHRIS, 38 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Chris winked at you (22nd Jan at 8:58am)

CRAIG, 54 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Very kinky love bondage and cross dressing looking for what ever!!

JOHNNY, 42 from Taupo, Waikato

Johnny sent you a message: "hey" (8th Apr at 2:35am)

SANS, 50 from Waipu, Northland

Sans has yet to add his profile. Ask Sans for more info.

BOHEMIA, 28 from Auckland, Auckland

Bohemia winked at you (Thursday at 1:00am) Bohemia winked at you (Wednesday at 1:43am) Bohemia sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Jan at 6:05am) Bohemia sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Jan at 6:05am) Bohemia winked at you (16th Jan at 6:05am)

LEE, 48 from Southland

Lee sent you a message: "Don't be shy" (yesterday at 1:12am) Lee winked at you (yesterday at 1:08am)

RICHARD, 59 from Wiri, Auckland

Hi. I am very easy going and discrete personality. Very easy to get on with. Love to Cuddle. Love to Please and pleasure You. I am Looking for Casual encounters and Adventure with ladies. 173cm tall medium slim Build (78Kg ) Ok Looks. Other Interests, Portrait - Discrete Nude Photography Etc. Looking for Ladies. Who would like Good quality photo of themselves for either person use or for adding to this site. (Free -- No Charge ) Semi Professional Nikon DSLR camera

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