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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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MICHAEL, 51 from Southland

Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (2nd Apr at 8:22pm) Michael winked at you (2nd Apr at 8:22pm)

ERIN, 42 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Ask and I might tell. Looking for very mature male, male/female to have discreet fun with. Would prefer over 70. I want to be pampered. Keen interest in massage...mainly receiving Im not looking for a life long committment but will consider a permanent long term play couple/thing . Married but lacking the most important aspect of human nature....touch

JOHN, 45 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Separated, since Jan 2015 (from my 2nd wife), so will hopefully be divorced (for a 2nd time) @ March(next month!?)! VERY lonely here in my private unit, here in ONERAHI, Whangarei, and really just want some female (intimate) company! Especially for some penetrative(giving) bareback anal sex. Can/could you help me, ladies!? During my 2year separation i also tried some cock in/up my ass \u0026 have discoveted i really like it! In the mean time i want sum BIG cock(8" +??) in/up my near virginal tight ass! If that cock is "clean" too, i want to feel his hot cimload shooting up into me!? Was last blood tested as "safe" from s.t.i's @ feb 2017!

DEEEE, 31 from Wellington, Wellington

Looking for a good root

JESS, 23 from Massey East, Auckland

Chunky girl need fun :-)

K, 27 from Auckland, Auckland

K winked at you (Sunday at 1:12am)

PUSSYEATER, 29 from Gisborne, East Cape

Pussyeater has yet to add his profile. Ask Pussyeater for more info.

CHELSEA, 35 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi people. I am an open minded girl and life is short so I am hoping to have some extra fun. Feel the need for some adventure and enjoy a good fucking. Too many favourite positions to list....

LOOKING, 33 from Southland

Looking sent you a message: "Feeling" (Saturday at 1:11am) Looking sent you a message: "Obedient" (Friday at 2:47am) Looking sent you a message: "Role" (Friday at 2:11am)

BLADEZ, 42 from Levin, Manawatu-Wanganui

Bladez has yet to add his profile. Ask Bladez for more info.

BILL, 49 from Epsom, Auckland

Just a genuine normal guy. Back on the market after 20 year's. Out meet new people. Out to explore this new world an experience all exciting things it has to offer.

NICK, 31 from Collingwood, Tasman

I love having sex outdoors , getting naked when its raining and having some fun with someone in a random place. spontaneous sex ..... love it

GUSTON, 27 from Mount Victoria, Wellington

Guston has yet to add his profile. Ask Guston for more info.

MAT, 34 from Woodhill, Northland

What you see is what you get. No Strings attached. Very discreet. Wanna suck? PM me :)

BABY, 30 from Nelson, Nelson

Lady in the streets and a freak in the bed

JOHN, 45 from Woodhill, Northland

Just sup[er horney, to get back into dating, after being separated from my (2nd) wife @ 1/15!!!!!!!! REALLY need/want some female ass, to fuck (bareback) so I can CUM up in her/it, to finish! lol! YUM!

ROBBIE, 32 from Southland

Robbie sent you a message: "." (27th Mar at 3:16am) Robbie sent you a message: "." (18th Mar at 9:22am)

CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

Cable winked at you (yesterday at 1:22am) Cable winked at you (Saturday at 5:11am) Cable sent you a message: "pics" (5th Apr at 1:47am) Cable winked at you (5th Apr at 1:44am) Cable added you as a Favourite (4th Apr at 1:43am)

JONATHAN, 40 from North Shore, Auckland

Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 1:38am) Jonathan winked at you (yesterday at 1:38am)

LUVPLZYOU, 36 from Aramoho, Manawatu-Wanganui

Luvplzyou has yet to add his profile. Ask Luvplzyou for more info.

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