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TYSON, 28 from Kumeu, Auckland

Hey there, a shy couple here looking for girls, guys, couples for some fun, lets chat...

BOB, 44 from Grafton, Auckland

Bob sent you a message: "Going to talk to me?" (yesterday at 2:17am) Bob winked at you (Saturday at 1:58am) Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (3rd Feb at 1:06am) Bob sent you a message: "What's Jane upto?" (1st Feb at 1:56am) Bob winked at you (21st Jan at 1:18am)

JIM, 55 from Pakuranga Heights, Auckland

Jim winked at you (Saturday at 6:35pm) Jim winked at you (24th Apr at 9:47pm)

STEVE, 54 from Southland

Steve sent you a message: "Hi Jane." (yesterday at 1:09am) Steve sent you a message: "Hi jane" (Monday at 8:57pm) Steve winked at you (Monday at 8:56pm)

JONATHAN, 53 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan winked at you (Wednesday at 2:04am) Jonathan winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:18am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (1st Feb at 11:11pm) Jonathan winked at you (27th Jan at 2:33am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (27th Jan at 1:41am)

HARRY, 63 from Hamilton, Waikato

Harry sent you a message: "Hi Jane from Harry" (24th Apr at 9:25am) Harry winked at you (24th Apr at 9:23am) Harry added you as a Favourite (24th Apr at 2:32am) Harry winked at you (19th Apr at 5:07am) Harry winked at you (15th Apr at 4:18am)

JUDY, 53 from Hairini, Bay Of Plenty

I'm married but husband doesn't do foreplay with me boring

CHARLENE, 20 from Southland

Looking for someone to have fun with until I've reached my limits. Really want to try two at a time if I get the chance :)

NOMIS, 55 from Christchurch, Canterbury

bored and horny maybe you can show me how to sort it? I have a big appetite.

KARL, 67 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

when you can rock my boat

JIM, 51 from Feilding, Manawatu-Wanganui

I'm seeking like minded women or cpls who enjoy sensual pleasurable encounters, do you enjoy the pleasures of sexual intimacy ?? I live just out of town and can accomodate - if you need to be descreet not a problem. I'm here to tease please. Do you enjoy fun sex, fun times, lets meet up and have a wine or two, simply relex enjoying our time together. I do travel from lower north island - waikato.

GAP, 44 from Papakura, Auckland

Fit, athletic, energetic guy, with high sex drive that needs a good workout. Really here to meet sexy lady who is looking for discreet, NSA, fun. Pretty much wanting to ensure as much pleasure in many forms for the lady, but also open to anything she may require, for mutually beneficial enjoyment. Hoping she also knows how to take a guy to the edge and over it when she decides!

HOTTJOSH, 21 from Southland

Hottjosh has yet to add his profile. Ask Hottjosh for more info.

KAY, 55 from Whakatane, Bay Of Plenty

I would say the best part of my body is my brain, then the rest of me.......actually for me to know and you to find out.

SAM, 30 from Auckland, Auckland

Keen for a bit of fun. Pretty dirty looking for a girl that is too!

CASEYB, 50 from Southland

Caseyb has yet to add his profile. Ask Caseyb for more info.

MICKEY, 38 from Christchurch, Canterbury

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MIKE, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Fun, into nsa. Enjoy hours of cunnilingus, exploring, role playing. Let's explore our fantasies together.

BRETT, 49 from Grafton, Auckland

"Ok a little bit about what I'm looking for. I'm a gym regular who like to keep in shape and take care of myself. But I'm not a "My body is a temple " gym junkie. My sugar addiction and liking of a wine or two takes care of that. I don't take life too seriously and a bit of NSA would be desirable. As I've been single for some time now. The human need to be touched and intimate is tapping me on the shoulder. Just looking to spice up my life a little

FUCKANDGO, 39 from North Shore, Auckland

Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Yip" (3rd Feb at 1:23am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi" (3rd Feb at 1:18am) Fuckandgo winked at you (3rd Feb at 1:17am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi" (2nd Feb at 1:17am) Fuckandgo winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:15am)

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