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NAPPASAI, 36 from Taupo, Waikato

I am just looking for some fun discreet and no string attached. OH, forgot TO tell you, not in to DOUBLE or couple and not available SEVEN days a week. but all i need is SEX OH OH SEX. better if you live in Taupo or Rotorua. If you are brilliant enough figure out from what i said in BIG.

FRANKIIE, 25 from Wellington, Wellington

I'm a single, stay at home mum just looking for some friends and maybe some fun.

SUCKA, 49 from Mangere East, Auckland

Hi me like to meet older ladies like 30+.

RUFOURMENOW, 62 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Rufourmenow winked at you (15th Mar at 12:28am)

JIMBRUCE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Jimbruce winked at you (yesterday at 1:31am) Jimbruce winked at you (Tuesday at 1:03am) Jimbruce winked at you (29th Apr at 1:17am) Jimbruce winked at you (24th Apr at 1:23am) Jimbruce winked at you (23rd Apr at 1:17am)

STEVE, 47 from Southland

I like being naughty - let's see how far we can go

ALAN, 44 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Alan sent you a message: "Tx" (yesterday at 1:23am) Alan winked at you (Sunday at 2:43am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Saturday at 1:36am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Saturday at 1:33am) Alan winked at you (Friday at 2:16am)

JOHN, 69 from Red Beach, Auckland

am fit and healthy enjoy sex far too much need nsa action fwb casual or ongoing if we good together

INKANDIRON, 22 from Hamilton, Waikato

Inkandiron has yet to add his profile. Ask Inkandiron for more info.

JED, 48 from Pukekohe, Auckland

Jed sent you a message: "hi jane" (27th Mar at 1:10am)

CROSBYP, 44 from Melville, Auckland

Crosbyp winked at you (Saturday at 8:35am)

BRIAN, 42 from Burnside, Canterbury

Brian winked at you (yesterday at 2:44am) Brian sent you a message: "Hi" (Sunday at 1:04am) Brian sent you a message: "Hi" (26th Mar at 5:07am)

MARK, 52 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Hi there. I am an easy going independent Caucasian Kiwi guy. I'm 6ft 1 and medium build, with fair hair. My 6 pack is in the fridge at this point, but I'm average build and pretty fit. I've done lots of skool and have a few gold stars to prove it. I'm easy to get on with and happy with all sorts, provided there is a spark and we are having good clean hot fun! I can meet for coffee and/or more exciting entertainments during the day. I'm new to this but I'm looking for a lady friend with benefits, for semi regular arrangements, who wants her needs to be taken care of properly and wants to have some good NSA fun from time to time. Perhaps in the Manawatu, Feilding, Levin or Kapiti/Wellington areas. Discretion is appreciated and will be returned. Drop me a note and say hi :)

NAPPASAI, 36 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

I am just looking for some fun discreet and no string attached. OH, forgot TO tell you, not in to DOUBLE or couple and not available SEVEN days a week. but all i need is SEX OH OH SEX. better if you live in Taupo or Rotorua.

CARL, 56 from Southland

hello.......updated profile.... im 55 Maori /Hungarian single straight up honest respectful great sense of humour into fishing meeting people and enjoying life....id like to meet a lady for friendship companionship company outing and weekends away in these times its hard to meet someone as we all lead busy lives with family jobs friends so i understand we cant live out of each others pockets...so regular meets for coffee chats dinner movies cuddles[i love] and sex if thats what we decide to do[ i love giving oral my pleasure is giving pleasure]to be honest ive visited a few of these dating sites as well as join and i can not beleave how many stunning and attractive woman that are on these sites....looks....age.... size... mean not a lot to me[i wish id never put a photo on here] its your being that i want to see you manner your wit and your compassion and your passion for something that bothers you....hey im not going to hold my breath that im going to meet anyone on here or any other sites but what the hell thanks ladies for reading**my apologizes to anyone that ive contacted winked a few times .....im not a storker....its just something about the pix i cant look away from .....oh and the photo is 8 years old lost weight greyer and i hope smarter.....cheers

GRANT, 49 from Manaia, Taranaki

Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs:Quirks: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. Looking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.

CANEYE, 40 from Greenmeadows, Hawke's Bay

Anyone around here for a few days!!!!

UMA, 50 from Southland

Uma has yet to add his profile. Ask Uma for more info.

ROGER, 62 from Southland

Roger added you as a Favourite (yesterday at 10:10am) Roger sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Sunday at 8:02am) Roger sent you a message: "What can i do?" (Wednesday at 2:03am)

MARK, 51 from Southland

Landscape Gardener Interested in Ford cars,sports going out and having a good time. Meeting a beautiful lady and having amazing hot sex.

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