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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Welcome to a huge source of genuine New Zealand adult contacts, a place where open minded adults meet for casual encounters, share naughty photos and stories or engage in adult online chat. A place where there are no limits, where you are free to express your naughtiest desires and deepest sexual fantasies.

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We all fantasise about meeting strangers for some no strings sex, no commitment, no complications. Well, here at My Bed or Yours we connect many users a month looking for exactly that. Look for horny guys and girls in Southland safely and meet securely online either via our secure website or new, dedicated mobile application.

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STEVE, 40 from Southland

Thanks for checking me out. New to Auckland. Fit successful guy who likes to keep in shape and likes to have a good time in the bedroom, or wherever the fun takes place. Very open minded. Just looking for good times with a like minded person. Any age or status is ok. Open to an affair with he right married woman. Something about sex with another guys wife turns me on.I do enjoy some naughty saucy chat in the lead up to really good hot steamy sex. I can last for ages. Love to go down and have a big groomed cock. Love to hear from you

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (23rd Apr at 8:58pm)

FRANKIIE, 25 from Wellington, Wellington

Frankiie has yet to add her profile.

GOODBOY, 62 from Twizel, Canterbury

Here for fun and saucy chatting. Maybe casual and discreet NSA sex if it feels right for both of us.

MIKE, 46 from Southland

easy going, horny, into most things

BEN, 25 from Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui

I'm pretty inexperienced, would like to find someone equally naive to learn with, or someone that doesn't mind less experienced guys and likes to teach guys a thing or two ;p

KONRAD, 43 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

Looking for NSA 1 nighters. I like to make sure I get you off as often as i can ; )

KIM, 49 from Auckland, Auckland

Single and Independant, looking for someone with no hang ups or baggage to have some fun together or to just chillax.

SHANE, 38 from Southland

Hey ladies! I'm an easy going, fun and adventurous guy looking for someone to share good times with,if you think this could be a bit of you then get in touch ;-)

HAZEL, 23 from Coromandel, Waikato

I am An Easy Going, Adventurous Free Spirited Woman, Love The "D" (Bigger The Better) =P.. Im In A Committed Relationship Looking For Someone To Come Join My Partner And I To Have Some Dirty Fun. Love It Rough, Up To Try New Things, And To Have Fun. xx

HARRY, 63 from Hamilton, Waikato

Harry sent you a message: "Hi Jane from Harry" (24th Apr at 9:25am) Harry winked at you (24th Apr at 9:23am) Harry added you as a Favourite (24th Apr at 2:32am) Harry winked at you (19th Apr at 5:07am)

SANDY, 51 from Pukekohe, Auckland

Hey anyone keen on some hot fun tonight.....

JUDY, 62 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Just over 60. Healthy. Within normal BMI. Enjoys conversation, music, laughing but has a serious side too. Occasional drinker. Very occasional smoker.

TREN, 46 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Tren has yet to add her profile.

MARZ, 36 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

looking to have fun and to see where life takes me

PETER, 65 from Southland

Fit retired male, own home, recently widowed. More information available if requested. Prefer to meet with women aged 40 and over

SAM, 42 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

Looking for NSA relationship and encounters...message me and let the fun begin!

KIM, 49 from Manakau, Auckland

looking for a bit of fun, discreet, no hang ups, no baggage,

OLYMPUS, 25 from Manurewa, Auckland

Olympus has yet to add his profile. Ask Olympus for more info.

BRIAN, 60 from Waihi, Waikato

I am easy going love my photography Beach is good Am fisher

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Introducing other people or couples into your sexual relationship is a great way to add some additional spice to a flagging sex-life. Many of our members are couples who enjoy partner swapping or swinging and MyBedOrYours is a great way to meet other people with the same outlook on life as yourself. Other members are married or in an un-fulfilling relationship and are looking for some discreet extra marital excitement or casual encounters, this is fine but we do ask our married members to be clear about their relationship status to avoid any confusion.

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