Browse our members in Southland
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Find sex in Southland
Welcome to NZ's leading sex and open lifestyle site for couples and singles seeking excitement. MyBedOrYours connects users all over NZ who enjoy flirting, chatting about sex or are actively looking for casual meet ups in their area. With a large database of active members in NZ, we connect more users daily than any other premium personals site around.
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Where do I start.. I'm Shyla, 23. Sex drive through the roof. Conservationist and business owner. I'm a pretty nice person I guess. I have rules.. No seriousness, phychopaths, narcissists' or sociopaths who befriend their just as lit ex's please (: No flowers, forehead kisses, cake, sitting outside my house being creepy, and minimal conversing would be much appreciated Would like someone to fuck my brains out regularly then leave me alone. I have a type. I recently strayed from that it didn't work out so I probably won't be doing that again. Don't be offended if I don't reply.
5 11. Looking for fun. Humorous Sexy love life.
Jonathan sent you a message: "..." (Tuesday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (Tuesday at 5:23am) Jonathan winked at you (1st May at 6:26am) Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am)
How you doin? Looking for some nsa fun as you do :)
Richard sent you a message: "Hi" (Tuesday at 7:47am) Richard sent you a message: "Hi" (Monday at 8:23am)
Hi ladies , I'm a solo dad looking for some NSA fun
Shane sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 7:02pm) Shane winked at you (Tuesday at 2:41am) Shane winked at you (Monday at 1:06am)
Looking for some fun. Like any woman like to be wined and dined to see if any chemistry.
Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 10:42am) Kerry winked at you (Tuesday at 5:47pm) Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (19th Apr at 1:33am)
George sent you a message: "Good Afternoon Jane" (yesterday at 1:16am) George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (Thursday at 2:03am) George sent you a message: "How are you hun" (Tuesday at 11:06pm) George winked at you (Monday at 1:07am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Monday at 12:44am)
Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (yesterday at 6:15pm) Michael winked at you (yesterday at 6:11pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (Wednesday at 7:08pm) Michael winked at you (19th Feb at 2:56am) Michael winked at you (11th Feb at 8:01pm)
Johno has yet to add his profile. Ask Johno for more info.
David winked at you (24th Feb at 10:17am)
Alex sent you a message: "Carpe Diem....on line NOW!" (yesterday at 1:45am) Alex winked at you (Monday at 10:37am)
Easy way easy going, see what happens, if u try u can be satisfied that's SURE, I'm Italian so I know a bit u can trust or not. But if u didn't try u didn't know;););)
Simplicity , brevity and clarity - Guess we don't know until we try !
I love socialising and making new friends.also I love having sex and always keen to give the girl what she hasn't experienced before.
Ttan sent you a message: "Role play" (Friday at 1:24am) Ttan winked at you (1st May at 1:10am)
.....single, clean, discreet, open-minded with very large hands - LOVE playing with \ eating pussy / making women orgasm lots (hopefully enough to squirt) - kind of shy at first but will open up to decent people who chat - prefer to find someone genuine suitable for fun - Not here for random hook ups
John winked at you (25th Feb at 2:54am) John sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Feb at 6:39am)
Everyone's welcome
We welcome members of all ages (over 18's please), shapes, sizes and sexual experience. Please do bear in mind that this is an adult community where members discuss topics of a sexual nature and post images often of a sexual nature. If this offends you please do not continue. If you are open minded and keen to try now things then please, make yourself at home. Register for free and introduce yourself with an icebreaker.
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