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Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (yesterday at 1:29am) Alan sent you a message: "Tx" (Monday at 1:23am) Alan winked at you (Sunday at 2:43am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Saturday at 1:36am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Saturday at 1:33am)
Anyone around here for a few days!!!!
im tall and slimish, work 6 days a week and live the rest, I Like to drink and clown around, very sociable and friendly but slightly shy. I travel quite a bit. Looking for new experiences and adventures
Leila sent you a message: "Im looking for a love. Someone..." (29th Mar at 2:25am)
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Alan sent you a message: "Tx" (yesterday at 1:23am) Alan winked at you (Sunday at 2:43am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Saturday at 1:36am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Saturday at 1:33am) Alan winked at you (Friday at 2:16am)
Hi me like to meet older ladies like 30+.
Uma has yet to add his profile. Ask Uma for more info.
Pretty laid back sort of guy. Married 38 years now separated. Love eating out and spoiling a lady at home with gourmet recipes. Rolling Stones fan so love to sing and dance. would like a lady who makes a man feel good. Lady must be well shaped, sexy and fun to be with.
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Hi I'm in Whangarei, widower, live alone, very agile, handy, with tools; I am looking for someone to fill my and her needs, To have someone to pop in and see and vice versa. Someone who can communicate and have a broad sense of humor. Who wants a partner to go out with. I don't mind seeing their family or friends. The past is the past. I do not get het up about your past, that's history. I do not have baggage. Hope you like it
hello.......updated profile.... im 55 Maori /Hungarian single straight up honest respectful great sense of humour into fishing meeting people and enjoying life....id like to meet a lady for friendship companionship company outing and weekends away in these times its hard to meet someone as we all lead busy lives with family jobs friends so i understand we cant live out of each others pockets...so regular meets for coffee chats dinner movies cuddles[i love] and sex if thats what we decide to do[ i love giving oral my pleasure is giving pleasure]to be honest ive visited a few of these dating sites as well as join and i can not beleave how many stunning and attractive woman that are on these sites....looks....age.... size... mean not a lot to me[i wish id never put a photo on here] its your being that i want to see you manner your wit and your compassion and your passion for something that bothers you....hey im not going to hold my breath that im going to meet anyone on here or any other sites but what the hell thanks ladies for reading**my apologizes to anyone that ive contacted winked a few times .....im not a storker....its just something about the pix i cant look away from .....oh and the photo is 8 years old lost weight greyer and i hope smarter.....cheers
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I am just looking for some fun discreet and no string attached. OH, forgot TO tell you, not in to DOUBLE or couple and not available SEVEN days a week. but all i need is SEX OH OH SEX. better if you live in Taupo or Rotorua.
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Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. I am ooking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.
I am just looking for some fun discreet and no string attached. OH, forgot TO tell you, not in to DOUBLE or couple and not available SEVEN days a week. but all i need is SEX OH OH SEX. better if you live in Taupo or Rotorua. If you are brilliant enough figure out from what i said in BIG.
Been married a long time and looking for something more exciting from your sex life? It's very common for both men and women to feel sexually frustrated in a long term relationship and want to experiment a little. It's completely normal. M.B.O.Y can help your find people who are feeling exactly the same as you. Even people local to Southland with our advanced search options. Whether you want to play with your partner or on your own we can help you find a new casual partner. If it' your first time you may want to take things slowly by swapping a few messages first to find the right one. It's up to you and all at your pace.
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