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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Long gone are the days of old fashioned adult personal ads in the back of local newspapers and adult magazines. Often, no picture was supplied, descriptions were very cryptic and you would have to wait weeks for a response. My Bed or Yours is modern incarnation of traditional adult personal adverts for the internet age where members are available instantly. View the sexy photos, send them messages, upload videos, all instantly with no waiting around.

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SIRDICKALOT, 31 from Southland

Sirdickalot winked at you (Friday at 1:28am)

PRISCILLA, 50 from Balmoral, Auckland

My kind of inner feelings with that someone is all Hard n Fast to the bitter end. There after a quick breather for round 2 until that Full Satisfaction is Complete.,.... Well I surpose until we drop off to sleep which would be abit hard espeacially when we both want that 'Ooo Lala' factor? Nothing like a morning wake up call to put a smile on each others face to greet the morning sun then doing it in the Shower is even Better? At least we'll be clean to go off to work until our next Encounter? Just remember I'm pretty full of beans and no rest for the wicked? Won't know until you try it to find out? Don't Hold Back the only way your going to know is Just Doing It As Marvin Gaye sings 'Lets Get it On'

SQUALL, 37 from Southland

I'm a 38 year old guy looking to meet new people and have some wild fun. casual encounters, dates, chats I'm down for it all. I'm a nice genuine guy who can hold a conversation and lives locally. flick me a message if you want to know more.

CHARLENE, 20 from Ellerslie, Auckland

Just keen on some fun

LACHY, 51 from Wellington, Wellington

A active male that looks after himself looking for lady who is into a friends with benefits, I dont have time for a relationship, if someone is in a relationship discretion assured,

JASON, 41 from Whangaparaoa, Auckland

Hi ya genuine Kiwi MAN good looking fit and healthy looking for open minded ladies to have some NSA fun with, love the outdoors and meeting new and exciting people, straight to the point don't want a relationship just SEX I am well hung and can certainly please a lady. keen then lets hook up and make it happen

LOOKING, 33 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Looking sent you a message: "Feeling" (22nd Apr at 1:11am) Looking sent you a message: "Obedient" (21st Apr at 2:47am) Looking sent you a message: "Role" (21st Apr at 2:11am)

VEE, 36 from Botany Downs, Auckland

Vee winked at you (12th Apr at 1:47am)

CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

Cable sent you a message: "no profile" (Sunday at 6:01am)

ROB, 37 from Southland

I love sex. nsa. Sex body shaking sex.

SILA, 27 from Southland

Am looking for someone to have fun with nothing serious.

CHRIS, 38 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Chris sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Thursday at 2:04am)

SUSAN, 59 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

we that's hubby and I are looking for someone who will fuck me . hubby cannot fuck anymore just a NOTE TO ALL THE GUYS WITH FACE [PICS ...NOT INTERESTED IN FACE OR BODY TYPE IT IS HOW BIG YOUR COCK IS IF YOU DONT HAVE A PIC OF YOUR STIFF COCK ...DO NOT CONTACT ME UNTIL YOU HAVE A PIC OF YOUR STIFF COCK SORRY I HAVE TO SPELL IT OUT LIKE THIS I AM SICK OF GUYS THAT SHOW UPPER BODY ONLY AND STILL REQUEST MORE NAKED PICS OF ME..... TO THEM I SAY" FUCK OFF" HUBBY DOES NOT TAKE PART he will be present fully clothed we will want to video tape you fucking me and taking pics for our own personal use I love big thick cocks I love slow deep hard thrusting fucking this person must be available to fuck me must be clean and no cyber sex talk we book a hotel no cost to you come and fuck me and then leave we are for real it will only be me and you fucking hubby not bi nor gay I AM TIERD OF DEALING WITH BOYS WHO GET THIER KICKS OF PING PONGING MIAL I WANT TO MEET MEN WHO WANT TO FUCK AND ARE NOT SCARED TO TRAVEL TO GET AFUCK BOYS STOF CONTACTING GUYS IF YOU MARRIED AND YOU CAN'T BREAK AWAY DON'T COCNTACT ME I HAVE MEET ALOT OD GREAT GUYS SO NO MORE ARSHOLES PLEASE. FROM NOW ON NO PHONE NUMBER I WILL NOT GET BACK TO YOU. so if interested pic of your stiff cock side view and mobile number thanks we don't get guys who are talkers. and not real about it NO TIME WASTERS ladies any woman from 20 to 60 with who is horny and...

STEVE, 32 from One Tree Hill, Auckland

Just normal bloke looking for some fun if you want to know more just ask.

REUBEN, 36 from Southland

Reuben winked at you (Saturday at 5:48am)

JAMES, 27 from Mount Albert, Auckland

James sent you a message: "Quickie" (19th Dec '16 at 1:41am) James sent you a message: "Quickie" (19th Dec '16 at 1:41am) James winked at you (19th Dec '16 at 1:41am)

FRANDINAND, 59 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I'm single and looking for some NSA sex to spice up my life a little. I like all types of women but love BBWs.I also live in Marlborough despite this site saying Christchurch and I can't get it to change.

JAY, 27 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

Jay has yet to add her profile.

PHIL, 54 from Torbay, Auckland

I like walking the beaches. Romance comedy. Laying around in the sun

CADENCE, 39 from Hillsborough, Canterbury

Looking for NSA sex. I am a successful straight male with professional career. Looking to experiment in this world to fullfil sexual needs which are missing in my current relationship. Life is too short. I am of athletic, running fit, build. I look after my body. Tall and slim, clean and respectful, a little shy. Privacy and discretion is important. I cannot host.

Been married a long time and looking for something more exciting from your sex life? It's very common for both men and women to feel sexually frustrated in a long term relationship and want to experiment a little. It's completely normal. M.B.O.Y can help your find people who are feeling exactly the same as you. Even people local to Southland with our advanced search options. Whether you want to play with your partner or on your own we can help you find a new casual partner. If it' your first time you may want to take things slowly by swapping a few messages first to find the right one. It's up to you and all at your pace.

Getting started is easy, registration is free and takes less than a minute. Once you are registered you will get instant access to genuine, horny girls and guys all over NZ as well as all these fantastic features and more.

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Membership numbers only tell half the story. Maybe you have tried other sex dating websites who promise more members than anyone else only to find out most of their members are men or located all over the world. If you are a guy looking for sex in Southland, try a personals site that actually has a great selection of BOTH men and women all over the country including many in Southland. Registration is free, and you will get instant access once you complete the quick sign up form. Free registration is no-obligation so if for any reason you feel mybedoryours.com is not for you, that's no problem but once you experience the world of online adult personals done the right way we are sure you will be hooked like so many of our existing members.

Why should you join My Bed of Yours?

At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.

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We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.

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