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Long gone are the days of old fashioned adult personal ads in the back of local newspapers and adult magazines. Often, no picture was supplied, descriptions were very cryptic and you would have to wait weeks for a response. My Bed or Yours is modern incarnation of traditional adult personal adverts for the internet age where members are available instantly. View the sexy photos, send them messages, upload videos, all instantly with no waiting around.

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RONIN, 49 from Queenstown, Otago

Ronin has yet to add his profile. Ask Ronin for more info.

MRRIGHTNOW, 40 from Southland

I like to talk, laugh, drink with a woman, get the chemistry going, make it sexy, on a psychological level, make it so it's so tense that the fucking is just natural and unbelievably good.

UNTAMED, 36 from Onekawa, Hawke's Bay

Untamed has yet to add his profile. Ask Untamed for more info.

JUNIOR, 33 from Southland

Looking for someone to join me and my girlfriend for night out together. New to this so feel free to share ideas.thank you

WILL, 46 from Manakau, Auckland

Will sent you a message: "Curious about you Jane" (Friday at 4:27am) Will winked at you (11th Mar at 7:06pm) Will winked at you (11th Mar at 10:15am) Will winked at you (24th Feb at 1:16am) Will sent you a message: "Hey" (24th Feb at 1:09am)

SIMON, 26 from Titirangi, Auckland

About me? Well, I'm looking for something more than just a once off, but nothing so serious that we wake up next to each other complaining about bills.

SAM, 36 from Southland

Sam the man ! I'm open minded guy, clean and easy going. I love doing body massage as I'm trained! Alcohol may be up to few drinks :). Pm me if interested! I enjoy laughing and traveling. I drive a lot with musik on. I'm single ! I can host ! I play wild and safe!

GOODBOY, 62 from Twizel, Canterbury

Here for fun and saucy chatting. Maybe casual NSA sex if it feels right for both of us.

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (Friday at 1:12am) George sent you a message: "Picture of my cock!!!!!" (Thursday at 1:09am) George sent you a message: "do you ever want to fuck me Ja..." (Wednesday at 1:26am) George sent you a message: "Thanks Hun" (Wednesday at 1:13am) George sent you a message: "Are you horny today Jane" (Tuesday at 1:27am)

JEREMY, 38 from Hamilton, Waikato

ive been told I'm good with my fingers. would you like to find out??? ;)

JAI, 59 from Southland

Jai winked at you (Thursday at 5:40am)

ALLEN, 40 from Southland

I'm for healthy athletic build 6ft3 and 97kg Love surfing beach fishing am aparently doing ok in the u no department am hoping one of you ladies might want to find out no time wasters please I'm looking for some good funnnn and laughs and if coarse xxxxxx

JACK, 21 from Whangaparaoa, Auckland

I'm looking for a woman to accept me for who I am and love me until the end of the night.

WOODY, 49 from Southland

Love boating just being on the water.fishing relaxing and just having fun

KEVIN, 42 from Epsom, Auckland

I am looking for a honest, matured, fun loving and friendly woman for friendship and some fun. Must be clean. I am not here for serious relationship. just casual/frequent fun. I assure privacy.

PHL, 60 from Southland

I am told I have a good sense of humour I do like a good laugh at times. I am mostly happily married apart from one area..... it doesn't take a genius to work out what area that is, therefore I'm hoping for a fling I will for sure be nervous at a first meeting until I get to know you a bit.... but after that.... well you will have to find out for yourself

NICK, 47 from Auckland, Auckland

I'm brand new here and came because I heard about it from people I am a recent resident to Auckland having moved from the Middle East so I thought I'd give it a whirl. I'm fit, 6'2" tall, slim-medium build, blondish hair.

PAUL, 57 from Pukekohe East, Auckland

Paul winked at you (Saturday at 2:26am)

SAM, 40 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam sent you a message: "I won't bite..." (10th Mar at 1:47am) Sam sent you a message: "Don't be shy!" (10th Mar at 1:46am) Sam sent you a message: "Hey there Jane" (10th Mar at 1:31am) Sam winked at you (10th Mar at 1:30am)

CLIFF, 66 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Cliff sent you a message: "HI jane" (Saturday at 1:50am)

Been married a long time and looking for something more exciting from your sex life? It's very common for both men and women to feel sexually frustrated in a long term relationship and want to experiment a little. It's completely normal. M.B.O.Y can help your find people who are feeling exactly the same as you. Even people local to Southland with our advanced search options. Whether you want to play with your partner or on your own we can help you find a new casual partner. If it' your first time you may want to take things slowly by swapping a few messages first to find the right one. It's up to you and all at your pace.

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