Browse our members in Southland
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fit and enjoying life, like seeing the country by bike (motor), skiving off
I'm for healthy athletic build 6ft3 and 97kg Love surfing beach fishing am aparently doing ok in the u no department am hoping one of you ladies might want to find out no time wasters please I'm looking for some good funnnn and laughs and if coarse xxxxxx
George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (Friday at 1:12am) George sent you a message: "Picture of my cock!!!!!" (Thursday at 1:09am) George sent you a message: "do you ever want to fuck me Ja..." (Wednesday at 1:26am) George sent you a message: "Thanks Hun" (Wednesday at 1:13am) George sent you a message: "Are you horny today Jane" (Tuesday at 1:27am)
George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (Friday at 1:12am) George sent you a message: "Picture of my cock!!!!!" (Thursday at 1:09am) George sent you a message: "do you ever want to fuck me Ja..." (Wednesday at 1:26am) George sent you a message: "Thanks Hun" (Wednesday at 1:13am) George sent you a message: "Are you horny today Jane" (14th Mar at 1:27am)
I am looking for a honest, matured, fun loving and friendly woman for friendship and some fun. Must be clean. I am not here for serious relationship. just casual/frequent fun. I assure privacy.
Cliff sent you a message: "HI jane" (Saturday at 1:50am)
Paul winked at you (Saturday at 2:26am)
Hi there. I am an easy going independent caucasian Kiwi guy. I'm 6ft 1 and medium build, with fair hair. My 6 pack is in the fridge at this point, but I'm a slim to average build. I've done lots of skool and have a few gold stars to prove it. I'm easy to get on with and happy with all sorts, provided there is a spark and we are having good clean hot fun! I can meet for coffee and/or more exciting entertainments during the day. I'm new to this but I'm looking for a lady friend with benefits, for semi regular arrangements, who wants her needs to be taken care of properly and to have some good NSA fun from time to time. Perhaps in the Manawatu, Feilding, Levin or Kapiti/Wellington areas. Discretion is appreciated and will be returned. Drop me a note and say hi :)
Jack sent you a message: "hello" (yesterday at 3:22am) Jack winked at you (yesterday at 3:22am)
Luke sent you a message: "Hi" (Sunday at 11:09pm) Luke sent you a message: "Hi" (Wednesday at 1:58am) Luke sent you a message: "Hey" (8th Mar at 2:40am)
Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. Looking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.
Naked winked at you (Wednesday at 7:42am) Naked winked at you (10th Mar at 12:00am) Naked winked at you (8th Mar at 1:58pm) Naked sent you a message: "Hello Ms Jane" (25th Feb at 1:39am) Naked winked at you (25th Feb at 1:39am)
Hey ladies! I'm an easy going, fun and adventurous guy looking for someone to share good times with,if you think this could be a bit of you then get in touch ;-)
Hi attached bi guy looking for discrete meetings with like minded people
About me? Well, I'm looking for something more than just a once off, but nothing so serious that we wake up next to each other complaining about bills.
Fit retired male, own home, recently widowed. More information available if requested. Prefer to meet with women aged 40 and over
Updated - in Hamilton - looking for girls and couples keen for a good time with no strings, no expectations and no rules. I love trying new things, ticking off fantasies, will try anything twice and love making women cum. As it gets warmer, I'd love to have some outdoor adventures and I have a fuck buddy who lives in Auckland who I play with time to time who's blonde, hot, curvy, loves to suck and fuck cock and pussy and will do my bidding... Did I mention she's only 24? Anyways, She is definitely not compulsory - just an option that you can add to our party if that's what turns you on. If you like what you've read, and seen, want to have a great time then get in touch and let's hook up for some hot, horny, passionate fun.
Will sent you a message: "Curious about you Jane" (Friday at 4:27am) Will winked at you (11th Mar at 7:06pm) Will winked at you (11th Mar at 10:15am) Will winked at you (24th Feb at 1:16am) Will sent you a message: "Hey" (24th Feb at 1:09am)
Michael winked at you (23rd Apr at 8:58pm)
Faythe has yet to add her profile.
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