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Long gone are the days of old fashioned adult personal ads in the back of local newspapers and adult magazines. Often, no picture was supplied, descriptions were very cryptic and you would have to wait weeks for a response. My Bed or Yours is modern incarnation of traditional adult personal adverts for the internet age where members are available instantly. View the sexy photos, send them messages, upload videos, all instantly with no waiting around.

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BRADLEY, 41 from Papakura, Auckland

If we got together we would have a great hot sexy time im sure of it

ATELIER, 44 from Southland

Just after discreet fun. I'm a Funny Curious Person looking for a man to satisfy my voracious sexual appetite.. In fact the more sex the better as far as I'm concerned..I need to try all my sexual fantasies so if yr keen..

MIKE, 43 from North Shore, Auckland

Mike sent you a message: ":)" (Thursday at 2:08am)

JOHN, 57 from Albany, Auckland

Mature and respectable...I believe that a woman should always cum first ;-)

GOKULAN, 23 from Auckland, Auckland

Gokulan has yet to add his profile. Ask Gokulan for more info.

BOWGENTLE, 40 from Waipu, Northland

Awesome health partly due to not talking about it and having a wonderful dog! Build ellipse braziers , work from home. Good mechanic. Can cook well more like create haha! Appreciate friends and love family. Outgoing but more for nature and business not really high clubbing urge. Bow

DAVID, 33 from Auckland, Auckland

David sent you a message: "Jane" (21st Jan at 1:06am) David winked at you (21st Jan at 1:06am)

SAMMIE, 40 from North Shore, Auckland

I'm a no strings hook up virgin - and sometimes my pussy really wants a hard cock fucking her so looking into what options are out there

AMBER, 52 from Woodhill, Northland

Hi send me a message and i will get back to you.

RICHARD, 49 from Mount Victoria, Wellington

Richard winked at you (an hour ago) Richard winked at you (18th Jan at 1:22am) Richard sent you a message: "...." (14th Jan at 6:50pm)

LAURIE, 67 from Pukekohe, Auckland

Laurie winked at you (18th Apr at 9:09am)

HILAL, 25 from Auckland, Auckland

Hilal has yet to add his profile. Ask Hilal for more info.

JOEL, 24 from Southland

I'm a gym regular like to work out. looking for older woman than myself to tech me a thing or to. looking for NSA also happy to have fun with couple if husband/partner is keen to watch wife get drilled.

STEPHEN, 64 from Papakura, Auckland

Stephen sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (21st Apr at 11:45am) Stephen sent you a message: "Hello Jane" (7th Apr at 10:46am)

LINDA, 54 from Southland

Blond - Blue eyed - cuddly figure - 5ft lady waiting to hear from you

MONIQUE, 50 from Helensville, Auckland

Open minded friendly happy loves to please and be pleased

REUBEN, 36 from Warkworth, Auckland

Reuben winked at you (14th Jan at 5:48am)

RICHARD, 69 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

I am a fit and healthy 68 years young. I have lived on my own for the past 6 years and have come to enjoy my own company but find that there is something missing. I love to live life to the full and enjoy the outdoors, beaches, rivers and nature. It would be great to find someone to enjoy those special moments in life. I enjoy a wide range of music except perhaps for some the more heavy stuff.

K, 32 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Naughty, kinky and submissive x Looking for an older guy to have some fun with, prefer over 30 only. Recently moved from Auckland. If your profile is blank or empty, then I won't bother replying.

ATELIER, 44 from Auckland, Auckland

Just after discreet fun. I'm Funny n Curious n will be up to anything.Living life with No Regrets.

Been married a long time and looking for something more exciting from your sex life? It's very common for both men and women to feel sexually frustrated in a long term relationship and want to experiment a little. It's completely normal. M.B.O.Y can help your find people who are feeling exactly the same as you. Even people local to Southland with our advanced search options. Whether you want to play with your partner or on your own we can help you find a new casual partner. If it' your first time you may want to take things slowly by swapping a few messages first to find the right one. It's up to you and all at your pace.

Getting started is easy, registration is free and takes less than a minute. Once you are registered you will get instant access to genuine, horny girls and guys all over NZ as well as all these fantastic features and more.

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