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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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MyBedOrYours is for regular people looking for something exciting in the bedroom - someone else to join you and your partner or perhaps you have a few fantasies you want to live out. We let you explore your sexual ideas and help you connect with other people around Southland.

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CHUCKY, 50 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Chucky winked at you (yesterday at 2:31am)

THATGIRL, 35 from Paihia, Northland

Just her looking for some discreet fun, sorry not into older men 40 is my age limit.

TASH, 28 from Grafton, Auckland

Love older guys, must be gentle. So if you love a big girl, then you're my type x

PAULO, 70 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Paulo sent you a message: "Jane," (Monday at 5:49am)

KANA, 29 from Dunedin, Otago

Kana has yet to add her profile.

MARIA, 64 from Auckland, Auckland

I like the harmony in everything, life, nature,, with family ,friends and in a relationship.

THOMAS, 37 from Southland

Thomas winked at you (Saturday at 7:43am) Thomas winked at you (23rd Apr at 2:54am) Thomas winked at you (19th Apr at 1:45am)

NIKKI, 34 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

I am a petite, attractive, intelligent and professional woman who values intellectual conversation, charm, wit and a man who knows himself confidently, without arrogance. A lot to ask for perhaps, but I'm after a quality lover, not a quantity ;-) In return I'll deliver similarly.... I am married with one child. My husband and I practice consensual non-monogamy, with a 'Don't ask, don't tell' approach. After many years together we understand that humans have needs that can no longer be satisfied in the habitual nature of marriage, work and parenting. I am someone who has a passionate and vibrant approach to life and seek to keep Desire alive. My photo is discrete for identity purposes but I will provide more to the right person. I hope to meet a man who can provide the occasional escape into not just sex, but deep conversation, passionate kissing, intimate exploration, in the moment connection and a respectful friendship when we are not together as lovers.

CAROL, 60 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I'm 60 loving caring honest have big boobs that love to be sucked average build hazel eyes short black hair

HONEYPANTS, 36 from One Tree Hill, Auckland

Honeypants has yet to add her profile.

CHRIS, 27 from Devonport, Auckland

Chris sent you a message: "Hey" (28th Apr at 1:58am)

APPLE, 22 from Dunedin, Otago

Apple has yet to add her profile.

ELLE, 39 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi there. I'm looking for naughty discreet fun with a real man who is strong, well groomed, classy, experienced and respectful. 35-45 age range would suit. Sorry not interested in boys with no experience or stamina. Hope that doesn't sound too harsh. Only here for one off encounters, NSA. Happy to chat first to see if we have chemistry.

SOREN, 36 from Otara, Auckland

Soren has yet to add her profile.

HERA, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Really enjoy training hard, would be keen to chat with similar minded guy.

SHANE, 44 from Wellington, Wellington

Shane winked at you (yesterday at 2:41am) Shane winked at you (Monday at 1:06am)

RACHEL, 31 from Manukau, Auckland

Im here for so crazy sex before I leave NZ

SASS, 36 from Southland

Hmmmm some say i'm a MILF and that sounds hot. I love touching and playing snd being seduced

MICHELLE, 41 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Hi new to the NAUGHTY FOURTY ERA. I am a bi-curious, happily married to a liked minded, open minded, bi- curious partner. We are both looking for new fun no drama, no strings attached, casual encounters with DISCREET locals of like minded experimental, exciting people, couples singles ALL WELCOME

KITTEN, 25 from Southland

Just a kitten looking for a master, if you think you can handle me ;)

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