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MATT, 39 from Southland

Matt sent you a message: "Role play" (Friday at 1:24am) Matt winked at you (1st May at 1:10am)

BADRABBIT, 50 from Queenstown, Otago

I am a single man living in my own home. Even though I enjoy being my own boss, I still miss the female company.

WOODY, 49 from Waitakere, Auckland

Woody sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (20th Mar at 6:34pm) Woody winked at you (20th Mar at 6:33pm)

ALAN, 44 from Southland

Alan winked at you (yesterday at 2:43am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Saturday at 1:36am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (Saturday at 1:33am) Alan winked at you (Friday at 2:16am) Alan winked at you (Wednesday at 2:42am)

WILL, 46 from Manakau, Auckland

Will winked at you (Thursday at 9:07pm) Will sent you a message: "Hi" (21st Mar at 5:20am) Will winked at you (21st Mar at 5:18am) Will sent you a message: "Curious about you Jane" (17th Mar at 3:27am) Will winked at you (11th Mar at 6:06pm)

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked sent you a message: "I'm Tony" (Thursday at 2:58am) Naked winked at you (Thursday at 2:01am) Naked winked at you (15th Mar at 6:42am) Naked winked at you (9th Mar at 11:00pm) Naked winked at you (8th Mar at 12:58pm)

FRANKIIE, 25 from Southland

I'm a single, stay at home mum just looking for some friends and maybe some fun.

SEAN, 36 from Auckland, Auckland

I'm a very tall guy and live in central Auckland. I'm well educated, well travelled and an interesting conversationalist. I'm probably on totally the wrong site here, but I'm looking for an amazing older lady to be her toy boy. Buy me presents, take me on dates etc. It won't be sexual, but it'll be amazing fun for the right lady.

CABLE, 57 from Southland

Cable winked at you (22 minutes ago) Cable winked at you (Saturday at 5:39am) Cable winked at you (Friday at 4:08am) Cable winked at you (Thursday at 1:39am) Cable winked at you (Wednesday at 1:11am)

GRAHAM, 72 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Not sure if I am in the right place. I am still looking for a relationship that could develop into something longer term. Despite my age I have still have feelings that are to do with both love and intimacy. Sometimes just having a cuddle and a chat can be good too! The most important part of me is the top 2 inches of my head! Everything else is working fine.

MANDY, 25 from Southland

I am a lesbian xxxx

STEVE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Steve sent you a message: "." (Thursday at 2:03am) Steve winked at you (Thursday at 2:02am) Steve sent you a message: "." (8th Mar at 12:15am) Steve winked at you (8th Mar at 12:15am)

JONO, 54 from Timaru, Canterbury

I am a good looking, well hung experienced Dom. I am on the lookout for a sub to share some safe and sane kink experiences on a regular basis. I am an oral devotee, and have been told on numerous occasions that I am excellent at eating pussy and ass tee hee. If you are inexperienced, I am happy to teach you the joys of kink in a safe environment with the upmost discretion. If you want an a play session that will spin your wheels, message me :-) Cheers Jono x

ROBBIE, 32 from Southland

Robbie sent you a message: "." (27th Mar at 3:16am) Robbie sent you a message: "." (18th Mar at 9:22am) Robbie sent you a message: "." (9th Mar at 8:55am) Robbie sent you a message: "." (8th Mar at 1:09am)

CHUCKY, 50 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Chucky has yet to add his profile. Ask Chucky for more info.

DAN, 37 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

Dan winked at you (Wednesday at 2:07am)

GOODHANDU, 51 from Southland

Goodhandu winked at you (Thursday at 1:05am)

MASE, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Mase winked at you (Saturday at 8:09pm)

ROGER, 62 from Southland

Roger sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 8:02am) Roger sent you a message: "What can i do?" (Wednesday at 2:03am)

MOSIN, 27 from Arch Hill, Auckland

Mosin has yet to add his profile. Ask Mosin for more info.

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