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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.
Looking for sex in Southland
Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..
With new members signing up every month looking for some fun, finding new people who share the same needs and fantasies as you has never been easier. Simply register for your free account, complete a few details about yourself (don't worry, any personally identifiable information is kept confidential and never revealed to other members) and upload a photo (a photo is not required but highly recommended to receive the most interest from other members), and start searching for new sex partners, swinging couples or just a fun buddy for some harmless online flirting.
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Lucky winked at you (21st Jan at 1:06am)
Paul sent you a message: "hiya Jane" (Saturday at 8:44am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 9:26am) Paul added you as a Favourite (20th Apr at 7:12am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 12:41am) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)
Ecupskinky has yet to add her profile.
Jim winked at you (Monday at 5:55pm) Jim winked at you (Saturday at 6:35pm) Jim winked at you (24th Apr at 9:47pm)
Jim winked at you (1st Feb at 1:53am)
Kinky has yet to add her profile.
Ok a little bit about what I'm looking for. I don't take life too seriously and a bit of NSA action with a hot lady is how I like to spend my spare time. So really it's a No strings Fuck buddy for now and see where things go.
Let's skip the coffee and the small talk and have a great time ,and that could mean anything
I will start by holding you close so that i can feel your soft body touching, then i will start kissing on your soft neck while moving my hands on your soft body, then i will start teasing and more..... I am into couple swaping, threesomes, role play (dominant) ;)
I need to taste some fresh pussy...
Active older guy looking for some clean fun with a like minded woman
John sent you a message: "Hi" (Thursday at 6:39am)
Mrmuso sent you a message: ":)" (Wednesday at 1:07am)
Steve sent you a message: "I hope you can imagine this. A..." (Wednesday at 6:59am) Steve winked at you (Wednesday at 6:58am) Steve winked at you (Monday at 4:14am) Steve winked at you (Monday at 1:13am) Steve winked at you (12th Feb at 7:45am)
Rhys has yet to add his profile. Ask Rhys for more info.
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Terry sent you a message: "Jane" (yesterday at 1:09am) Terry winked at you (yesterday at 1:08am)
From Barcelona traveling through NZ. I like to have fun as you. Normal body, stong arms, big tongue. As I don't know many people your ID is guaranteed. Cheers...
Looking for someone a little different? How about someone that will treat you with respect when out in public, but knows how to get a little "nasty" when there's alone time. I'm a dedicated person in my day to day, to my career and friends. And I'm a good hearted, and kind person. Just have a whip of a sarcasm. Looking for someone to get the wild and fun burnt back inside my soul. Drop me a line...Even if at the end it's a "mic drop" moment, and there's no encore to it....It's all good. I do have humour and love when someone can hold their own.
Seperated, free to do whatever. Happy for sure. All options considered. Cheers Bruce
People are far more open about what they real want from a relationship and sex - lots of people just want some fun and a physical connection. mybedoryours.com is your place to meet people for a little adult bedroom fun. Just finished a long term relationship and want to go wild for a while? Want to meet a sexy housewife? Fancy spicing up your marriage? We offer easy to use profile searches that allow you to say exactly who you want to meet. We even continue searching while you're not even logged in - we'll send you a message when we find new people.
If you've seen any other adult dating site you'll know that some can be a bit of a sausage fest. As tempting as that may sound to some of you we can tell you it really does get too overwhelming. To keep our mix of members even we regularly run special offers to attract a certain type of member. At the moment we are offing 100% FREE full membership for women. If you're a woman and sign up to the trial you'll get a full membership straight away. Our offers will change so don't feel too hard done by if you don't qualify this time. Sign up for a free trail and we'll let you know when we run our next special offer. There's no time limit on the trail membership.
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