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MENZI, 25 from Wellington, Wellington

Menzi has yet to add his profile. Ask Menzi for more info.

PAUL, 58 from Southland

Paul sent you a message: "hiya Jane" (Saturday at 8:44am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 9:26am) Paul added you as a Favourite (20th Apr at 7:12am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 12:41am) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)

ATELIER, 46 from Southland

My moto in here now tap n go.No small talks k

JASON, 31 from Southland

I need to taste some fresh pussy...

JIM, 55 from Southland

Jim winked at you (Monday at 5:55pm) Jim winked at you (Saturday at 6:35pm) Jim winked at you (24th Apr at 9:47pm)

CANUCK, 39 from Southland

Looking for someone a little different? How about someone that will treat you with respect when out in public, but knows how to get a little "nasty" when there's alone time. I'm a dedicated person in my day to day, to my career and friends. And I'm a good hearted, and kind person. Just have a whip of a sarcasm. Looking for someone to get the wild and fun burnt back inside my soul. Drop me a line...Even if at the end it's a "mic drop" moment, and there's no encore to it....It's all good. I do have humour and love when someone can hold their own.

MICHAEL, 51 from Southland

Michael sent you a message: "hay helo" (Saturday at 3:11am) Michael added you as a Favourite (Saturday at 3:11am) Michael winked at you (Saturday at 3:11am)

TERRY, 47 from Auckland, Auckland

Terry sent you a message: "Jane" (yesterday at 1:09am) Terry winked at you (yesterday at 1:08am)

KEENTODO, 54 from Southland

I've always been a happy, easy going kinda guy that was married for decades. That all changed a year ago and I am now enjoying new experiences. I'm just a nice guy, that's all. Always like to meet first and make sure we're all on the same page. Absolutely no expectations either way, so try me. I know who I am, what I enjoy and what I can do. I certainly know my way around and never in a hurry and do enjoy good clean company... and a wine. I am very open to suggestions, but honesty is important.

MAUI, 30 from Wellington, Wellington

Maui has yet to add his profile. Ask Maui for more info.

BRIAN, 60 from Southland

Brian sent you a message: "View" (Saturday at 1:09am) Brian winked at you (Saturday at 1:07am)

TONY, 41 from Southland

Looking to make your fantasy into reality. What have you always wanted to try...? Keen to meet for fun or just have fun online or by phone. Would love to hear what turns you on, no matter how kinky, and then see if we can make it happen for you xx

C, 28 from Southland

I'm looking to fuck women who live between Wellington CBD up to Porirua :)

WHICK, 47 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

Whick has yet to add his profile. Ask Whick for more info.

NIGEL, 66 from Auckland, Auckland

sailing for the weekends, can't wait for warmer weather just want my snuggle bunny, with benefits of course--just the 1

BEVAN, 30 from Southland

Keen to meet a mature minded woman. for some clean fun and take it from there. I am interested in no strings attached fun in the bedroom I'm very clean and open minded.

PACMAN, 39 from Nelson, Nelson

I'm looking to have some fun. Who wants to play?

SUZANNE, 73 from Albany, Auckland

Suzanne has yet to add her profile.

EMILE, 49 from Auckland, Auckland

I am a sensitive and sensual older man with experience. I love to caress and undress my partner slowly while all the time touching and findng those spots of excitment, places my tongue can highten the intensity of. I am looking for NSA encounters with a woman prepared to explore her own sexuality and not afraid to try new things within her comfort zone.

TOMMY, 33 from National Park, Manawatu-Wanganui

Hey tommy here single just moved ..hot 33yrs old Maori honey ..wanting a a lot of good times I've gota very extremely high SEX DRIVE can you help me plzzzz ... Or if it sound like you then don't b shy .xx

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