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LEON, 32 from Southland

Leon sent you a message: "Hi there!" (14th Mar at 2:56am)

MAVROCK, 46 from Wellington, Wellington

Mavrock winked at you (8th May at 7:24pm) Mavrock winked at you (8th May at 1:06am)

FUCKANDGO, 40 from North Shore, Auckland

Fuckandgo has yet to add his profile. Ask Fuckandgo for more info.

PAUL, 30 from Waitakere, Auckland

Dreaming to make my fantasy into reality... Don't hesitate to contact me if you want some discreet, fun and outrageous sex life. I'll be ready for someone open minded who is willing to do it with me.

ALAN, 44 from Southland

Alan winked at you (Thursday at 1:04am) Alan winked at you (Wednesday at 5:42am)

WILLIAM, 28 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Danish guy in Christchurch, working a lot during the week so looking for some fun in the weekend ones had sex in a hostel dorm in Bali while nine other people were trying to sleep (she wasn't quiet)

BUZZ, 56 from Southland

I'm a very caring person who would love to make you feel special. I'm very fit and healthy, young in mind, body and spirit! I care about my appearance and like to keep in shape. I am passionate and positive about life in general.The intimate and sensual side of a relationship is equally important to the rest. I give unconditionally. I look, feel and act much younger than my age. Articulate and professional, who knows how to treat a lady and with respect. Liberal and very tolerant. Look at life positively and something to make the most of - too precious to waste...

ANTHONY, 62 from Southland

Anthony winked at you (yesterday at 1:58am)

KINKYCOUPLE, 24 from Stratford, Taranaki

Kinkycouple sent you a message: "Just one kinky night " (yesterday at 7:53pm)

MADDY, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Maddy winked at you (Sunday at 1:26am) Maddy sent you a message: "hello" (Sunday at 1:22am) Maddy sent you a message: "hi" (18th Mar at 1:32am) Maddy sent you a message: "hey" (18th Mar at 1:18am) Maddy winked at you (4th Mar at 1:10am)

KELLYN, 20 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Kellyn has yet to add his profile. Ask Kellyn for more info.

AMITBAINS, 36 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Amitbains winked at you (23 minutes ago)

PAORA, 42 from Pakuranga, Auckland

Not looking for a partner, just some NSA bit on the side . Are you my bit on the side

JACK, 44 from Matamata, Waikato

Hi, nice and gentle guy, looking for nice lady :)

JONATHAN, 40 from North Shore, Auckland

Jonathan sent you a message: "." (3rd Mar at 1:25am) Jonathan winked at you (23rd Feb at 2:48am)

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave winked at you (yesterday at 2:07am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (5th May at 2:59am)

SHAVENONE, 54 from Te Rapa, Waikato

sunseeker, nudist lifestyle but not mainstream,exhibitionist, shaven average size cock, like to lick pussy,like to be wanked, like to watch women masturbate, age/size not important, must be comfortable with yourself.

PETER, 67 from Mangere, Auckland

Peter winked at you (Wednesday at 1:14am)

SHAWN, 36 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi I'm here for a discreet close encounters and expect the same from opposite. Looking for discreet one night stands casual encounters, role play, couples and group sex. committed in relation but sex life sucks, always horny and a great appetite for sex. If you want some NSA fun for real I'm here count me in. Not an experienced NSA practitioner but nevertheless it's not rocket science as long as I have the desires to please highly. Love giving and receiving sensual massages and many more. Get in touch with me babe and couples

UPURBUM, 43 from Southland

Tagline M4F+ - Northland Intro Ive been talking to ppl and reading lots not so much learning but being reminded of stuff and that it applies in this slightly different situation the 1st thing Ive been advised is that I should tone my shit down and talk about the weather b4 I tell U to bend ova ... well guess what ... I loathed doing this in the 'vanilla' world and really wanted to skip the hows your job going in the hook-up / swinger / kink / BDSM scene well I guess if U play the game ppl like u To start at the beginning ... especially the fairer sex ... so here goes ... Hi Im a nice guy no really ... I am a gentleman I usually bury all my dark desires in a rusty chest deep beneath the surface but more on that l8r ... A bit about Me Well everything and nothing is special about me. My 8 (eight) pack (abdominal muscles) is years gone. ( No really the times I have bothered developing a six pack stomach i have ended up with an extra 2!) At the moment I have a Relaxed Tummy ... but the Rest is quite yummy My best feature is my eyes which are grey, green, and brown with gold flecks (picture to come) If there is anything else you simply must know before meet me, ask. But understand some information will remain private even after I verify your identity and intent to play. I more concerned with who you are not than who you are. The who you are MIGHT come later. Please note in cyberspace I am a pan-sexual bizzy being polyamorous trisexual with the only 'no go sorry' being SCAT But iRL I am almost exclusively heterosexual...

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