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MyBedOrYours is for regular people looking for something exciting in the bedroom - someone else to join you and your partner or perhaps you have a few fantasies you want to live out. We let you explore your sexual ideas and help you connect with other people around Southland.

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ANDY, 50 from North Shore, Auckland

I am open minded about most things ,I don't sweat the small stuff , go with the flow, I am not married and not in a relationship. I dont judge how someone looks, I rather have Fun and personality will sort that. I am a bigger guy so if it's not your cup of tea it's OK if i don't hear from you Im looking for no strings attached fun, will try most things, NOTE for married women: No Dramas, or insecure husbands

SMACKNDABOX, 33 from Nelson, Nelson

Hey me or we are searching for some random good times.im not pessimist man who thinks all women are bad. But a optimist who just hopes to meet some chicks who really are fun and a little bad.looking to meet some cool genuine as straight or bi/curious chickys for some nsa boozy nites and discreet times to join me and my young chicky mate who is bi curious for naughty secret fun )

JAH, 47 from Southland

Loving careing ad I am bad ..

BEN, 25 from Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui

I'm pretty inexperienced, would like to find someone equally naive to learn with, or someone that doesn't mind less experienced guys and likes to teach guys a thing or two ;p

BRIAN, 60 from Southland

I am easy going love my photography Beach is good Am fisher

TREN, 46 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Tren has yet to add her profile.

KONRAD, 43 from Southland

Looking for NSA 1 nighters. I like to make sure I get you off as often as i can ; )

GLEN, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Fun out goin love to try new things and seriously keen to have some fun email me

KIM, 49 from Auckland, Auckland

Single and Independant, looking for someone with no hang ups or baggage to have some fun together or to just chillax.

JIM, 61 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

I'm 61 slim single and sexy romantic humourous lover !! I enjoy sexy ladies younger and older !! I enjoy sex one night stands casual sexy encounters Online sexy chats !! Enjoy fun sexy times !! Dates etc !!!

JACK, 55 from Southland

Looking to have some very discreet fun, because i just love hot sex! Never before had experiences outside of marriage, so a bit nervous but ecstatic with excitement... Really looking forward to finding someone hot and horny like me and give you heavenly ultimate pleasure via your hot spots.... and mine.... I enjoy all shapes and sizes, what matters to me most is foreplay and longevity. Keen to try out some toys that you like to ignite...lots of creativity, bring it on!! Have so far wasted lots of time chatting. Ideally would like to chat briefly, then meet for a quiet glass of wine somewhere to see if we click, and go on from there.....! I'm in superb shape (have always trained) and if you like a strong well toned body with plenty of thrust, with a rock hard rod, then I'm your man! Ever seen the movie 5 til 7? That movie inspired me! A flexible once a month type arrangement would be super but one offs great too!

MIKE, 46 from Southland

easy going, horny, into most things

OLYMPUS, 25 from Manurewa, Auckland

Olympus has yet to add his profile. Ask Olympus for more info.

PENETRATOR, 37 from Southland

Just looking for ladies who wanna have some fun with no strings attached. Ladies who would like someone to suck their tits and fuck their beautiful ass. Even better if they want me to do this naturally as I love taking risks. So ladies if u keen then drop me a line......

FRANKIIE, 25 from Southland

Frankiie has yet to add her profile.

SANDY, 51 from Southland

Hey anyone keen on some hot fun tonight.....

EUGENE, 50 from Woodend, Canterbury

Hot an horny zone, have my own place so come on Lady's let's have fum Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

PETER, 81 from Auckland, Auckland

Want both of us to have a darn good time, and you leave with a smile on your face.

MAC, 44 from Waimate, Canterbury

hi looking for some fun

STEVE, 40 from Auckland, Auckland

Thanks for checking me out. New to Auckland. Fit successful guy who likes to keep in shape and likes to have a good time in the bedroom, or wherever the fun takes place. Very open minded. Just looking for good times with a like minded person. Any age or status is ok. Open to an affair with he right married woman. Something about sex with another guys wife turns me on.I do enjoy some naughty saucy chat in the lead up to really good hot steamy sex. I can last for ages. Love to go down and have a big groomed cock. Love to hear from you

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