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JOHN, 52 from Southland

Hi I'm In a committed but sexless relationship.so not looking for a soulmate or to go out and about but would Like some very discreet no strings or baggage sexy times with a mature lady,someone Who wants to have some uncomplicated stolen adult time, who likes to wear sexy outfits :-)(a real turn on) A horny lady who wants a man to give her what she wants 8:::::::D - - - \(i)/

DAVID, 33 from Auckland, Auckland

David winked at you (Saturday at 1:53am) David sent you a message: "Jane" (21st Jan at 1:06am) David winked at you (21st Jan at 1:06am)

HAMA, 32 from Southland

I'm keen 4 some fun big guy that loves it

ANDREW, 40 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

loyal discreet and willing to please! What is your pleasure?

RACHEL, 27 from Southland

I love sex and a good time:-) Be sure you read my profile before messaging me. I am not skinny, I don't have a slim figure, I am a chubby woman and I don't do hook up's with married men or men that have separated from their wives and not divorced yet and guys with girlfriends. I only want fun times with men that are single.

STEVE, 37 from Southland

I'm an easy going person. Easy to get to know someone new, good sense of humour. Love my music, plays the piano. Also love to work on cars. adventurous and would love to try different things. Been in Auckland for 16 years now and loving it... I'd like to keep things simple. So tends to go with the flow. I am ready to settle down with the right person. I'm looking for someone that can accept me as I am, easy going person and ready to settle down type of person. Can be 'bad' sometimes but can be good and sincere too.

EARL, 61 from Te Rapa, Waikato

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JIM, 55 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Hi, Recently broken from a relationship and feeling like some female company, I am not looking for a relationship, just someone nice to play with. Im an intelligent, self employed business man. Im clean and like to keep myself in reasonable condition. Im in Auckland every weekend with work and now maybe some play :)

STEVE, 55 from Paraparaumu Beach, Wellington

Steve winked at you (10th Apr at 10:12am)

JONATHAN, 53 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan winked at you (Friday at 2:33am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (Friday at 1:41am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (Friday at 1:41am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (Friday at 1:41am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (Friday at 1:41am)

CJAY, 33 from Wellington, Wellington

i wont bite, unless thats what your into. Keen energetic individual, always keen to make the ladys super wet!

IAN, 49 from Southland

Ian sent you a message: "hey there" (10th Jan at 2:21am)

BIGD, 24 from Southland

Bigd winked at you (9th Jan at 1:23am)

SAM, 40 from Southland

Sam sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Monday at 1:38pm) Sam winked at you (Monday at 1:37pm)

CRAGITY, 47 from Methven, Canterbury

I'm a down to earth farmer Clean living and intelligent. I have a nice home and nice truck. I just don't get the opotunity to meet many Women!!

ANDREW, 75 from Grafton, Auckland

Andrew winked at you (24th Jan at 4:09am)

SHANE, 46 from Southland

Just looking for some one to fuck and go down on and have some fun and good times with No Strings Attached maybe in the future something else. My interests are mountain biking fishing the outdoors dancing meals out movies most sports

KENT, 53 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I would like to find a lady who wants to have their clothes ripped off and have their legs spread, so I can lick her pussy and get her nice and wet so I can slip my now nice and hard cock in her and fill her with my hot cum. A nice 69 would be great, suck me while I am licking your pussy and arse.

ELIZABETH, 39 from Newton, Auckland

39yo single mum, 168cm tall, curvy size 18. I like to be told what to do in a respectful way and I'm fairly good at following instructions ;) looking for someone fairly local to my area (I'm near manukau and work botany area). At this point can't play at my place and I can't travel too far in evenings (I finish work at 6:30pm and don't want to be out too late as I start early each morning). I am free Tuesday's 9am til 2pm

SEXYASS, 37 from Southland

I am a sexy woman here looking to meet an adventurous woman who knows what she wants!

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