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DAVE, 48 from Southland

Always been in relationships which has been great but also nice to have the freedom. Looking for NSA but who knows what's out there.

KEN, 66 from Avonside, Canterbury

i am 65 full time worker in the health sector enjoying a night in front of a open fire ( but that's gone in Christchurch ) just call me a sentimental old fashioned fool that still has a lot to give the older woman over 40 I have no children but have great nephews and a fantastic younger sister

BOHEMIA, 28 from Auckland, Auckland

Bohemia winked at you (Sunday at 1:56am) Bohemia winked at you (Thursday at 1:00am) Bohemia winked at you (Wednesday at 1:43am) Bohemia sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Jan at 6:05am) Bohemia sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Jan at 6:05am)

PETE, 40 from Kaiti, East Cape

Lustful fun

PAUL, 58 from Southland

Paul sent you a message: "hiya Jane" (Saturday at 8:44am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 9:26am) Paul added you as a Favourite (20th Apr at 7:12am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 12:41am) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)

RICHARD, 49 from Dannevirke, Hawke's Bay

Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 8:29am) Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (Saturday at 12:19am)

KEN, 66 from Christchurch, Canterbury

want to fuck as much older pussy as i can don't like young ones under40 like eating older pussy read my profile at shag me and look at the pic what u se is what u gey any size shape 40-100 wiil be fucked by me i am a shift worker in the health industry very clean waiting to here from you love ken xxoo

STEVE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Steve sent you a message: "." (yesterday at 1:38am) Steve winked at you (Monday at 5:11am)

SAM, 40 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam winked at you (8th Feb at 1:20am) Sam sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (30th Jan at 1:38pm) Sam winked at you (30th Jan at 1:37pm)

MARK, 51 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Hi there. I am an easy going independent person. I'm 6ft 1 and medium build. My 6 pack is in the fridge at this point, but I'm a slim to average build. I've done lots of skool and have a few gold stars to prove it, but happy to get on with all sorts, provided there is a spark and we are having fun! I can meet for coffee and/or more exciting entertainments during the day. I'm new to this but I'm looking for a lady friend with benefits, for semi regular arrangements, who wants to be taken care of properly and have some good NSA fun from time to time. Perhaps in the Manawatu, Feilding, Levin or Kapit/Wellingtoni areas. Discretion is appreciated and expected. Drop me a note and say hi, and we'll see how it goes from there :)

JASON, 31 from Taupo, Waikato

I need to taste some fresh pussy...

DVICE, 46 from Nelson, Nelson

Here for a good time...and a long time hmu

FISHERMAN, 50 from Southland

Naughty fun needed I will try anything once very easy to get along with easy on the eyes

CANUCK, 39 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Looking for someone a little different? How about someone that will treat you with respect when out in public, but knows how to get a little "nasty" when there's alone time. I'm a dedicated person in my day to day, to my career and friends. And I'm a good hearted, and kind person. Just have a whip of a sarcasm. Looking for someone to get the wild and fun burnt back inside my soul. Drop me a line...Even if at the end it's a "mic drop" moment, and there's no encore to it....It's all good. I do have humour and love when someone can hold their own.

JIMI, 50 from Tokoroa, Waikato

Jimi has yet to add his profile. Ask Jimi for more info.

HEAVEN, 24 from Southland

Heaven has yet to add her profile.

KA, 36 from Mount Roskill, Auckland

Looking for nsa casual fun, with a like minded woman

JIM, 55 from Pakuranga Heights, Auckland

Jim winked at you (Monday at 5:55pm) Jim winked at you (Saturday at 6:35pm) Jim winked at you (24th Apr at 9:47pm)

KEENTODO, 54 from Southland

I've always been a happy, easy going kinda guy that was married for decades. That all changed a year ago and I am now enjoying new experiences. I'm just a nice guy, that's all. Always like to meet first and make sure we're all on the same page and comfortable with each other. Absolutely no expectations either way, so try me. I know who I am, what I enjoy and what I can do. I look younger than I am, I keep fit and I'm in good shape. I certainly know my way around and never in a hurry and do enjoy good clean company... and a wine. I am very open to suggestions, but honesty is important. If you're going to look at my profile, why not message me. I do travel around a bit at times, so if you're out of town, we may still be able to meet.

CRAIGSHAW, 31 from Southland

Craigshaw has yet to add his profile. Ask Craigshaw for more info.

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