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CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

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BAMENDA, 36 from Blockhouse Bay, Auckland

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MILFBAE, 22 from Hamilton, Waikato

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MILFBAE, 22 from Te Rapa, Waikato

Beautiful petite milf looking for casual no strings attached goodfucking, 1 0n 1, any1 who would be keen to join in with me my partner (couples who want to experiment together)

LINO, 26 from Mangere, Auckland

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KINKYCOUPLE, 27 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

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JAY, 37 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Wacting to meet and connect with awesome people that want a connection,once we have a connection the rest is up to us

ANTHONY, 28 from Christchurch, Canterbury

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ATELIER, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

I'm married but why stop ter life is too short to be limited. Im up for anything. I have a very angel n devil personality.I'm not getting younger so I Live it or Live On. Im up for some fun so Buzz if yr Keen

ANTHONY, 62 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Older guy who is looking to share some exciting experiences I just love spanking and ideally am looking for a female spanking partner, someone to share this experience - let's meet have a coffee and see where the conversation leads other things considered bondage or similar BDSM activities

SHANE, 44 from Wellington, Wellington

Shane sent you a message: "Hi" (Wednesday at 7:02pm) Shane winked at you (Tuesday at 2:41am) Shane winked at you (8th May at 1:06am)

MIKE, 43 from Southland

Who wants to have some quality time spent below mmmm. Not looking for a relationship at this stage. A fwb situation would be perfect thanks. Not a girl every night. Rather play with one women that I like "lots"

MASTEROF, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

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PIETKRU, 23 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

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ANDREW, 46 from Trentham, Wellington

Tall dark good looker ,6ft 46yr

STEVE, 62 from Southland

Hi about me well 6foot 2 got my own hair slim likes to have a good time loves the ladys and to go down on you just loves sex so come on ladys

ROSENDAN, 32 from Southland

Hot young couple looking for a woman to join us in a hot night of fun xoxo\ Must be open to try new things with no strings attached, preferably within the age of 20-30 ;) xoxoxo Rose is 21and Dan is 32 xoxoo

GN, 32 from Southland

Gn winked at you (28th Feb at 5:43am)

CABLE, 57 from Southland

Cable winked at you (14th Mar at 5:16am) Cable sent you a message: "peeking" (12th Mar at 12:12am) Cable sent you a message: "HI" (12th Mar at 12:08am) Cable sent you a message: "hi" (9th Mar at 5:59pm) Cable winked at you (9th Mar at 5:56pm)

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael sent you a message: "helo" (12th Mar at 5:52pm) Michael winked at you (12th Mar at 5:51pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (4th Mar at 5:15pm) Michael winked at you (4th Mar at 5:11pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay hi" (1st Mar at 6:08pm)

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