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KRISTOPHER, 54 from Southland

i go to events been doing on my own over it ,so its about the now ,and all that it brings, iam open minded,love music,art outdoors stuff.so iam open ,i have no walls only doors.so iam looking for one on one contact, live the now,so if thats you ,lets open doors

JASON, 31 from Southland

I need to taste some fresh pussy...

CANUCK, 39 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Looking for someone a little different? How about someone that will treat you with respect when out in public, but knows how to get a little "nasty" when there's alone time. I'm a dedicated person in my day to day, to my career and friends. And I'm a good hearted, and kind person. Just have a whip of a sarcasm. Looking for someone to get the wild and fun burnt back inside my soul. Drop me a line...Even if at the end it's a "mic drop" moment, and there's no encore to it....It's all good. I do have humour and love when someone can hold their own.

FLAVIO, 28 from Remuera, Auckland

Flavio sent you a message: "hola" (Wednesday at 2:04am) Flavio winked at you (Wednesday at 2:04am)

BRYAN, 44 from Waiouru, Manawatu-Wanganui

Bryan winked at you (4th Feb at 7:41am) Bryan sent you a message: "Hi" (28th Jan at 1:11am) Bryan winked at you (28th Jan at 1:10am)

DAVE, 51 from Southland

Dave winked at you (Wednesday at 1:28am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (21st Jan at 1:19am)

PENNY, 29 from Auckland, Auckland

I am new to this. But basically looking for some fun with a talented individual...

GEORGE, 46 from Southland

George winked at you (Wednesday at 6:30am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Wednesday at 1:16am) George sent you a message: "Back to Auckland" (Saturday at 2:44am) George sent you a message: "Happy Birthday Jane" (24th Jan at 2:05am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (23rd Jan at 1:18am)

GN, 32 from Southland

Easy going and drama free.. keen to chat and meet if your the same.. don't hesitate to say hello..

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (Saturday at 8:01pm) Michael sent you a message: "u horney" (10th Feb at 12:16pm) Michael sent you a message: "u like" (2nd Feb at 1:39am) Michael winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:39am)

BOB, 45 from Grafton, Auckland

Bob winked at you (Monday at 1:46am) Bob sent you a message: "Going to talk to me?" (9th Feb at 2:17am) Bob winked at you (4th Feb at 1:58am) Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (3rd Feb at 1:06am) Bob sent you a message: "What's Jane upto?" (1st Feb at 1:56am)

ISAAC, 30 from Southland

My name is Isaac, i am looking for someone to spend a little time with, maybe go out for some drinks then have some sexual fun, i am pretty open minded when it comes to sex so don't be afraid to ask if you want to try something, looks are only skin deep and all women have a certain beauty about them so if you like the look of me flick me a message, I am quite a private soft natured person so if you are opininated/loud/mouthy, we probably wont get along. loud when drunk doesn't count of course :). Im not looking for anything serious at the moment. I have a pretty relaxed personality, there isn't much that stresses me out. I look forward to meeting you:)

PAUL, 46 from Whitford, Auckland

Curious as never tried before, so willing to try anything twice. Need to be open and honest and safe Sorry, not actually into Ladies in unhappy relationships. Believe if after a fling, need to sort what's in front of you and don't want to be the one party to being unfaithful. Simply my view, don't want to tread on another guys ties so to speak.

JONATHAN, 53 from Southland

Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi there jane" (yesterday at 1:41am) Jonathan added you as a Favourite (yesterday at 1:36am) Jonathan winked at you (yesterday at 1:36am) Jonathan winked at you (Tuesday at 1:51am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (10th Feb at 1:59am)

TONY, 51 from Southland

I live life.....meaning I love life. I live life to the fullest....as it is a short life we all have. So here we go: I'm funny, confident, will make you laugh, will give you orgasms, I'm good looking and intelligent, witty and sporty. I'm relaxed without being a smoker, but I love a drink once/twice a week. I'm educated, successful and well travelled. I own property but i'm not a capitalist. You can't take it with you. Come and meet me. Message me....don't be shy. Luv Tony xx

RICHARD, 49 from Dannevirke, Hawke's Bay

Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 8:29am) Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (Saturday at 12:19am)

PAUL, 58 from Pukekohe East, Auckland

Paul sent you a message: "hiya Jane" (Saturday at 8:44am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 9:26am) Paul added you as a Favourite (20th Apr at 7:12am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 12:41am) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)

BOHEMIA, 28 from Auckland, Auckland

Bohemia winked at you (Sunday at 1:56am) Bohemia winked at you (9th Feb at 1:00am) Bohemia winked at you (8th Feb at 1:43am)

JIM, 55 from Pakuranga Heights, Auckland

Jim winked at you (Monday at 5:55pm) Jim winked at you (Saturday at 6:35pm) Jim winked at you (24th Apr at 9:47pm)

MARTIN, 46 from Southland

Looking for some discrete no strings attached fun FWB maybe. Dont smoke or do drugs. Can't beat getting hot and steamy with someone to keep fit. Like to enjoy a good red with a movie or music. Game to try something new.

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