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LIZ, 52 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Here for friendships

KARIN, 50 from Auckland, Auckland

I want some fun and good sex. Love wine, love hairy men, love laughing, have a dirty mouth and blunt as. No lies, no games and will be well....with great sex.

HARRY, 63 from Southland

Harry winked at you (Wednesday at 5:07am) Harry winked at you (15th Apr at 4:18am) Harry winked at you (14th Apr at 1:22am)

LEONTINE, 30 from Southland

Leontine has yet to add her profile.

ANDREW, 46 from Hamilton, Waikato

Happily married but sex isn't part of the equation any more. I really do like sex so if anyone is willing to enjoy a good time I'm keen. I enjoy webcam/phone sex as well.

CHEEKY, 41 from Southland

I'm here to meet a clean, respectful sex buddy. We can service each others needs, have fun and enjoy sex and one another. Keen to try new things in the bedroom. Not looking for a relationship but if you're cool and we click who knows. I'm a big gal so be prepared for curvyliscious (not sure that's a real word but you know what i mean). Big booty and boobies. I'd really like a movie buddy too lol.

FRANK, 57 from Hornby, Canterbury

Love outdoors tramping.

TROY, 30 from Southland

hi im a young fella and am an honest kiwi bloke with the heart of gold so message me if u want to know more. im a spray painter and a fireman in my spare time.

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked winked at you (8th Apr at 9:05am) Naked winked at you (3rd Apr at 11:49am) Naked sent you a message: "I'm Tony" (30th Mar at 2:58am) Naked winked at you (30th Mar at 2:01am)

MARIE, 60 from Dunedin, Otago

Fun and laughter and touch...the three most important things to me. Single, looking for a bit of excitement, maybe a gentle person with a little bit of ungentlemanly behaviour sometimes

YUMMYMUMMY, 40 from Auckland, Auckland

GOING TO PORTLAND BAR 29.07 AFTER MY WORK GIG FOR A LIL BOOGIE. PROBABLY GET THERE AFTER MIDNIGHT SO IF YOURE IN THE AREA...LOOK FOR THE CUTE LIL ISLAND GIRL Hot mummy here, just havin a nose to see if there's some hot lusty man around who can give me what I'm after. I'm a Kiwi-Samoan girl that likes to exercise a cpl times a wk cause it makes me feel right. My body is average-good considering we have a few young ones. Hubbys given me permission to hit it ONCE so it's got to be someone I think is attractive \yummy but most of all, someone who can bring that 'naughtiness' out of me. I've got 1 chance to get it right-do me right and you may get another...MAYBE! Do NOT waste my time if yr good looking but can only last a minute or three! You must have yr own place or be able to arrange a nice sensuous relaxing spot where we can do this once do this right.

BRITANNIA, 30 from Otahuhu, Auckland

Britannia has yet to add her profile.

MMMMEOW, 22 from Southland

Mmmmeow has yet to add her profile.

HEAVENLY, 25 from Southland

Heavenly has yet to add her profile.

TEDA, 50 from Onekawa, Hawke's Bay

Short and sweet. I am caring, honest with a good sense of humour.

ALABAMA, 42 from Southland

Gentlemen if in relationship /marriage DO NOT CONTACT ME.

SWEETCHIC, 37 from Southland

Sweetchic has yet to add her profile.

XTINA, 41 from Southland

Single female seeking nsa or casual fun. Someone who can leave me legless but always wanting more...Discretion guaranteed and expected in return. Open minded and drama free :) Must have a connection mentally and physically. Do not contact me if you are over 50. I am not interested in any way. Based in the naki, not NP.

RAWINIA, 57 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

I'm a bubbly and kind hearted down to earth type of woman who loves the simplicity of easy living...honesty, caring and understanding of ones feelings...family and friends are part of my life I enjoy mostly...I love all types of music except Rap and Heavy Metal...Without any disrespect whatsoever, If you are a possessive, jealous, arrogant and moody type of man, you will definitely not fit into my lifestyle of fun..I like to have fun without any hassles...I like a man with a gsoh who can make me laugh..I am an easy going woman with no hang ups but loads of fun..I love swimming at the pools for 3-4 hrs a day and then tone up on my Gymfit for an hour and a half and I love to keep fit and healthy...if you fancy a tumble then get in touch and let's hookup for some hot horny, passionate fun..

MOIST, 22 from Southland

Moist has yet to add her profile.

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