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Adult dating is the ultimate way to meet other adults looking for no strings sex, casual affairs or even a regular fuck buddy. As a member of the most exclusive adult dating web site – MyBedOrYours you will enjoy full access to genuine New Zealand members looking for someone like you to fulfil their sexual desires.

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If you have ever tried a normal dating web site you will be familiar with how they work. My Bed or Yours is exactly the same. You search for members who meet your criteria or geographic location, check out their profile and if you like what you see you send them a message and take it from there. The major difference with My Bed or Yours is what the members are looking to get out of their experience. Our members do not want a serious relationship, many don't even want to see people more than once. Its simply an easy way to find other people looking for some mutually beneficial meet ups without the stresses or commitment of a serious relationship.

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TERRY, 47 from Auckland, Auckland

Curious, looking for someone fun. Always respectful and honest. So, basically I'm looking for a woman that wants to share a sexual relationship with, short or long term. I'm new to this, so it's uncharted territory for me. No drama or dishonesty, just mutal enjoyable sex with a man that can guarantee respect, honesty and a horny time. Happy to send pics of myself.

WINNIE, 24 from Hamilton, Waikato

Winnie sent you a message: "Here For Nsa Fun Causal Discre..." (yesterday at 12:15pm)

JIM, 55 from Pakuranga Heights, Auckland

Jim winked at you (yesterday at 5:55pm) Jim winked at you (Saturday at 6:35pm) Jim winked at you (24th Apr at 9:47pm)

WICKERMAN, 45 from Hamilton, Waikato

Here for sexy email chat, photo swaps and discretion nsa all out fun.

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (11th Feb at 8:01pm) Michael sent you a message: "u horney" (10th Feb at 12:16pm) Michael sent you a message: "u like" (2nd Feb at 1:39am) Michael winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:39am)

MATT, 39 from Mangere, Auckland

Matt winked at you (yesterday at 1:10am)

MIKE, 29 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Just found this site and looking around... =) I'm a tradie working on the rebuild and here to either find someone long term or just for fun... live on my own so can accommodate those naughty adventures.. hehe. Hit me up and let's have some fun.. ;)

VAUGHAN, 42 from Southland

I work hard n play hard,always got sumthing 2 do. No time to find Mrs right so were is Mrs right now??

FOREPLAYS, 29 from Auckland, Auckland

I will start by holding you close so that i can feel your soft body touching, then i will start kissing on your soft neck while moving my hands on your soft body I will then slide down my tongue towards your neck while your soft boobs will be pressing against my hard chest then i will roll my tongue around your soft breast while i will move my fingers up the thighs slowly, msg for chat to see how it goes ;)

STEVE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Steve winked at you (Thursday at 8:10am) Steve sent you a message: "." (Tuesday at 1:38am) Steve winked at you (Monday at 5:11am)

JONATHAN, 40 from Southland

Jonathan winked at you (yesterday at 6:26am) Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am) Jonathan winked at you (12th Apr at 1:38am)

HARRY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Harry winked at you (Thursday at 2:42am) Harry added you as a Favourite (Sunday at 1:38am) Harry winked at you (Sunday at 1:38am) Harry sent you a message: "Hey" (4th Feb at 1:04am) Harry winked at you (4th Feb at 1:03am)

DEAN, 53 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Im a stable safe married man looking to meet for Nsa encounters with Nice ladys.

PETER, 42 from Southland

Looking to please

ANDRES, 47 from Southland

Looking for some fun nsa .

JOHN, 32 from Rolleston, Canterbury

Simple guy looking for some short term fun. Well mannered Educated Looking to start with a few emails to get the ball rolling. Then eventually meeting up NSA.

R, 36 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

R has yet to add his profile. Ask R for more info.

ERIC, 53 from Otahuhu, Auckland

Here seeking female contact for hot sexcapades. Not a partner to live with. I am married. Yes she knows! In fact if you are also as sexual as she is you may like to meet her. I am not seeking a ffm threesome. She enjoys mmf threesome. I look forward to meeting with you. I like to meet up quickly! No endless texts please. We can decide if we fuck when we meet ok? I'm happy to accept a No! I have been meeting ladies for years now. Should you have another sex partner as well ! Let's 4sum! We are not bi.

FUCKANDGO, 39 from North Shore, Auckland

Fuckandgo sent you a message: "." (yesterday at 4:26am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Yip" (3rd Feb at 1:23am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi" (3rd Feb at 1:18am) Fuckandgo winked at you (3rd Feb at 1:17am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi" (2nd Feb at 1:17am)

READYFORIT, 48 from Southland

Readyforit has yet to add his profile. Ask Readyforit for more info.

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