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Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

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KIRAN, 25 from Opawa, Canterbury

Kiran has yet to add his profile. Ask Kiran for more info.

VJ, 31 from Waitakere, Auckland

Vj sent you a message: "Hey babe" (Monday at 1:49am) Vj winked at you (Sunday at 1:08am) Vj sent you a message: "No pic?" (Saturday at 1:02am) Vj sent you a message: "NSA fun" (11th May at 10:10pm)

STEVE, 56 from Auckland, Auckland

Ok a little bit about what I'm looking for. I don't take life too seriously and a bit of NSA action with a hot lady is how I like to spend my spare time. So really it's a No strings Fuck buddy for now and see where things go.

KEITH, 59 from Southland

Let's skip the coffee and the small talk and have a great time ,and that could mean anything

FUCKANDGO, 39 from North Shore, Auckland

Fuckandgo sent you a message: "." (Friday at 4:26am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Yip" (3rd Feb at 1:23am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi" (3rd Feb at 1:18am) Fuckandgo winked at you (3rd Feb at 1:17am) Fuckandgo sent you a message: "Hi" (2nd Feb at 1:17am)

JONATHAN, 39 from North Shore, Auckland

Jonathan sent you a message: "." (Friday at 4:26am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Yip" (3rd Feb at 1:23am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (3rd Feb at 1:18am) Jonathan winked at you (3rd Feb at 1:17am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (2nd Feb at 1:17am)

BOB, 45 from Grafton, Auckland

Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (Friday at 1:18am) Bob winked at you (13th Feb at 1:46am) Bob sent you a message: "Going to talk to me?" (9th Feb at 2:17am) Bob winked at you (4th Feb at 1:58am) Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (3rd Feb at 1:06am)

BRIAN, 42 from Southland

Hi I'm living in chch like to meet someone who likes to be naughty, ..... im into all sorts, I like girls with open minds, also likes toys and love seeing my lady dressed up. I'm looking for partner in crime someone willing to explore and have great sex with, checking into hotel and fucking like rabbitS, Or taking you out for dinner and drinks.will do what it takes to please you Hope to hear from you soon. Any questions feel free to ask

JIM, 55 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Jim winked at you (1st Feb at 1:53am)

JUSTME, 38 from Southland

Justme winked at you (Sunday at 1:06am)

EASTON, 59 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Easton has yet to add his profile. Ask Easton for more info.

HUNNYBUNNY, 34 from Wellington, Wellington

Looking for a playmate to have NSA fun with, who is based or travel to Welly...I'll need you take your time with me, to kiss, lick and taste me...but first let's chat and see if we have a connection, make me laugh and tease me a little...lets see where this goes xxx P.S ssssshhhh...hubby doesn't know

MRMUSO, 36 from Torbay, Auckland

Mrmuso sent you a message: ":)" (Wednesday at 1:07am)

PENNY, 24 from Auckland, Auckland

I am a solo mum with a amazing little girl. She's my world . I like going out having fun . Watching movies or.going to speedway

STEPHEN, 63 from Papakura, Auckland

Stephen sent you a message: "Good evening Jane" (Thursday at 9:20am) Stephen winked at you (2nd Feb at 3:13am)

PULLINYATIT, 46 from Dunedin, Otago

I'm a nice single guy that's been celibate too long. My job lets me play during the day if that suits you? I am also interested in finding a partner, to view on nzd I am bestiehunting.

RHYS, 23 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Rhys has yet to add his profile. Ask Rhys for more info.

FOREPLAYS, 29 from Auckland, Auckland

I will start by holding you close so that i can feel your soft body touching, then i will start kissing on your soft neck while moving my hands on your soft body, then i will start teasing and more..... Love exploring soft body using oil (relaxing massage).... I am into casual fun, threesomes, couple swapping, role plays.....

RAGNAAR, 37 from Queenstown, Otago

I am an outgoing adventurous individual that loves a challenge. Fitness, love life and here for nothing but NSA ; hot nasty fun.... I have a large sexual appetite with tons of endurance... are you up for it? then join me?

CARLOS, 41 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

From Barcelona traveling through NZ. I like to have fun as you. Normal body, stong arms, big tongue. As I don't know many people your ID is guaranteed. Cheers...

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