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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Naughty adult encounters in Southland

Just some fun in the bedroom (or wherever you like it). That's what we want to find for you. We know not everyone wants a relationship, but pretty much everyone wants a good time in bed. My Bed or Yours matches you up with people in Southland who are just looking for bedroom playmates. You both get to enjoy yourselves without worrying about the "where is this going" question.

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CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

Cable winked at you (Friday at 2:15am) Cable sent you a message: "peeking" (26th Mar at 12:38am) Cable winked at you (26th Mar at 12:37am) Cable winked at you (14th Mar at 5:16am) Cable sent you a message: "peeking" (12th Mar at 12:12am)

NEAL, 34 from Mount Wellington, Auckland

Neal winked at you (Friday at 11:04am)

GREG, 60 from Southland

Outdoors guy enjoys diving boating fishing. Plays golf employed. Going through house sale to finite past relationship. Enjoy country rock blues Spanish guitar music. Keen gardener healthy and reasonably fit for my vintage.

PETER, 43 from Wiri, Auckland

Peter sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (10th Mar at 2:22am)

FAZ, 37 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Here for some fun I am convinced that your favourite Sesame Street character says a lot about your personality :D I enjoy spontaneous adventures and getting out of town when I can. Someone suggested I should give this a go, so here I am If you want to know more, I guess you will need to ask

TROY, 30 from Waitara, Taranaki

hi im a young fella and am an honest kiwi bloke with the heart of gold so message me if u want to know more. im a spray painter and a fireman in my spare time.

ANTHONY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I'm Anthony I'm 25 single,Looking for some fun

SAM, 36 from Southland

Just down to have some fun with some nice sexy females :) Live by my self if that helps.

MANDY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I am a lesbian xxxx

JON, 32 from Mount Albert, Auckland

Hi , in Auckland looking in this site . I love sport out going n friendly . hook me up later.

MADDY, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Maddy sent you a message: "hey hun" (yesterday at 1:16am) Maddy sent you a message: "Hi" (Monday at 1:16am) Maddy winked at you (26th Mar at 2:05am) Maddy sent you a message: "looking for some fun tonight ?" (26th Mar at 12:09am) Maddy sent you a message: "Interested in Fun" (25th Mar at 12:55am)

RICO, 35 from Southland

Rico winked at you (13th Mar at 12:51am)

BRIAN, 42 from Burnside, Canterbury

Brian sent you a message: "Hi" (26th Mar at 5:07am)

ALAN, 44 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (yesterday at 1:36am) Alan sent you a message: "Mmm" (yesterday at 1:33am) Alan winked at you (Friday at 2:16am) Alan winked at you (Wednesday at 2:42am) Alan sent you a message: "Limited" (Wednesday at 2:42am)

ANDREW, 46 from Southland

Happily married but sex isn't part of the equation any more. I really do like sex so if anyone is willing to enjoy a good time I'm keen. I enjoy webcam/phone sex as well.

JIMBRUCE, 44 from Southland

Jimbruce winked at you (yesterday at 9:03pm) Jimbruce sent you a message: "profile" (yesterday at 1:05am) Jimbruce winked at you (yesterday at 1:04am)

KEN, 61 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Ok a little bit about what I'm looking for. I love experimenting in the bedroom and other places too. In fact the more sex the better as far as I'm concerned... any time, any place, any where. If you fancy a tumble then get in touch and let's hook up for some hot, horny, passionate fun. I am looking for NSA casual fun. Must be discrete.

ROGER, 62 from Grafton, Auckland

Roger sent you a message: "What can i do?" (Wednesday at 2:03am)

CRA, 52 from Southland

I'm looking for someone to be a bit naughty with....a discrete, long term, no strings attached encounter...online or through the net.

HM, 26 from Auckland, Auckland

Sugar and spice.....

Single guy or girl in Southland looking for some no strings fun or possibly an open minded couple looking to expand their horizons?

My Bed or Yours is an adult contacts service for people of all shapes, sizes and backgrounds looking for some discreet sexual encounters. Cast aside your misconceptions about your average adult contacts site member. Believe it or not, most of our members are not sad, lonely, bald, fat guys although we have a few or those if that's what takes your fancy. The majority of our members are the average guy or girl next door who just enjoy sex and need a quick, convenient way of satisfying their sexual needs without getting into a long, complicated relationship or hiring the services of a 'professional'.

  • Professional singles who don't have time for a serious relationship
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Whatever type of people make your horny, we can help you find them. Our advanced search lets you cut to the chase and just show you the members you are interested in: couples, older, younger, larger, smaller, in Southland.

Once you've found the people you'd like to meet you can send them a private message or a wink to let them know you're interested. All our advanced features are also available in our mobile app as well so you can browse from the privacy of your own phone.

Come on, hop in, everyone’s welcome. Straight, bi, gay just curious. Our exclusively adult dating site adds of new members regularly so there’s always a fresh face (or something else) for you to check out. If this is your first time trying out adult dating, don’t worry. There’s a FREE account so you can see what we have to offer. That’s free as in, you don’t need a credit card. Members can message online and exchange pictures before arranging to meet. We’re sure that as soon as you sign up you’ll be able to start discovering other horny people around you.

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