Browse our members in Southland
The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.
Local sex contacts Southland
Welcome to a huge source of genuine New Zealand adult contacts, a place where open minded adults meet for casual encounters, share naughty photos and stories or engage in adult online chat. A place where there are no limits, where you are free to express your naughtiest desires and deepest sexual fantasies.
Meet for sex Southland
We all fantasise about meeting strangers for some no strings sex, no commitment, no complications. Well, here at My Bed or Yours we connect many users a month looking for exactly that. Look for horny guys and girls in Southland safely and meet securely online either via our secure website or new, dedicated mobile application.
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Updated profiles
John winked at you (yesterday at 1:19am)
Hi, Well here is a young man trapped in an old but fit body. FACTS Just looking for 1 lady to have some fun with, Yes I am married so would be great if you were I have to hang ups Can be very discreet We all have our needs PLUS you are only here once
Cable sent you a message: "peeking" (Sunday at 12:38am) Cable winked at you (Sunday at 12:37am) Cable winked at you (14th Mar at 5:16am) Cable sent you a message: "peeking" (12th Mar at 12:12am) Cable sent you a message: "HI" (12th Mar at 12:08am)
Jonathan sent you a message: "." (3rd Mar at 12:25am)
Hey im just looking for fun nights, nothing serious. Im sure there is some cute girls out there that just want to have some fun. So whos up for it?
Ray added you as a Favourite (yesterday at 10:46am) Ray sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Friday at 9:11am) Ray added you as a Favourite (Friday at 12:05am)
Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (19th Apr at 1:33am)
I'm a workaholic who has a good sense of humor and needing some nsa fun to relieve the stresses of work.
Im looking for casual flings, good sex with no strings, getting hornier as I get older.... I love making women come.
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Cool sent you a message: "Jane" (15th Mar at 7:11am)
Polyamorous, bisexual and in a long term relationship. Looking for casual sex with women only
Dan winked at you (yesterday at 2:07am)
Updated - in TGA looking for girls and couples keen for a good time with no strings, no expectations and no rules. I love trying new things, ticking off fantasies, will try anything twice and love making women cum. As it gets warmer, I'd love to have some outdoor adventures and I have a fuck buddy who lives in Auckland who I play with time to time who's blonde, hot, curvy, loves to suck and fuck cock and pussy and will do my bidding... Did I mention she's only 24? Anyways, She is definitely not compulsory - just an option that you can add to our party if that's what turns you on. If you like what you've read, and seen, want to have a great time then get in touch and let's hook up for some hot, horny, passionate fun.
Leila sent you a message: "Im looking for a love. Someone..." (Wednesday at 2:25am)
Naked sent you a message: "I'm Tony" (yesterday at 2:58am) Naked winked at you (yesterday at 2:01am) Naked winked at you (15th Mar at 6:42am) Naked winked at you (9th Mar at 11:00pm) Naked winked at you (8th Mar at 12:58pm)
Vee has yet to add his profile. Ask Vee for more info.
Tommy has edited his profile and it is pending approval.
I wanna smear you in green paint and spank you like a disobedient avocado. looking to meet some cool genuine as straight chickys for some nsa boozy nites and discreet Goodtimes
Peter winked at you (22nd Mar at 12:14am)
Married members welcome
Introducing other people or couples into your sexual relationship is a great way to add some additional spice to a flagging sex-life. Many of our members are couples who enjoy partner swapping or swinging and MyBedOrYours is a great way to meet other people with the same outlook on life as yourself. Other members are married or in an un-fulfilling relationship and are looking for some discreet extra marital excitement or casual encounters, this is fine but we do ask our married members to be clear about their relationship status to avoid any confusion.
Curious of what's on offer, want to meet other couples and swingers? If you are, go and get one of our completely free accounts to try out My Bed for yourself. The only requirement is a working email address, no credit card or ID checks are needed.
Why should you join My Bed of Yours?
At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.
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We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.
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Your safety is our top priority. That's why we've invested in robust security measures to safeguard your data. There aren't any apps to download and install so your membership can remain private.
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