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BRENT, 48 from Hamilton, Waikato

Former elite athelete. Carrying a couple of extra kg. Ok looks? You can decide that. Time poor. Not wealthy. Need a lot more sex than I get at home. Love oral especially giving, but recieving too. Will try most things. Start out safe.

GAVIN, 47 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

Hi all just like inform that I am slim average and like give you all the jor you desire and sorry but unable to host.

ATELIER, 46 from Auckland, Auckland

Skip the small talk I love sex so holler

BOB, 46 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Hi, I am looking for new adventures, knowing new landscapes, people, and tastes. My philosophy is that we have to provide our best for each other because our time for happiness is limited. I used to be a sportsman and still have some strengths. I am looking for an age appropriate relationship, but openness for experiments and kind personality are the most important factors. I am discrete, clean and reliable.

CHUCKY, 50 from Southland

Chucky winked at you (yesterday at 2:31am)

JAZZYPHAY, 25 from Southland

Jazzyphay has yet to add her profile.

DAVE, 51 from Southland

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (yesterday at 1:44am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (Sunday at 1:50am)

PAULO, 70 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Paulo sent you a message: "Jane," (yesterday at 5:49am)

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (yesterday at 1:50am)

SHANE, 44 from Southland

Shane winked at you (yesterday at 2:41am) Shane winked at you (Monday at 1:06am)

GLEN, 72 from Papakura, Auckland

Glen has yet to add his profile. Ask Glen for more info.

ELLEN, 58 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

I like to ride my motorbike, fly my drone, swimming and walking. I like having dinners out and the occasional movie.

PAM, 48 from Botany Downs, Auckland

New to bdsm and looking for the right dom to help me explore

QUERCUS, 52 from Dunedin, Otago

I'm a travelling outdoor guide, and all this fresh air and travelling in our beautiful country makes me bursting with vitalitly and lust. I'd like some stimulating female company, share a drink or a meal together, and have a nice chat. If there's a spark, we could retreat to my hotel, or your place, for cuddles and.... .sex. I'm a Leo: I like to be loved and love in return . I respect women and I'm gentle. I have a good appetite for sex, nothing kinky. I'm not interested in a relationship, but if we have a good time - we could perhaps meet again?

SHELBY, 39 from Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui

Looking for a long term, regular fuck buddy on these cold nights, need to have sex regularly! Must be SINGLE..if you are unhappy in your marriage leave.

SANDRA, 20 from Southland

I don't know why I'm here, well I guess I do.. He doesn't love me anymore does he? I know he cheated \u0026 right under my nose, now he thinks he can get away with it and it's all water under the bridge... You can forgive but not forget.

TJUWANA, 39 from Hamilton, Waikato

Tjuwana has yet to add her profile.

MIKE, 39 from Southland

Keen for fun times with fun people. tease me with your sexy knickers

THOMAS, 37 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Thomas winked at you (Saturday at 7:43am) Thomas winked at you (23rd Apr at 2:54am) Thomas winked at you (19th Apr at 1:45am)

CALLUM, 46 from Southland

Callum has yet to add his profile. Ask Callum for more info.

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