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Meet for sex Southland

We all fantasise about meeting strangers for some no strings sex, no commitment, no complications. Well, here at My Bed or Yours we connect many users a month looking for exactly that. Look for horny guys and girls in Southland safely and meet securely online either via our secure website or new, dedicated mobile application.

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KAU, 54 from Christchurch, Canterbury

life is short , having fun and see where it leads us , I give anything a go , dont be shy drop a line , never know wat tomorow will bring us , live today , not in the past , kool kool

JUSTME, 38 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Justme has yet to add his profile. Ask Justme for more info.

JIMBRUCE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Jimbruce sent you a message: "Hey" (yesterday at 1:11am) Jimbruce winked at you (Thursday at 1:20am) Jimbruce winked at you (Wednesday at 1:31am) Jimbruce winked at you (Tuesday at 1:03am) Jimbruce winked at you (29th Apr at 1:17am)

HARRY, 63 from Hamilton, Waikato

Harry winked at you (19th Mar at 2:32am)

ZAK, 37 from Nelson, Nelson

Enjoying life, busy, I get to the gym at 5 times a week. Also enjoy mountainbiking

PREET, 27 from Auckland, Auckland

Preet has yet to add his profile. Ask Preet for more info.

BENJI, 46 from Mount Maunganui, Bay Of Plenty

Hello looking for some fun n hopefully a connection I'm 5.8 brown bald n cut ...I work at OREGON ...I'm single n ready to play

CHELSEA, 35 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi people. I am an open minded girl and life is short so I am hoping to have some extra fun. Feel the need for some adventure and enjoy a good fucking. Too many favourite positions to list....

BABY, 30 from Nelson, Nelson

Lady in the streets and a freak in the bed

HARLEYMAN, 61 from Cromwell, Otago

I'm looking for a discreet/NSA get together. I like a lot of foreplay and to go slowly. If you are looking for the same then let's chat.

JELTE, 39 from Southland

Jelte has yet to add his profile. Ask Jelte for more info.

ROBBIE, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Robbie sent you a message: "." (27th Mar at 3:16am) Robbie sent you a message: "." (18th Mar at 9:22am)

ANDRE, 50 from Glen Eden, Auckland

Andre sent you a message: "???" (4th Apr at 9:15am)

HONE, 28 from Belmont, Auckland

Let's see what happens

GLENN, 40 from Auckland, Auckland

Hi, I am after some discrete intimacy with a like-minded woman - preferrably married. My wife lost interest in sex after kids came along, but I still have the sex drive I had in my 20's. Ha! I just had a look at the list of 'interests' and didn't even know what most of them were! There is so much I would like to try and be taught...are you up for teaching me?? I am fit and athletic, go to the gym regularly, healthy, clean and completely drug/smokefree. Drop me a message and I will get back to you. I often travel out of Auckland so distance isn't really a problem. Thanks, Glenn xx

JESS, 23 from Southland

Chunky girl need fun :-)

MICHAEL, 51 from Southland

Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (2nd Apr at 8:22pm) Michael winked at you (2nd Apr at 8:22pm)

THOMAS, 37 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Thomas winked at you (6th May at 7:43am) Thomas winked at you (23rd Apr at 2:54am) Thomas winked at you (19th Apr at 1:45am)

HAWNYAZZ, 25 from Auckland, Auckland

I'm here for some fun;)..cute polynesian guy lol holla if ur in the Auckland area...

ERIN, 42 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Ask and I might tell. Looking for very mature male, male/female to have discreet fun with. Would prefer over 70. I want to be pampered. Keen interest in massage...mainly receiving Im not looking for a life long committment but will consider a permanent long term play couple/thing . Married but lacking the most important aspect of human nature....touch

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