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ROGER, 63 from Albany, Auckland

Roger added you as a Favourite (3rd Apr at 10:10am) Roger sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (2nd Apr at 8:02am) Roger sent you a message: "What can i do?" (29th Mar at 2:03am)

BAZ, 57 from Levin, Manawatu-Wanganui

looking for a nice lover. At the library at lunch times working on research

CHRIS, 38 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Looking for fun. Confident in everything I do. Looking for a lady who knows what she wants. I'm happy to provide...

CHARLIE, 48 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Just having a browse seeing who,whats out there looking for sexy playtimes with woman who have a kinky side that likes to come out and play now and then,, or have you a desire of the kink you would like to chat about,experience.

ALEX, 20 from Auckland, Auckland

Alex winked at you (4th Jan at 1:21am)

CHOPPYAA, 55 from Southland

I am a big guy, 145kg, but I am also kind and considerate and looking for erotic fun. Looks are not important, it's the heart and the attitude that matters. I am looking to give and receive pleasure to a hot lady.

IAN, 49 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I am a single guy with my own place in Christchurch. I try to stay fit by biking. I also have a weekend hideaway cottage in Hanmer Springs! A nice fire and a wine after the hot pools is wonderful:-) cheers

PAULO, 69 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I am a 69-year-old male,I run my own business most of my working life. I have spent some time in China, mostly in Shanghai. My younger years, I was Nursing in South Australia. I like intellectual conversation, each with supporting argument and all with good humour. I am not a know it all, I am a man of my times, and hold that sometimes the ways of the past may be best. I like and use the new tech knowledge, and have a passion for things with wings that fly. I am here to find a woman that is nice to be with, that wants a regular relationship, with gentle meaningful sex and feelings, friends with benefits for each.

CHRIS, 29 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hi there looking for some fun As for anything else message me whoop whoop

COLIN, 68 from Nelson, Nelson

love to cuddle and kiss, stroke, oral, and of course, yes that too. any position.

IAN, 49 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Ian sent you a message: "hey there" (yesterday at 2:21am)

CAM, 44 from Auckland, Auckland

Cam sent you a message: "Hiya !!" (25th Dec '16 at 2:34am)

PAUL, 58 from Hei Hei, Canterbury

Encounters including naked fun, and enjoyment for both me and the woman.

GARETH, 30 from Rolleston, Canterbury

Gareth winked at you (3 minutes ago) Gareth winked at you (yesterday at 1:05am)

RYAN, 26 from Pakuranga, Auckland

Ryan winked at you (2nd Jan at 2:59am)

MICHAEL, 51 from Southland

Michael sent you a message: "hay sexy" (1st Jan at 7:42pm) Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (24th Dec '16 at 6:32pm) Michael winked at you (24th Dec '16 at 6:31pm) Michael sent you a message: "hay helo" (17th Dec '16 at 3:11am) Michael added you as a Favourite (17th Dec '16 at 3:11am)

CHRIS, 50 from Greenhithe, Auckland

Chris winked at you (4th Jan at 2:25am)

DON, 46 from Southland

i am ready real fun time !!

CAL, 46 from Southland

Cal winked at you (19th Dec '16 at 4:05am)

LUKE, 23 from Southland

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