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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Just some fun in the bedroom (or wherever you like it). That's what we want to find for you. We know not everyone wants a relationship, but pretty much everyone wants a good time in bed. My Bed or Yours matches you up with people in Southland who are just looking for bedroom playmates. You both get to enjoy yourselves without worrying about the "where is this going" question.

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JOHN, 67 from Taupo, Waikato

John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (Sunday at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (Sunday at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Role playing" (19th Jan at 2:22am)

PHILIP, 50 from Glen Eden, Auckland

Want to share passion with passion, pleasure with pleasure.

TONY, 36 from Kaiti, East Cape

Keen as to fk let's see what happens ;)

ASH, 22 from Wellington, Wellington

I'm looking for a dom :)

MATT, 25 from Southland

Looking for casual fun, NSA.

JOHNNY, 42 from Southland

Johnny sent you a message: "hey" (8th Apr at 2:35am)

MAC, 36 from Auckland, Auckland

Mac sent you a message: "Hey" (Friday at 1:15am) Mac winked at you (8th Jan at 1:18am)

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (21st Jan at 1:19am)

LOOKING, 33 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Looking sent you a message: "Obedient" (yesterday at 2:47am) Looking sent you a message: "Role" (yesterday at 2:11am)

MIKE, 43 from North Shore, Auckland

I love exploring every part of a women's body with my mouth and tongue.. I love to satisfy a women

STEVEN, 26 from Auckland, Auckland

I'll share with you if you share with me, all you gotta do is ask!

GARETH, 30 from Rolleston, Canterbury

Gareth winked at you (yesterday at 1:02am) Gareth winked at you (Thursday at 1:05am)

SAM, 40 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 1:38pm) Sam winked at you (yesterday at 1:37pm)

NICOLAS, 45 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Nicolas has yet to add his profile. Ask Nicolas for more info.

SHORTY, 39 from Southland

Shorty has yet to add his profile. Ask Shorty for more info.

STEVE, 49 from Katikati, Bay Of Plenty

Fit healthy guy looking for nights of pleasure am into giving but do not mind receiving either but not important as long as you enjoy encounter

MICHAEL, 31 from Auckland, Auckland

Looking for casual connection - from adventures in nature, to dancing, to cooking together, to passionate and affectionate sex and snuggles all the way to a wild fuck and fetishes. I love to connect, learn, grow and have fun on all levels - innocent or not. Must be casual as I have many different things going on, businesses, hobbies, to running and building my travelers community. I'm a dreamer that is driven to achieve whats in my head - no mater how crazy or alternative they are. Embracing life and aiming to make the most and live it to the fullest.

CAM, 44 from Southland

Single , professional, funny , confident and adventurous. New to this scene and willing to meet like minded people. Keen to chat and play , always up for a good time and a laugh . Although not seeking a relationship straight away , would love to meet the right gal .

SHORTY, 39 from Weymouth, Auckland

Hi there I'm 6ft tall male of Maori decent , like the ladies im here for fun I like most thing social drinker/smoker not looking for anything serious I enjoy the company of funny confident mature ladies. I love sex especially when you've been satisfied I enjoy the outdoor sex the thought of been caught is exciting love giving oral.

KEV, 60 from Manaroa, Marlborough

Sporty fitish guy lol Great sense of humour I know my way around a lady :p

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