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ROSEMARY, 62 from Southland

I'm simply a jeans and t.shirt / fly by the seat of my pants lady. I smoke cigarettes but not weed. I walk but not run. I like Energy Drink but don't mind alcohol. I play piano but not professionally. I like Trip/rap (new age) but not 50' stuff. I like Sushi/raw fish but not cooked. I'm retired from my kitchen but not from Fast Food or Restaraunts. My Health is good but not Excellent or perfect. I'm sometimes shy but sometimes not. I've run out of things to say but you can always ask me..

ASHA, 30 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Asha has yet to add her profile.

STEVE, 55 from Paraparaumu Beach, Wellington

Steve winked at you (10th Apr at 10:12am)

ANDREW, 40 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

loyal discreet and willing to please! What is your pleasure?

JON, 32 from Mount Albert, Auckland

Hi , in Auckland looking in this site . I love sport out going n friendly . hook me up later.

AALIYAH, 41 from Point England, Auckland

I'm not really a nawty gurl, who am I kidding lol...... I'm a little particular head to toe, dressed to impress

GEMMA, 35 from Southland

I'm a training submissive. I love to please and be pleased. Come and show me what you'very got

TONI, 50 from North Shore, Auckland

Looking for hot...steamy....naughty....intimate love making....I am still living with my ex partner....separated and look for great laughs....great sex and a possible new start. Guys between 35 to 55 who are proffessional as I am and good looking....I do not need moody....intense and totally serious men appling as I am positive, hard working and have been told great in the sack and very good looking....don't be shy...see where it takes us

JEN, 32 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Just a bit of fun...

CHARLENE, 57 from Whangaparaoa, Auckland

Fun and extremely always horny

JACQUILINE, 57 from Mount Victoria, Wellington

Jacquiline has yet to add her profile.

FMTRANS, 25 from Southland

I am female to male transsexual Born a female but take testosterone so I look like a guy However I still have a pussy Loved being fucked like I am a girl Wanting to meet for one off or regular no string attached Thing Wanting to play with someone who is willing to wear blindfold (as I don't want to show face) Would prefer if you are able to host and that you live alone, otherwise I can host at selected times In the Greenlane area Love all age men shapes and sizes so definitely send me a message if interested, but do prefer if you have a larger penis

MISTY, 45 from Spreydon, Canterbury

Kinky trans girl looking for fun with guys and girls

CRAGITY, 47 from Methven, Canterbury

I'm a down to earth farmer Clean living and intelligent. I have a nice home and nice truck. I just don't get the opotunity to meet many Women!!

NICELADY, 51 from Southland

Not interested in married men looking for a fuck buddy

FUDGEME, 38 from Southland

I have full time work an bizi most days. but I love 2 fuck an suck cock . Love my clitorious being licked . The thicker th cock th better.

JILLIAN, 51 from Southland

Kind...gentle...warm...can be a rough diamond at times ..seeking a friend someone to spend time with, laugh enjoy the moment. .

ANTHONY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I'm Anthony I'm 25 single,Looking for some fun

LINDA, 54 from North Shore, Auckland

Hi, I'm quite shy to start with..... I guess I'm curious hence why I'm on here. I'm 5ft, blue eyes with blonde curly hair, and a cuddly mature body. * I love receiving oral* I'm not looking for quantity....if the chemistry is there.......it's quality with one person. I live on the shore, so prefer that you live close by. I am not interested if you're under 45yrs or married/in a relationship. Please respect my wishes in this area by not contacting me.

MATHILDA, 48 from Takanini, Auckland

Mathilda has yet to add her profile.

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