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ANDY, 49 from Southland

Andy winked at you (16th Dec at 10:11pm)

MICHAEL, 51 from Southland

Michael winked at you (Sunday at 8:58pm) Michael winked at you (13th Apr at 7:26pm) Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (2nd Apr at 8:22pm) Michael winked at you (2nd Apr at 8:22pm)

MIKE, 43 from North Shore, Auckland

I love exploring every part of a women's body with my mouth and tongue.. :)

DANIELLE, 25 from Grafton, Auckland

I'm looking for someone who will be spontaneous but who would also enjoy staying at home and watching supernatural, once upon a time, big bang theory, or game of thrones. I love being dominated and on the occasion I do enjoy sex out doors but mostly i like to be bent over and fucked hard .

ROBIN, 43 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Robin has yet to add his profile. Ask Robin for more info.

CHERRYMAY, 25 from Burnside, Canterbury

I like no commitments, no drama and no holding back! At the weekend you would find me outdoors or surrounded by concert jungle with a cold beer and some chilled tunes.

JIM, 55 from Southland

Jim winked at you (Monday at 9:47pm)

ANNA, 34 from Fitzroy, Taranaki

BBW in need of a good time

KELZ, 50 from Hamilton, Waikato

Kelz has yet to add her profile.

BIGFUN, 44 from Auckland, Auckland

Fit, fun, sexy, professional, discreet, respectful male with a Scottish accent, an open mind and a penchant for pleasing ladies. Well endowed,excellent at licking pussy and also capable of an intelligent conversation and having a laugh too :-)

CR, 45 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

SensationalPleasures Looking for NSA fun Life is an adventure

ANTHONY, 56 from Otahuhu, Auckland

Hi there my most favourite thing to do is giving oral I love it and to please a women.to let her do what she wants to me.Im up to trying anything.I want to meet a sexy women who loves that sort of man are you out there.If you are Im ready for you don't be shy I love all races favourites are Asians But it really doesn't matter to me I just love to please a women no matter what race.

LLOYD, 53 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Fit strong and healthy...looking for friend to share personal space and pleasures...

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (13th Apr at 1:13am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (13th Apr at 1:08am)

LETMETRY, 30 from Southland

I get turned on by the reaction to my touch, this is why I quite enjoy giving oral. Being sentual and being in the moment. And who doesnt like to cuddle. Ideally would like to find a regular friend with benefits. Someone that understands when we were together were 'together' and when were not, were not. Im not looking for someone to be my other half, but maybe i could be your bit on the side. Im the laid back type. I dont want drama and im not one to cause it. If you fulfill my desires, theres no reason why i wont fulfill yours.

BOB, 44 from Grafton, Auckland

Bob sent you a message: "hows jane going?" (yesterday at 2:00am) Bob winked at you (Saturday at 2:36am) Bob winked at you (17th Dec at 2:50am)

SPERMLOVER, 20 from Thames, Waikato

Hey Guys, I'm sorry to say but I have a little fetish that after a guy cums I have to keep sucking him off .... I love to see them shake

PETER, 46 from Southland

I'm looking for no strings attached fun , discreet and safe. I'm clean 6'2 healthy and very loving with a good job . I could make you squirt if that's what you like , love giving massage and to spoil you with my tongue till you explode in my mouth . Let's chat and see. Lest have some fun ladies

TEAWHI, 21 from Southland

Teawhi has yet to add his profile. Ask Teawhi for more info.

REBEKAH, 22 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Bisexual bondage freak Love oral. Nothing makes me wetter than having a girl sit on my face, gagging on a nice fat dick or getting my pussy and ass licked. I am switch depending on the chemistry, though I love dominating guys I also love to be challenged. For the sub guys, I have a strap on and I know how to use it. Come to me in handcuffs and prepare to leave sore, satisfied and covered in my golden shower nectar. This takes a bit of trust for me to go full submissive but when I do I go DEEP. The only time I've ever had multiple orgasms is tied up. I am very tight so a long teasing session to get me dripping and stretched before a rough pounding is amazing Also looking for bisexual encounters. Will submit very easy to woman. Love it. Love it love it love it I am currently submitting in an open relationship to my Mistress who is a goddess and hot as fuck. We are open and honest and she provides me with all I need. I'm looking for some X factor. I have a massive sex drive and an overblown imagination Guys, don't open with "what's your number" or "let's meet up for some kinky hot sex" ffs guys get creative. I am turned on by mental stimulation and engaging the grey matter. I am a dirty bitch,but I'm also insulted if you think I'm easy. Looking for online only at the moment but not ruling out more in the future Message me for more

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