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Just some fun in the bedroom (or wherever you like it). That's what we want to find for you. We know not everyone wants a relationship, but pretty much everyone wants a good time in bed. My Bed or Yours matches you up with people in Southland who are just looking for bedroom playmates. You both get to enjoy yourselves without worrying about the "where is this going" question.

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MOKA, 64 from Balmoral, Auckland

Have fun and no attach and love sex..

SURF, 41 from Southland

Surf winked at you (12th Apr at 11:19am)

PAUL, 58 from Southland

Paul winked at you (24 minutes ago) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)

MAX, 58 from Albany, Auckland

Max winked at you (25th Mar at 6:47pm)

WILL, 46 from Southland

Will winked at you (24th Feb at 1:16am) Will sent you a message: "Hey" (24th Feb at 1:09am)

BAZZA, 46 from Southland

Bazza has yet to add his profile. Ask Bazza for more info.

SAM, 29 from Glenfield, Auckland

Sam winked at you (22nd Mar at 12:06am)

JON, 50 from Glenfield, Auckland

Jon winked at you (yesterday at 3:42am)

LA, 23 from Southland

I'm a pretty nice person I guess. I have rules.. No seriousness, phychopaths, narcissists' or sociopaths who befriend their just as lit ex's please (: No flowers, forehead kisses, chocolates, cake, gifts of any sort or sitting outside my house being creepy, and minimal conversing would be much appreciated I just want the D, regularly, and then left alone would be good.. I have a type. I recently strayed from that it didn't work out so I probably won't be doing that again. Don't be offended if I don't reply.

MAINLINER, 32 from Auckland, Auckland

Mainliner has yet to add his profile. Ask Mainliner for more info.

CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

Cable winked at you (Tuesday at 3:12am) Cable sent you a message: "xx" (Sunday at 2:22am) Cable winked at you (Friday at 4:51am) Cable sent you a message: "sorry" (Friday at 1:53am) Cable winked at you (Friday at 1:51am)

ROSEROYCE, 37 from Dunedin, Otago

I'm here have my fantasies explored and some of them fulfilled. I'm interested in exploring bondage; constraint, domination, submission. Entry level SM, if you will. And I think I want a try at playing both roles.

PETYE, 66 from Southland

Petye has yet to add her profile.

FILLMEUP, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

looking to be stretched and filled by a big cock, nsa fun

GEORGE, 46 from Southland

George sent you a message: "send me your email Jane" (yesterday at 7:59am) George sent you a message: "Hi Hun" (yesterday at 6:23am) George sent you a message: "In Auckland" (Sunday at 7:36pm) George sent you a message: "Do you get wet Jane?" (Sunday at 2:17am) George sent you a message: "HI Jane" (Saturday at 1:11am)

SUNSHINEGAL, 41 from Wellington, Wellington

im a spicy girl who knows how to satisfy her man.id like to rub my body up and down yours and get some hot action going on.... NSA... I like to dress up, and like a man who knows how to look after a lady's needs while she takes cares of his.

MASE, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Big cock, dtf, nsa, discreet,

MASTEROF, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Masterof sent you a message: "." (yesterday at 2:09am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (24th Feb at 1:11am)

FRASER, 31 from Christchurch, Canterbury

NSA or just hang out not fussed no drama

FILLMEUP, 24 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Fillmeup has yet to add her profile.

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