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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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SMACKNDABOX, 33 from Nelson, Nelson

I wanna smear you in green paint and spank you like a disobedient avocado. looking to meet some cool genuine as straight chickys for some nsa boozy nites and discreet Goodtimes

LEILA, 24 from Grafton, Auckland

Leila sent you a message: "Im looking for a love. Someone..." (Wednesday at 2:25am)

CROSBYP, 44 from Melville, Auckland

Crosbyp winked at you (yesterday at 1:30am) Crosbyp sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 1:29am) Crosbyp winked at you (Saturday at 8:35am)

GRANT, 29 from Hawera, Taranaki

Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. I am ooking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.

COOL, 53 from Auckland, Auckland

Cool sent you a message: "Jane" (15th Mar at 7:11am)

DAN, 37 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

Dan winked at you (yesterday at 2:07am)

TOMMY, 55 from Auckland, Auckland

Tommy has edited his profile and it is pending approval.

ED, 43 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Updated - in TGA looking for girls and couples keen for a good time with no strings, no expectations and no rules. I love trying new things, ticking off fantasies, will try anything twice and love making women cum. As it gets warmer, I'd love to have some outdoor adventures and I have a fuck buddy who lives in Auckland who I play with time to time who's blonde, hot, curvy, loves to suck and fuck cock and pussy and will do my bidding... Did I mention she's only 24? Anyways, She is definitely not compulsory - just an option that you can add to our party if that's what turns you on. If you like what you've read, and seen, want to have a great time then get in touch and let's hook up for some hot, horny, passionate fun.

DOLLY, 26 from Auckland, Auckland

Dolly has yet to add her profile.

RAY, 67 from Masterton, Wellington

Ray added you as a Favourite (yesterday at 10:46am) Ray sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Friday at 9:11am) Ray added you as a Favourite (Friday at 12:05am)

DANNYBOY, 40 from Grafton, Auckland

Im looking for casual flings, good sex with no strings, getting hornier as I get older.... I love making women come.

RY, 31 from Auckland, Auckland

Ry has yet to add his profile. Ask Ry for more info.

BERT, 50 from Southland

Bert winked at you (4th May at 9:46am) Bert sent you a message: "Role playing" (16th Apr at 6:30am)

RODGER, 61 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

One night stands. I like singing, dancing and having a good time. If you are interested message me.

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked winked at you (15th Mar at 6:42am) Naked winked at you (9th Mar at 11:00pm) Naked winked at you (8th Mar at 12:58pm)

VEE, 33 from Botany Downs, Auckland

Vee has yet to add his profile. Ask Vee for more info.

OPHELIA, 27 from Masterton, Wellington

Polyamorous, bisexual and in a long term relationship. Looking for casual sex with women only

STEVE, 62 from Blockhouse Bay, Auckland

Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (yesterday at 8:41pm) Steve winked at you (yesterday at 9:47am) Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (yesterday at 9:21am)

JONATHAN, 40 from North Shore, Auckland

Jonathan sent you a message: "." (3rd Mar at 12:25am)

MATT, 25 from Southland

Kia ora, into music and surfing. I'm a builder and love it.

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Where most of our competitors fail is in trying to trick their members with fake profiles, or not taking enough care of their customers' security and privacy. They usually then skimp on the whole concept of customer service, making a toxic mix that drives them straight back out of business. That's not how we do things.

We don't make sample profiles. Instead, every single person registered on My Bed or Yours is a real person, just like you. They've come here with the same agenda as you: to have fun. They might be just wanting to flirt at first, but everyone here is looking for someone to meet up with, or spend time online with. When everyone's here for the same reason, there's no stopping the party.

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At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.

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