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MIKE, 50 from Kaiti, East Cape

Love eating pussy

BIGUN, 61 from Southland

Im of average build. Enjoy most things. Im looking for a discreet get together, NSA. I love to sit out under the stars by the sea, lake or river. Into the outdoors. Enjoy music, reading or just chilling out. Also like to get out and go for motorcycle rides.

ASHERS, 34 from Tuakau, Waikato

Here for a good time

DAVE, 51 from Southland

Dave winked at you (15th Feb at 1:28am)

ALEX, 67 from Auckland, Auckland

Alex winked at you (yesterday at 10:37am)

ANDREW, 42 from Hamilton, Waikato

Life about having fun which I love to do meeting new people with no strings attached like to chat so send me a message

MEIMEI, 23 from Southland

Meimei has yet to add her profile.

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (19th Feb at 2:56am) Michael winked at you (11th Feb at 8:01pm) Michael sent you a message: "u horney" (10th Feb at 12:16pm) Michael sent you a message: "u like" (2nd Feb at 1:39am) Michael winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:39am)

RIKKI, 21 from Atiamuri, Waikato

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JONATHAN, 39 from North Shore, Auckland

Jonathan winked at you (Thursday at 2:48am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Ello!" (21st Feb at 4:20am) Jonathan winked at you (21st Feb at 4:20am) Jonathan sent you a message: "." (17th Feb at 4:26am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Yip" (3rd Feb at 1:23am)

STEVE, 54 from Silverdale, Auckland

Steve winked at you (yesterday at 1:38am) Steve winked at you (Wednesday at 1:18am) Steve sent you a message: "I hope you can imagine this. A..." (15th Feb at 6:59am) Steve winked at you (15th Feb at 6:58am) Steve winked at you (13th Feb at 4:14am)

MICHAEL, 81 from Southland

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STEPHEN, 64 from Papakura, Auckland

Stephen sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Friday at 11:45am) Stephen sent you a message: "Hello Jane" (7th Apr at 10:46am)

INDY, 35 from Hamilton, Waikato

No strings attached simple fuck n days it

GREG, 37 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Greg winked at you (12th Apr at 1:16am)

INDY, 35 from Hamilton, Waikato

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WILLIE, 66 from Mornington, Otago

Well, here I am attempting to describe my self, my needs and desires. I am a happy well adjusted person who loves life but is showing the signs of age--my knees.. I have been on my own for over 10 years after my marriage ended. I have dated a few ladies but I have not been to bed with any of them. That was not my idea of where things should have gone but that was how it was. I think I am a sexy man and I do have a very good sex drive, so I am hoping to meet a lady or two on this site who is keen to have sex with an older man. I certainly hope so. I also want to do my very best to satisfy the lady's wildest fantasies.

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George winked at you (yesterday at 1:07am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 12:44am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Saturday at 6:47pm) George winked at you (Wednesday at 1:57am) George winked at you (21st Feb at 1:05am)

HARRY, 25 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Harry sent you a message: "Hey jane" (yesterday at 8:08am) Harry winked at you (yesterday at 8:08am) Harry winked at you (16th Feb at 2:42am) Harry added you as a Favourite (12th Feb at 1:38am) Harry winked at you (12th Feb at 1:38am)

BOB, 45 from Grafton, Auckland

Bob sent you a message: "Chatting?" (20th Feb at 1:06am) Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (17th Feb at 1:18am) Bob winked at you (13th Feb at 1:46am) Bob sent you a message: "Going to talk to me?" (9th Feb at 2:17am) Bob winked at you (4th Feb at 1:58am)

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