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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Welcome to a huge source of genuine New Zealand adult contacts, a place where open minded adults meet for casual encounters, share naughty photos and stories or engage in adult online chat. A place where there are no limits, where you are free to express your naughtiest desires and deepest sexual fantasies.

Meet for sex Southland

We all fantasise about meeting strangers for some no strings sex, no commitment, no complications. Well, here at My Bed or Yours we connect many users a month looking for exactly that. Look for horny guys and girls in Southland safely and meet securely online either via our secure website or new, dedicated mobile application.

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BRENDA, 58 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I am who I am. Honest, open and just me.

NYZAH, 25 from Tinwald, Canterbury

Nyzah has yet to add her profile.

THATGIRL, 35 from Paihia, Northland

Tom boy at heart but girly when need, hard working single mum not looking for anything serious, just some discreet fun.

JOSEPH, 46 from New Lynn, Auckland

I'm a workaholic who has a good sense of humor and needing some nsa fun to relieve the stresses of work.

LYNN, 64 from Eastern Beach, Auckland

I am loving and very sensual.. would love to find a man who knows how to stir a womans erotic senses, and realises, the brain, is the biggest sex organ.. I am willing to listen, and understand most things... i fantasise about having a man to share erotic experiences with me.. please, no cock pics... there are some things, i need to discover myself..Namaste'

CC, 31 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Hey im just looking for fun nights, nothing serious. Im sure there is some cute girls out there that just want to have some fun. So whos up for it?

BABE, 33 from Kairua, Bay Of Plenty

Babe has yet to add her profile.

ANN, 47 from Auckland, Auckland

Not keen on engaging with married or partnered men... plz don't msg me if u've got sum1 even if they're "part time"...

XTINA, 40 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Xtina winked at you (Sunday at 3:19pm) Xtina winked at you (25th Apr at 6:22pm)

XTINA, 40 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Xtina winked at you (yesterday at 3:19pm) Xtina winked at you (25th Apr at 6:22pm)

HOTBLONDEE, 33 from Southland

Hotblondee has yet to add her profile.

YENGPRESTON, 27 from Arch Hill, Auckland

Yengpreston has yet to add her profile.

NYZAH, 25 from Timaru, Canterbury

I'm located in Ashburton not Timaru. I am a mum of 1 who is 5 years old and loves with me. I tend to have every 2nd weekend off as she goes to her fathers. Just down for a good fuck, I'm all about the pleasure of it (works both ways)

KERRY, 65 from Stratford, Taranaki

Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (19th Apr at 1:33am)

AROHA, 46 from Southland

Fun down to earth .. non judgemental .. it is what it is

ROD, 62 from Takanini, Auckland

Hi, Well here is a young man trapped in an old but fit body. FACTS Just looking for 1 lady to have some fun with, Yes I am married so would be great if you were I have to hang ups Can be very discreet We all have our needs PLUS you are only here once

JOHN, 45 from Southland

John winked at you (yesterday at 1:19am)

SARAH, 43 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

43 yrs old with nice body size 10 looking for fun with young guys

XGRACEX, 22 from Southland

Live in Wanganui , 25 years old. Love to meet new people on this :)

NATASHA, 40 from Dunedin, Otago

40 Married, naughty, and horny, 153cm tall, 74kgs curvy big boobs. Love to go out riding my 250cc motor scooter when ever i can. Also love going out walking to keep fit.

Married members welcome

Introducing other people or couples into your sexual relationship is a great way to add some additional spice to a flagging sex-life. Many of our members are couples who enjoy partner swapping or swinging and MyBedOrYours is a great way to meet other people with the same outlook on life as yourself. Other members are married or in an un-fulfilling relationship and are looking for some discreet extra marital excitement or casual encounters, this is fine but we do ask our married members to be clear about their relationship status to avoid any confusion.

Curious of what's on offer, want to meet other couples and swingers? If you are, go and get one of our completely free accounts to try out My Bed for yourself. The only requirement is a working email address, no credit card or ID checks are needed.

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We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.

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