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BIGUN, 61 from Cromwell, Otago

Bigun winked at you (1st May at 1:09am)

SCARLET, 33 from Christchurch, Canterbury

A happily married woman who loves to have fun while husband watches or gets involved too

DOMINAE, 32 from Southland

Sexy, naturally dominant Mistress with fully equipped dungeon... Naughty boys read on I am a strong, confident Mistress with a strict yet sensual demeanor, long long legs and beautiful green 'wish-u-could-fuck-me-dont-u' eyes that will leave you captivated addicted. Convince me you can handle me then we can talk I offer a wide range of services everything from massage, tie tease (I also have a separate play bedroom) B D light medium or heavy, I have a lot of whips paddles, crops etc. In my dungeon I have a cross, stocks my favorite; chains that are wrapped around the rafters in my roof; they hold 100's of kilos!! I really enjoy slow seductive torture, especially when it leads to CBT, edging, anal play and strap-on wearing by me ;-) Mistress Dominae

JESSICA, 28 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Small, Blonde, Curvy!

VANESSA, 40 from Hamilton, Waikato

I'm a CD looking for hot guys/girls for fun. Feel free to msg me if you're interested.

CHEEKY, 41 from Hamilton, Waikato

I'm here to meet a clean, respectful sex buddy. We can service each others needs, have fun and enjoy sex. Not looking for a relationship but if you're cool and we click who knows. Really like a movie buddy too lol.

VIC, 27 from Hamilton, Waikato

Vic has yet to add her profile.

CHEEKY, 41 from Southland

I'm here to meet a clean, respectful sex buddy. We can service each others needs, have fun and enjoy sex and one another. Not looking for a relationship but if you're cool and we click who knows. I'm a big gal so be prepared for curvyliscious (not sure that's a real word but you know what i mean) Really like a movie buddy too lol.

SARAH, 39 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

Horny Married Horny Only play if husband is present tho he doesn't have to participate Love cock Message me IF you are from Wellington/Hutt Valley and want to cum mmmm

COOL, 53 from Auckland, Auckland

Cool sent you a message: "Jane" (11th Apr at 3:08am)

LI, 28 from Mount Maunganui, Bay Of Plenty

Looking for local fun, maybe someone who's willing to do a bit of role-playing. Leaving the country end of July, so nothing serious.

SHADE, 29 from Kawakawa, Northland

No Thanks to the creepo old white men that like to litter my inbox with weird dick pics. Straight up. Addicted to good sex with BBW friendly folk. Preferably in Northland.

NADES, 43 from Wakatu, Nelson

Out going. Funny. Independent. Looking for some fun.

PETER, 46 from Albany, Auckland

Peter sent you a message: "Ho" (18th Apr at 2:05am)

DOMINAE, 32 from Southland

I am a strong, confident Mistress with a strict yet sensual demeanor, long long legs and beautiful green 'wish-you-could-fuck-me-dont-you' eyes that will leave you captivated I offer everything from massage, tie tease (I also have a separate play bedroom) B D light medium or heavy, I have a lot of whips paddles, crops etc. In my dungeon I have a cross, stocks my favorite; chains that are wrapped around the rafters in my roof; they hold 100's of kilos!! I really enjoy slow seductive torture, especially when it leads to CBT, edging, anal play and strap-on wearing by me ;-) I have a fully equipped dungeon with everything from whips paddles to strap on's chains dangling from the rafters... I have a hot young girlfriend I may allow you to play with... I am open minded pride myself on not judging others....don't be shy, tell me your fantasies lets talk about making them become realities!!

RICHARD, 49 from Dannevirke, Hawke's Bay

Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Thursday at 1:52am) Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Wednesday at 8:29am) Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (29th Apr at 12:19am)

MSMEIBELLE, 28 from Hastings, Hawke's Bay

Employed and living in hawkes bay. Grew up on farm moved to city...ask if you want to know anything else :)

CURIOUS, 23 from Southland

Looking for a female to experience my bi side with my partner involved !:) if you have a female friend or partner i dont mind couples.. message me for a chat!:)

JEN, 40 from Mount Victoria, Wellington

Sunday is a free day for me

JIM, 55 from Pakuranga Heights, Auckland

Jim winked at you (1st May at 5:55pm) Jim winked at you (29th Apr at 6:35pm) Jim winked at you (24th Apr at 9:47pm)

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