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JON, 57 from Southland

Jon sent you a message: "Hi from Wellington" (Friday at 12:53pm)

DONNA, 48 from Hamilton, Waikato

Well what can i tell you ,i love to laugh im 6ft1 cuddley down to earth.i want a real hard man to have fun with..the rest of the news about me is a surprise mmmm

JASE, 41 from Hawera, Taranaki

Hey ya, im a super busy guy with work and a CF Box. Ready to share my passion for life with like minded sexy cougar that is happy, fun and Awesome! So if your free of drama and wanna chat or know more, please holla J

GRANT, 49 from Southland

Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs:Quirks: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. Looking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.

STEVE, 54 from Southland

Steve sent you a message: "Hi Janes." (Friday at 1:46am) Steve winked at you (Friday at 1:31am) Steve sent you a message: "Hi Jane." (Thursday at 1:09am) Steve sent you a message: "Hi jane" (Monday at 8:57pm) Steve winked at you (Monday at 8:56pm)

STACEY, 53 from Remuera, Auckland

I'm single. Great job. Got my life sorted - all except the intimate side. Prefer to chat for a little bit, if seems to be connection meet for a drink and if chemistry then move onto the next level of NSA fun. Prefer to build relationship with one person though / nit into different partners every night of the week. I guess in short a fun time with no expectations. I enjoy going to the gym, the beach, socialising, and spending time with nice and fun people.

STEVE, 43 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Slim and fit, interests inc swimming, astronomy, science, watching good movies. Recently separated. Have two kids boy 11 girl 8.

RICHARD, 59 from Wiri, Auckland

Hi. I am very easy going and discrete personality. Very easy to get on with. Love to Cuddle. Love to Please and pleasure You. I am Looking for Casual encounters and Adventure with ladies. 173cm tall medium slim Build (78Kg ) Ok Looks. Other Interests, Portrait - Discrete Nude Photography Etc. Looking for Ladies. Who would like Good quality photo of themselves for either person use or for adding to this site. (Free -- No Charge ) Semi Professional Nikon DSLR camera

JAMES, 68 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Jimmy, x military pilot,,airforce, navy,Vietnam vet,home lake edge lake rotoiti, 33ft launch on jetty,spa,sauna, cruising, fishing, nookie,o/nighting on launch remote bay bbqs,have some battle scars but on outside not inside!!! Successful businessman.

JAMES, 37 from Remuera, Auckland

hi great looking fun guy looking for adventure

DAVID, 30 from Auckland, Auckland

I'm an extremely well hung 26yo Always Hot Hard & horny

MARK, 51 from Orewa, Auckland

Landscape Gardener Interested in Ford cars,sports going out and having a good time. Meeting a beautiful lady and having amazing hot sex.

VINCENT, 38 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Just looking for women to have some quality time.

JIMBRUCE, 45 from Southland

Jimbruce winked at you (yesterday at 1:31am) Jimbruce winked at you (Tuesday at 1:03am) Jimbruce winked at you (29th Apr at 1:17am) Jimbruce winked at you (24th Apr at 1:23am) Jimbruce winked at you (23rd Apr at 1:17am)

CRAIG, 54 from Southland

Very kinky love bondage and cross dressing looking for what ever!!

CHRIS, 38 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Chris winked at you (22nd Jan at 8:58am) Chris sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (12th Jan at 2:04am)

CROSBYP, 44 from Melville, Auckland

Crosbyp winked at you (Saturday at 8:35am)

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael sent you a message: "u horney" (yesterday at 12:16pm) Michael sent you a message: "u like" (2nd Feb at 1:39am) Michael winked at you (2nd Feb at 1:39am)

JIM, 34 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I'm pretty calm, quiet but secretly I'm wicked... like to go the gym, but like my food way too much like to wine and dine, but like a good fuck (or several) Like to laugh, learn about people

INKANDIRON, 22 from Hamilton, Waikato

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