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Just some fun in the bedroom (or wherever you like it). That's what we want to find for you. We know not everyone wants a relationship, but pretty much everyone wants a good time in bed. My Bed or Yours matches you up with people in Southland who are just looking for bedroom playmates. You both get to enjoy yourselves without worrying about the "where is this going" question.

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BORIS, 45 from Southland

Half lrish Half Dutch 100 Kiwi

FRASER, 31 from Southland

NSA fun. Busy working and exercising after work.

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave winked at you (yesterday at 2:07am) Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (5th May at 2:59am)

JIM, 55 from Pakuranga Heights, Auckland

Jim winked at you (9th May at 1:13am) Jim winked at you (1st May at 5:55pm) Jim winked at you (29th Apr at 6:35pm) Jim winked at you (24th Apr at 9:47pm)

RUFOURMENOW, 62 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Rufourmenow winked at you (yesterday at 1:28am) Rufourmenow winked at you (14th Feb at 5:57pm)

ANTHONY, 62 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Anthony winked at you (yesterday at 1:58am)

ROSE, 35 from Panmure, Auckland

if you feed me food and wine ill feed you my pussy and behine :) lol i actually dont want my ass eaten it just had to rhyme hehe please be taller than me lol im 5'11 I'm looking for someone to fulfil my wildest fantasies and if you catch me in the right mood I might well help fulfil yours too. Drop me a line and let's arrange to get at it soon."

LAURA, 36 from Grafton, Auckland

I love to swim,go hurting ,i love fishing and sometimes i can ride a boat,i love to play on the beach with the sands and by the water side ....i love nature and gardens dont mind getting dirty to keep flowers sometimes i read books and watch tv listen to music ,but i dont drive I know I can't predict the future and how anything will turn out.. but I'm highly optimistic and expecting that sooner or later I'll meet the man of my destiny and it will all fall into place.. so I don't believe in forcing things to go my way!!

IRONMIKE, 44 from Southland

Ironmike has yet to add his profile. Ask Ironmike for more info.

CELTIC, 43 from Manakau, Auckland

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ASKME, 43 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

I am attractive and intelligent and have needs that are dying to be satisfied. I'm also open to looking at a more serious friendship if its a mutual attraction.

JACKIE, 31 from Lower Hutt, Wellington

Hey guys I loooove multiple orgasms, massages, squirting, quite vanilla to be honest, I don't mind older men for the experience, please don't be younger then me lol, I can host.

KELLY, 32 from Newmarket, Auckland

Fun and more fun :)

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "do you ever want to fuck me Ja..." (yesterday at 1:26am) George sent you a message: "Thanks Hun" (yesterday at 1:13am) George sent you a message: "Are you horny today Jane" (Tuesday at 1:27am) George winked at you (Tuesday at 1:25am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Monday at 1:14am)

WILL, 44 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Will sent you a message: "hey miss" (4th May at 1:03am)

LYLE, 52 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Hi, i'm an x dairy farmer, worked to many hours, now it's time to play. Single now looking for some fun. In good shape and ready to pleasure you. Would like to have sex outdoors, maybe hiking in the bush or over the sand dune, swimming at the beach always gets me horny.

UPURBUM, 43 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Tagline M4F+ - Northland Intro Ive been talking to ppl and reading lots not so much learning but being reminded of stuff and that it applies in this slightly different situation the 1st thing Ive been advised is that I should tone my shit down and talk about the weather b4 I tell U to bend ova ... well guess what ... I loathed doing this in the 'vanilla' world and really wanted to skip the hows your job going in the hook-up / swinger / kink / BDSM scene well I guess if U play the game ppl like u To start at the beginning ... especially the fairer sex ... so here goes ... Hi Im a nice guy no really ... I am a gentleman I usually bury all my dark desires in a rusty chest deep beneath the surface but more on that l8r ... A bit about Me Well everything and nothing is special about me. My 8 (eight) pack (abdominal muscles) is years gone. ( No really the times I have bothered developing a six pack stomach i have ended up with an extra 2!) At the moment I have a Relaxed Tummy ... but the Rest is quite yummy My best feature is my eyes which are grey, green, and brown with gold flecks (picture to come) If there is anything else you simply must know before meet me, ask. But understand some information will remain private even after I verify your identity and intent to play. I more concerned with who you are not than who you are. The who you are MIGHT come later. Please note in cyberspace I am a pan-sexual bizzy being polyamorous trisexual with the only 'no go sorry' being SCAT But iRL I am almost exclusively heterosexual...

ROSEROYCE, 37 from Southland

In to exploring bondage; constraint, domination, submission. In to wrestle fucks and role playing. I'm a small woman wanting a big sexy man to explore and fulfil some of my sexual fantasies. Looking for a man with a mature and kinky approach to sex to push boundaries and limitations in a safe environment.

BABU, 49 from Auckland, Auckland

Babu has yet to add his profile. Ask Babu for more info.

TONYGOLOP, 60 from Southland

Hi I'm tony 60 yr old who's had his own business for 18yrs.I have 3adult kids 1son and 2daughters.I was married 31yrs so I believe in loyalty.if s slimlarge boobed women can take the time to no me daily and in bed.then a major goal is achieved.I'm not difficult just misunderstood.I getting back into speedway with 2cars a 6shooter and a sprintcar.I gave my son one to start him into speedway which he is doing.so if you're out there knock on my door and hug me

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