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Adult dating is the ultimate way to meet other adults looking for no strings sex, casual affairs or even a regular fuck buddy. As a member of the most exclusive adult dating web site – MyBedOrYours you will enjoy full access to genuine New Zealand members looking for someone like you to fulfil their sexual desires.

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If you have ever tried a normal dating web site you will be familiar with how they work. My Bed or Yours is exactly the same. You search for members who meet your criteria or geographic location, check out their profile and if you like what you see you send them a message and take it from there. The major difference with My Bed or Yours is what the members are looking to get out of their experience. Our members do not want a serious relationship, many don't even want to see people more than once. Its simply an easy way to find other people looking for some mutually beneficial meet ups without the stresses or commitment of a serious relationship.

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SIMON, 48 from Auckland, Auckland

Simon sent you a message: "Wild sensual love making?" (12th Jan at 11:10am)

GEOFF, 57 from Tokoroa, Waikato

Daytime delights,from Tokoroa

MASTEROF, 32 from Southland

Masterof sent you a message: "hi" (13th Jan at 4:51am) Masterof sent you a message: "Hi" (26th Dec '16 at 1:10am)

CAL, 46 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Will try n e thang once!! Am fussy tho!!

MATT, 39 from Mangere, Auckland

Matt winked at you (yesterday at 1:10am)

GARY, 62 from Matamata, Waikato

Im an older guy looking to hook up for some adult fun with a lady of similar age. Im honest and reliable. I make love to a woman and am gentle , considerate and caring. Your place or mine as long as its just the two of us and we are uninterupted works for me. Thanks for looking. Cheers xx

STU, 45 from Southland

Looking for a fuck-buddy, or nsa fun. Not enough happening in the bedroom. Tried to talk about it with my partner, but any improvement is temporary

RICHARD, 49 from Southland

Richard winked at you (Wednesday at 1:22am) Richard sent you a message: "...." (Saturday at 6:50pm)

ALAN, 61 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Alan sent you a message: "Hi" (yesterday at 1:57am) Alan winked at you (yesterday at 1:54am) Alan sent you a message: "Hi" (6th Jan at 1:23am) Alan sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (4th Jan at 1:15am)

BLEW, 26 from Mount Roskill, Auckland

Blew has yet to add his profile. Ask Blew for more info.

JIM, 55 from Pakuranga Heights, Auckland

Jim winked at you (yesterday at 5:55pm) Jim winked at you (Saturday at 6:35pm) Jim winked at you (24th Apr at 9:47pm)

WILLIAM, 34 from Christchurch, Canterbury

hi I'm willy if u wanna meet up try this and see what happens buzz me

JONATHAN, 40 from Hamilton, Waikato

Jonathan winked at you (yesterday at 6:26am) Jonathan winked at you (13th Apr at 1:36am) Jonathan sent you a message: "Hi" (12th Apr at 1:38am) Jonathan winked at you (12th Apr at 1:38am)

STELLA, 46 from Southland

While I am a larger woman I love to exercise on a regular basis 5/7 days a week. I am looking for someone who would excite and stimulate me on a physical and emotional level. If you think you fit the brief then message me and let's go from there.

KEL, 46 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Kel has yet to add his profile. Ask Kel for more info.

ALEX, 20 from Auckland, Auckland

Alex winked at you (12th Jan at 6:08am) Alex winked at you (4th Jan at 1:21am)

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George winked at you (yesterday at 1:34am) George sent you a message: "Its nice you are still looking..." (Wednesday at 2:08am) George winked at you (Wednesday at 1:05am) George sent you a message: "Role playing" (12th Jan at 3:05am) George sent you a message: "you are a mystery" (10th Jan at 8:45pm)

JOHN, 32 from Rolleston, Canterbury

Simple guy looking for some short term fun. Well mannered Educated Looking to start with a few emails to get the ball rolling. Then eventually meeting up NSA.

JOHN, 67 from Taupo, Waikato

John sent you a message: "Role playing" (yesterday at 2:22am)

TERRY, 47 from Southland

Curious, looking for someone fun. Always respectful and honest. So, basically I'm looking for a woman that wants to share a sexual relationship with, short or long term. I'm new to this, so it's uncharted territory for me. No drama or dishonesty, just mutal enjoyable sex with a man that can guarantee respect, honesty and a horny time. Happy to send pics of myself.

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