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Johnny sent you a message: "hey" (8th Apr at 2:35am)
Sam winked at you (16th Dec '16 at 6:49am)
I'll share with you if you share with me, all you gotta do is ask!
Ok so Im getting on in years but I am still a very passionate and loving guy and reasonably fit also. I do Love lots of foreplay. Without putting too fine a point on it I am quite experienced and so I can say I do know how to be passionate. Probably it comes naturally to me anyway. In many ways foreplay is what it's all about to me....to take it slow and passionately. So much more exciting and enjoyable that way. And I miss that so much is why I am here. I am looking for NSA liaisons. Day time preferably. I do give the greatest respect to anyone I am involved with and I am very discreet so you need not worry about that. If it matters I am above average down there.I do need to see a picture or two of you please. I am looking for sex with a lady who is confident in the bedroom. Not inhibited with her sexuality. Able to initiate. Wanting to initiate. To some extent quite driven but not a nymphomaniac. Passionate and warm. Knows what a man wants and is somewhat intuitive. I am a very considerate kinda guy and I will give all that you give me back to you in return.
here for smiles giggles and some slap and tickle. Go on lol
Keentodo sent you a message: "Hey there" (21st Dec '16 at 1:11am)
Looking around. Single. Fitt.
Just looking for some fun, casual, discreet
Don winked at you (yesterday at 5:01am) Don winked at you (Thursday at 3:38pm)
Intelligent hard working professional, respectful and sexy male with big appetite. Looking for nsa fun and adventure. Gsoh a must. I am able to travel, if need be. No time waisters please ! This is a real request.what Im looking for is a Horny, intelligent, woman, who likes sensual body contact and long foreplay. Loves DATY. Enjoys soft domination, dogging and sex in public spaces. Im after real women not 'kids', thats just too disturbing, MUST be over 29, so please Dont bother messaging me I wont answer..... sorry
Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (Wednesday at 10:23am) Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (Wednesday at 10:19am) Steve sent you a message: "Jan" (4th Apr at 9:40am) Steve sent you a message: "Jane" (29th Mar at 8:41pm) Steve winked at you (29th Mar at 9:47am)
I love exploring every part of a women's body with my mouth and tongue.. I love to satisfy a women
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Andre sent you a message: "....." (26th Dec '16 at 12:31am)
New to this kind of thing, but want to explore a bit more the sensual ways of love making. Women's body is a treasure. Exploring it by soft touches massages means a fantastic source of pleasure for both;) that's what I am looking for.
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Been married a long time and looking for something more exciting from your sex life? It's very common for both men and women to feel sexually frustrated in a long term relationship and want to experiment a little. It's completely normal. M.B.O.Y can help your find people who are feeling exactly the same as you. Even people local to Southland with our advanced search options. Whether you want to play with your partner or on your own we can help you find a new casual partner. If it' your first time you may want to take things slowly by swapping a few messages first to find the right one. It's up to you and all at your pace.
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