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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Just some fun in the bedroom (or wherever you like it). That's what we want to find for you. We know not everyone wants a relationship, but pretty much everyone wants a good time in bed. My Bed or Yours matches you up with people in Southland who are just looking for bedroom playmates. You both get to enjoy yourselves without worrying about the "where is this going" question.

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RICHARD, 49 from Southland

Richard winked at you (an hour ago) Richard winked at you (18th Jan at 1:22am) Richard sent you a message: "...." (14th Jan at 6:50pm)

DENNIS, 65 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Not passed it yet. Looking for a little adventure. Enjoy the outdoors, be it beach or bush. Enjoy cuddling on the couch or fun in the bedroom. Having a laugh with good company.

SCOTTIE, 40 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Scottie sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (19th Apr at 1:17am) Scottie winked at you (19th Apr at 1:10am)

FRED, 25 from Hamilton, Waikato

Hi there I'm just a young single 24 year old work hard play harder prefer the company of older woman so thought I would try this site out

DAVID, 33 from Auckland, Auckland

David sent you a message: "Jane" (21st Jan at 1:06am) David winked at you (21st Jan at 1:06am)

KRISTOFF, 46 from Southland

am not after a relationship, just some hot sex with someone as horny as me, no games no dramas, regular fwb, i have lots of stamina, i enjoy a drink and a laugh, I love eating pussy and breasts and nipples for hours so if you enjoy being eaten out, give me a buzz,

ANDY, 50 from Southland

Andy winked at you (21st Jan at 1:15am)

JOHN, 67 from Taupo, Waikato

John sent you a message: "Role playing" (19th Jan at 2:22am)

BRADLEY, 41 from Papakura, Auckland

If we got together we would have a great hot sexy time im sure of it

REUBEN, 36 from Warkworth, Auckland

Reuben winked at you (14th Jan at 5:48am)

ATELIER, 44 from Auckland, Auckland

Just after discreet fun. I'm a Funny Curious Person looking for a man to satisfy my voracious sexual appetite.. In fact the more sex the better as far as I'm concerned..I need to try all my sexual fantasies so if yr keen..

SIMON, 51 from Paihia, Northland

Like a man who's yours for the calling when you feel like some sensual pampering, or to have whichever way you like best - no questions, strings or judgements, with a man you'd soon feel comfortable and safe with?

PHILIP, 27 from Hamilton, Waikato

Looking for some fun people. Can travel

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked sent you a message: "Email me Jane :-)" (24th Apr at 10:53am) Naked winked at you (8th Apr at 9:05am)

SAMMIE, 40 from Southland

I'm a no strings hook up virgin - and sometimes my pussy really wants a hard cock fucking her so looking into what options are out there

DUDLEY, 47 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Just love fucking, can't get enough of it. Into oral giving and receiving , rimming , anal, want ever you're into I am too! Lets hookup baby I want to make you scream and empty my balls all over you.

ALLAN, 65 from Petone, Wellington

I need time to write something meaningful about myself. I am a Cancer survivor, However I am alive and thankful. Enjoy the Cuddles and Kisses, enjoy giving and receiving massages with Oil, But I am still smiling..... These are some of the many Questions Asked of me... Do you like to eat me in bed === Yes I like giving and receiving, but not only in bed. Are you a naughty man in bed? ==Define Naughty, Are you a passionate man in life? ===Yes, as much as I can be. What do you like to do in our spare time? === Go out ,be sociable,Travel,Shop enjoy life. Please tongue my pussy deep === If you were with me Yes I would Do you want to come to here visit me and take me back your home? ===Yes if it all works well Does a petite and exotic beauty can catch your attention? =Write to me . Just rember [Opalmobile] Do you want to know what i am wearing right now? === Yes, Nothing would be a good guess Does a petite and exotic beauty can catch your attention? === Usually by communicating with me. Have you any joyful ideas as to our first date ? ===Depending on location, but always good food and communications. Are you horny? === Yes ,most of the time. Would u love to smell my beautiful hair? ===Of course I would, then I must be close to you. What do you want to do with me now? ===What all good men would do, Wine, Dine enjoy. Anything else is a bonus I wish I could be naughty right now, next to beloved man, making his imagination lust for more. ===Yes Yes Please You want two woman in your bed ?===We can all dream. Do you like...

SAM, 35 from Auckland, Auckland

Basically just looking for NSA, FWB, etc..

KIRK, 51 from Ohariu, Wellington

New to this, just looking for a good time with no strings.

ETHAN, 45 from North Shore, Auckland

Looking to play with a younger women who Likes toys and maybe some light b&d

Single guy or girl in Southland looking for some no strings fun or possibly an open minded couple looking to expand their horizons?

My Bed or Yours is an adult contacts service for people of all shapes, sizes and backgrounds looking for some discreet sexual encounters. Cast aside your misconceptions about your average adult contacts site member. Believe it or not, most of our members are not sad, lonely, bald, fat guys although we have a few or those if that's what takes your fancy. The majority of our members are the average guy or girl next door who just enjoy sex and need a quick, convenient way of satisfying their sexual needs without getting into a long, complicated relationship or hiring the services of a 'professional'.

  • Professional singles who don't have time for a serious relationship
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  • Recently single guys and girls wanting to expand their horizons

Whatever type of people make your horny, we can help you find them. Our advanced search lets you cut to the chase and just show you the members you are interested in: couples, older, younger, larger, smaller, in Southland.

Once you've found the people you'd like to meet you can send them a private message or a wink to let them know you're interested. All our advanced features are also available in our mobile app as well so you can browse from the privacy of your own phone.

Come on, hop in, everyone’s welcome. Straight, bi, gay just curious. Our exclusively adult dating site adds of new members regularly so there’s always a fresh face (or something else) for you to check out. If this is your first time trying out adult dating, don’t worry. There’s a FREE account so you can see what we have to offer. That’s free as in, you don’t need a credit card. Members can message online and exchange pictures before arranging to meet. We’re sure that as soon as you sign up you’ll be able to start discovering other horny people around you.

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