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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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MASTEROF, 32 from Southland

Masterof sent you a message: "." (9th Mar at 9:55am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (8th Mar at 2:09am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (24th Feb at 1:11am)

MADDY, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Maddy sent you a message: "hi" (yesterday at 1:32am) Maddy sent you a message: "hey" (yesterday at 1:18am) Maddy winked at you (4th Mar at 1:10am) Maddy added you as a Favourite (4th Mar at 1:10am)

HARRY, 63 from Southland

I'm separated and looking for a lady who looks after herself for some NSA fun. I very much enjoy oral sex, both giving receiving and trying different positions. I love having sex outdoors, both for the freedom and the excitement. Willing to give anything a go so why notgive me a go ))

MANWELL, 34 from Greenmeadows, Hawke's Bay

I like older woman. I would like to explore sexual pleasures with someone in a safe and fun way.

MATT, 39 from Southland

Matt sent you a message: "Hi" (Thursday at 1:04am) Matt winked at you (Thursday at 1:04am)

ANDY, 41 from Southland

Tall athletic..love to be a sex slave.. taken advantage of. Also would like to have submissive for my own pleasures..? Im open minded and adventurous

SAM, 36 from Morningside, Auckland

Sam the man ! I'm open minded guy, clean and easy going. I love doing body massage as I'm trained! I'm drugs free! Alcohol may be up to few drinks :). I enjoy laughing and traveling. I drive a lot with musik on. I'm single ! I can host ! I play safe!

IRONMIKE, 44 from Southland

Been in longterm relationship now am not and am keen to makeup for lost time hot body good with the tongue

LUCKY, 31 from Grafton, Auckland

Lucky winked at you (26th Feb at 1:08am)

MASTEROF, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Masterof sent you a message: "." (yesterday at 10:22am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (9th Mar at 9:55am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (8th Mar at 2:09am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (24th Feb at 1:11am)

STEPHEN, 64 from Southland

Stephen sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (21st Apr at 11:45am) Stephen sent you a message: "Hello Jane" (7th Apr at 10:46am)

DAVID, 67 from Auckland, Auckland

I have avery strong Libido that I would love to share with a sensual woman

LAURIE, 67 from Southland

Laurie winked at you (18th Apr at 9:09am)

JAE, 28 from Southland

I'm down with everything from a good time to a conversation, you just let me know what you like ;)

CR, 45 from Taupo, Waikato

Cr winked at you (Thursday at 1:04am)

HILAL, 25 from Auckland, Auckland

Hilal has yet to add his profile. Ask Hilal for more info.

PAUL, 57 from Pukekohe East, Auckland

Hi to you all and thanks for checking me out, hey I'm a regular kiwi bloke, shouldn't be on this site but here I am.. really love my wife but just need good sex way more regularly ok.... is this a crime I hope you understand my situation...by the way I love pleasing ladies with nice slow entry and long deep thrusts i love bone on bone and ladies arching their backs and thrusting their hips skyward to take my big love muscle deep inside their dripping wet pussies, I really think having good sex is magical.

MATT, 26 from Blockhouse Bay, Auckland

Young fun (awesome) guy just browsing this site, seeing what kind of interesting people are here! Looking to chat with good people, and see if that leads anywhere.

JOHN, 57 from Albany, Auckland

Mature and respectable...I believe that a woman should always cum first ;-)

NICKO, 72 from Whakatahuri, Marlborough

yes I am married but have not had sex with my wife for some 30yrs medical reasons yes I have seen other women over the last 25yrs I love having sex and enjoy it I also like my partner to enjoy I just want casual relationship not live in I love lots of foreplay too I am a straight up kind gentle guy but don't want to talk on here for very long please

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