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Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

With new members signing up every month looking for some fun, finding new people who share the same needs and fantasies as you has never been easier. Simply register for your free account, complete a few details about yourself (don't worry, any personally identifiable information is kept confidential and never revealed to other members) and upload a photo (a photo is not required but highly recommended to receive the most interest from other members), and start searching for new sex partners, swinging couples or just a fun buddy for some harmless online flirting.

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SAM, 36 from Southland

Sam the man ! I'm open minded guy, clean and easy going. I love doing body massage as I'm trained! Alcohol may be up to few drinks :). Pm me if interested! I enjoy laughing and traveling. I drive a lot with musik on. I'm single ! I can host ! I play wild and safe!

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave winked at you (10th Mar at 1:38am) Dave winked at you (8th Mar at 1:29am)

WOODY, 49 from Waitakere, Auckland

Love boating just being on the water.fishing relaxing and just having fun

HONE, 28 from Belmont, Auckland

here for a bit of fun

JUNIOR, 33 from Wellington, Wellington

Looking for someone to join me and my girlfriend for night out together. New to this so feel free to share ideas.thank you

MADDY, 34 from Auckland, Auckland

Maddy sent you a message: "hi" (yesterday at 1:32am) Maddy sent you a message: "hey" (yesterday at 1:18am) Maddy winked at you (4th Mar at 1:10am) Maddy added you as a Favourite (4th Mar at 1:10am)

MASTEROF, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Masterof sent you a message: "." (yesterday at 10:22am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (9th Mar at 9:55am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (8th Mar at 2:09am) Masterof sent you a message: "." (24th Feb at 1:11am)

SAM, 40 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam sent you a message: "I won't bite..." (10th Mar at 1:47am) Sam sent you a message: "Don't be shy!" (10th Mar at 1:46am) Sam sent you a message: "Hey there Jane" (10th Mar at 1:31am) Sam winked at you (10th Mar at 1:30am)

MIKE, 54 from Southland

Mike sent you a message: "hi there" (yesterday at 5:33am)

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked winked at you (8th Apr at 9:05am) Naked winked at you (3rd Apr at 11:49am) Naked sent you a message: "I'm Tony" (30th Mar at 2:58am) Naked winked at you (30th Mar at 2:01am)

CRA, 52 from Nelson, Nelson

I'm looking for someone to be a bit naughty with....a discrete, long term, no strings attached encounter...online or through the net.

CLIFF, 66 from Whangarei Heads, Northland

Cliff sent you a message: "HI jane" (Saturday at 1:50am)

JON, 32 from Mount Albert, Auckland

Hi , in Auckland looking in this site . I love sport out going n friendly . hook me up later.

ANDREW, 46 from Hamilton, Waikato

Happily married but sex isn't part of the equation any more. I really do like sex so if anyone is willing to enjoy a good time I'm keen. I enjoy webcam/phone sex as well.

RONIN, 49 from Queenstown, Otago

Ronin has yet to add his profile. Ask Ronin for more info.

MRRIGHTNOW, 40 from Dunedin, Otago

I like to talk, laugh, drink with a woman, get the chemistry going, make it sexy, on a psychological level, make it so it's so tense that the fucking is just natural and unbelievably good.

NICK, 47 from Southland

I'm brand new here and came because I heard about it from people I am a recent resident to Auckland having moved from the Middle East so I thought I'd give it a whirl. I'm fit, 6'2" tall, slim-medium build, blondish hair.

TROY, 30 from Waitara, Taranaki

hi im a young fella and am an honest kiwi bloke with the heart of gold so message me if u want to know more. im a spray painter and a fireman in my spare time.

JACK, 21 from Southland

I'm looking for a woman to accept me for who I am and love me until the end of the night.

WILL, 46 from Manakau, Auckland

Will sent you a message: "Curious about you Jane" (Friday at 4:27am) Will winked at you (11th Mar at 7:06pm) Will winked at you (11th Mar at 10:15am) Will winked at you (24th Feb at 1:16am) Will sent you a message: "Hey" (24th Feb at 1:09am)

People are far more open about what they real want from a relationship and sex - lots of people just want some fun and a physical connection. mybedoryours.com is your place to meet people for a little adult bedroom fun. Just finished a long term relationship and want to go wild for a while? Want to meet a sexy housewife? Fancy spicing up your marriage? We offer easy to use profile searches that allow you to say exactly who you want to meet. We even continue searching while you're not even logged in - we'll send you a message when we find new people.

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