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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Long gone are the days of old fashioned adult personal ads in the back of local newspapers and adult magazines. Often, no picture was supplied, descriptions were very cryptic and you would have to wait weeks for a response. My Bed or Yours is modern incarnation of traditional adult personal adverts for the internet age where members are available instantly. View the sexy photos, send them messages, upload videos, all instantly with no waiting around.

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PAUL, 53 from Takapuna, Auckland

Looking for regular fun meets with the right lady im 5ft 7inch self employed builder - very experienced and like to treat my ladies with the up most respect im well groomed - shaven - clean im 8 inches and been told its very thick it doesnt fit in a loo roll to give you some idea lol

MAYNARD, 46 from Devonport, Auckland

Hi I work in Devonport but live in mangere Bridge just looking for a lady friend to spice up life n.s.a

JORDAN, 20 from Browns Bay, Auckland

just a simple guy looking for casual fun.

CHRIS, 46 from Pukekohe, Auckland

I like giving slow ,soft ,sensal,massages,and followed by hot sex.

BASSLINE, 27 from Southland

Bassline has yet to add her profile.

KIKINTITLE, 26 from Southland

Hey hey look forward to meeting you. I work long hours in the city so definitely need a bit of fun in the spare time I have. Do as my name says :) Anything you wanna know feel free to ask.

MARGRET, 55 from Opaheke, Auckland

I like my toes sucked nd my earlobes n neck nibbled thats just for starters...Sori im a demanding girl so no married men ..Also im back in Hawkes Bay..Sori all you Auckland studs...

AL, 59 from Paraparaumu Beach, Wellington

Al has yet to add his profile. Ask Al for more info.

MIKE, 64 from Fitzroy, Taranaki

I keep fit and healthy and consider I have a great athletic body I enjoy sex and satisifing the needs of the person who Im having fun with, I love hearing a woman have an orgasim. Into most things. I love giving oral to a woman, its the biggest turn on.

TERRY, 64 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Terry winked at you (17th Apr at 1:04am)

ERIC, 64 from Whakatahuri, Marlborough

Hi there ladies a nite with me and you will howl with happyness love Eric

SKELO, 38 from Southland

Wanting to show a girl a fun time, is that you? Im an ISFJ... Believe that chivalry is definitely not dead!!!!

CABLE, 57 from Auckland, Auckland

Cable winked at you (an hour ago) Cable winked at you (yesterday at 12:57am) Cable winked at you (Friday at 1:06am) Cable winked at you (Thursday at 1:08am) Cable winked at you (Wednesday at 8:56pm)

JASON, 23 from Southland

only if you're real

ANDRES, 47 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Andres sent you a message: "Hi" (Friday at 1:12am)

CRAZYHORSE, 36 from Kelvin Grove, Manawatu-Wanganui

Needing some fun back in life, wanting to meet for casual fun

LAUREN, 27 from Southland

Lauren has yet to add her profile.

BENNY, 30 from Auckland, Auckland

Ummm can be reserved at times, However always down for a good chat..... What happens after that we'll just let the sparks fly....

NAKED, 37 from Greenlane, Auckland

Naked sent you a message: "Email me Jane :-)" (24th Apr at 10:53am)

CHRIS, 51 from Mission Bay, Auckland

Fun and good times. Im single and live alone. Healthy and in good shape.

Been married a long time and looking for something more exciting from your sex life? It's very common for both men and women to feel sexually frustrated in a long term relationship and want to experiment a little. It's completely normal. M.B.O.Y can help your find people who are feeling exactly the same as you. Even people local to Southland with our advanced search options. Whether you want to play with your partner or on your own we can help you find a new casual partner. If it' your first time you may want to take things slowly by swapping a few messages first to find the right one. It's up to you and all at your pace.

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