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We all fantasise about meeting strangers for some no strings sex, no commitment, no complications. Well, here at My Bed or Yours we connect many users a month looking for exactly that. Look for horny guys and girls in Southland safely and meet securely online either via our secure website or new, dedicated mobile application.

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GRANT, 49 from Manaia, Taranaki

Exec type personality, ex CEO, ex Politician, currently a business person working from home, Internet entrepreneur, and have travelled internationally, so I have very wide view of what life is about. Hobbies: I enjoy making craft beer, and I write very steamy romance novels. Lifestyle: Quiet countryside life, companionship means more to me than busy outings, BBQ very often, and seldom without a pint. Music: Youtube. Movies: Netflix. Beliefs:Quirks: I am not strictly religious but I am involved in a philosophical order called Felicity Manaia. Looking for a woman that enjoys sex, is not overly shy, is open to explore within the relationship, likes attention, and finds happiness in being loved.

JIMBRUCE, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

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RLXD, 31 from Mount Albert, Auckland

browsing at the moment ..like nsa fun times and discreet..like foreplay and massages and clean fun

INKANDIRON, 22 from Hamilton, Waikato

Inkandiron has yet to add his profile. Ask Inkandiron for more info.

RICK, 39 from West Harbour, Auckland

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GREG, 66 from Pakuranga Heights, Auckland

Pretty laid back sort of guy. Married 38 years now separated. Love eating out and spoiling a lady at home with gourmet recipes. Rolling Stones fan so love to sing and dance. would like a lady who makes a man feel good. Lady must be well shaped, sexy and fun to be with.

DAVID, 73 from Southland

looking for a sexy man

PETER, 61 from Auckland, Auckland

Peter sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Saturday at 1:41am)

C, 28 from Wellington, Wellington

I'm looking to fuck women who live between Wellington CBD up to Porirua :)

CROSBYP, 44 from Melville, Auckland

Crosbyp winked at you (Saturday at 8:35am)

PAUL, 53 from Takapuna, Auckland

Paul sent you a message: "Hi" (Sunday at 1:35am)

EMILE, 49 from Auckland, Auckland

I am a sensitive and sensual older man with experience. I love to caress and undress my partner slowly while all the time touching and findng those spots of excitment, places my tongue can highten the intensity of. I am looking for NSA encounters with a woman prepared to explore her own sexuality and not afraid to try new things within her comfort zone.

PACMAN, 39 from Nelson, Nelson

I'm looking to have some fun. Who wants to play?

MRMUSO, 38 from Torbay, Auckland

I love to play guitar and sing.. I love to cook.. Done a fair amount of traveling and would love to do more... I love watching movies! I am pretty adventurous, outgoing and like to try new things/experiences. ..Here for NSA fun

CC, 41 from Albany, Auckland

Cc has yet to add his profile. Ask Cc for more info.

WHICK, 47 from Napier South, Hawke's Bay

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MASTEROF, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

First things first- I am of Indian origin. Apparantly, skin color n race is far more important for many than being a genuine, well-spoken guy with a sense of humor.And if you are still reading then thanks heaps.Beside I am a better person. A working professional enjoying life and would like to expore some new horizons. Here to meet some like minded people and expand my circle (have fun n be naughty ofcourse). I am respectful, understanding and love to please women (trust me ladies once you brown you never frown ) Cheers

CHRIS, 44 from Dunedin, Otago

Relaxed, random, fun. Shenanigans. Good times. laughs.

RYAN, 26 from Christchurch, Canterbury

I love to eat pussy and ass. Always put my partner first. Looking for someone to join me in casual exploration of our sexual boundaries. Enjoy groups. I have a dick that is always hard

NIGEL, 66 from Auckland, Auckland

sailing for the weekends, can't wait for warmer weather just want my snuggle bunny, with benefits of course--just the 1

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