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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

Sex contacts and no strings encounters Southland

Finding local sex contacts online is the modern equivalent of traditional personal ads couples used to place in specialist publications or coded messages in local newspapers. The difference with My Bed or Yours is convenience and interaction. In the old days you would wait for your ad to be published then wait for some responses which generally didn't have photos. Now, with My Bed or Yours you can register, upload your profile and start searching for swingers in Southland within minutes. Once you have found singles or couples who catch your attention you can browse their profile to find out more about them, check out their photos and connect with them with a click of a button.

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KELLY, 55 from Masterton, Wellington

I am a Canadian here in NZ for the summer playing softball, working and having fun.

RACHEL, 27 from Avondale, Auckland

I love sex and a good time:-) Be sure you read my profile before messaging me. I am not skinny, I don't have a slim figure, I am a chubby woman and I don't do hook up's with married men or men that have separated from their wives and not divorced yet!...

SHYGIRL, 38 from Oamaru, Otago

Unhappily married for a few years looking for sum fun to brighten up my dull life

ALAN, 78 from Papamoa, Bay Of Plenty

Alan winked at you (15th Apr at 4:07am)

TREMAINE, 29 from Auckland, Auckland

Tremaine has yet to add his profile. Ask Tremaine for more info.

KORANA, 33 from Grafton, Auckland

Only here for good time not a longtime, no strings fuck buddy. Be mature about it please. Happy hunting

MATT, 39 from Southland

Matt winked at you (Monday at 1:10am)

DAVE, 51 from Hamilton, Waikato

Dave sent you a message: "Jane" (Saturday at 1:19am)

SAMMY, 22 from Auckland, Auckland

Sammy has yet to add her profile.

GEORGE, 46 from Gisborne, East Cape

George sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 1:18am) George sent you a message: "Hi Jane only one week to go Hu..." (Sunday at 2:17am) George winked at you (Sunday at 1:05am) George winked at you (Thursday at 1:34am) George sent you a message: "Its nice you are still looking..." (Wednesday at 2:08am)

MARY-JANE, 38 from Oamaru, Otago

Unhappily married and wanting to find someone to have fun with

GOODHANDU, 51 from Southland

Goodhandu winked at you (yesterday at 1:05am)

ANDY, 50 from Karori, Wellington

Andy winked at you (Saturday at 1:15am)

GEOFF, 57 from Tokoroa, Waikato

Daytime delights,from Tokoroa,usually cruisey..giving body rubs(happy ending)I'm no sugar daddy,a romantic though .

KELLY, 28 from Auckland, Auckland

Kelly winked at you (yesterday at 8:29am)

MUSTBEGD, 45 from Auckland, Auckland

Hey lm an easy going motivated guy, let's meet and see where it leads?!

SCOT, 29 from Masterton, Wellington

Scot has yet to add his profile. Ask Scot for more info.

GARY, 62 from Southland

Gary winked at you (Saturday at 2:25am)

RICK, 60 from Kaikohe, Northland

Rick winked at you (yesterday at 3:12am) Rick winked at you (19th Apr at 5:33am)

MATT, 44 from Southland

I'm a 44 year old professional guy, good looking, seeking a bit of fun. Very open minded and would try most things. Searching for a special someone for a bit of discrete fun.

We're not your run of the mill adult dating site. We were fed up with the amateur looking sites and poor service the others were offering. We wanted to create a discrete, exciting site that lets you find bedroom partners that excite you. No tricks or sleazy tactics - just an honest, upfront, safe way for you to find a fuck buddy. To prove the point we offer a free - no credit card - trial for you to get a feel of what we have to offer. Membership fees pay for our full time monitoring staff to keep away the trolls and any nuisance members.

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