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Are you looking for a bit of fun rather than a long term partner or a serious relationship? Times are changing. More and more people now use the internet to meet new people for sex or fulfil their sexual fantasies.
For many people, a serious relationship or long term commitment just aren't what they want. The reasons for this vary from being too busy with a demanding career, being fresh out of a long term relationship and not wanting to jump back into another one to simply enjoying lots of sex with different partners. My Bed or Yours gives our users a secure and discreet way to meet new people looking for the same things as you. Finding a horny girl or guy in Southland is easy. You can search for people in Southland or search nationwide then arrange to meet for sex with no complications, commitment or drama.
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Cable winked at you (Saturday at 5:11am) Cable sent you a message: "pics" (5th Apr at 1:47am) Cable winked at you (5th Apr at 1:44am) Cable added you as a Favourite (4th Apr at 1:43am) Cable sent you a message: "xxooxx" (4th Apr at 1:29am)
Happy living on my own but miss female company. Jus looking for some NSA fun
Looking for some discreet fun. Really like to please the lady before having my needs met.
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Paul winked at you (yesterday at 7:59am) Paul winked at you (18th Mar at 1:26am)
Easy going open minded.. up for chatting and perhaps more if the circumstance arises..
Vee winked at you (12th Apr at 1:47am)
Am looking for someone to have fun with nothing serious.
I'm just trying something fun And exciting
Lonleyboy sent you a message: "I see you viewed me" (Monday at 2:13am)
Huntress has yet to add her profile.
Im an outdoors person keep fit tramping and running the odd 10k so bed activities shouldnt be a problem Like to start the evenings with a restaurant meal glass of wine then to somewhere warm and comfortable and look after each others needs and then cuddle the nite away
A mature very well payed six figure club working man who needs a good woman to wine n dine and have fun with now n then! Your place or mine it's no problem or if you prefer a high end motel or hotel....absolutely no worries at all! Sorry not into married woman!
Craig sent you a message: "Hi" (1st Apr at 2:32am) Craig winked at you (1st Apr at 2:31am) Craig sent you a message: "Hi there!" (30th Mar at 1:16am) Craig winked at you (30th Mar at 1:15am)
A active male that looks after himself looking for lady who is into a friends with benefits, I dont have time for a relationship, if someone is in a relationship discretion assured,
Keiran has yet to add his profile. Ask Keiran for more info.
Easygoing,fun to be with ,cant predict
Time for an update. If you've looked at my profile before, then you know what I look like, but my attitude is changing. I am still Very tactile. Intimacy is really what I'm looking for. I do like it when our hands touch "accidentally" when we are out and a hug and a cuddle when we meet each other again after a long absence. Like 2 days or less. :) I am still a bit overweight around the middle, but I'm told I still look "OK". Whatever that means. I am healthy mostly and still love getting out and having a good social time. Although I am healthy I am not very fit, so we will have to work up to the long walk on the beach and just keep to a short walk. My age and the odd illness has taken it's toll on my ability to perform as I did in my younger day. But I'm sure the right lady will either see that as a challenge or not care too much. I can still pleasure a lady when the occasion arises and I don't mind being on the wet spot if you create one. I would love to hear from any lady, or any age or persuasion with a view to giving each other that warm and fuzzy feeling. I am not put off by size, color, age or any other physical attribute. As long as you are beautiful inside. Cheers, and looking forward to hearing from you.
Hi ya genuine Kiwi MAN good looking fit and healthy looking for open minded ladies to have some NSA fun with, love the outdoors and meeting new and exciting people, straight to the point don't want a relationship just SEX I am well hung and can certainly please a lady. keen then lets hook up and make it happen
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