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Jenevive, 47 from Eastbourne, East Sussex

If you are married, perverted, a smoker or below 6ft then please go elsewhere I am on cougar dates and that means I like younger men.. Not newborn babies in their nappies I am not out for mindless sex with numerous guys either I want a strong connection /chemistry and I need to find you engaging and stimulating or I will get bored very quickly I am not willing to put what I think I would like into a category because fwb/nsa/serious relationships aren't where I am at Not interested in sexting or giving you photos of my private...

Kaz, 59 from Slough, Berkshire

Hi I am a bubbly voracious women, I love to have fun and enjoy getting it on between the sheets , and any where else you can think of, I am not into one night stands or couples or threesome , I want to have some fun , not into one night stands ,would like to meet some one special and see how it goes would like to find some one caring, honest , makes me smile , xxxxx

Teo, 51 from Downley, Buckinghamshire

About You Who am I? . . . Im Spider-Man. Wait, no, that was a movie! . . . . . I would describe myself as stable in my career and goal-oriented. I enjoy making people laugh. I am intelligent and can carry on meaningful conversations. Easy going guy, , we only have one life so best to enjoy it . . . looking for a friendly lady who enjoys being pleased and teased until she explodes lol, . To get things right it mustn't be rushed , i feel there has to be mutual physical attraction for there...

Louise, 49 from Paignton, Devon

looking for fun and excitement , I enjoy couples fun and threesomes , into naturism and loves full body massage

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