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Eileen, 71 from Woodhall Spa, Lincolnshire

Divorced for some considerable time. Mother to four grown up off-springs. I have a decent figure and am often complimented on my legs. I like to look smart so I have my hair done every week and have a good wardrobe I go out every day for coffee and lunch, also enjoy a nice Chinese meal and enjoy a decent steak. Like to watch a decent game of darts and the thrill of Formula 1, Interested in art and craft, antiques, all types of music,, mainly sixties,, (Beatles and Cliff fan).. Dislike tattoos and facial hair. Seeking an hones,...

Lucy, 38 from Maldon, Essex

I am looking for friendship and see where that goes xxx

Dillion, 21 from Pinner, London

Dillion has yet to add his profile. Ask Dillion for more info.

Nicole, 36 from Plympton, Devon

**Discretion is everything **37 year old professional who has everything I need but fun! I'm in a relationship and that will not change however I'm looking for a like minded attractive guy to share no strings excitement / nights away hotels etc but with the same guy!!!! I don't mind age gap either way but discretion is essential as I will not change my current situation.

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