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What is adult dating?

Adult dating is just like regular dating except you don't get past the excitement of the first date. The thrill of seeing them dressed up for the first time, touching them for the first time, getting them into bed for the first time. Adult dating is for people who are looking to meet a variety of people, flirt, have fun, but don't want to get caught up in a long term relationship. Most of our members end up with a select group of friends in their little black book that they know they can call on when the time is right.

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Who can I meet?

Our members span a whole range of people: busy professional men and women who put their career first but still have sexual needs, couples who like to experiment, people just looking for some new excitement. Whatever your reason or urge we can find someone for you. Our discreet service keeps you safe but your fantasies run wild.

We all have our secret fantasies. We help you live them out. With millions of members we're sure you're not the only one with those naughty thoughts. With full time staff monitoring the site you can rest assured that you'll only be shown genuine members.

Why should I join?

My Bed or Yours is dedicated to casual relationships. When you're a member with us you don't need to worry about people getting clingy or asking where things are going. Everyone's just looking for a good time. No strings.

We take the privacy of our members very seriously. That's why we ask everyone to sign up even if you just want a trial. We need to protect members profiles from becoming public. We have full time members of staff who make sure nuisance members are kept off the site and blocked.

Trial accounts don't require a credit card and activation is very quick. Once a member you can start to view profiles and get a feel for what have have to offer behind closed doors.

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