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This kittys got claws ;) wanna see? Female 28 from Peterborough, UK

Sado/maso switch looking for cute women to play with, and pathetic men to serve me. I am a FinDom to men but ladies may have my time for free :) I'm a kinky, alternative, tattooed and pierced kitty looking to fulfill my insatiable kink needs - not looking for a relationship as I'm in a long term partnership but this will all be outside of it :)


Pansexual

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Looking for a master to explore my curiosity Female 21 from Peterborough, UK

I go to the gym, I have a hourglass figure and I am willing to try anything


Straight

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I’m looking for a serious and honest term relationship Couple 46, 46 from Peterborough, UK

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My man should be devoted to me and our family values. A person with a sincere so.. Female 37 from Peterborough, UK

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Straight

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into men ho wear leather trousers have good leather sex time Female 57 from Petersborough, UK

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Straight

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 24 from Peterborough, UK

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.
My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


Straight

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I am mature, reliable and honest mistress .i am looking for a sub with a sense o.. Female 42 from Daventry, UK

I'm looking for a sub  to explore anal pleasure, and explore sexual boundaries in a respectful and fun atmosphere. I'm looking for regular meetings and if theres really good chemistry open to Long term intimate relationship as well


Straight

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Couple looking try new things. Im also interested to explore more with female Couple 22, 21 from Yaxley, UK

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Im a Mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky preferences Female 29 from Peterborough, UK

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Mistress leena, a great dom,nice Female 28 from Stamford, UK

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DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING SUB. Female 27 from Peterborough, UK

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Straight

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Hey. I’m looking for people to have a good time in a safe space. I’m in an open .. Female 40 from Stathern, UK

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Straight

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Lucky Submissive Ebony Lady. .. Female 30 from Peterborough, UK

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Straight

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Lifes like a game play your part and win Female 33 from Peterborough, UK

Am a dom am a dom don't reply any text that's not from a sub


Straight

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29 uk looking to explore and have lots of fun Female 29 from Haddon, UK

Playful and fun
I don't bite or maybe I do xx
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Bisexual

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Straight

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Am seeking for my soulmate for a relationship and see where its goes from there .. Couple 41, 41 from Grantham, UK

Am single and i will love to meet the right man and have fun as well


Straight, Straight

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Im 43 years old, living in the Rowell region. Female 43 from Rowell, UK

I'm 43 years old, living in the Rowell region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 84.


Straight

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Open minded and up for any experience that life throws our way! We want to make .. Couple 40, 40 from Rearsby, UK

We are a couple who love sex and enjoy experiences. We are open minded and kind, no judgment here. We like to get to know people and have a good time.


Bisexual, Bicurious

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I promise an unrushed relaxing experience..clean/
great hygine
no drama
100% independent
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Straight

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To be honest, I am quite an ordinary woman, with no big whims. I am not a drama .. Female 30 from Peterborough, UK

In my world, life bursts with energy and passion. From embracing sports and conquering modeling challenges to creating culinary delights and striking out in bowling alleys, every moment is an adventure. My voice finds freedom in karaoke, and my mornings bloom with invigorating exercises, laying the foundation for a vibrant and health-driven lifestyle. As a dynamic young woman, I weave together the threads of fitness, creativity, and exploration, crafting a life that exudes joy and fulfillment


Straight

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Onilne submissive come and play with your new mistress and have some fun togethe.. Female 37 from Grantham, UK

Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under my foot


Straight

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I have found my Dom, now looking for a female playmate x Female 42 from Oakham, UK

I need to to explore my bi side. As I have been a good girl says I can have a female playmate x


Bisexual

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hello im 29 single finding someone and try something new xx Female 29 from Peterborough, UK

looking for that kind and good honest man and try something new XX


Straight

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Hi guys, I’m Clarissa, we are new to this and very intrigued! Please be gentle Couple 32, 32 from Peterborough, UK

Hi, myself I love dressing up and being adored, my partner loves my feet and loves me showing them off, that’s what has got is where we are now. Xx


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