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Sado/maso switch looking for cute women to play with, and pathetic men to serve me. I am a FinDom to men but ladies may have my time for free :) I'm a kinky, alternative, tattooed and pierced kitty looking to fulfill my insatiable kink needs - not looking for a relationship as I'm in a long term partnership but this will all be outside of it :)
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 18-39.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-29.
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Looking for, ages 46-90.
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Interests, Age play, Body Hair, Curves

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Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-85.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 32-80.
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Interests,

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Straight
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Looking for, ages 33-90.
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Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 34-90.
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Bisexual
Looking for, ages 20-70.
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Looking for, ages 20-80.
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Am single and i will love to meet the right man and have fun as well
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
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I'm 43 years old, living in the Rowell region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 84.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-84.
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Interests, Age play, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Couples, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Impact Play, Mature, Pegging, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Voyeurism

We are a couple who love sex and enjoy experiences. We are open minded and kind, no judgment here. We like to get to know people and have a good time.
Bisexual, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 19-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging

In my world, life bursts with energy and passion. From embracing sports and conquering modeling challenges to creating culinary delights and striking out in bowling alleys, every moment is an adventure. My voice finds freedom in karaoke, and my mornings bloom with invigorating exercises, laying the foundation for a vibrant and health-driven lifestyle. As a dynamic young woman, I weave together the threads of fitness, creativity, and exploration, crafting a life that exudes joy and fulfillment
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-60.
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Interests, Sex Talk

Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under my foot
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I need to to explore my bi side. As I have been a good girl says I can have a female playmate x
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 35-60.
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looking for that kind and good honest man and try something new XX
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Hi, myself I love dressing up and being adored, my partner loves my feet and loves me showing them off, that’s what has got is where we are now. Xx
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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