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Are you willing and ready to serve, please and worship me? That’s how I want it! Female 27 from Westminster, UK

I’m not into any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at
pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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I’m into bad subs prepared to be owned Female 31 from Wembley, UK

Professional Tourist Dominatrix BDSM consultant and enthusiast,fetish Model


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I’m Ellason by name . single with no k looking for open minded relationships to .. Female 38 from Wembley, UK

Looking for a man who’s very responsible . A man who’s god fearing and trying to take all good care of me and o promise to give the best of me


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Hello hope I get lucky on here.. Female 37 from Luton, UK

I’m an independent woman. I have good manners and family values. I want to create a loving family based on trust and respect...


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Im 24 years old, living in the Hedsor region. Im interested in meeting a man .. Couple 27, 27 from Hedsor, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Hedsor region.
I'm interested in meeting a man or a couple or a transgender person aged between 30 and 49.
I'm  4ft 11in (150 cm)  
I will travel for hookups


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Im seeking a serious long term relationship and more. Someone who is responsib.. Female 33 from Luton, UK

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Hello Just looking for sum safe fun sexual encounters x Female 47 from Dagenham, UK

BBW. 5ft4. Lovely legs.  Beautiful face. Beautiful inside n out. Looking for hook ups. With black or white men


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I’m down to earth dreamer, I love life and working. I am calm, not mean and not .. Female 37 from Tottenham, UK

I’m down to earth dreamer, I love life and working. I am calm, not mean and not a drama maker, very respectful, serious, loving, and caring. I am romantic, passionate and sentimental. I'm ready to be the right life-partner, soulmate and real friend for my future beloved.


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Just lurking and trying to see what’s out there Female 28 from Islington, UK

I don’t have anything to say but I have to complete this part anyway


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A dom looking for subs to serve me with obedience and loyalty am into bondage, i.. Female 35 from London Colney, UK

I always play in a sane, safe and consensual manner, my goal is to find out what your submissive fantasies are and make them come true for you


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I am a fun loving young woman with my male friend. We come together and want to .. Couple 34, 46 from Paddington, UK

Being comfortable is the main thing.
Finding others that are on the same level


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I am romantic, I like to laugh.. Female 39 from Uxbridge, UK

I love walking in nature, bask in the sun, I love star nights. I love cooking, I love active types of relaxation, I like to read and draw, I also like to write poetry. I make decorations for a handmade home.


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I am sure that this is where I will meet my beloved man, who is also looking for.. Female 37 from London Colney, UK

I enjoy gardening. I love flowers very much, this is my hobby. I have many indoor plants and many beautiful flowers in my garden. I like to look after them and watch a beautiful flower grow from a small seed. I also love to cook.


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Hello anyone there, Who would like to chat.. Female 37 from Tottenham, UK

I’m down to earth dreamer, I love life and working. I am calm, not mean and not a drama maker, very respectful, serious, loving, and caring. I am romantic, passionate and sentimental. I'm ready to be the right life-partner, soulmate and real friend for my future beloved.


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Im loving caring and strick mistress Female 31 from Islington, UK

I like to use my strap on, on my sub. And you will please me.


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Looking for fun no strings Sex fun nothing serious Female 31 from Farnham Royal, UK

Open minded
Crazy
Wild
Want to meet a causal sex play mate


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Im 43 years old, living in the Hampstead region. Female 43 from Hampstead, UK

I'm 43 years old, living in the Hampstead region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 99.


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I’m a type of person that really loves outdoor Female 36 from Llanover, UK

I get happy when I get what I’m looking for everything going the way I wanted


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Down to earth, safety enthusiast, humanist, love the outdoors. Female 36 from Luton, UK

I love canoeing, hiking, concerts and interesting camping.


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I’m Findom Goddess Mistress and i seek for a real time relationship with a sub h.. Female 30 from Enfield, UK

Let’s start with this: I’m Dominant Goddess Mistress. Very Dominant. I’m glad that’s been cleared up. Are you curious about being tied up and gagged? Let me show you how it’s done. I’m experienced Dom with toys to play withI live in Tucson Arizona, and yes, I’m a real person. I’m originally Swedish, and i’m a cosmetologist. If we click, expect to be tied up, gagged, and...well, whatever else we can come up with. I do tend to like older men.I’m here for a real time relationship, and marriage. I’m not here for one night stand with a sub. I’m kinky and ready to tie my sub up, gag him, spank him, choke him, and fuck him.Anyways, let Me know if you are available to learn how to be a good sub to a very passionate, kinky and dominant woman.


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The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and.. Female 35 from London Colney, UK

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Looking for some casual fun and good times Female 38 from Islington, UK

I love swimming and also wearing sexy outfits,i love fashion and photography x


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I’m nice and caring ,calm person Female 37 from London Colney, UK

I’m here looking for the right man for me and I’m so lovely and caring let chat and see where it leads us to


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I do sports, and to be more precise I run, and I do pool dance. I also like to d.. Female 40 from Uxbridge, UK

We could be a match if you're also looking for your soulmate! l'm very for a very acquaintance with someone who is serious and witty if interested in knowing each other much better to see what the world holds for us both, I hope you have an amazing day!


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I love sharing sexual firsts with Fams To watch us share a double ended dildo fo.. Female 24 from Uxbridge, UK

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