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I'm 38 years old, living in the Hemel Hempstead region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 87.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Edging, Feet, Group Sex, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Mature, Nylons, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play
Here is a Mistress from Croatia. Educated, grounded, skilled Queen who is also an Artist and Designer
Looking for my new subs who are willing to establish long term arrangements with me.
I’ll teach you how to please me, how to serve me and you will be the best slave to your Queen.
I am natural Mistress who been around community for some time in and out and now looking to expand my Wings and grow my skills with those who deserve my attention.
If you are serious and willing to be part of my journey into pro Mistress/Queen it will be my pleasure to give you what you deserve and find mutual beneficial arrangement.
I am currently confident with flagging, pegging, humiliation, electric play, whips, fire, bandage, edging, wax play, sensory deprivation, toys…
Not confident with anything that includes blood and s_it so let’s say that would be my strong boundaries for now.
Feel free to message me with what you are into and let’s start from there.
Looking to have some good fun
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 30-55.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging, Sex Toys
I love a sincere man with a kind heart . Everyone deserves love.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-79.
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Interests, BDSM, Sex Toys, Sub
Looking for friendship and maybe more .I don’t just sleep around .I have standards but also like to make sure I have chemistry with someone before I go there ,I am recently out of a long term relationship and am just getting back out there and see how it goes first ,this is all new to me and it will be very glad if we could take the next step in getting to know!
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Full Swap
I've got a mind to turn you over my knee and spank the spoiled hell out of you
Straight
Looking for, ages 22-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam
A spontaneous woman with good sense of humor and very optimistic
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
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I am Selina single lovely and respectful all the time
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Anal, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Exhibitionism, Feet, Impact Play, Mature, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage
I consider myself a hard worker, devoted to my family and my work. In a relationship I am loyal, respectful and attentive to my partner. I love to pamper and make the person who is by my side feel special and valued. My weakness is that I usually deposit my trust with great haste. What do you think if you write me and we know each other a little better?
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-90.
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Interests, Sub
If u r willing to endure hours of extreme pain. You should know the only fact of interest to me, can you take the pain until you squeal like a pig?
My craving is hurting people, getting off on hearing you moan and crying for mercy is my fetish addiction. I am always approachable if you genuinely feel you could contribute to my therapy sessions. I was recently asked if crying is considered a safeword, my response was I don't do safewords, that would be me relinquishing some control. Total Power Exchange is the game and my interest would begin at the end of your comfort zone.
My main interests are CBT
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys
I adore all kinks with passion and believe it is a great way to express your inner most desires and fantasies.
Straight
Looking for, ages 22-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys
Am ready for anything fun time meet up and whatever you decide
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-87.
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Interests, Anal, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Webcam
I’m available to meet up hit me up if you’re available
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-52.
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Interests, Anal, Couples, Feet, Group Sex, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage
Back after a long break to see what is going on with the site... Looking for something mutually enjoyable, uncomplicated, and a bit dirty. Intelligence is an absolute plus, must everything else is negotiable. Extra points for an original message - I know you guys like a good copy and paste for the numbers, I don't judge, but quickest way to get my attention is by talking to me in particular..
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
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Interests, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage
My interests are simple and easy to share. I love my body and sport is part of my life. I travel a lot, watch films with interesting plots, read books, although this has ceased to be fashionable in the modern world. I love communication and enjoy meeting friends. I cook deliciously and will gladly bake your favorite pie for you) I'm not against new ideas and just tell me what you're into, maybe this will be a new hobby for me too)
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sexual Massage
I’m here looking for a loyal and personal submissive man to train and explore his/her kinky Fetishes and instruct you to bow down on knees and worship my glorious feet and lick my p****
do not contact me if you aren't serious here
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-79.
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Interests, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism
Hi guys, To cut everything shot, I am single woman, never been married and I am ready to find a partner who is ready to please me sexually
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
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Interests, Body Hair, Bondage, Couples, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Lace, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Sub, Temperature Play, Voyeurism
I’m here looking for the right man for me and I’m so lovely and caring let chat and see where it leads us to
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-90.
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Interests, Anal, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Webcam
I'm 40 years old, living in the Florahome region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 71.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-61.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys
I have carved a path through the world of female domination, and I am now exceedingly skilled at the physical, mental, and emotional elements of my craft.
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-80.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay
We are looking for a guy to take our sexual experience to another level, bbc and foot lovers more than welcome
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-29.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Threesomes
I love my life. I'm kind, affectionate, loyal lady who loves spending quality time with my friends and family. I am easy-going. I look for solutions instead of conflict and know how to treat a man with respect and love while enjoying life to its fullest. I love my job and I love to smile. We just need to meet than you will see real who I am.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction
I’m seeking for casual dating and friends with benefits
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-51.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Group Sex, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub
Please contact me for further details on how to rent me out for use. Very few limitations. Pictures will be provided once contact has been made with him my owner
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub, Webcam
Been single a while, not looking for mind games, or hookups
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-47.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,
I love walking in nature, bask in the sun, I love star nights. I love cooking, I love active types of relaxation, I like to read and draw, I also like to write poetry. I make decorations for a handmade home.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Voyeurism
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