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Looking for, ages 18-37.
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I don't have any particular type of men. I need a man who will love, respect and appreciate me. For me, a person is not what they do or what they do. After all, he can be a good builder, plumber or delivery man, but at home he will be the best husband and friend. If I see that a man really needs me and he loves me, I will be ready to work hard on this relationship and I will do anything for the happiness of both of us. I have often been betrayed, and I hope that this will not happen again with a more mature, wise person!
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Looking for, ages 59-84.
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Looking for, ages 25-55.
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I am looking for one off or regular nsa meet ups/online fun. I am a sub only
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Looking for, ages 22-32.
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Well actually I try to listen to music and also like to dance too I guess that’s the secret to my happiness
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Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Regular meets
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Looking for, ages 49-71.
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Looking for, ages 18-49.
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I'm 32 years old, living in the Edinburgh region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 20 and 90.
I'm White / Caucasian with a A few extra pounds body shape Black hair
I drink socially I don't smoke
I will travel for hookups
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 20-90.
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Looking for, ages 51-90.
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Love is one of those very beauties in this world that two people should see together.
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Looking for, ages 57-90.
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Interests, Outdoor Fun

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