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Minded sub who is willing to submit absolutely to my dominance and prioritise my.. Female 40 from Dunfermline, UK

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I am very kind and sympathetic, always ready to help friends and relatives. I lo.. Female 26 from Edinburgh, UK

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Be a good one at whatever you do Female 29 from Edinburgh, UK

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I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive .. Female 34 from Edinburgh, UK

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I’m an Alpha Female,A Dominant Queen who loves her subs to be submissive and Loy.. Female 38 from Edinburgh, UK

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Im 30 years old, living in the Livingston region. Female 30 from Livingston, UK

I'm 30 years old, living in the Livingston region.
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Hey I’m new on here and I’m down and available for meet up fun Female 27 from Edinburgh, UK

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The most important features of my character are sexuality, kindness, honesty. In.. Female 43 from Livingston, UK

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I have joined this platform with the intention of connecting with someone who ap.. Female 40 from Edinburgh, UK

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New to the site and looking for a long term relationship Female 36 from Livingston, UK

Vacation
Reading
Outdoor fun
Regular meets
Excursions


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Looking for long term relationship Female 58 from Livingston, UK

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Hi,Im here to love,Laugh and have fun Female 57 from Edinburgh, UK

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We are a couple looking for a single male or female to have fun and have regular.. Couple 35, 31 from Edinburgh, UK

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Im 32 years old, living in the Edinburgh region. Female 32 from Edinburgh, UK

I'm 32 years old, living in the Edinburgh region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 20 and 90.
I'm White / Caucasian with a A few extra pounds body shape Black hair
I drink socially I don't smoke
I will travel for hookups


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. Relationships are like a deposit, where you put your feelings, heart and soul,.. Female 43 from Edinburgh, UK

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I want to meet a confident, fulfilled, kind, interesting interlocutor man. Female 41 from Edinburgh, UK

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