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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I love travelling and reading and making new friends
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-86.
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I love you all and I will be waiting to hear back from you... Bye
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Fetish

I'm 30 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, Lace, Leather / Latex, Oral, Petite, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub, Tickle Play

Male is athletic, energetic and respectful.
Female is beautiful, athletic and fun to be with. Can be shy at first then relaxed after some minute
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 24-50.
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Interests, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

I am interested in a man who is mature enough for a family. I am not looking for a one-night stand. I believe that if there is love and respect between two people, a family life can be a great fun!
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-90.
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Interests, Dom, Feet, Fetish

I used to do judo love being dominated and long walks
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-72.
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Interests, BDSM, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

We are a couple looking for some fun weekends only can’t accommodate but can travel
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Cuckold

Pretty much interested in a BDSM relationship with an obedient male sub
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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I like Meeting people , causal sex , dirty talk and exploring
Straight
Looking for, ages 26-84.
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I'm a local and independent dom own a residential dungeon, living in the Sunderland region. I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man suitable to own and make my personal submission
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-86.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 46-82.
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Interests, Age play, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M

Professional Tourist Dominatrix BDSM consultant and enthusiast,fetish Model
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay

Good friends and yummy fun brings out the magic in me
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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I enjoy all, I have a very Cruel sense of humour when needed and a sadistic streak when I can see you responding well to My torment, however sessions do not have to involve pain or humiliation.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-76.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Nylons, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Voyeurism

Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we have to be friends to get to know more about each other and see where this will lead us to
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-77.
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Interests, Pegging, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Voyeurism

Nice lady X looking for genuine people x please keep it real xx No time wasters x
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-65.
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Professional Tourist Dominatrix BDSM consultant and enthusiast,fetish Model
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-76.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay

I'm 40 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Sweet woman looking for a good man for a dating and something other.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Anal, Dom, Fetish, Oral

I’m Sandra from Newcastle I’m caring, kind and loving
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Body Hair, Couples, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Group Sex, MILF, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

I want fun, nice and interesting people to meet, friends with benefits also
Straight
Looking for, ages 31-61.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games

I love being around my family and friends so that we have some time together
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Couples, Threesomes, Webcam

As for me i easily fall in love and I must say you have stolen my clothes I tend to be an incurable romantic! I am not interested in anyone who doesn’t fall in love easily..
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-60.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, LGBTQIA+, Roleplay

Active member locations
- Newton Aycliffe /
- Shildon /
- Hamsterley /
- Bishop Auckland /
- Spennymoor /
- Durham /
- Houghton Le Spring /
- Willington /
- Etherley /
- Stanley /
- Witton Gilbert /
- Ushaw Moor /
- Chester-le-street /
- Sunderland Bridge /
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