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Hello submissive one , will you fully submit yourself to me ? Female 30 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I’ll be your goddess you’ll be my play thing . Please me and I might just reward you


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I love making new friends and trying new things Female 23 from Durham, UK

I love travelling and reading and making new friends


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Im 80 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region. Female 80 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

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I am a dom seeking for a submissive sub to be train to be mine Female 31 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I'm 30 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.


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We are experience couple looking for like minds. Say hi lets have fun Couple 33, 32 from Elswick, UK

Male is athletic, energetic and respectful.
Female is beautiful, athletic and fun to be with. Can be shy at first then relaxed after some minute


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The interesting man for me should be masculine, intelligent, with a good sense o.. Female 43 from Darlington, UK

I am interested in a man who is mature enough for a family. I am not looking for a one-night stand. I believe that if there is love and respect between two people, a family life can be a great fun!


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Hi message me if you are interested Female 23 from Durham, UK

I used to do judo love being dominated and long walks


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We are new to this and just looking for fun Couple 46, 46 from Durham, UK

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Im 38 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region. Female 38 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

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Matured and confident alpha lady look g out for a sub for kinky pleasure Female 40 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

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Am here to have fun , Am new at this Female 34 from Sunderland, UK

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Fun to be with text with and lots more Female 31 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

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I’m into bad subs prepared to be used Female 31 from Middlesbrough, UK

Professional Tourist Dominatrix BDSM consultant and enthusiast,fetish Model


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I’m a highly experienced and well equipped Dominatrix . I have a large repertoi.. Female 35 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

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Am here looking for a serious relationship Female 40 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

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I’m into bad subs prepared to be used Female 31 from Durham, UK

Professional Tourist Dominatrix BDSM consultant and enthusiast,fetish Model


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Hi am single and Rachel is my Name Female 40 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Newcastle Upon Tyne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.


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I think Im quite nice, so Im here looking to connect with a nice man too, for .. Female 31 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

Sweet woman looking for a good man for a dating and something other.


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I want someone calm both inside and outside, an honest, Female 36 from Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

I’m Sandra from Newcastle I’m caring, kind and loving


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Nice and kind girl, friendly woman Female 35 from Newcastle, UK

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I am single and ready to mingle Female 45 from Newcastle, UK

I love being around my family and friends so that we have some time together


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I must say I admire your willingness to serve beneath my feetWhere abouts are yo.. Female 39 from Newcastle, UK

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  • Newton Aycliffe /
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  • Hamsterley /
  • Bishop Auckland /
  • Spennymoor /
  • Durham /
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  • Willington /
  • Etherley /
  • Stanley /
  • Witton Gilbert /
  • Ushaw Moor /
  • Chester-le-street /
  • Sunderland Bridge /

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