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im a dominant mistress looking for submissive Female 38 from Rochester, UK

Are you ready to get dominated by me and I'm ready to leak every each of my body


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Looking for, ages 28-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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Mistress Susan and here to have fun with my lovely sub and take him away Female 24 from Canterbury, UK

Very tall and sexy
Very disciplined well mistress


Straight

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Im 34 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 34 from Kent, UK

I'm 34 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 53.


Straight

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Professional mistress looking for male and female to spank Female 25 from Kent, UK

Hi am chloe who love to be spanked  i take all implements icluding the dreaded cane but
My favourite


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i am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 35 from Kent, UK

I am DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


Straight

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am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desir.. Female 25 from Kent, UK

I an DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


Straight

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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism.  Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .


Straight

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Im 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region. Female 36 from Maidstone, UK

I'm 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 90.


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Attractive couple, living in the Maidstone region. Couple 53, 59 from Maidstone, UK

We are a couple, living in the Maidstone region. We are new into this looking to explore our fantasy's. Me Bexxx is 53 yrs old. We're interested in meeting an attractive man aged up to 55. For threesome or Bull duties. No strings attached, discreet arrangement. Would prefer someone close to us or if they are willing to travel to us.


Straight, Straight

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Open to exploring some filthy kinks Im a super, experienced dom looking for a s.. Female 33 from Maidstone, UK

Clean and super pretty mistress and more... have a very passionate, but firm and genuine personality. I live according my own ideas and convictions. I never judge others and respect any life's position. I am very sympathetic, many-sided, purposeful, easy-going, cheerful and I am really willing to accept certain risks to make a strong commitmentCalls and notifications will vibrate


Straight

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Looking for fun, come have some fun with me. Female 51 from Maidstone, UK

Being a mummy, love to find an anr relationship, loving the abdl fetish at the moment, so if you looking for a mummy come and find me.


Straight

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Im 35 years old, living in the London region. Female 35 from Canterbury, UK

I am a honest woman who knows how to keep her man.


Straight

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Im 29 years old, living in the Shoreham region. Female 29 from Chatham, UK

I promise an unrushed relaxing experience..clean/ <br>great hygine <br>no drama <br>100% independent <br>discreet


Straight

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Bi couple looking for a bi couple or bi man Couple 39, 39 from Bearsted, UK

We’re a bi couple been together for 7 years and looking to spice up our already awesome sex life and try things with new people we’ve had threesomes before and would like to have sexual experiences with bi man or bi couple for steaming hot foreplay and great sex together no time wasters please


Bisexual, Bisexual

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Hello everyone Am mistress Emily Female 28 from Ashford, UK

Looking for a Sub to dominate  
Orally, Mistress Emily


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Threesomes

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I everyone am looking for serious man Female 27 from Kent, UK

I like dancing and singing and going out I like being happy


Straight

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i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play.. Female 38 from Kent, UK

i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


Straight

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Let’s have a conversation about how to proceed Female 29 from Bredhurst, UK

Let’s fuk I’m here for you I’m good with satisfaction


Straight

Looking for, ages 20-54. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Anal, BBW / BHM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Temperature Play, Threesomes

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Im looking for serious minded person to have real good fun Female 28 from Kent, UK

I'm a simple lady interested in exploring all my kinky preferences


Straight

Looking for, ages 44-83. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Threesomes

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SSBBW & cuck partner looking for cuckold fun with a (possibly bi) guy who apprec.. Couple 50, 42 from Sheerness, UK

Cuckold fun and someone able to dominate the sissy cuck in our relationship.


Bisexual, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 40-59. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Roleplay, Voyeurism

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We are a straight couple looking for a male to join us in having a bit of fun. W.. Couple 32, 35 from Chatham, UK

A couple looking for a male 3rd to join us in some fun.
New to this


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-39. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Threesomes

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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


Pansexual

Looking for, ages 25-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Sub

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Unbroken. Make me submit I’m an alpha submissive. Not looking for hook up look.. Female 40 from Snodland, UK

I’m not a novice but not that experienced.

Never been made to submit never trusted anyone enough. I’ll try most things I have a few hard limits. But I’ll have a conversation about anything.


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 30-54. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, S&M, Sub

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Go on your knees and say: Pain is my passion, and my passion is my pain.” “I wo.. Female 29 from Maidstone, UK

Your kink mistress for all round fantasies in the lifestyle


Straight

Looking for, ages 56-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

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Im 38 years old, living in the Hothfield region. Female 38 from Hothfield, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the Hothfield region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.


Straight

Looking for, ages 45-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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  • Kent /
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  • Bredhurst /
  • Great Chart /
  • Sutton Valence /
  • Gillingham /
  • Hempstead /
  • Bearsted /
  • Kent /
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