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Al, 40 from Great Clacton, Essex

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Cate, 50 from Peckleton, Leicestershire

I've just turned 50 . People say I look younger. I'm not looking for one night stands or time wasters. I want a discreet relationship or friends with benefits. I need to feel connected, wanted and have more than just the physical part of an affair I'm looking for someone intelligent that wants to hold a conversation If all you want is to mess around or a quick "shag" don't bother to waste either of our times because it won't happen , that's not what I've signed up for. My marriage isn't stimulating on any front and never has...

Kaytie, 47 from Great Clacton, Essex

Looking for a fun relationship with a younger man (over the age of 34 please). There seem to be several sites linked together here, so just to make it clear I'm not looking for anything casual or any one offs. I'm looking for a man to spend both social and private time with to form a relationship. The reason that I'm here and not on a regular dating site is because I am a dominant female looking for a man who would like to experience being submissive. I don't want someone who has been a submissive before, this is...

Kenny, 52 from Thornliebank, Strathclyde

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