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Lucy, 28 from Lewes, East Sussex

NO MARRIED MEN! Can't b dealing with that. I am NOT just looking 4 sex. I want more than that

Simon, 44 from Rayleigh, Essex

Genuine guy looking for some fun and laughs (and great sex, of course!) Have a very high sex drive and would like to meet a sexy girl for NSA fun and laughs. I tend towards dominant/kinky but have a gentle side too. I'm definitely up for meets and not into endless chat. I don't have a particular type but hopefully my playmate would be a little younger than me, pretty face, nice legs and bum, who is easy-going, bubbly and fun (with, perhaps, a kinky side too).

Cheryl, 31 from Marston Green, West Midlands

Looking to have some extramarital nsa fun. I am happily married but me and hubby have both decided to have some fun away from home. I would also have fun with a woman.

Cocksucker, 25 from Hyde, Greater Manchester

Desperate to please anyone who will have me, I'm not pretty or slim but I'm enthusiastic and know my place is pleasing anyone who'll use me...I'm discreet so don't be worried about taking advantage I'm happy to suck and leave if required.

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