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Heather, 23 from Chatham, Kent

Have a bf only been with him i am tight want hung 30 to 45 no older or younger

Dot, 64 from Rayleigh, Essex

Dot has yet to add her profile.

Hannah, 21 from Preston, Lancashire

Not long since got out of a relationship so just kinda looking but not really wanting anything serious.

John, 51 from Rayleigh, Essex

I am a believer in having fun, but, I'm not one for jumping out of planes blah, blah, having fun to me is a bottle of wine, a really good comedy and chat and then the fun can begin! I have flat in South Shields which I rent off the council, still decorating, but slowly getting there. trying to talk to people on the sites would cost a fortune, Erm, what else would people want to know? Sorry, but can't really think of anything? Oh hang on, I am a normal bloke, not weird, total gent that really needs...

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