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Hi, I am a female sub looking for a strong male Dom. He will need to he strong t.. Female 59 from Harlow, UK

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I would love to try age play, never tried it as my husband was not into this so I have no experience with this.
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Hello Just looking for sum safe fun sexual encounters x Female 47 from Dagenham, UK

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To meet women who like sex with men. Female 70 from Latchingdon, UK

Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women.  I like to dress up, use sex  toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set.  Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.


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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 29 from Rochester, UK

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