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I am a free spirit/open minded/attracted to unique characters. I am seeking a physical and mental attraction/connectio n I am NOT seeking casual FUN one off encounters. I am NOT a mistress/dominatrix. If I show any interest in you, I will make correspondence. NO I. D pic NO chat.
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Looking for, ages 18-49.
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Interests, Dom, Sub

My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
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Interests, Age play, Sex Talk

I’m not a novice but not that experienced.
Never been made to submit never trusted anyone enough. I’ll try most things I have a few hard limits. But I’ll have a conversation about anything.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 30-54.
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Interests, BDSM, S&M, Sub

Looking for male to join us want to give my partner the night of her life
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Looking for, ages 18-39.
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Interests, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Threesomes, Video themselves

We are a happy and relaxed couple that enjoy our sex life. We are looking to broaden the horizons a little with a little bit of spice. Looking for a respectable third who can keep within the boundaries while also exploring and having fun. She takes a bit of pleasing so 2 makes it a bit better.Not interested in seedy people.Nice to have a chat and get to know someone. Not too interested in pre written messages, so won’t be responding to anyone using those. Face picture a must also. Just relax and be genuine.
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Looking for, ages 35-49.
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I'm assertive, l'm the fine line between dominant and submissive, unapologetically myself and honest.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 28-60.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

We are excited to meet new people who are open-minded and want to have a good time.
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Looking for, ages 18-39.
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Interests, Bukkake, Cuckold, Threesomes

I'm very communicative and talkative girl. I'm cheerful and honest. I like to find new friends. I'm trying to avoid conflicts, because I'm very calm and I think it's better to discuss the situation than make to conflict from it. I can be romantic and passionate sometimes. My individuality is based on development such qualities as honesty, respect, tact, romantic nature, passion, desire to share to other person feeling, compassion, understanding, I always positive and curious in the world around me.
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Looking for, ages 49-90.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, Curves, Dirty Talk, Lingerie, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

I enjoy quite alot of kinks too bondage, restraints,
role play, collar lead, leash, body worship, discipline,
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toy, and Each relationship is unique and the people
involved make their own rules for it and boundaries
must be respected. In this fashion I wanna be your
permanent queen and will be exclusive to you and
only you will have me as well.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-85.
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A partner who is open-minded and conscientious shows us that they are willing to work hard to see our perspective and put effort into a relationship, showing us that we matter and are accepted for who we are. With someone who is emotionally stable, we can feel safe.
Straight
Looking for, ages 65-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Dirty Talk, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

Ask me anything you might want to know. Just a dm away
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 20-89.
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I’m so much interested in this Dominant lifestyle and love to hook up most time to check more about my fantasy Dm
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Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Sex Toys

Love gaming
My cats
And cycling
Love hanging out with friends
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-29.
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Interests,

Lots of fun no strings .
He has lots of ideas ,I just love sex.
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Looking for, ages 38-58.
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Interests, Cuckold

I'm 53 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 37.
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Looking for, ages 25-37.
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Interests, Age Gap, BDSM, Leather / Latex, S&M

I'm 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 90.
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Looking for, ages 19-90.
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I'm 24 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.
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Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Love been shown and treated good.
It brings out the best in me
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Looking for, ages 36-90.
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I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 45.There is a lot more to me but u will have to message me to find out
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-42.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sub

I’m young woman but I am mature enough for family life. I know what kind of man I am looking for and understand that dating online can be challenging; still, I would like to be happy and ready to go on a date if you ask me out. I am romantic, feminine, tender. I love my friends and family.
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-90.
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Interests, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Group Sex, Sex Talk

Fun, easy good, love adventure and full control..
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Looking for, ages 26-84.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I will do anything to make my guy happy anything ..
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Looking for, ages 33-90.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Electro Play, Lace, Oral, Sex Talk, Sub

Totally new to this . My partner prefers to watch me having some Casual fun rather the join in.
Looking for age range of 25-40
Our first time so looking for someone to show us the way .
We’re very busy people so can’t meet at the drop of a hat and needs to be localish
Please only message if your within our criteria
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Looking for, ages 25-39.
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Looking for, ages 19-90.
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Interests, Dom

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