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Inspired by erotica/vintage erotic, I am a submissive seeking a connection with .. Female 43 from Greenhithe, UK

I am a free spirit/open minded/attracted to unique characters.    I am seeking  a physical and mental attraction/connectio n    I am NOT seeking casual FUN one off encounters.     I am NOT a mistress/dominatrix.   If I show any interest in you,   I will make correspondence.  NO I.  D pic NO chat.


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I am the most honest and open person you ever met. I am the most sincere and pos.. Female 37 from Dagenham, UK

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Unbroken. Make me submit I’m an alpha submissive. Not looking for hook up look.. Female 40 from Snodland, UK

I’m not a novice but not that experienced.

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New to this will be are first time looking for fun Couple 27, 26 from Queenborough, UK

Looking for male to join us want to give my partner the night of her life


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In love couple looking to fulfil desires. MMF Threesomes are what we are into. L.. Couple 41, 41 from Rainham, UK

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To shine your brightest light is to be who you are Female 25 from Upminster, UK

I'm assertive, l'm the fine line between dominant and submissive, unapologetically myself and honest.
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We have been a couple for 5 years, he is cuckold and I am HotWife, we are open t.. Couple 26, 26 from Rochester, UK

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I am ambitious and very kind lady with good sense humor. I am ready for a serio.. Female 48 from Purfleet, UK

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Im a dominant mistress who has lived
this lifestyle for years, and looking for .. Female 42 from Purfleet, UK

I enjoy quite alot of kinks too bondage,  restraints, 
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toy,  and Each relationship is unique and the people
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I am looking for a serious relationship involve honesty, trust, respect and open.. Female 65 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Not new to the BDSM scene, also Bi. Love when a person abdicates their will and .. Female 29 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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I’m here intrested in bdsm lifestyle and also available for hook up Female 28 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Looking for fun Single Smoke friendly Female 24 from Dartford, UK

Love gaming
My cats
And cycling
Love hanging out with friends


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Looking for someone to join him and I for fun Couple 47, 54 from Gravesend, UK

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Hi Dominant Sadist Woman Cougar living near Romford Essex UK. Female 53 from Romford, UK

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Im 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Female 28 from Chelmsford, UK

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Im 24 years old, living in the Romford region. Female 24 from Romford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.


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Wanna have fun, check me out I have a surprise for you Female 43 from Shorne, UK

Love been shown and treated good.
It brings out the best in me


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Im 36 years old, living in Chatham Female 36 from Chatham, UK

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 45.There is a lot more to me but u will have to message me to find out


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I’m young woman but I am mature enough for family life. I know what kind of man I am looking for and understand that dating online can be challenging; still, I would like to be happy and ready to go on a date if you ask me out. I am romantic, feminine, tender. I love my friends and family.


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Prodom mistress looking for a sub to worship and adore her Female 38 from Crayford, UK

Fun, easy good, love adventure and  full control..


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Hey there I’m looking for fun and long term xx Female 43 from Rochester, UK

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New to the lifestyle and want to explore Couple 37, 46 from Northfleet, UK

Totally new to this . My partner prefers to watch me having some Casual fun rather the join in.

Looking for age range of 25-40

Our first time so looking for someone to show us the way .

We’re very busy people so can’t meet at the drop of a hat and needs to be localish

Please only message if your within our criteria


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Looking for my little piggy sub where are you your embarrassment is my pleasure Female 29 from Romford, UK

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