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I am a short, slim, professional, attractive, confident, chatty brunette. I am 40yrs old, like to keep fit and look after myself. I am seeking a sub male to play with, age 25 -49 ish. In terms of my search, our first meet would be in a nice bar, and require a detailed discussion, so that I can fully understand you. Anyone can bark orders - a true D/s relationship has a much deeper level of understanding and connection. I am looking for someone discreet. I am very open to exploring. No interest in sex outdoors. Mutual respect and privacy are extremely important to me. Hoping to find someone for regular meets. I'm open minded and non judgmental. I do not want the lifestyle 24/7, only in the bedroom, behind closed doors.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-56.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, S&M

Looking for that special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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A dom with lots of kinks looking for a submissive men only..
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-85.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 30-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

I love it when someone messes with me, that means I don’t have to be nice anymore.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-50.
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Interests, Age play, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

I'm 38 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 38 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-90.
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Interests, Bukkake, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Temperature Play

We are fun couple and like to meet couples that are naughty and fun
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

I like to wear fancy shoes with tall heels, pants that fit snugly, and shirts that make me stand out. It gives me a happy feeling and helps me believe in myself more. This makes me feel like I am in control and sure of myself, which is really important to me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-61.
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I believe in living life to the fullest and indulging in all the luxuries it has to offer. Whether it's jet-setting to exotic destinations, dining at Michelin-starred restaurants, or enjoying the finest wines and cocktails, I'm all about embracing the lavish side of life. In addition to seeking a luxurious companion, I'm also looking to connect with like-minded individuals who share my adventurous spirit and are eager to explore more of my kinky side. I believe in open-mindedness, mutual respect, and creating unforgettable experiences together. If you're a guy who knows how to appreciate the finer things in life and is ready to indulge in a world of luxury and excitement, I'd love to hear from you. Let's embark on a journey of opulence, adventure, and exploration, where every moment is filled with passion and pleasure. With a twinkle in my eye and a thirst for adventure
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-81.
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Want a fun experience then hit me up we can make some fun memories together
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-85.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm 39 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 67.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-67.
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Interests,

im single lady im living with my family im happy to go out with my friends and familiars
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-60.
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I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like blood, faeces, or pain.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Travelling ,I love travelling and making out, I love making new friends
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-75.
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Well I'm new Sophia going to all this internet stuff and has only been on the site for today and have not talked to any man from there.
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, ASMR, BBW / BHM, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

I'm 25 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 18 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay

I'm 29 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 77.
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-77.
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Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

That is not so strange, - - after these below options, you may be thinking? Never the less ; Children alike will always play best together I think . So let’s find out . . May be its a little bit crazy, what I am doing in here ? But , Love can be just around the next corner , who knows without trying ? If you sit put still into your sofa doing absolutely nothing , , well then Nothing will happen ! So here I am . I am tired of operating alone in this life . I guess you too ? A man need a woman , A woman need a man . It is no good for a man to stay without a woman , It is no good for a woman to stay without a man . Woman and man are created for each other for to be / feel complete . Doesn’t matter where we come from . A woman is a woman , a man is a man . Even if our age and culture may be different , , Love will find a way . Love has no borderlines .
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Sexual Massage

I’m interested in meeting new people and having fun in a safe. And consensual ways.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-26.
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Reasonably sane, above-average intelligent, occasionally mildly amusing.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-58.
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Interests, Dom, Pegging, Sex Toys

I can surprise and be shy at the same time, maybe you are exactly the kind of playful kitty you were looking for)I am a person of energy! I like to learn new things and develop in that sphere which I like very much! I am dreamy and romantic, with a soul that craves beauty in every aspect of life
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Petite, Sex Games

Keen to love and fun to persons whom are serious minded for exploration of desires
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Bondage, Curves, Discreet Meets, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Impact Play, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism

Submissiveness is what matters.If you are sub and want to be pampered and obedient, treated and disciplined and want to live your wildest fantasies, let's talk.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-70.
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Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, S&M

Classy lady who Would love to go to dinner and maybe more …
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-64.
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Interests, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

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