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Confident, chatty, slim 40 yr old brunette seeks male sub. Female 41 from Mayfair, UK

I am a short, slim, professional, attractive, confident, chatty brunette. I am 40yrs old, like to keep fit and look after myself.  I am seeking a sub male to play with,  age 25 -49 ish.   In terms of my search, our first meet would be in a nice bar, and require a detailed discussion, so that I can fully understand you.  Anyone can bark orders - a true D/s relationship has a much deeper level of understanding and connection.   I am looking for someone discreet. I am very open to exploring. No interest in sex outdoors. Mutual respect and privacy are extremely important to me. Hoping to find someone for regular meets. I'm open minded and non judgmental. I do not want the lifestyle 24/7, only in the bedroom, behind closed doors.


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Im a legitimate sovereign goddess Female 34 from London, UK

Looking for  that  special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


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A lifestyle dom mistress looking for an obedience sub… Female 35 from London, UK

A dom with lots of kinks looking for a submissive men only..


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Am a full time Dom Seeking a sub who’s willing to explore this lifestyle with me Female 33 from London, UK

Hit me up if you seek same thing as I do
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Need some genuine and companion , 3 some xx Female 30 from London, UK

I love it when someone messes with me, that means I don’t have to be nice anymore.


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Am down here hook up and give best service ever Female 26 from London, UK

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Im 38 years old, living in the London region. Female 38 from London, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 38 and 99.


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We’re naughty but nice & happy Couple 57, 51 from London, UK

We are fun couple and like to meet couples that are naughty and fun


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Having a special attraction for certain objects and clothing has been a normal p.. Female 35 from London, UK

I like to wear fancy shoes with tall heels, pants that fit snugly, and shirts that make me stand out. It gives me a happy feeling and helps me believe in myself more. This makes me feel like I am in control and sure of myself, which is really important to me.


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beauty with a taste for the finer things in life and a passion for exploration. .. Female 27 from London, UK

I believe in living life to the fullest and indulging in all the luxuries it has to offer. Whether it's jet-setting to exotic destinations, dining at Michelin-starred restaurants, or enjoying the finest wines and cocktails, I'm all about embracing the lavish side of life. In addition to seeking a luxurious companion, I'm also looking to connect with like-minded individuals who share my adventurous spirit and are eager to explore more of my kinky side. I believe in open-mindedness, mutual respect, and creating unforgettable experiences together. If you're a guy who knows how to appreciate the finer things in life and is ready to indulge in a world of luxury and excitement, I'd love to hear from you. Let's embark on a journey of opulence, adventure, and exploration, where every moment is filled with passion and pleasure. With a twinkle in my eye and a thirst for adventure


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Not just a pretty woman, am all fun and naughty Female 24 from London, UK

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Im 39 years old, living in the London region. Female 40 from London, UK

I'm 39 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 67.


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hello nice to meet everyone here im new here looking for new friends Female 29 from London, UK

im single lady im living with my family im happy to go out with my friends and familiars


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IM A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 30 from London, UK

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy worship,  Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  faeces,  or pain.


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I’m just a jovial lady here for fun Female 27 from London, UK

Travelling ,I love travelling and making out, I love making new friends


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Ready to find my happily ever after. Looking for someone to brighten up my life... Female 43 from London, UK

Well I'm new Sophia going to all this internet stuff and has only been on the site for today and have not talked to any man from there.


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Im 25 years old, living in the London region. Female 25 from London, UK

I'm 25 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 18 and 90.


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Im 29 years old, living in the London region. Female 29 from London, UK

I'm 29 years old, living in the London region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 77.


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Hello I’m here for a long time relationship. Couple 34, 34 from London, UK

That is not so strange, - - after these below options, you may be thinking? Never the less ; Children alike will always play best together I think . So let’s find out . . May be its a little bit crazy, what I am doing in here ? But , Love can be just around the next corner , who knows without trying ? If you sit put still into your sofa doing absolutely nothing , , well then Nothing will happen ! So here I am . I am tired of operating alone in this life . I guess you too ? A man need a woman , A woman need a man . It is no good for a man to stay without a woman , It is no good for a woman to stay without a man . Woman and man are created for each other for to be / feel complete . Doesn’t matter where we come from . A woman is a woman , a man is a man . Even if our age and culture may be different , , Love will find a way . Love has no borderlines .


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Looking forward to meeting new people and making new friends Female 29 from London, UK

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Sensual Femdom over torture chambers and dungeons. Looking for a smart extrovert.. Female 47 from Surbiton, UK

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Im 41 years old, living in the London region. Female 41 from London, UK

I can surprise and be shy at the same time, maybe you are exactly the kind of playful kitty you were looking for)I am a person of energy! I like to learn new things and develop in that sphere which I like very much! I am dreamy and romantic, with a soul that craves beauty in every aspect of life


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Keen to love,keen to fun,keen to exploration Female 33 from London, UK

Keen to love and fun to persons whom are serious minded for exploration of desires


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I am a gorgeous Dom seeking a willing sub to be under my servitude and bring my .. Female 38 from Woolwich, UK

Submissiveness is what matters.If you are sub and want to be pampered and obedient, treated and disciplined and want to live your wildest fantasies, let's talk.


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In London on business soon can you show a girl a good time?! Female 42 from London, UK

Classy lady who Would love to go to dinner and maybe more …


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