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Looking for, ages 40-80.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Loyalty and freedom are the main words that define me as a woman and as a person. I will love the man who respects my freedom, I will choose him every day if this is what he gives me. Joining a man for me implies mutual growth, I always want to help fulfill his purpose and for him to help mine. My desire is to find a gentlemanly, conscientious, loving and respectful man for himself and others.
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-90.
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I've been indulge in BDSM for almost 5 years now and I'm looking for someone with the same interest.
Straight
Looking for, ages 19-90.
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Looking for, ages 24-63.
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I’m mistress Rachel an experience & professional mistress looking out for a loyal sub I hate time wasters also domination for me is as a form of art and self-expression. I like projecting mindscapes of new realities. But most of all I love being in total control . You will be there for me in order to make my fantasy happen. Let your ego and shame drop, and surrender to the inner call.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I'm 55 years old, living in the Southampton region.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
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I am a creative individual, highly sensitive and gentle. I always strive to find happiness even in the smallest things. I long to encounter love and aspire to be an exemplary wife.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-88.
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Looking for, ages 20-50.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I Love my self, I'm good to be loved and I'm beautiful
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Looking for, ages 18-75.
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I’m here interested in a submissive partner who’s ready to take good care of mistress body and soul , And also available for hook up
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-90.
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Me and the wife wants to explore were looking for another male to join us in our sexual pursuit to fulfil each other needs.
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Looking for, ages 25-40.
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Looking to explore and find myself again! Typically enjoy listening to music and vibing to it. Outdoors is always the most fun especially during the summer. What's the point in letting all the secrets out of the bag? Give me a message and see if the Vibes match
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 25-55.
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I enjoy being told, watched and filmed. I would like to explore so much more
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-50.
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I'm 30 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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We love to make each other happy and bring pleasure and would like to share that.
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Looking for, ages 18-65.
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I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-85.
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Bisexual
Looking for, ages 29-74.
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Hola ☺️
Bit of a nerd with a naughty side
Food, Travel, Literature, Videogames, Kisses and Cuddles!
Not gonna lie, would love to settle down and commit with someone who is enough open minded to accept my both sides
Nap dates are a thing!
Whispering Spanish words in your ear
Who else love orange sunsets?
I'm the little spoon!
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-42.
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Interests, Discreet Meets

I am equally playful and fun. I tend to be humorous and, although I can be kinky and authoritative. It would be true to say that I love nothing more than a novice. However know that all of you, novice or experienced will be putty in my hands. So if you trust me with your fantasy then rest assured I will make it truly memorable for us both for all the right reasons.
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-61.
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Let's embark on a journey of discovery together! Whether it's exploring hidden gems in the city or hiking scenic trails, I'm looking for a fellow adventurer to share life's exciting moments.
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-86.
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Completely letting go is what makes me happy, I dislike making decisions so the ability to relax and give over control is what relaxes me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-35.
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Gifts without notice get me more exciting and serious communication
Straight
Looking for, ages 58-90.
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Newly single girl who loves to try new things, music and debate both bring out my passion!
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-58.
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