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Nothing much to say here. Just let me know if you’re interested so we get in tou.. Female 64 from Southampton, UK

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I am easy to get along with, open-minded, reasonable, and generous. If youre in.. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

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Been here multiple times and Im just looking for my one and only. Female 29 from Eastleigh, UK

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Being a submissive means you are fully able and capable of giving yourself to me.. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I’m mistress Rachel an experience & professional mistress looking out for a loyal sub I hate time wasters also domination for me is as a form of art and self-expression. I like projecting mindscapes of new realities. But most of all I love being in total control .  You will be there for me in order to make my fantasy happen.  Let your ego and shame drop, and surrender to the inner call.


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Im 55 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 55 from Southampton, UK

I'm 55 years old, living in the Southampton region.
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I am looking for a man who is ready to start a family, self-sufficient , atte.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

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Couple looking to explore and to fulfill fantasies Couple 40, 40 from Emsworth, UK

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SSC, RACK practice. Safe and Clean just means we can get more dirty Female 29 from Southampton, UK

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Im 30 years old, living in the Portsmouth region. Female 30 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 30 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
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We are a loving and committed couple looking to have fun with the right person o.. Couple 42, 40 from Swaythling, UK

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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 24 from Southampton, UK

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Hi ☺️ Here to make friends, fwb or relationship xx Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Hola ☺️

Bit of a nerd  with a naughty side
Food, Travel, Literature, Videogames, Kisses and Cuddles!

Not gonna lie, would love to settle down and commit with someone who is enough open minded to accept my both sides

Nap dates are a thing!
Whispering Spanish words in your ear
Who else love orange sunsets?

I'm the little spoon!


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I love nothing more than to be both served and worshiped Female 35 from Portsmouth, UK

I am equally playful and fun. I tend to be humorous and, although I can be kinky and authoritative. It would be true to say that I love nothing more than a novice. However know that all of you, novice or experienced will be putty in my hands. So if you trust me with your fantasy then rest assured I will make it truly memorable for us both for all the right reasons.


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Passionate Explorer Seeking Adventure Partner Female 39 from Winchester, UK

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New to the scene, but very interested in exploring this world, I’m a big girl so.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

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Don’t be shy to text let’s get naughty together and have fun. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

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