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Welcome to My Bed or Yours, an adult contacts site for naughty singles, swingers and anyone looking for a little excitement. In the past, connecting with local swingers could be a tiresome task. Not anymore..

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Having the best features, mobile application and competitive rates isn't what makes us great. Yes, it makes us pretty good but we didn't stop there. We also wanted to ensure we provided the best possible customer support via our dedicated team on hand and lastly, we wanted to be sure we had the best kind of members too. To combat the normal high levels of male to female members we offered the "women go free" promotion. A promotion which proved so popular we decided to keep it running giving us unbeatable male to female membership ratios.

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Does it all sound a bit too good to be true? We'll be honest, it is a bit fantastic. But it's really not that unbelievable when you think about it. People love sex but are usually too timid to just come out and say it. We offer a safe place they can live out their fantasies. We believe that if you offer a good honest service and do what you say you're going to do then people will enjoy using it and keep coming back for more. Which is why we have a constantly growing number of men and women with a healthy fun attitude towards sex. Signing up for a trial account is FREE and doesn't require any sort of credit card. Your free to browse the profiles and set up your own to see if there's someone for you.

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Gavin, 37 from Rode Heath, Cheshire

I'm Gav (that's my real name too! Pointless using a fake name and putting my face pic up) . So it seems, looking around, that most women (not all) are looking for a well spoken, suited, none smoking, gym going, huge cock gentleman. Well I'm afraid to say I'm none of the above (except maybe the occasional gentleman). I'm a steel fabricator/welder and an aspiring artist. If I'm well spoken I don't get heard, if I'm not heard accidents happen so I shout and swear. I don't wear a suit because it would catch fire while I work, along...

Louise, 43 from Aintree, Merseyside

Louise has yet to add her profile.

Del, 47 from Kilmarnock, Dumfries And Galloway

Hi,I'm a real female,the photos are of me and are recent.I'm from Yorkshire originally,still have the accent and go back for visits now and then. I'm 47,look a bit younger have long red/blond hair and green eyes,I'm 5'2" and size 8/10 I'm straightforward,easy to get on with a quick sense of humour and I'm a bit of a night owl Be good to see someone quite regular but recently separated looking to meet new people for some fun,dates and hassle free company. You could let me know what kind of thing you are looking for,maybe chat and hopefully meet...

Melissa, 31 from Laindon, Essex

Hi! Im a cuddly 30 year old from Essex :) I have a very high sex drive and am looking for a guy to give me a good seeing to ;) I love being eaten out, and im a gusher ;) I also love watching guys wank their big cocks for me. I love watching guys into toys and CBT I also would love to see videos of you fucking other girls from here ;) Send me a message with Video as the title and ill tell you how to get it to me ;) Im also very curious...

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