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Hi we are a fun loving couple looking to spice things up and explore more if you.. Couple 33, 33 from Bitterne, UK

Hi there this is Ben and kerry we would love to get to know you we like too have fun go to the gym go for long walks with our dog we are laid back and up for anything all you have to do is ask


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Hello future submissive you need a mistress that is experienced and plays her ki.. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

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Here to have fun who is gonna take me home Female 33 from Southampton, UK

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A woman embracing her dominant side seeks a dedicated submissive partner open to.. Female 51 from Southampton, UK

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Here for our orgasms.. don’t be shy Female 25 from Southampton, UK

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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 24 from Southampton, UK

I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner.


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Im 45 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 40 from Southampton, UK

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Single and wanting to play a switch but enjoys being a sub too Female 37 from Southampton, UK

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Being a submissive means you are fully able and capable of giving yourself to me.. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I’m mistress Rachel an experience & professional mistress looking out for a loyal sub I hate time wasters also domination for me is as a form of art and self-expression. I like projecting mindscapes of new realities. But most of all I love being in total control .  You will be there for me in order to make my fantasy happen.  Let your ego and shame drop, and surrender to the inner call.


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Let’s get to know each other better Female 35 from Southampton, UK

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Im 27 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Southampton region.
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I’m nice to be with, keen for love, keen for discreet, keen for fun, keen for an.. Female 27 from Portsmouth, UK

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STRICT MISTRESS SEEKS SISSY MAID Female 62 from Lymington, UK

MAID POSITION AVAILABLE It’s easier to tell you what I’m not looking for really which is a quick fling, mind games (I’d win ) or time wasters… What I am looking for is a long term loyal, fun, relationship with a maid who knows how to treat a Mistress and isn’t afraid - well maybe a tad, to allow her to take complete control.  I have a large circle of good friends and am very social, I enjoy being on the water sailing, cafe hopping, chilled white wine and cooking, to the outside World I seem a delight, the sort of lady your Mother would approve of…I’m a compassionate, intelligent, curvy, who loves nature, the ocean, and importantly animal welfare. I have 2 rescue cats who are very dear to me that must be totally accepted, other non negotiable points are smoking or drug use, any relationship status other than single:;If you feel you’d like to chat then don’t be shy I’m really easy to talk with as long as you know how to curtesy!!!


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Well hit me up and let’s got to know more about each other no for games Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I am an easy woman, but I have a heightened sense of responsibility. Punctuality, discipline in me compete with a pleasant character and an inquisitive mind. Life has left its imprint on me in the form of experience and respect for people , in the delivery of values and goals that I am ready to a


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Male submissive come play with your new mistress Female 34 from Southampton, UK

Am seeking for a male that will obey and be under my foot


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Of course Im not 18 years old, but do you know why women of my age are better?!.. Female 46 from Portsmouth, UK

I am like a wind in the field, I always bring the feeling of freshness and new emotions. If you want to feel these emotions, I can promise that I may be the best at it! I am very open-minded and I will show you my world which looks like a garden full of colorful flowers. I am also like a fish in the water, which means that I am always feel comfortable in different situation and with different people.


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I am looking forward to have very much fun here, I can get as kinky as I like an.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

I am a dominatrix woman who love to cum alot and s sauirter too. Hmmm I love to use toys to hype the pleasures


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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


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Open minded and discreet, looking forward in exploring our desires together. Female 31 from Portsmouth, UK

Keen for fun ,keen for love , keen for exploring and open minded in exploring new things.


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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 49 from Southampton, UK

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ‍♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..


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SSC, RACK practice. Safe and Clean just means we can get more dirty Female 29 from Southampton, UK

Looking to explore and find myself again! Typically enjoy listening to music and vibing to it. Outdoors is always the most fun especially during the summer. What's the point in letting all the secrets out of the bag? Give me a message and see if the Vibes match


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Ask me and I will let’s you know more about me Female 44 from Southampton, UK

Ask me, I will let’s you know more about you and see where it’s lead us too


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