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John, 70 from Croydon, London

Hi - I'm totally new to this scene and have never ever slept around. I'm a fit and slim, happy, nice, gentle, respectable, intelligent and practical person, and am told I look and act much younger than my age- probably due to having a large family! However I'm not a highly sexed 'Jack the Lad' type at all - I'm a little on the quiet side and nervous of meeting someone new - but I am a very loyal sincere family person. I'm now widowed so my life has moved on has to start again. I would like to...

Sue, 53 from Derby, Derbyshire

Hi, I have a very high sex drive. The more sex the better. Looking for one man for regular sex.

Roseanne, 59 from Croydon, London

What I like is friendly, caring and respectful sex, with an eye on hygiene and safety. I am only interested in men who like and respect women. I won't help a man cheat behind his partner's back. I like a man who genuinely wants to please the lady, and loves to see her enjoying herself, and who does not sneer at her or think she is a slut or any worse than himself just because she enjoys sex. So far, I have not managed to find such a man and so I have not yet met anyone off any...

Janis, 42 from Brentford, London

I'm recently separated and want a little excitement in my new single life

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