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I'm 58 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 56 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sub

Lick my Lips before you fuck me. What i mean is My pussie Lips.
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

loving and caring serious fun and romantic .cook travwl beach dinner dates
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Oral, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

We want to enjoy and experience party fun we have played with single males in the past now want to expand
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under foot
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay

I’m looking for real connection with someone on here and then see where it goes.
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-68.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, ASMR, Body Hair, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Discreet Meets, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Leather / Latex, Mature, Nylons, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play

I love smiling and being passionate and enthusiastic, I think the sexiest thing that a woman wears is a smile. It is also the most beautiful language in the world, so my friends judge me as a warm-hearted, tender, caring, feminine, humorous, and thoughtful woman. I am optimistic about caring for my life. Now this petite lady here is yearning for another pair of hands holding with for a lifetime?
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 36-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Oral, Pegging, S&M, Sex Talk, Sub

I like romance and all the things that are included. I need eclectic and chivalrous man. When he likes to help me with a jacket, open doors for me and walk hand in hand. I especially enjoy going out in public with my man on his arm.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Webcam

I'm generous,kind ,sincere ,loyal , modest ,trust wealthy
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-71.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Tickle Play, Webcam

I met a Dominant man online a while back, and he ignited a spark in me. I've been engaged in online Dom/sub play ever since. I'd love to find a physical partner. Seeking companionship, intelligent conversation and fun. NSA.
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-75.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

Looking for that man. A man who is going to make me happy.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

I’m easy to get along with and down to earth woman with good sense of humor …like to share jokes and laugh with your jokes as well .
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Curves, Dirty Talk, Dom, Edging, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub

I am cool, friendly and easy going. I love try new things
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Webcam

I'm 33 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 25 and 40.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

Me and the wife wants to explore were looking for another male to join us in our sexual pursuit to fulfil each other needs.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

We are fairly open from mild to wild, but really love outdoor fun.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-52.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

Loyalty and freedom are the main words that define me as a woman and as a person. I will love the man who respects my freedom, I will choose him every day if this is what he gives me. Joining a man for me implies mutual growth, I always want to help fulfill his purpose and for him to help mine. My desire is to find a gentlemanly, conscientious, loving and respectful man for himself and others.
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

Bondage, humiliation , infliction ,sweet bearable pain, sex
Straight
Looking for, ages 26-88.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

There is a lot haha so how about you come say hi and if you want to know more
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-57.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Soft Swap, Threesomes

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).
I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).
Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).
When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.
Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

I'm 29 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 90.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm an open minded woman. I like hiking, ski, cananda snow ski pro. always on birth control. 43 yrs old Southampton ready to meet and ready accommodate on arrangements. scumbags stay off. show me the side you don't get show people
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I love to have fun.enjoy a good laugh..like cooking and sorry but don't eat food out that much i love the movies and beach
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Curves, Feet, Lingerie, Oral, Pegging, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Webcam

I love hanging out with friends and getting to meet new people.
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom

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