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love life live it to the fullest. Female 31 from Southampton, UK

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We are both shy to start with but Im a straight male and my partner is bisexual.. Couple 44, 43 from Woolston, UK

Ask and find out as both have high sex drive and always on look out for another women to join us


Straight, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-35. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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Looking for extra fun f is 62 and a sexy bbw m 52 and dad bod Couple 52, 52 from Bridgemary, UK

We want to enjoy and experience party fun we have played with single males in the past now want to expand


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Single seeking for a relationship Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I am a very romantic, passionate and open-minded person, respectful, with a kind heart and one-man woman so I hope to find him here. I really believe that kindness breeds kindness; and the world would be a better place if all adopted that mindset. I have a good sense of humor and enjoy making people laugh but I am also a very good listener and therefore not self enamored. I was full of energy and I liked to play in a yard with my friends. I'm very calm person. I like to know new things, new people,new places. Only one thing is missing now, my only Man, whom I can love and who will support me in everything I do, then I will please him, try to make every day full of joy and happiness for him! So if we are both here, please let's try a chance! Nobody knows, where it will bring us, but who says we don't dare to try? Looking forward for your answer


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Looking for, ages 60-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Mature

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Im 33 years old, living in the Portsmouth region. Female 33 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 33 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 32 and 71.


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Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we hav.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

I am single.I am caring, honest, loving, respectful,faithful and loyal woman.i don’t cheat.


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I am honest woman with one daughter. I was married for twelve years and we had o.. Female 48 from Portsmouth, UK

J have been a widow for five years now and I wanted to be lonely by not being with another man but I have tried and I just can't control myself that way I really need a man who will love me and spend my whole life with now someday and forever


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I am DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive.. Female 28 from Southampton, UK

My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave


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IM A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 31 from Southampton, UK

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy worship,  Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  faeces,  or pain.


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Im 22 years old, living in the Southsea region. Female 22 from Southsea, UK

I'm 22 years old, living in the Southsea region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 33.


Bisexual

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30s something couple looking to explore! Couple 38, 38 from Portsmouth, UK

New to this couple looking to expand our sex life.


Straight, Straight

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I’m honest new here looking for anything Goes, I’m not upgraded so do the needfu.. Female 41 from Portsmouth, UK

Kindly read my profile I mean I do for fun so that we get to know more better about each other and see where it will lead us


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Single and wanting to play a switch but enjoys being a sub too Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I enjoy being tied up, spanked and controlled. I also enjoy spanking


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Of course Im not 18 years old, but do you know why women of my age are better?!.. Female 46 from Portsmouth, UK

I am like a wind in the field, I always bring the feeling of freshness and new emotions. If you want to feel these emotions, I can promise that I may be the best at it! I am very open-minded and I will show you my world which looks like a garden full of colorful flowers. I am also like a fish in the water, which means that I am always feel comfortable in different situation and with different people.


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Hello I am new to all this online dating stuffs and I am looking forward to for .. Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Hello I am new to all this online dating stuffs and I am looking forward to for a long term serious and honest relationship with the end result is marriage


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Im 58 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 58 from Southampton, UK

I'm 58 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 56 and 90.


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Im 27 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 24 and 55.


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I am a dominant and independent woman i seek a wild and pleasurable sub to make .. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I am a dominant and independent woman i seek a wild and pleasurable sub to make my submission contact me on whats app


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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


Pansexual

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Here for our orgasms.. don’t be shy Female 25 from Southampton, UK

I love a good gesture.. Classy but dangerous on the bed.. I charge


Straight

Looking for, ages 32-81. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 49 from Southampton, UK

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ‍♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..


Straight

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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 24 from Southampton, UK

I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner.


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Hey hey heyFun single woman looking to have a good time and want to experiment .. Couple 49, 48 from Gosport, UK

Good fun female  who is laid back and fun, clean obviously We are looking for a bi male to interact with Mr mainly for my pleasure but both, also open to a couple We are new to this but very open minded to right make or couple


Straight, Straight

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Lesbian couple live a pretty normal life … looking to experiment with the right .. Couple 29, 31 from Portsmouth, UK

Lesbian couple who has lots of fun … but know there is a lot more fun to be had.If you think you maybe the right man for the job give us a message (we bite)!


Lesbian, Lesbian

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Hello I am brett and my girlfriend is nikki . we are a fun and down to earth cou.. Couple 38, 37 from Fareham, UK

We are a very happy couple . we are both very horny and massively naughty in the bedroom or were ever we are at the time .we are both up for trying new things. but we have push are naughtiness really really fare and now we would like to take it to the next level and find someone or a couple to join us for nsa fun or even partner switching but have to be in the same room we both can have multiple orgasams/cum loads and in a row so if this sounds like something you want or would like to no more about plz say hi and give us a text


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