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Holly, 50 from New Malden, London

Hi guys, thank you for checking my profile. I am a nice friendly lady who is looking for a respectful and polite gentleman between the age of 25-40. I am looking for casual encounters but I would consider something more regular and more involved with the right person. My ideal playmate would be a gym-fit slim man who practises safe sex, a generous giver who can lick me out endlessly! I am into soft, slow and sensual type of sex. I do have a preference for Caucasian men. I would appreciate a genuinely written message. No one-liners please. You...

Terry, 51 from West Wittering, West Sussex

I'm young at heart and energetic. I love the wild side of life and fun is my middle name. I was raised in Africa and adore the outdoors. Looking for a Tigress.

Sxc-Char, 30 from Scarborough, North Yorkshire

hi guys, bored housewife needs some discrete fun, looking to be satisfied in ways my husband has never. i fantasies about two guys sneaking into our house tying my husband up and then getting fucked them in front of him, showing how i like to be fucked and how i look when i have a real orgasm and not faking it. id love to hear from you horny guys so get in touch xxx

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