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Where open minded adults meet, chat and exchange their most intimate thoughts and desires. Many of us fantasise about meeting a stranger for uncomplicated, exciting sex but most of us are too inhibited to actually explore our wicked side. Not at My Bed or Yours. Our members embrace their sexuality, openly explore their naughty side and celebrate sex.

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It's pretty much guaranteed that we all have a fantasy of a wild no string encounter or inviting someone else to join our partner. But how do you meet someone or bring it up in polite conversation? It's difficult and that's probably why for most people it stays a fantasy.

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Ema, 22 from Springburn, Strathclyde

Completely new to this, very shy and inexperienced but eager to learn. Very open minded, bet your kink won't even surprise me. Looking for FWB that would actually last, be fun and more than just drilling each other for one night

Caroline, 55 from Gidea Park, London

I would like regular sex with one man. A man who is big in size 8in or more as experience more sensations in pleasure. Someone who is respectful to the whole exchange of affection. Tall man is wished but not set in stone. I am 5"7". I am curvy in shape as my photo reveals. I am single do not have a partner. Have nothing against the partner turning into a relationship. At the moment regular sex would be nice with a man who can also hold a conversation. Non smokers, no tattoos, above 40 preferred.

Barry, 49 from Swindon, Wiltshire

Hi, I am just looking for some fun with a local lady

Tash, 48 from New Waltham, Lincolnshire

I am very young at heart have a GSOH and do not take life too seriously. Well straight to the point here! I am not your average person on these sites. I am here to find only one guy to form a strong loving friendship with he will make me laugh and have a great sense of humour and young at heart as I am. It will take some time to find him but when he comes along I will know . The site I am on is forbidden Affair. Please do not judge me as we are all...

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