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Single looking for love and care a man that l can spend my time with
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bukkake, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Impact Play, Lingerie, Nylons, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Sex Talk, Temperature Play

I'm 55 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 93.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Crossdress, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Mature, MILF, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

I love spending my time with the people I love....
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, BDSM, Bondage, Dom, Fetish, Mature, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

Life makes me happy As a solo Poly I’m a woman who knows what she wants and has the freedom to be herself in all ways. I play as a solo poly and not looking to play with the whole site and neither a quick fuck.I’m in one fwb relationship but looking to add another fwb to play on my own with.I also play as a swinging straight couple with my fwb who is a vintage swinger and I am a newbie in the swinging scene, I am wanting to explore my sexual liberation and swing as a straight couple not as a single femaleIndependent thinker, self determined and not in need of rescue or relationship.There’s no such thing as no strings attached for me, so why don’t we build anticipation, connection and thrill me with the chase.Let’s not interfere with real lives and enjoy honesty with each other.Lead with a conversation not just a one liner. A little bit of time and effort proves nothing is impossible.Text me with hi fluffy
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-58.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun

New to this couple looking to expand our sex life.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 19-70.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Control, entertaining and pure indulgence, reaching for the ultimate climax
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

We are fairly open from mild to wild, but really love outdoor fun.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-52.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I am equally playful and fun. I tend to be humorous and, although I can be kinky and authoritative. It would be true to say that I love nothing more than a novice. However know that all of you, novice or experienced will be putty in my hands. So if you trust me with your fantasy then rest assured I will make it truly memorable for us both for all the right reasons.
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-61.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Love you all guys text me if you are interested in me
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).
I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).
Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).
When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.
Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

Miracles happen when you Do what makes you happy ..
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Fetish, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys

I think I would like 2 bisexual men or a couple for sex
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-60.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Oral, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

I'm a tender and open-hearted woman who dreams to find her man in life, her second half whom I will be able to live long and happy life together, full of love, care and mutual understanding.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

Am seeking for a male that will obey and be under my foot
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

I am open minded and free so i cherish discretion just make sure you're worth my juices
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-89.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Dom, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, Nylons, Petite, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes

I sure would bring your wildest fantasies to life.. I love to pleasure , hit me up let’s get freaky xx
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 25-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I am a honesty woman, purposeful, loving, open to everything new. I lead an active lifestyle, but sometimes I like to hang out and enjoy the moment, look at the world and say that I am a happy person with joy in my eyes
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Crossdress, Curves

In my world, you’ll discover a side of Femdom where affection is blended with control, where my playful nature dances with my love of inspiring surrender, where the rules of daily life can slip away into a blissful, hedonistic experience.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

Gifts without notice get me more exciting and serious communication
Straight
Looking for, ages 58-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Impact Play, Mature, MILF, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play

We are in a bdsm relationship however this does not define us. We are open to all levels of fun, happy to go vanilla or a little harder if wanted.
Straight, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 37-52.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Hola ☺️
Bit of a nerd with a naughty side
Food, Travel, Literature, Videogames, Kisses and Cuddles!
Not gonna lie, would love to settle down and commit with someone who is enough open minded to accept my both sides
Nap dates are a thing!
Whispering Spanish words in your ear
Who else love orange sunsets?
I'm the little spoon!
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-42.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets

Hi there handsome ….I think you'd like to chat more so feel free to leave a mesage.I only have few chatting limit ……Good luck out there! I am a woman of my own words,I will never stand to think of hurting someone or cheating nor lie to someone.
Thank you … Sandra
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Group Sex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes

When someone else takes control of a situation
Pansexual, Polysexual
Looking for, ages 35-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Fetish, Threesomes

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