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Looking for a serious friendship that can lead me somewhere Female 49 from Southampton, UK

Single looking for love and care a man that l can spend my time with


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Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bukkake, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Impact Play, Lingerie, Nylons, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Sex Talk, Temperature Play

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Im 55 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 55 from Southampton, UK

I'm 55 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 46 and 93.


Straight

Looking for, ages 46-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Crossdress, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Mature, MILF, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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Seeking for a BDSM partner, dont come at me faking Female 31 from Southampton, UK

I love spending my time with the people I love....


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Looking for, ages 21-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, BDSM, Bondage, Dom, Fetish, Mature, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

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Looking for a sexual relationship as a solo poly Female 61 from Bridgemary, UK

Life makes me happy As a solo Poly I’m a woman who knows what she wants and has the freedom to be herself in all ways. I play as a solo poly and not looking to play with the whole site and neither a quick fuck.I’m in one fwb relationship but looking to add another fwb to play on my own with.I also play as a swinging straight couple with my fwb who is a vintage swinger and I am a newbie in the swinging scene, I am wanting to explore my sexual liberation and swing as a straight couple not as a single femaleIndependent thinker, self determined and not in need of rescue or relationship.There’s no such thing as no strings attached for me, so why don’t we build anticipation, connection and thrill me with the chase.Let’s not interfere with real lives and enjoy honesty with each other.Lead with a conversation not just a one liner. A little bit of time and effort proves nothing is impossible.Text me with hi fluffy


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Looking for, ages 40-58. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun

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30s something couple looking to explore! Couple 38, 38 from Portsmouth, UK

New to this couple looking to expand our sex life.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 19-70. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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something different, tease, explore and pleasure Female 42 from Bishopstoke, UK

Control, entertaining and pure indulgence, reaching for the ultimate climax


Straight

Looking for, ages 33-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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We are a couple one of us who is 42 is demisexual and the other who is 31 is gay.. Couple 43, 32 from Portsmouth, UK

We are fairly open from mild to wild, but really love outdoor fun.


Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 18-52. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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I love nothing more than to be both served and worshiped Female 35 from Portsmouth, UK

I am equally playful and fun. I tend to be humorous and, although I can be kinky and authoritative. It would be true to say that I love nothing more than a novice. However know that all of you, novice or experienced will be putty in my hands. So if you trust me with your fantasy then rest assured I will make it truly memorable for us both for all the right reasons.


Straight

Looking for, ages 21-61. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Hi handsome guy My pleasure here is to meet the right man and Marry him Female 58 from Southampton, UK

Love you all guys text me if you are interested in me


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction

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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


Pansexual

Looking for, ages 25-40. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

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Wild side explorer, you gon enjoy your time with me Female 27 from Southampton, UK

Miracles happen when you Do what makes you happy ..


Straight

Looking for, ages 28-85. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Fetish, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys

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I would like to meet a couple for fun and see where it goes , Female 53 from Southampton, UK

I think I would like 2 bisexual men or a couple for sex


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Looking for, ages 40-60. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Oral, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

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I am usual woman, I am giving, trustworthy, caring, understanding and romantic. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I'm a tender and open-hearted woman who dreams to find her man in life, her second half whom I will be able to live long and happy life together, full of love, care and mutual understanding.


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Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

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Male submissive come play with your new mistress Female 34 from Southampton, UK

Am seeking for a male that will obey and be under my foot


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Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

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Im very kinky and love to explore really fun experiences just have pleasure, I.. Female 33 from Portsmouth, UK

I am open minded and free so i cherish discretion just make sure you're worth my juices


Straight

Looking for, ages 32-89. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Dom, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, Nylons, Petite, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes

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Hey Ash here.. I would make our experience the best you ever hard.. hit me up le.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

I sure would bring your wildest fantasies to life.. I love to pleasure , hit me up let’s get freaky xx


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 25-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Love making life easy , let’s love each other with honesty Female 39 from Southampton, UK

I am a honesty woman, purposeful, loving, open to everything new. I lead an active lifestyle, but sometimes I like to hang out and enjoy the moment, look at the world and say that I am a happy person with joy in my eyes


Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Crossdress, Curves

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My world is one of exploration, experimentation and carnal debauchery Female 23 from Portsmouth, UK

In my world, you’ll discover a side of Femdom where affection is blended with control, where my playful nature dances with my love of inspiring surrender, where the rules of daily life can slip away into a blissful, hedonistic experience.


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-84. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

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Don’t be shy to text let’s get naughty together and have fun. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

Gifts without notice get me more exciting and serious communication


Straight

Looking for, ages 58-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dirty Talk, Impact Play, Mature, MILF, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play

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Hi all, we are male dominant and female submissive looking for other women to j.. Couple 41, 39 from Alverstoke, UK

We are in a bdsm relationship however this does not define us. We are open to all levels of fun, happy to go vanilla or a little harder if wanted.


Straight, Bisexual

Looking for, ages 37-52. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

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Im Seduction, a captivating and empowering woman who is unafraid to embrace her.. Female 36 from Portsmouth, UK

True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions


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Looking for, ages 60-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Hi ☺️ Here to make friends, fwb or relationship xx Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Hola ☺️

Bit of a nerd  with a naughty side
Food, Travel, Literature, Videogames, Kisses and Cuddles!

Not gonna lie, would love to settle down and commit with someone who is enough open minded to accept my both sides

Nap dates are a thing!
Whispering Spanish words in your ear
Who else love orange sunsets?

I'm the little spoon!


Straight

Looking for, ages 21-42. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets

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Looking for something serious.. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

Hi there handsome ….I think you'd like to chat more so feel free to leave a mesage.I only have few chatting limit ……Good luck out there! I am a woman of my own words,I will never stand to think of hurting someone or cheating nor lie to someone.
Thank you … Sandra


Straight

Looking for, ages 47-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Group Sex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes

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Looking to exploring something new Couple 40, 43 from Emsworth, UK

When  someone  else  takes  control  of a  situation


Pansexual, Polysexual

Looking for, ages 35-50. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap

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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky and fetish prefere.. Female 28 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.


Straight

Looking for, ages 50-87. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Fetish, Threesomes

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