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I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I am a romantic person and I believe in true feelings. I am very interested in new people and I can easily make new friends. I have a good sense of humor. To be honest, I can even laugh at myself. I like to spend my free time with friends, but I would like to give every free minute to my beloved one.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-78.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Webcam

MAID POSITION AVAILABLE It’s easier to tell you what I’m not looking for really which is a quick fling, mind games (I’d win ) or time wasters… What I am looking for is a long term loyal, fun, relationship with a maid who knows how to treat a Mistress and isn’t afraid - well maybe a tad, to allow her to take complete control. I have a large circle of good friends and am very social, I enjoy being on the water sailing, cafe hopping, chilled white wine and cooking, to the outside World I seem a delight, the sort of lady your Mother would approve of…I’m a compassionate, intelligent, curvy, who loves nature, the ocean, and importantly animal welfare. I have 2 rescue cats who are very dear to me that must be totally accepted, other non negotiable points are smoking or drug use, any relationship status other than single:;If you feel you’d like to chat then don’t be shy I’m really easy to talk with as long as you know how to curtesy!!!
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-70.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom

Am seeking for a male submissive that will obey and be under foot
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-45.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay

I'm 44 years old, living in the Bournemouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 91.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun, Tickle Play

I get excited if u like a busty woman and I like a man who knows how to please a woman too
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun

I like cooking and trying new recipes because I will be opening a restaurant soon....
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, Body Hair, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Webcam

Give your thoughts a wild break and let it roll back at you x
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-88.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom

Love going out and meeting new people. Love to laugh. Music and dancing are great, even better with someone sexy beside me
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-56.
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Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

What I truly love, is to be in control! What you need to do, is to give it up. It can be done in so many wise ways and it's so amazing how far it can go.
Whilst I enjoy being in control, I also understand the responsibility that comes with it, and I always take into consideration health and safety.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 23-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I'm 36 years old, living in the Bournemouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 20 and 76.
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-76.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

Life's so short so spoil yourself haha, it's your girl Freya always giving them the best and clean dishes to serve
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 38-58.
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Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Feet, Fetish, Mature, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play

I wish I could write about what gets me excited but here is a picture, everyday we find our way to each other, I want nothing but sparks and unforgettable pleasure heights.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-70.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I love to have fun.enjoy a good laugh..like cooking and sorry but don't eat food out that much i love the movies and beach
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Curves, Feet, Lingerie, Oral, Pegging, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Webcam

I'm 45 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Body Hair, Sexual Massage

We could have fun I mean alot of fun if you're in for that...I just want a playmate who is cool about the lifestyle
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 51-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, Sub

Being subbed makes me happy. Are you up for the challenge?.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay, Sub

Looking for a good submissive so we can have a good loyal friendship together and fun
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

Looking for a loyal sub willing to submit to my dominance
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Cuckold, Curves, Discreet Meets, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I love spending my time with the people I love....
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-85.
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Interests, Age Gap, BDSM, Bondage, Dom, Fetish, Mature, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

I am a creative individual, highly sensitive and gentle. I always strive to find happiness even in the smallest things. I long to encounter love and aspire to be an exemplary wife.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-88.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Couples, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sexual Massage, Sub

Am here for friendship first to see where it’s goes. Fun is normal to me
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Mature, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I’m very kind loving woman, I’m 5’7 feet tall and, Want to meet the man of my life
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Her presence is like a tranquil oasis in a bustling world, offering solace to those in need. She embodies the essence of love, illuminating the path for others to find their own capacity for compassion and connection.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I am a very romantic, passionate and open-minded person, respectful, with a kind heart and one-man woman so I hope to find him here. I really believe that kindness breeds kindness; and the world would be a better place if all adopted that mindset. I have a good sense of humor and enjoy making people laugh but I am also a very good listener and therefore not self enamored. I was full of energy and I liked to play in a yard with my friends. I'm very calm person. I like to know new things, new people,new places. Only one thing is missing now, my only Man, whom I can love and who will support me in everything I do, then I will please him, try to make every day full of joy and happiness for him! So if we are both here, please let's try a chance! Nobody knows, where it will bring us, but who says we don't dare to try? Looking forward for your answer
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Mature

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