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Looking for a like minded sub to explore his kinky side
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-85.
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Looking for a like mind sub willing to explore his kinky side
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 25-53.
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Interests, Group Sex, Mature, Oral, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

Well am single,with no kids and never been married.whiles looking to find a conscious man to build monogamous ..
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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Interested in friendship, shared interests and more with like-minded genuine, straight single guys, 50 to 60 years south of Scotland.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-59.
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Interests, BDSM, Roleplay, Sex Toys

i love dirty talk and enthusiasm from tall men who will share their filthy thoughts...
Straight
Looking for, ages 26-45.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Sex Talk

Love is one of those very beauties in this world that two people should see together.
Straight
Looking for, ages 57-90.
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Interests, Outdoor Fun

I’m a very romantic girl with cool vibes you cannot resist. Looking for genuine people to vibe and meet up with
Lesbian
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Roleplay

Open minded, here mainly for a loyal and committed sub, distance is not a problem.
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-72.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay

I was often very, incredibly naughty, and if I didn’t come home at tea time I used to be sent to bed without any dinner. But people used to bring me things. I was better fed in bed xx
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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… I would bring your wildest fantasies to life, you wanna know how ? Hit me up let’s get freakyLet’s have some fun
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 25-90.
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get Close so that we will get to know more about each other
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-89.
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Interests, Age play, Feet, Mature, Oral

My mother says that I am a real example for others. I inspire people to do good and show that life is beautiful, even if it is not always easy.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun

Straight but curious mistress.clean and discreet and looking for a submissive sweet man to train, long term relationship
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-72.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

I love being in charge and making all the commands
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-90.
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I’m a very truthful and honest person and I hate games I think im too old for that ❤️
Straight
Looking for, ages 26-87.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 30-40.
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Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Lace, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Toys

I’m looking for an alpha sub/ slut who is obedient, loyal, playful, coral, who lives to please. A sub body love, a houseboy, capable of giving mind numbing massages, who looks good in an apron and nothing else, I am a very sexy pervert looking woman/ mistress, Very active in participation and am ready to meet my other half, a sub to owned.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Fetish

I am looking for that special older someone who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my previous relationship.someone I can confide in and ready to live th alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
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I have a good manners and maybe little bit old fashioned lady on some things, if you want to know them you should ask me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Couples, Fetish, Outdoor Fun

My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I'm very honest person with a good heart as well.I'm outdoor person ,I like cooking , swimming,camping , fishing,and dancing , we can enjoy all that together if you care ,
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Body Hair, Mature, Sexual Massage

I’m kinda surprised about everything that goes on in my life Confidence is earned when your actions meet your words. Confidence lies at the core of love; there can be no true love without belief. Trust is built over time through consistent honesty, reliability, and open communication. Confidence is like a sticker; once removed, it may stick again but not as strong as it was when you first applied. A lack of trust can erode even the strongest connections, so nurturing and protecting it is essential. Trust is the lubrication that makes it possible for a relationship to work. Assurance should be on both sides
Straight
Looking for, ages 56-70.
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Interests, Couples, Erotic Fiction, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

Ask me anything, I don’t know how many times I need to try this but I’m only here for fun and more.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-76.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

I'm 38 years old, living in the Edinburgh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Body Hair, Bondage, Couples, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Edging, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Petite, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Tickle Play, Webcam

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