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Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
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looking for a devoted sub who is willing to do what it takes to please
Straight
Looking for, ages 65-85.
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Interests, Age play, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Like someone who's bubble fun and just chilled no drama
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-44.
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Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Tickle Play

We are all different, so why shouldn’t I be your dream Mistress.For me, being a Dominatrix is not performative, it is not a game or a gimmick. My dominance is authentic, it is integral to my identity. It isn’t just the clothes I wear or titles I assume, it is who I am. The exchange of power between two people can be the ultimate high, the pinnacle of mental and physical exertion and that moment of catharsis that you so long for. The key is given to those who trul y wish to open that door. Tread with confidence yet trepidation and that door may open more to you than that in your wildest dreams.
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-75.
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Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Group Sex, Sex Toys

I'm 33 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 24 and 82.
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-82.
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Interests, Fetish, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

We’re happy seeing each other happy! Fun makes us both very happy
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-50.
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Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap

Tired of vanilla sex looking to explore more on the bdsm world,been into the bdsm lifestyle for about 5years now.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-80.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

Seeking a bdsm partner. Dont come at me faking!!!!
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-83.
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Very open minded and naughty. Single and ready to mingle
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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If you win my heart with your submissive goals we can build a kinky relationship in this lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-80.
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Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

Mistress Scarlet is exceptional. I'm a genuine lifestyle dominant lady who loves stripping away my submissive's control and self respect. Expect to see my eyes sparkle with pleasure as i pushes you to take more punishment and you will be desperate to take more to please me. I am endlessly inventive, particularly when it comes to humiliation and tasks and i enjoys nothing more than to see my submissives being satisfied, i am a queer, non-binary demisexual Dom; this means i love focusing on connection, plus i have many years experience of serving as a submissive, so i know what makes my submissives feel good. Chat me up and let's get explore the lifestyle together
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

Straight but curious mistress.clean and discreet and looking for a submissive sweet man to train, long term relationship That had high sex drive
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-78.
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Interests, Age play, Body Hair, Crossdress, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Fetish, Mature, Pegging, Petite, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play

I’m very much like marmite… you will love me or hate me but you will still come back for more , Trust me x
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-72.
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Interests, Age play, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging

Honest, easy going looking to explore some fantasies
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

If you feel you need a dominant lady and you are puns town , feel free to say hi !!
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I am looking for a successful, kind and loving man with whom I will feel safe
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-82.
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Interests, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

Am a kinky mistress who is always dominant, have been into the lifestyle for over 12years and dominated 4subs
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub

I'm goddess Xena siren a lifestyle dominatrix lady with much and more experience
Whether you seek a strict Mistress, a caring mummy or sadistic nurse in pvc, i will make your fantasy a reality with my perfect blend of sensual and stern. It doesn't matter if you're completely new to the world of kink or you're a seasoned sub desperate to taste every naughty aspect of BDSM and expand more, I tailor each and every session to the specific requests and needs of my subs, because no two people are alike! I love nothing more than looking into a subs eyes as I blow their mind into oblivion while knowing exactly what makes them tick. Do you want to explore your deepest darkest most fucked-up fantasy with me or do you simply want to lay in my arms and be told you're a good boy? Why not both...do get in touch
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Seeking for loyal and obedient men, don’t come at me faking!!!
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-87.
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Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Sex Toys

I’m new to this! Looking for discreet connections and fun! Also wanting to experience a 3some 4some mmf ffm mmff but there must be a connection
Bicurious, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-59.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

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Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Anal, Couples, Dirty Talk, MILF, Oral, Sex Talk, Webcam

I'm 38 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-99.
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Interests, Age play, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Mature, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Hello all I’m new to this site but not new to the lifestyle hope I’m welcomed. I seek like minded submissives ready to serve and ready to explore the BDSM lifestyle with me. If you’re interested and ready to take instructions accurately then HMU let’s move from there and how it goes.
Straight
Looking for, ages 70-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

IM AVAILABLE FOR ALL PLEASURE COME FUCK WITH ME LET EXPLORE OUR FANTASY TOGETHER
Straight
Looking for, ages 19-52.
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Interests, Age play, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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