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Sarah, 32 from Lincoln, Lincolnshire

Good day.. My name is SArah, I just moved here from London to pursue my career as a paramedics.. I am also engaged in bdsm lifestyle and in need a submissive individual who wants to learn and to be taught about this lifestlye.. If you want to experience this once in a lifetime opportunity feel free to reach me or hand over to me your net mailbox :=-0

Louise, 37 from Salford, Greater Manchester

Hi gents , I'm a genuine kind fun loving intelligent Lady I work hard , I want to also play hard is thair any Real Real Men on here that can handle a real woman , No time wasters please or boys who have no clue I need real men , talk is cheap I have no time for Little boys who want a few pictures of my double Ds just to have a quick w**k looking at pics of naked woman , talk is cheap . Please only reply if it's a real woman that your looking to...

Erdal, 42 from Borehamwood, Hertfordshire

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Paula, 51 from Morecambe, Lancashire

Married and although probably not morally correct i dont want to change my home life but i would like to scratch an itch as such. Not after notches on bed post just some uncomplicated regular fun.

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