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something different, tease, explore and pleasure Female 42 from Bishopstoke, UK

Control, entertaining and pure indulgence, reaching for the ultimate climax


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Im Seduction, a captivating and empowering woman who is unafraid to embrace her.. Female 36 from Portsmouth, UK

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Seeking for friendship and fun Female 46 from Southampton, UK

I’m looking for friendships and fun. Let have fun..


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send me message fast if you interested Im a hardworking woman and Im looking .. Female 43 from Southampton, UK

I'm here looking for you with all my heart. I have been fantasizing about your appearance. Maybe you are a fat and cute guy, maybe you are not very tall, or maybe you are very handsome, or maybe you are just a normal guy.


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Looking for male or female for fun with my partner Couple 43, 43 from Southampton, UK

Anything goes so looking to meet open minded people to have fun with. Can travel or accommodate. She more than happy to dress up an will tell you what she wants


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I’m here looking for my soul mate Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I’m very kind loving woman, I’m 5’7 feet tall and, Want to meet the man of my life


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I’m looking for a passionate playmate who isn’t afraid to live life to the fulle.. Female 48 from Southampton, UK

Nature lover looking for someone who appreciates the tranquility of hiking trails, the beauty of starry nights, and the mountains.


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My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. Theres so much to this.. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle


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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky and fetish prefere.. Female 28 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.


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I’m honest new here looking for anything Goes, I’m not upgraded so do the needfu.. Female 41 from Portsmouth, UK

Kindly read my profile I mean I do for fun so that we get to know more better about each other and see where it will lead us


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IM A DOM SEEKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO OWN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 31 from Southampton, UK

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  pussy worship,  Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood,  faeces,  or pain.


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Here for our orgasms.. don’t be shy Female 25 from Southampton, UK

I love a good gesture.. Classy but dangerous on the bed.. I charge


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I need someone who can cheer me up and make me laugh Female 38 from Andover, UK

I love smoking and my pets. I've been on my own for a long time and need someone in my life to feel loved.


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Very easy going and live to meet new people Female 49 from Southampton, UK

I'm 48 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 83.


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Im a explicit Dom who loves to explore darkest kinky experience. Loves subs wi.. Female 32 from Southampton, UK

If you win my heart with your sibmissive goal we can build a relationship in this lifestyles


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Im looking for a reliable Sub Female 28 from Portsmouth, UK

Your loyal Goddess is here kindly Dm for your reliable mistress


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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 24 from Southampton, UK

am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.


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We are a loving and committed couple looking to have fun with the right person o.. Couple 42, 40 from Swaythling, UK

We love to make each other happy  and bring pleasure and would like to share that.


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I am harsh but kind, I am demanding but generous I am your Goddess, you will bec.. Female 35 from Portsmouth, UK

I am at my happiest with a whip in my hand or a sl@ve balls under my boots. I particularly enjoy ballbusting and putting my sl@ves into chastity. I have many kinks including financial domination, CBT, feet worshipping, ball busting, humiliation, facesitting (over clothes as part of smothering), whipping, spanking, and many more..I get busy with lots of sessions so if I’m unavailable to respond to your messages you can reach me


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My world is one of exploration, experimentation and carnal debauchery Female 23 from Portsmouth, UK

In my world, you’ll discover a side of Femdom where affection is blended with control, where my playful nature dances with my love of inspiring surrender, where the rules of daily life can slip away into a blissful, hedonistic experience.


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Play time to share Madame with soft man that like to leak pussy. Preferably at H.. Couple 64, 59 from Portsmouth, UK

Seeing another man touching her leg while discussing.


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Single and wanting to play a switch but enjoys being a sub too Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I enjoy being tied up, spanked and controlled. I also enjoy spanking


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I am easy to get along with, open-minded, reasonable, and generous. If youre in.. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

Loyalty and freedom are the main words that define me as a woman and as a person. I will love the man who respects my freedom, I will choose him every day if this is what he gives me. Joining a man for me implies mutual growth, I always want to help fulfill his purpose and for him to help mine. My desire is to find a gentlemanly, conscientious, loving and respectful man for himself and others.


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I am Mistress Rosie. Severe, strict and sensual Mistress. Ill take your very de.. Female 25 from Southampton, UK

I am the quintessential Mistress who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in MY presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before ME and serve ME. I am hardcore however I do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sensual aspects. Part of MY allure is MY sincere affinity for what I do and the way I personally connect with each subs.


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Im 32 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 32 from Southampton, UK

I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 53.


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Looking for, ages 27-53. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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