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Straight
Looking for, ages 33-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I’m looking for friendships and fun. Let have fun..
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-83.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BBW / BHM, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Exhibitionism, Impact Play, Mature, Nylons, Petite, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Webcam

I'm here looking for you with all my heart. I have been fantasizing about your appearance. Maybe you are a fat and cute guy, maybe you are not very tall, or maybe you are very handsome, or maybe you are just a normal guy.
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-88.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Sex Games, Sex Talk

Anything goes so looking to meet open minded people to have fun with. Can travel or accommodate. She more than happy to dress up an will tell you what she wants
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 29-53.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

I’m very kind loving woman, I’m 5’7 feet tall and, Want to meet the man of my life
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Nature lover looking for someone who appreciates the tranquility of hiking trails, the beauty of starry nights, and the mountains.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, MILF, Petite, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Sub

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-66.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM

I'm a simple lady interesting in exploring all my kinky preferences. If I find you intriguing I would invite you to my dungeon.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-87.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Fetish, Threesomes

Kindly read my profile I mean I do for fun so that we get to know more better about each other and see where it will lead us
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Temperature Play

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, Role play, Ass licking, panties/lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like blood, faeces, or pain.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Feet, LGBTQIA+, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

I love a good gesture.. Classy but dangerous on the bed.. I charge
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-81.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

I love smoking and my pets. I've been on my own for a long time and need someone in my life to feel loved.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I'm 48 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 83.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-83.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Mature

If you win my heart with your sibmissive goal we can build a relationship in this lifestyles
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Your loyal Goddess is here kindly Dm for your reliable mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Couples, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Group Sex, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

We love to make each other happy and bring pleasure and would like to share that.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

I am at my happiest with a whip in my hand or a sl@ve balls under my boots. I particularly enjoy ballbusting and putting my sl@ves into chastity. I have many kinks including financial domination, CBT, feet worshipping, ball busting, humiliation, facesitting (over clothes as part of smothering), whipping, spanking, and many more..I get busy with lots of sessions so if I’m unavailable to respond to your messages you can reach me
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 26-74.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Outdoor Fun

In my world, you’ll discover a side of Femdom where affection is blended with control, where my playful nature dances with my love of inspiring surrender, where the rules of daily life can slip away into a blissful, hedonistic experience.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

Seeing another man touching her leg while discussing.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 50-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

I enjoy being tied up, spanked and controlled. I also enjoy spanking
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 28-48.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

Loyalty and freedom are the main words that define me as a woman and as a person. I will love the man who respects my freedom, I will choose him every day if this is what he gives me. Joining a man for me implies mutual growth, I always want to help fulfill his purpose and for him to help mine. My desire is to find a gentlemanly, conscientious, loving and respectful man for himself and others.
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I am the quintessential Mistress who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in MY presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before ME and serve ME. I am hardcore however I do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sensual aspects. Part of MY allure is MY sincere affinity for what I do and the way I personally connect with each subs.
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Threesomes

I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 53.
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-53.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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