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Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..
Straight
Looking for, ages 54-89.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub, Temperature Play, Voyeurism

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate
BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Sex Toys

I am the quintessential Mistress who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in MY presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before ME and serve ME. I am hardcore however I do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sensual aspects. Part of MY allure is MY sincere affinity for what I do and the way I personally connect with each subs.
Straight
Looking for, ages 38-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Threesomes

I`m very calm and positive person. I try to live always with smile on my face. I`m very kind and I appreciate the same people. I`m serious lady and purposeful lady.I try to get from life everything positive and nice, because it is very important for me nice and long life. I appreciate romantic so much, because I`m one of the most romantic woman. I`ll be passionate with one person who`ll find right way to my heart and soul. I am joyful, I am passionate and I am real. I am a person who enjoys simple things - a cup of tea, a kiss, a loving man next to me. I can find my own way to be happy in this life. But to be totally happy - I need to find my love.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Bondage, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Group Sex, Impact Play, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Threesomes

Going to the park , indoor fun , Nature , video games
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk

Kind, funny, easy going and intelligent Sub looking for similar in an experienced Dom for fun in and out of bedroom. Had some previous experience with pain and BDSM and looking forward to experience more with a right person.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-48.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, S&M, Sub

I’m very kind loving woman, I’m 5’7 feet tall and, Want to meet the man of my life
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Anything goes so looking to meet open minded people to have fun with. Can travel or accommodate. She more than happy to dress up an will tell you what she wants
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 29-53.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

Loyalty and freedom are the main words that define me as a woman and as a person. I will love the man who respects my freedom, I will choose him every day if this is what he gives me. Joining a man for me implies mutual growth, I always want to help fulfill his purpose and for him to help mine. My desire is to find a gentlemanly, conscientious, loving and respectful man for himself and others.
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I’m looking for friendships and fun. Let have fun..
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-83.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BBW / BHM, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Exhibitionism, Impact Play, Mature, Nylons, Petite, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Webcam

Looking to explore and find myself again! Typically enjoy listening to music and vibing to it. Outdoors is always the most fun especially during the summer. What's the point in letting all the secrets out of the bag? Give me a message and see if the Vibes match
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 25-55.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

Connect with me to explore together no time wasting xx
Dm if you are ready to explore xx
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-88.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I am a 47yr old bi-curious female. Would love to meet both men/women for some naughty fun, leading to something long term.Not exactly vanilla but also not into hard stuff.Like to be a bit Dom but happy to swap.
Bicurious
Looking for, ages 38-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Dirty talk to me, Discreet Meets, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay

My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Sexual Massage

I’m looking for real connection with someone on here and then see where it goes.
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-68.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, ASMR, Body Hair, Bukkake, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Discreet Meets, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Leather / Latex, Mature, Nylons, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play

Life's so short so spoil yourself haha, it's your girl Freya always giving them the best and clean dishes to serve
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 38-58.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Feet, Fetish, Mature, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play

Looking for a loyal sub willing to submit to my dominance
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Cuckold, Curves, Discreet Meets, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

No pressure just see where it leads. O jave done this few times neforw but she is new to the world of this.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 24-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Threesomes

I am a kind woman with positive energy. My personality is shining with incredibly charming attitude to life. I am a totally emotional creature: tiny in my inner world and a loving and caring person in my everyday life. I love life and like to make my life interesting, amazing and full of emotions. I tend to travel, to see different nations and their traditions, to try the variety of food.
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Bondage, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Oral, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play

I'm 45 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 59 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 59-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Outdoor Fun

We are couple looking for spicy ️ our fun in bedroom
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 21-35.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Threesomes

I am loving caring and trusting I will always make you happy and your favorite dom
Straight
Looking for, ages 57-76.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

With m an you will find dominance in all e do aspects
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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