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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 27 from Kent, UK

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If you want a laugh and a great time, we are the ones for you Couple 58, 52 from Faversham, UK

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Mistress Susan and here to have fun with my lovely sub and take him away Female 24 from Canterbury, UK

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I am an experienced dominatrix seeking a submissive male. Female 27 from Ashford, UK

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am the perfect balance between intelligence and creativity, capable of surprisin.. Female 48 from Kent, UK

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Im 36 years old, living in the Maidstone region. Female 36 from Maidstone, UK

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