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Im a sado submissive; primarily a submissive but can switch to sadism. I like b.. Female 43 from Chelmsford, UK

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.


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i am looking for a long term relationship that leads to marriage and also FWB an.. Female 37 from Bexleyheath, UK

I am a sensual, feminine, and passionate woman. My main quality is being a dynamic person who loves what she does, and fights for becoming her dreams come true. My life is not so simple but I try to be always positive and don't allow myself to give up. I think that it's very important to tust in yourself even when nobody trusts in you.


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We are a couple looking for fun with other couples or 3somes Mmf or fun and also.. Couple 56, 26 from Loughton, UK

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Not new to the BDSM scene, also Bi. Love when a person abdicates their will and .. Female 29 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Hi I am new on here . I want to meet a new friend and see how it works for us Female 47 from Canvey Island, UK

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman


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To meet women who like sex with men. Female 70 from Latchingdon, UK

Hi, my name is Liz, I would love to meet women, who like me enjoy sex with men as well as other women.  I like to dress up, use sex  toys. Would love to meet women of the same mind set.  Perhaps having a relationship with the right lady, but who knows what can happen.


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I love the rhythm when it plays. Female 36 from Newham, UK

I will try to describe myself in a few words, but it is surely not an easy task, especially when you want this description to be informative, catchy, but not boring. So, I'm caring, honest, responsible, funny and feminine. Are you interested already? I like making beauty around me and I notice beauty of the world. I'm curious about life and there is a large part of me that is soft, another part passionate and I'm going to show them both to you; if you are my person.


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I’m here to dominate, who wants to be my sub Female 27 from Romford, UK

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Tbc :-) Never good at describing myself Female 31 from Chelmsford, UK

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Let’s have a conversation about how to proceed Female 29 from Bredhurst, UK

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New to the lifestyle and want to explore Couple 37, 46 from Northfleet, UK

Totally new to this . My partner prefers to watch me having some Casual fun rather the join in.

Looking for age range of 25-40

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We’re very busy people so can’t meet at the drop of a hat and needs to be localish

Please only message if your within our criteria


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Looking for something extra, message as, we would love to get to know you. Couple 40, 42 from Dartford, UK

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New to this will be are first time looking for fun Couple 27, 26 from Queenborough, UK

Looking for male to join us want to give my partner the night of her life


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We are a straight couple looking for a male to join us in having a bit of fun. W.. Couple 32, 35 from Chatham, UK

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New to this


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Looking for couple to watch and watch us initially , some outdoor fun experience.. Couple 46, 37 from Basildon, UK

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I’m very horny and clingy I have a high sex drive and I will love to meet someon.. Female 40 from Benfleet, UK

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I am looking for a serious relationship involve honesty, trust, respect and open.. Female 65 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Hey im new to this waiting for my wolf mate to tame...maybe its you? Female 52 from Harlow, UK

Any of you guys wanna wear a collar n lead and let me take you for a walk? Willing subs only...and you guys tryin too hard with your pics..just keep it real!!


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Hey handsome. If you don’t mind let’s get to experience those crazy and naughty .. Female 31 from Bexley, UK

I’m fun and good to chat with, am from Bexley Uk, I’m pretty and sexy


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I’d never play hide and seek with you because someone as wonderful as you is inc.. Female 29 from Romford, UK

Want to know who knows the capital of every country in the world? Me.


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Laid back fun and easy loving .... Female 51 from Canvey Island, UK

Seek to explore as much kink as I. Can and with my knowledge of as mistress  lead an adventurous life


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Unbroken. Make me submit I’m an alpha submissive. Not looking for hook up look.. Female 40 from Snodland, UK

I’m not a novice but not that experienced.

Never been made to submit never trusted anyone enough. I’ll try most things I have a few hard limits. But I’ll have a conversation about anything.


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Looking for matured minded dudes to hookup with Female 20 from Chelmsford, UK

In need of a baby girl treatment you wanna tap in let’s get freaky together


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I’m a dom looking for subI always like to be in control Female 24 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 18 and 80.


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I am a gorgeous Dom seeking a willing sub to be under my servitude and bring my .. Female 38 from Woolwich, UK

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