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Looking for, ages 20-82.
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Love been shown and treated good.
It brings out the best in me
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Looking for, ages 36-90.
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I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
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Looking for, ages 19-90.
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Looking for, ages 57-90.
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Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-61.
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Looking for, ages 20-72.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Seek to explore as much kink as I. Can and with my knowledge of as mistress lead an adventurous life
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Looking for, ages 42-90.
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I'm 26 years old, living in the Gillingham region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Please contact me for further details on how to rent me out for use. Very few limitations. Pictures will be provided once contact has been made with him my owner
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I'm a Dom, come serve me to bring some extra colors to your life
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-90.
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I’m 45, 5ft 1, slim/average buildI wonder how many of you will read past this ♀️I work and also have my own little business, I’m intelligent, kind and caring I am looking for a Dom who knows how to look after his Sub, not into hookups thank you ☺️
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-55.
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Interests, Roleplay, Sub

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-53.
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Looking for, ages 50-65.
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Talk first, the mind is the biggest stimulus. First meet at a munch. Be experienced in taking pain at a fet club from a whip, canes, poy, flogger.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-49.
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I'm 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 91.
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
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Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
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I'm 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 77.
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-77.
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we are a mature couple looking for a single guy aged 25 - 45 for 121 meets with wife would prefer regular meets
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Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I'm 53 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 37.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-37.
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I'm 24 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 18 and 80.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-80.
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I am a very dominant woman who love to Train her sub, am not in to scares and too much but to make his to please me with all he has
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish

I kinky,I’m understanding and love a honest partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-84.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets

Looking for male to join us want to give my partner the night of her life
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-39.
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