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I'm a straight forward person, and as a matter of fact, a straight forward person is also expected to come my way.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-80.
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Interests,

My heart is full of emotions that I want to share. I believe that we make happiness ourselves! My nature is optimistic, tender and joyful! I live positively and always try to keep a smile on my lips.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Sex Talk

A partner who is open-minded and conscientious shows us that they are willing to work hard to see our perspective and put effort into a relationship, showing us that we matter and are accepted for who we are. With someone who is emotionally stable, we can feel safe.
Straight
Looking for, ages 65-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Dirty Talk, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

I will do anything to make my guy happy anything ..
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Electro Play, Lace, Oral, Sex Talk, Sub

A couple looking for a male 3rd to join us in some fun.
New to this
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-39.
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Interests, Roleplay, Send naked pics, Sex Toys, Threesomes

Strict, yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism. Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

I am nice and fun to be with ready to learn new things and explore kinky fantasies with others.
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-75.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I'm 24 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I'm 26 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 91.
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

Totally new to this . My partner prefers to watch me having some Casual fun rather the join in.
Looking for age range of 25-40
Our first time so looking for someone to show us the way .
We’re very busy people so can’t meet at the drop of a hat and needs to be localish
Please only message if your within our criteria
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-39.
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Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Send naked pics, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Voyeurism

I'm 28 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 19-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

I came on here to find guys who like fun with older women. I may be 66 but I have not lost any of my sexual urges, in fact I think they are stronger than ever. I prefer younger guys 30-45 but that is not set in stone so if you like my profile, just say hi.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-76.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I love porn, toys and watching people enjoying and having sex .
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-66.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

Ask me anything you might want to know. Just a dm away
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 20-89.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

Lots of fun no strings .
He has lots of ideas ,I just love sex.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 38-58.
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Interests, Cuckold

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Webcam

I'm flexible in relationship, reliable and will do all my best myself for my family. I think family always comes on the first place. I do love children and do want to have my own. They're the sun rays in life. Our life is not full without them. Do you agree? I am too young for that maybe but my desire still big about it, on this dating site I wanna find man who will think the same and we can built family together!
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Curves, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, Pegging

I'm a Dom, come serve me to bring some extra colors to your life
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Threesomes

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-61.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sub

We are excited to meet new people who are open-minded and want to have a good time.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-39.
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Interests, Bukkake, Cuckold, Threesomes

I am experienced in pain and humiliation but am non sexual. I do not switch. I am not looking for nsa or anything else. Please do not message me if you are a Dom or looking for sexual encounters I am not interestedLooking to expand the boundaries of your pain threshold, I am not a submissive so you Doms out there stop messaging me. I have been in this lifestyle for over 40 years and not interested in any form of sexual encounter.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom

Are you ready to get dominated by me and I'm ready to leak every each of my body
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-90.
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Interests, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Looking for regular lady.for all types of fun with a married couple. Bi or even bi curious to let the pleasure flow 3 ways
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-66.
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Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

I’m young woman but I am mature enough for family life. I know what kind of man I am looking for and understand that dating online can be challenging; still, I would like to be happy and ready to go on a date if you ask me out. I am romantic, feminine, tender. I love my friends and family.
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Group Sex, Sex Talk

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