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Want to know my personality? It is different one depending on events happening a.. Female 40 from Portsmouth, UK

I appreciate and are likely involved in various forms of art. Whether it's visual arts like painting or drawing, performing arts like dance or theater, or any other creative endeavor, art is a source of inspiration and self-expression for me. I like attending opera and museums!But also I have a strong connection to nature, particularly forests. Spending time in the great outdoors, whether it's hiking, camping, or simply enjoying the tranquility of a forest, brings me a sense of peace and harmony. The beauty of nature rejuvenates my spirit and what about yours?


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Looking for spanking man fun m Female 27 from Ford, UK

Loooking for serious meeting up for sex and dating


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Hey Ash here.. I would make our experience the best you ever hard.. hit me up le.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

I sure would bring your wildest fantasies to life.. I love to pleasure , hit me up let’s get freaky xx


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Hey hey heyFun single woman looking to have a good time and want to experiment .. Couple 49, 48 from Gosport, UK

Good fun female  who is laid back and fun, clean obviously We are looking for a bi male to interact with Mr mainly for my pleasure but both, also open to a couple We are new to this but very open minded to right make or couple


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Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we hav.. Female 40 from Chichester, UK

Hi, am Eva from Chichester, Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we have to be friends to get to know more about each other and see where this will lead us to


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Looking for girl to join us for fun Couple 40, 29 from Wickham, UK

We are couple looking for spicy ️ our fun in bedroom


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My secret desire is to be ravished, lovingly and given the chance to pleasure yo.. Female 43 from Southampton, UK

I'm an open minded woman. I like hiking, ski, cananda snow ski pro. always on birth control. 43 yrs old Southampton ready to meet and ready accommodate on arrangements. scumbags stay off. show me the side you don't get show people


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I am a strict and dominant Mistress i am looking for a sub thats ready to be ta.. Female 35 from Southampton, UK

If you are a professional and have been handling training, you will leave your ideas behind and live under my total dominant reign of terror. Terror in the sense that I am not ready for excuses!!! I want to use my sub as a slut, low life and object of degradation. If you have to come under me, you have to make up your mind to be TOTALLY dedicated to me, to one wn and use  you as my property ,heart ,body and soul. You should have it ringing in your head constantly that serving me is an opportunity to have a life under my SUPREME DOMINATION because my knowledge of you and your body is perfect and my use for it is DOUBLE what you can ever imagine, . you will enjoy every moment IF I TAKE THE LEAD with no complaints and no arguments. To my amusement, I will sexually tease you, train you and pamper you depending on your response to my SUPREME power


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Im 53 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 53 from Southampton, UK

I'm 53 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 90.


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new but ready to learn! Not really sure what to write Female 21 from Southampton, UK

Not having to worry about doing the ring thing clear boundaries.


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An honest lady looking for a genuine man. Don’t like games or drama- Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Am here for friendship first to see where it’s goes. Fun is normal to me


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Open minded and discreet, looking forward in exploring our desires together. Female 31 from Portsmouth, UK

Keen for fun ,keen for love , keen for exploring and open minded in exploring new things.


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Leave no stones unturned when walking through life and so finding passionate ple.. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

I wish I could write about what gets me excited but here is a picture, everyday we find our way to each other, I want nothing but sparks and unforgettable pleasure heights.


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Ask me and I will let’s you know more about me Female 44 from Southampton, UK

Ask me, I will let’s you know more about you and see where it’s lead us too


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Couple looking for male to join us. Couple 46, 41 from Portsmouth, UK

We are a happily married couple, but we would like to find a guy between 25 and 50 who we could socialise with and have regular contact with, so we can then explore weekend breaks, nights out etc and become good friends. If you are after a one off please don't message as this is not what we are looking for.
There has to be a mutual connection both ways. 
Dishy does not like to be controlled in the bedroom, and can be a little rough with her nails and maybe a little biting, she likes passion but is also very open minded
Dave is straight. Oh and a dick pic sent straight to my inbox does not impress me!
If you think this is you, please get in touch.


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Looking for a honest and caring man to be with and a man who performs well in be.. Female 31 from Southampton, UK

I like cooking and trying new recipes because I will be opening a restaurant soon....


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Im very kinky and love to explore really fun experiences just have pleasure, I.. Female 33 from Portsmouth, UK

I am open minded and free so i cherish discretion just make sure you're worth my juices


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New to this and would love to know someone … Female 37 from Portsmouth, UK

I'm 37 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 85.


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Looking for a sexual relationship as a solo poly Female 61 from Bridgemary, UK

Life makes me happy As a solo Poly I’m a woman who knows what she wants and has the freedom to be herself in all ways. I play as a solo poly and not looking to play with the whole site and neither a quick fuck.I’m in one fwb relationship but looking to add another fwb to play on my own with.I also play as a swinging straight couple with my fwb who is a vintage swinger and I am a newbie in the swinging scene, I am wanting to explore my sexual liberation and swing as a straight couple not as a single femaleIndependent thinker, self determined and not in need of rescue or relationship.There’s no such thing as no strings attached for me, so why don’t we build anticipation, connection and thrill me with the chase.Let’s not interfere with real lives and enjoy honesty with each other.Lead with a conversation not just a one liner. A little bit of time and effort proves nothing is impossible.Text me with hi fluffy


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Pretty lovely and cool to stick around. Female 34 from Southampton, UK

A mistress always ready to guide and direct her subs.


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A dominant mistress seeking a submissive partner for a long term BDSM serious re.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

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I’m looking for serious relationship casual dating hook up Female 29 from Southampton, UK

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A woman embracing her dominant side seeks a dedicated submissive partner open to.. Female 51 from Southampton, UK

I am here to satisfy your needs; simply remain loyal and devote yourself to pleasing me, observing as I transform your fantasies into reality.


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Independent girl who doesnt need a man in her life but needs to have fun to liv.. Female 30 from Southampton, UK

So I'm basically looking for some good time. I'm not here to waste my time so if you're not real, find someone else. I want something real and fun.


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Unleash your wild side with me Female 26 from Southampton, UK

I'm 26 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a man aged between 18 and 71.


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