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Independent girl who doesnt need a man in her life but needs to have fun to liv.. Female 30 from Southampton, UK

So I'm basically looking for some good time. I'm not here to waste my time so if you're not real, find someone else. I want something real and fun.


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Here to have fun who is gonna take me home Female 33 from Southampton, UK

I am loving caring and trusting I will always make you happy and your favorite dom


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We are a couple one of us who is 42 is demisexual and the other who is 31 is gay.. Couple 43, 32 from Portsmouth, UK

We are fairly open from mild to wild, but really love outdoor fun.


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Im looking for a loyal sub but if youre a dom and you excite me, Ill switch t.. Female 44 from Southampton, UK

We could have fun I mean alot of fun if you're in for that...I just want a playmate who is cool about the lifestyle


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A sub looking for someone who can punish, control + look after me during session.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).

I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).

Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).

When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.

Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.


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Hi ☺️ Here to make friends, fwb or relationship xx Female 35 from Southampton, UK

Hola ☺️

Bit of a nerd  with a naughty side
Food, Travel, Literature, Videogames, Kisses and Cuddles!

Not gonna lie, would love to settle down and commit with someone who is enough open minded to accept my both sides

Nap dates are a thing!
Whispering Spanish words in your ear
Who else love orange sunsets?

I'm the little spoon!


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Looking for a serious friendship that can lead me somewhere Female 49 from Southampton, UK

Single looking for love and care a man that l can spend my time with


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Im 32 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 32 from Southampton, UK

I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.


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LET ME SUCK YOU LIKE A VACUM IM BETTER THEN YOUR GIRLFRIEND HEAD DEMON Female 26 from Portsmouth, UK

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Sexy Dominant Wife, Totally Submissive Husband Couple 61, 51 from Bognor Regis, UK

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New into the Lifestyle, looking to explore what I desire xx Female 43 from Southampton, UK

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I am a dominant and independent woman i seek a wild and pleasurable sub to make .. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

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Im new on here ,looking for my perfect match.. Female 44 from Southampton, UK

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Single seeking for a relationship Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I am a very romantic, passionate and open-minded person, respectful, with a kind heart and one-man woman so I hope to find him here. I really believe that kindness breeds kindness; and the world would be a better place if all adopted that mindset. I have a good sense of humor and enjoy making people laugh but I am also a very good listener and therefore not self enamored. I was full of energy and I liked to play in a yard with my friends. I'm very calm person. I like to know new things, new people,new places. Only one thing is missing now, my only Man, whom I can love and who will support me in everything I do, then I will please him, try to make every day full of joy and happiness for him! So if we are both here, please let's try a chance! Nobody knows, where it will bring us, but who says we don't dare to try? Looking forward for your answer


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new but ready to learn! Not really sure what to write Female 21 from Southampton, UK

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Hi am honest , faithful, trustworthy, caring willing to have a man of the same c.. Female 55 from Southampton, UK

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I adore action, dancing, new emotions and unforgettable impressions. My life mus.. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

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Looking for some gentle spanking and tying Female 48 from Portsmouth, UK

Newly single girl who loves to try new things, music and debate both bring out my passion!


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Hello am a loving woman, caring and I believe in God. Good-hearted and ready to .. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

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I’m nice to be with, keen for love, keen for discreet, keen for fun, keen for an.. Female 27 from Portsmouth, UK

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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky and fetish prefere.. Female 28 from Portsmouth, UK

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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

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Im 32 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 32 from Southampton, UK

I'm 32 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 53.


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