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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 24 from Southampton, UK

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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

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Hello I am new to all this online dating stuffs and I am looking forward to for .. Female 35 from Southampton, UK

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A woman embracing her dominant side seeks a dedicated submissive partner open to.. Female 51 from Southampton, UK

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I have a calm character, I easily forgive insults, and rarely enter into conflic.. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

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Hi, I’m silvia from southampton, I have been single for a while so my friend int.. Female 56 from Southampton, UK

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Im 45 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 40 from Southampton, UK

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Hello lovely people I’m down to earth and loyal Female 45 from Southampton, UK

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We are a loving and committed couple looking to have fun with the right person o.. Couple 42, 40 from Swaythling, UK

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I’m looking for fun with younger guys who like older woman Female 55 from Bournemouth, UK

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Looking for a serious minded sub where we can get to explore our kinks Female 33 from Bournemouth, UK

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Couple looking for fun couples or singles for good company and good conversation Couple 31, 48 from Bournemouth, UK

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Am here looking for a life partner for a long term relationship and first we hav.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

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Me and my male partner looking for girl to join to us in the bed for a fun time Couple 33, 43 from Sandown, UK

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Looking for male or female for fun with my partner Couple 43, 43 from Southampton, UK

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STRICT MISTRESS SEEKS SISSY MAID Female 62 from Lymington, UK

MAID POSITION AVAILABLE It’s easier to tell you what I’m not looking for really which is a quick fling, mind games (I’d win ) or time wasters… What I am looking for is a long term loyal, fun, relationship with a maid who knows how to treat a Mistress and isn’t afraid - well maybe a tad, to allow her to take complete control.  I have a large circle of good friends and am very social, I enjoy being on the water sailing, cafe hopping, chilled white wine and cooking, to the outside World I seem a delight, the sort of lady your Mother would approve of…I’m a compassionate, intelligent, curvy, who loves nature, the ocean, and importantly animal welfare. I have 2 rescue cats who are very dear to me that must be totally accepted, other non negotiable points are smoking or drug use, any relationship status other than single:;If you feel you’d like to chat then don’t be shy I’m really easy to talk with as long as you know how to curtesy!!!


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Im 49 years old, living in the Bournemouth region. Female 49 from Bournemouth, UK

I'm 49 years old, living in the Bournemouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.


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Well hit me up and let’s got to know more about each other no for games Female 38 from Southampton, UK

I am an easy woman, but I have a heightened sense of responsibility. Punctuality, discipline in me compete with a pleasant character and an inquisitive mind. Life has left its imprint on me in the form of experience and respect for people , in the delivery of values and goals that I am ready to a


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Don’t be shy to text let’s get naughty together and have fun. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

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You new sub is kindly message me for your first training Female 37 from Bournemouth, UK

I’m looking for a good sub that can patronize me in my dungeon


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Being a submissive means you are fully able and capable of giving yourself to me.. Female 37 from Southampton, UK

I’m mistress Rachel an experience & professional mistress looking out for a loyal sub I hate time wasters also domination for me is as a form of art and self-expression. I like projecting mindscapes of new realities. But most of all I love being in total control .  You will be there for me in order to make my fantasy happen.  Let your ego and shame drop, and surrender to the inner call.


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Hello there good evening I’m Doris I’m here for hockup so if you interested add .. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

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Hi there im new on here looking for some naughty fun and fwb..Hit me up Female 38 from Southampton, UK

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