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I am an internationally renowned BDSM educator and dominatrix. Im a 10+ year me.. Female 44 from London, UK

Teaching BDSM is my passion. I teach more than safe & skillful BDSM. I teach my own program of domination skills and craft, that draws on my experience as both a dominatrix and psychotherapst. Welcoming new people to BDSM, coaching couples to realize their fantasies, assisting professional dominatrices in taking their career to the next level, and helping individuals gain the confidence to manifest amazing BDSM experiences, is what I love about educating. When it comes to play partners, I seek fellow deviants who are respectful, self-aware, and eager to expand their sense of self through submission. With 10+ years of professional experience in the field, I’ll gladly act as your kinky sherpa, leading you into the dizzying depths of Female Domination. I shine in the role of the puppet master and My personal fetish is pushing the boundaries of whomever I’m playing with, so I dare you to tell Me your deepest darkest secrets.


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Hey, I am Tasha, just a lady who has always wanted to dominate and I am looking .. Female 30 from London, UK

A discreet lady willing to have fun, hopefully I am able to find some here


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Am single no kids in my life and am looking for my true lovely man who can alway.. Female 44 from Enfield, UK

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Im 31 years old, living in the London region. Female 31 from London, UK

Would you like to feel the warmth of my embrace? I love natural beauty and try to emphasize it. I want to hide in a warm blanket in the evening to turn on the film of this brilliant poet. They are filled with true love.


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Im 21 years old, living in the Upper Clapton region. Couple 21, 21 from Upper Clapton, UK

I'm 21 years old, living in the Upper Clapton region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 18 and 28.


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Hey you, want some fun with a Mistress Female 45 from London, UK

Wanna find out what a Mistress means then hop on for a ride


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I’m here looking for my soulmate Female 37 from City Of London, UK

I am sweet, easy-going, loving, caring, attentive and almost perfect. I can become everything for my man if we are looking for the same. I know what real feelings are and the most important thing for me at the moment is family. I have a very gentle and romantic nature. I love romantic atmosphere, romantic moments and romantic surprises. They make our life special! I find our world so amazing and interesting, so I would like to see many places that would expand my knowledge. I want to share my interests, the interests of my beloved man, with a person close to me


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I’m just a jovial lady here for fun Female 27 from London, UK

Travelling ,I love travelling and making out, I love making new friends


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I am looking for an older man near me Female 66 from Rochester, UK

I came on here to find guys who like fun with older women. I may be 66 but I have not lost any of my sexual urges, in fact I think they are stronger than ever. I prefer younger guys 30-45 but that is not set in stone so if you like my profile, just say hi.


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I am looking for the man who will be positive, who will give me the feeling of t.. Female 59 from London, UK

I’m new here looking for a serious relationship……..


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Hot, shy couple with a great connection, very sexual with an amazing sex life cu.. Couple 35, 45 from London, UK

Fun loving couple looking for attractive bi bi-cuious male or bi, bi-curious, female for our first new sexual encounter, curious to try new sexual experiences & adventures. We both like the idea of being watched whilst getting intimate! We also want to find the right Male or female or couple for solo meets..,


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Looking for someone to spoil me Female 30 from London, UK

I am only looking for one thing!!
Looking for a SD to spoil me with gifts & surprises.. that way I'll always be a happy girl ❤
Please don't message me unless you are looking for the same thing. This is what I want nothing else.
Always upfront and honest
Don't waste my time, I won't waste yours
I am a delight

Xoxo


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Dominance isnt exactly overpowering but empowering. allow me take charge and em.. Female 25 from London, UK

Am adventurous, crazy and fun to be around. I crave submissiveness.


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British born, witty, fun-girl looking for to add some spice to your day. Very at.. Female 26 from London, UK

My main interests include

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Am new on here i will love to find a serious man whos ready to love me for who .. Female 40 from Bloomsbury, UK

Am new on here i will love to find a serious man who's ready to love me for who i'm and to always be there for me no matter what..?


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Im for any sub sincerely willing to explore my hot kinky side. Lets go fetish. Female 34 from London, UK

Fetish,Latex, Kinky, Sub/Dom, real people willing to explore to a true dream


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Ready for a Wild Ride: Experienced Hookup Babe Seeking Adventurous Encounters f.. Female 24 from London, UK

Sensual, confident, and adventurous, I thrive on unforgettable encounters, embracing spontaneity and exploration. With me, every hookup is a tantalizing journey filled with passion, pleasure, and uninhibited excitement.


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Im mistress Isla. Severe,strict and sensual Mistress. Ill take your very deepe.. Female 31 from London UK, USA

I am the quintessential mistress who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in MY presence and this Is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before me and serve ME. I am hardcore however i do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sexual aspects. Part of my allure is my sincere affinity for what i do and the way i personally connect with each subs.


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Im looking for a man who brims with energy, humor, kindness, and respect. Female 60 from Islington, UK

Nowadays, many women advocate equality with men, but I began to wonder what exactly we get from such relationships. What exactly do we want to feel next to our loved one? Now it seems to me that I was able to find the answer to this question. I want to feel love, feel how they will wait for me from work, worry whether everything is fine in my life and be there for me in any moments of joy and sorrow. In return, what can I give my man? I can show him that even on the darkest days I can light up his day with my smile and optimism, give him confidence that one day there will be a bright streak in his life and that I will be there until this streak comes.


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I am all you need Daddy, come get it Female 29 from London, UK

I’m down for some fun, so tell me what you got


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Confident, chatty, slim 40 yr old brunette seeks male sub. Female 41 from Mayfair, UK

I am a short, slim, professional, attractive, confident, chatty brunette. I am 40yrs old, like to keep fit and look after myself.  I am seeking a sub male to play with,  age 25 -49 ish.   In terms of my search, our first meet would be in a nice bar, and require a detailed discussion, so that I can fully understand you.  Anyone can bark orders - a true D/s relationship has a much deeper level of understanding and connection.   I am looking for someone discreet. I am very open to exploring. No interest in sex outdoors. Mutual respect and privacy are extremely important to me. Hoping to find someone for regular meets. I'm open minded and non judgmental. I do not want the lifestyle 24/7, only in the bedroom, behind closed doors.


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Hiya I’d like to consider myself quite and open character. I’m always seeking so.. Female 25 from London, UK

Want to know more? send me a message, let’s talks about it.


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im a dominant mistress looking for submissive Female 38 from Rochester, UK

Are you ready to get dominated by me and I'm ready to leak every each of my body


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Im 29 years old, living in the Birmingham region. Female 29 from London, UK

I'm 29 years old, living in the Birmingham region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 20 and 47.


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Confident and passionate woman, hmm.. Female 39 from London, UK

Like I have already said.. Confident and passionate woman that thrives for some new adventure.. Looking for a man that knows how to treat a woman right..
Be nice and respectful and you will get a response from me..
Vanessa.


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Looking for, ages 20-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun

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