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Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 56-88.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, S&M, Sex Toys

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Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Pegging, Petite, Sex Toys, Threesomes

I'm 36 years old, living in the London region.I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 38 and 86.
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-65.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

Sensual, confident, and adventurous, I thrive on unforgettable encounters, embracing spontaneity and exploration. With me, every hookup is a tantalizing journey filled with passion, pleasure, and uninhibited excitement.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun

Let's engage in meaningful conversations, exchange experiences, and embrace the beauty of consensual kink together.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-82.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I am the quintessential Mistress who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in MY presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before ME and serve ME. I am hardcore however I do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sensual aspects. Part of MY allure is MY sincere affinity for what I do and the way I personally connect with each subs.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Threesomes

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Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-52.
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I consider myself a romantic and passionate woman, full of joy and enthusiasm for life, my greatest desire is to make a special man happy and create unforgettable moments together, as a couple, I am loyal and committed, I ensure deep connection and honesty.
Straight
Looking for, ages 51-90.
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Interests, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Pegging, Sub, Temperature Play, Voyeurism

I'm 38 years old, living in the Birmingham region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I’ll will make your wildest imaginations come true, I’m available for fun both indoor and outdoor.
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-80.
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Interests, Fetish, Outdoor Fun

I’m excited when I find someone organic who’s ready and knows what he or she wants
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay

Any of you guys wanna wear a collar n lead and let me take you for a walk? Willing subs only...and you guys tryin too hard with your pics..just keep it real!!
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-30.
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Interests, Dom

I am looking for a man, who set goals and going towards them until he reaches it. I like a man who knows what they want. I want to be with a man, who knows how to respect and love his woman, who likes children and traveling. I want he has next qualities: loyalty, generosity, curiosity, a good sense of humour.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

I am single and looking for a real long term relationship
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Interests, BDSM

We are a happy and relaxed couple that enjoy our sex life. We are looking to broaden the horizons a little with a little bit of spice. Looking for a respectable third who can keep within the boundaries while also exploring and having fun. She takes a bit of pleasing so 2 makes it a bit better.Not interested in seedy people.Nice to have a chat and get to know someone. Not too interested in pre written messages, so won’t be responding to anyone using those. Face picture a must also. Just relax and be genuine.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 35-49.
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Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Threesomes

Brown skin pretty kitty girl is looking for her Daddy, to spank her and bite her and spoil her and kiss her all over. A good obedient little princess who will submit to her Daddy... but can sometimes be a bit naughty so Daddy must discipline her.Looking for genuine connections only. Don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours.
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-47.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Sub

Needing some spice and excitement locally. Cleanliness is a MUST - I’m shy and nervous. Role play is sun idea where you can be the handyman
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-51.
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Interests, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

I can just say that I am a very caring, sophisticated, sensual, intelligent and emotional woman. I win your heart with my loyalty, reliability and unlimited tenderness
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-87.
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Interests, BDSM, Oral

I would describe myself as a calm person, light as a feather, bright as the sun and very positive. I believe that life is beautiful and gives us a lot of good and bright. I am reliable and responsible, you can always rely on me and trust me with the most intimate in your life and know that everything is in good hands. I am optimistic.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Sex Talk

i am can cook, i can polay teniss ball. i like to go swiming.if you want to know more about me just ask me and i am open book
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, S&M, Sex Toys

Happy to play with experienced kinksers and newbies alike, my domination and play style varies depending on what fun or filth we're getting up to, as well as on your own enthusiasm and communication. Whether it's through seduction and sensuality, the strict enforcement of rules, or other more nefarious means - my goal is to make our time together feel connected, natural, freeing, and fulfilling for everyone involved
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

A loyal and experienced mistress, looking for a serious partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-60.
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Interests, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Sub, Threesomes

I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scat or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/slave. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

: I am adult girl ready to take care of myself but indeed the most wanted thing is to be next to someone caring and loving. Someone who cares about you to listen to you and to understand you entirely. I think the ideal relationship is when you feel really comfortable with each other, when you can enjoy the party time together, as well as the calm romantic evening at home same way. In my life I have everything I need - my favorite job, my friends, and my family, but the only part is missing is my partner of life, my love and my destiny
Straight
Looking for, ages 61-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Impact Play, Lace, MILF, Pegging, S&M, Sexual Massage, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Webcam

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