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I'm 34 years old, living in the Havant region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 25 and 45.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

We both enjoy sex in the company of or with others. We are looking for males/females and couples who can accommodate.
Bicurious, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

We are a very happy couple . we are both very horny and massively naughty in the bedroom or were ever we are at the time .we are both up for trying new things. but we have push are naughtiness really really fare and now we would like to take it to the next level and find someone or a couple to join us for nsa fun or even partner switching but have to be in the same room we both can have multiple orgasams/cum loads and in a row so if this sounds like something you want or would like to no more about plz say hi and give us a text
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 35-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Full Swap, Sex Toys, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam

I mainly enjoy a mixture of obedience and punishment (IE sometimes I want to be a good sub to make my Dom happy and other times I want to play up or be cheeky to get a punishment).
I have a lot of kinks but not a lot of experience (most of the experimentation has been solo but ofc you can only get so far by yourself and ideally I’d like someone who I can figuratively or literally hand the reigns over to and be completely under their control for a while- or whatever the session may bring).
Obviously a build up of trust is needed to slowly increase to more kinky things/harder impact play/whatever it may be etc but I’d love to see how far I can push myself (within the safety of my Dom, safe words etc).
When I drop I tend to get clingy/needy until I’m out of the fog/given aftercare so if that’s not for you keep that in mind.
Hope this all makes sense and feel free to ask any questions or if you want a more detailed list of the kind of things I’m into I’m happy to have a chat.
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub

I am open minded and free so i cherish discretion just make sure you're worth my juices
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-89.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Dom, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, Nylons, Petite, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes

Me and the wife wants to explore were looking for another male to join us in our sexual pursuit to fulfil each other needs.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-40.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

We are a polite, discreet and respectful couple. Both practice safe sex. I'm 58, she's 42. We are both exceptionally broad minded and love deviant pleasures
She is bisexual, and loves to be dominant and in control. I can be submissive one minute and alpha the next, depending on my mood. She can squirt for Britain, if you hit the right button . We wish to meet couples or singles. Think that's enough info for now. If you want to know more, then by all means ask, we have much to tell
If you like the sound of us, please drop us a line. Anyone who is disrespectful will be ignored or blocked.
Straight, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

There is a lot haha so how about you come say hi and if you want to know more
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-57.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Soft Swap, Threesomes

I would like to meet people who are into having kinky fun and are into bdsm and eventually meet up and have fun. Really excited to get started.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Pegging, Sex Toys

I am a dominatrix woman who love to cum alot and s sauirter too. Hmmm I love to use toys to hype the pleasures
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

I'm 27 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 64.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-53.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

We are a happily married couple, but we would like to find a guy between 25 and 50 who we could socialise with and have regular contact with, so we can then explore weekend breaks, nights out etc and become good friends. If you are after a one off please don't message as this is not what we are looking for.
There has to be a mutual connection both ways.
Dishy does not like to be controlled in the bedroom, and can be a little rough with her nails and maybe a little biting, she likes passion but is also very open minded
Dave is straight. Oh and a dick pic sent straight to my inbox does not impress me!
If you think this is you, please get in touch.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Threesomes

I never know what to write in this things looking for someone to make me laugh watch programs with just do normal day to day stuff I'm shy at first till we've gotten to know each other better looking for someone to match or that don't mind my weirdness
Pansexual
Looking for, ages 18-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I'm 34 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Full Swap, Webcam

I am a woman for whom harmony and comfort at home always come first. Love and loyalty for me are not just words, but a lifestyle. I am not looking for superficial acquaintances, my goal is a real, serious relationship. I am often seen with a smile on my face, because I am a cheerful and positive person. People around me say that I am easy and comfortable. I have many hobbies, which makes me an active and interesting woman. I believe in kindness and want to share my positive energy with a man who values honesty, loyalty, and a good sense of humor. I am here to find not just a man, but a soul mate who will appreciate not only my appearance, but also my inner world. I am stubborn and determined, and I know that I will find that one love here on this dating site.
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Exhibitionism, Lingerie, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Webcam

Opened minded, looking forward in exploring fun together.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Leather / Latex, Roleplay, Threesomes

I'm 33 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 32 and 71.
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-71.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

Sexually practices with a well behaved partner feels more better
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Feet

We want to enjoy and experience party fun we have played with single males in the past now want to expand
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Your loyal Goddess is here kindly Dm for your reliable mistress
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Sexually practices with a well behaved partner feels more better
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I'm 29 years old, living in the Portsmouth region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 90.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

MAID POSITION AVAILABLE It’s easier to tell you what I’m not looking for really which is a quick fling, mind games (I’d win ) or time wasters… What I am looking for is a long term loyal, fun, relationship with a maid who knows how to treat a Mistress and isn’t afraid - well maybe a tad, to allow her to take complete control. I have a large circle of good friends and am very social, I enjoy being on the water sailing, cafe hopping, chilled white wine and cooking, to the outside World I seem a delight, the sort of lady your Mother would approve of…I’m a compassionate, intelligent, curvy, who loves nature, the ocean, and importantly animal welfare. I have 2 rescue cats who are very dear to me that must be totally accepted, other non negotiable points are smoking or drug use, any relationship status other than single:;If you feel you’d like to chat then don’t be shy I’m really easy to talk with as long as you know how to curtesy!!!
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-70.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom

Life makes me happy As a solo Poly I’m a woman who knows what she wants and has the freedom to be herself in all ways. I play as a solo poly and not looking to play with the whole site and neither a quick fuck.I’m in one fwb relationship but looking to add another fwb to play on my own with.I also play as a swinging straight couple with my fwb who is a vintage swinger and I am a newbie in the swinging scene, I am wanting to explore my sexual liberation and swing as a straight couple not as a single femaleIndependent thinker, self determined and not in need of rescue or relationship.There’s no such thing as no strings attached for me, so why don’t we build anticipation, connection and thrill me with the chase.Let’s not interfere with real lives and enjoy honesty with each other.Lead with a conversation not just a one liner. A little bit of time and effort proves nothing is impossible.Text me with hi fluffy
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-58.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Outdoor Fun

I;m married and seeking for a discreet relationship on this site, I need sex desperately
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM

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