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Looking for extra fun f is 62 and a sexy bbw m 52 and dad bod Couple 52, 52 from Bridgemary, UK

We want to enjoy and experience party fun we have played with single males in the past now want to expand


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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky preferences, hooku.. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

I'm a simple lady with the quest to explore all my sexual fantasies, I'm open to anything.


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Im 44 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 44 from Southampton, UK

I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 70 and 99.


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Im looking for a reliable Sub Female 28 from Portsmouth, UK

Your loyal Goddess is here kindly Dm for your reliable mistress


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Naughty experienced couple looking for some new friends to get to know and have .. Couple 44, 44 from Warsash, UK

Naughty experienced couple looking for some new friends to get to know and have a great fun time with..come say hi..x
Single guys are welcome but please attach a face pic with your message as it saves a lot of time..also Caroline is not a fan of beards or overly pushy men...also we prefer manly men/rugby/fit build to really slim guys - if the thought of DP freaks you out then we probably are not the couple for you..
We also might be interested in group fun with groups of guys/couples, so any existing interesting groups say hi x


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I am Mistress Rosie. Severe, strict and sensual Mistress. Ill take your very de.. Female 25 from Southampton, UK

I am the quintessential Mistress who will take you deep into subspace and keep you there always when in MY presence and this is when you will learn your true purpose in life, for it is to kneel down before ME and serve ME. I am hardcore however I do have a dual side which allows me to explore more sensual aspects. Part of MY allure is MY sincere affinity for what I do and the way I personally connect with each subs.


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Im Seduction, a captivating and empowering woman who is unafraid to embrace her.. Female 36 from Portsmouth, UK

True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions


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Sweet loyal and caring Mistress looking for a fit mature man, that has a high se.. Female 33 from Totton, UK

single mistress looking for crazy hot sexy submissive slut who's open minded too and ready to explore the world with meWho's in Calla and notifications can come in now


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Im 39 years old, living in the Bembridge region. Female 39 from Bembridge, UK

I like sport, that is why regularly attending gym. I love good food and traveling. I am interested in art such theater and opera house. Sometimes reading book, attracted by fashion and beauty sphere.


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Looking to explore, experiment and have fun discreetly Female 46 from Bursledon, UK

I am a plus size lady who has many sexual desires. I get excited by threesomes, and am Bi curious for sure.I am also very partial to some 1:1 with a man who knows what he is doing and will take an element of control


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Need a sub who can handles my darkest side. Xx Female 33 from Southampton, UK

Your ultimate dominatrix, I’m new here looking for a loyal sub …need your total obedience and devotion


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Im 53 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 53 from Southampton, UK

I'm 53 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 56 and 91.


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Looking for something serious.. Female 38 from Southampton, UK

Hi there handsome ….I think you'd like to chat more so feel free to leave a mesage.I only have few chatting limit ……Good luck out there! I am a woman of my own words,I will never stand to think of hurting someone or cheating nor lie to someone.
Thank you … Sandra


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Im 53 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 53 from Southampton, UK

I'm 53 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 90.


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Seeking for friendship and fun Female 46 from Southampton, UK

I’m looking for friendships and fun. Let have fun..


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I am a strict and dominant Mistress i am looking for a sub thats ready to be ta.. Female 35 from Southampton, UK

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I came to this dating site to find an adult and experienced man for a serious re.. Female 40 from Southampton, UK

I came to this dating site to find an adult and experienced man for a serious relationship. I'm not going to play games, and play with feelings!


Straight

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Hiya there this is Ben and kerry Couple 33, 33 from Bitterne, UK

I'm 33 years old, living in the Bitterne region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 30 and 55.
I'm White / Caucasian with a Muscular body shape Dark brown hair
I drink socially I smoke


Bisexual, Bisexual

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I love nothing more than to be both served and worshiped Female 35 from Portsmouth, UK

I am equally playful and fun. I tend to be humorous and, although I can be kinky and authoritative. It would be true to say that I love nothing more than a novice. However know that all of you, novice or experienced will be putty in my hands. So if you trust me with your fantasy then rest assured I will make it truly memorable for us both for all the right reasons.


Straight

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Here to have fun who is gonna take me home Female 33 from Southampton, UK

I am loving caring and trusting I will always make you happy and your favorite dom


Straight

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I love smiling and being passionate and enthusiastic, I think the sexiest thing .. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

I love smiling and being passionate and enthusiastic, I think the sexiest thing that a woman wears is a smile. It is also the most beautiful language in the world, so my friends judge me as a warm-hearted, tender, caring, feminine, humorous, and thoughtful woman. I am optimistic about caring for my life. Now this petite lady here is yearning for another pair of hands holding with for a lifetime?


Bisexual

Looking for, ages 36-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Oral, Pegging, S&M, Sex Talk, Sub

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Let’s explore our fantasies and care for our lonely hearts . Female 44 from Portsmouth, UK

I’m easy to get along with and down to earth woman with good sense of humor …like to share jokes and laugh with your jokes as well .


Straight

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I am a woman for whom harmony and comfort at home always come first. Love and lo.. Female 39 from Portsmouth, UK

I am a woman for whom harmony and comfort at home always come first. Love and loyalty for me are not just words, but a lifestyle. I am not looking for superficial acquaintances, my goal is a real, serious relationship. I am often seen with a smile on my face, because I am a cheerful and positive person. People around me say that I am easy and comfortable. I have many hobbies, which makes me an active and interesting woman. I believe in kindness and want to share my positive energy with a man who values honesty, loyalty, and a good sense of humor. I am here to find not just a man, but a soul mate who will appreciate not only my appearance, but also my inner world. I am stubborn and determined, and I know that I will find that one love here on this dating site.


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Im 43 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 43 from Southampton, UK

I'm 43 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 89.


Straight

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I am easy to get along with, open-minded, reasonable, and generous. If youre in.. Female 39 from Southampton, UK

Loyalty and freedom are the main words that define me as a woman and as a person. I will love the man who respects my freedom, I will choose him every day if this is what he gives me. Joining a man for me implies mutual growth, I always want to help fulfill his purpose and for him to help mine. My desire is to find a gentlemanly, conscientious, loving and respectful man for himself and others.


Straight

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