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I will be the one who will make your fantasies come true Female 27 from Oxford, UK

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IM A PROFESSIONAL DOMINANT WOMAN HOPING TO FIND A SUBMISSIVE TO EXPLORE OUR SEX.. Female 38 from Oxford, UK

am very sensual but intelligent with a wicked sense of humour..

I am experienced in and enjoy all aspects of BDSM, delighting in making my Sub squirm in My presence.

Being a dominatrix is very much a part of me a natural part of my whole person chemistry

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Sub looking for a Dom to treasure, enjoy and learn from. Female 47 from Bicester, UK

I am an assertive, strong woman during the day but loves to submit to a dominant. I appreciate it when a man takes control and has that self-confidence that goes with it. I'm also looking for someone who will cater for my needs just as much as his.

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Im 33 years old, living in the Shipton Under Wychwood region. Couple 33, 33 from Shipton Under Wychwood, UK

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Whatever you are, be a good one Female 33 from Oxford, UK

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Fun uninhibited couple looking for more adventures Couple 57, 54 from Oxford, UK

We have had a little break but we are back !!! for more fun.Couple looking for more sexual adventures, we really would like to meet bi ladies and couples, single straight males welcome. Really looking forward to more sexy adventures, enjoy most things but NOT pain or ws.

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My name is goddess Scarlet, a lifestyle mistress with many years of experienced .. Female 35 from Oxford, UK

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I am looking for fwb and some fun Female 38 from Drayton, UK

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Im 34 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 34 from Oxford, UK

I'm 34 years old, living in the Oxford region.
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I'm 47 and happily single (at last) I'm up for pretty much anything!

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I will whip you in to line and will reward you great Female 23 from Oxford, UK

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Straight

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Im an experienced mistress…….. Female 33 from Oxford, UK

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Im 37 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 37 from Oxford, UK

I'm 37 years old, living in the Oxford region.
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Im 38 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 38 from Oxford, UK

I'm 38 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 99.

Straight

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Smart Dom woman looking out to explore Female 36 from Oxford, UK

I'm goddess Xena siren a lifestyle dominatrix lady with much and more experience
Whether you seek a strict Mistress, a caring mummy or sadistic nurse in pvc, i will make your fantasy a reality with my perfect blend of sensual and stern. It doesn't matter if you're completely new to the world of kink or you're a seasoned sub desperate to taste every naughty aspect of BDSM and expand more, I tailor each and every session to the specific requests and needs of my subs, because no two people are alike! I love nothing more than looking into a subs eyes as I blow their mind into oblivion while knowing exactly what makes them tick. Do you want to explore your deepest darkest most fucked-up fantasy with me or do you simply want to lay in my arms and be told you're a good boy? Why not both...do get in touch

Straight

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Im a dom looking for my loyal and obedient sub to lead in a D/S relationship so.. Female 39 from Buckingham, UK

I am dominant, kinky, demanding and I can't have it any other way.

Straight

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Bisexual

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I love to meet nice people here Female 52 from Oxford, UK

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Straight

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Trying to find my person. My match. Female 35 from Buckingham, UK

I’m bored of trying to explain myself to a man the thinks he already knows.

Straight

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Straight

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