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If you feel you need a dominant lady and you are feel like having fun, feel free.. Female 43 from Buckingham, UK

If you feel you need a dominant lady and you are puns town , feel free to say hi !!


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Looking for, ages 49-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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It’s really nice to exploring this lifestyle, Dominate in nature Female 34 from Oxford, UK

I’m a Dom,looking for a submissive one to explore more of this lifestyle with


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Looking for, ages 52-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM

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Im 33 years old, living in the Shipton Under Wychwood region. Couple 33, 33 from Shipton Under Wychwood, UK

I'm 33 years old, living in the Shipton Under Wychwood region. I'm interested in meeting a couple aged between 24 and 46.I'm Hispanic / Latino with a Slim body shape Black hairI live for booze I smokeI will travel for hookups


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I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there were some.. Female 29 from Oxford, UK

100% real
looking forward to pleasing you & getting to know you. I am sweet, sexy, well mannered, genuine ..everything you ever wanted. I love the company of a mature, generous, intelligent man. You will be my only focus during our time together. Let me be your fantasy


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Im 44 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 44 from Oxford, UK

I'm 44 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 99.


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New to this lifestyle! Just looking for some fun. Couple 49, 49 from Buckingham, UK

We’re happy seeing each other happy! Fun makes us both very happy


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Im an experienced mistress…….. Female 33 from Oxford, UK

Seeking for loyal and obedient men, don’t come at me faking!!!


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Im an explicit Dom who loves to explore darkest kinky experiences, love sub wit.. Female 41 from Lambourn, UK

If you win my heart with your submissive goals we can build a kinky relationship in this lifestyle


Straight

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Already have a Mistress we are looking for another female sub to add to the fun Female 57 from Didcot, UK

Honest, easy going looking to explore some fantasies


Bisexual

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Im a beautiful woman and a Dom looking for a loyal sub who I can explore my fan.. Female 33 from Buckingham, UK

I've been into this lifestyle for 7years I'm well trained in this. I'm looking for a loyal and willing sub to explore my kinks with. it would be a glorious experience..


Straight

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I enjoy traveling the beachesbr>Thank you for your time and good luck on here Female 49 from Oxford, UK

I enjoy traveling the beaches mountains and especially the deserts. I enjoy windsurfing
e-biking walks being on the water, amusement parks
anything that might be fun to try


Bisexual

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Please contact me in my email and get start Female 35 from Oxford, UK

I like surprise dating kissing and weak end outing some different dating in hotels


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Sub looking for a Dom to treasure, enjoy and learn from. Female 47 from Bicester, UK

I am an assertive, strong woman during the day but loves to submit to a dominant. I appreciate it when a man takes control and has that self-confidence that goes with it. I'm also looking for someone who will cater for my needs just as much as his.


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Just dipping my toes into this side Female 21 from Oxford, UK

Ideally I’d love to meet someone who has experience with shibari rope tying and would like to practice on me!


Bisexual

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I’m new here looking forward to meet someone to love and have good relationships.. Female 30 from Oxford, UK

Reading just like that’s the only activity I can do


Straight

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I am active lady. I love active recreation: kayaking in summer and skiing in win.. Female 40 from Oxford, UK

I am looking for a successful, kind and loving man with whom I will feel safe


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Looking for straight male for threesome sex Couple 64, 64 from Sydenham, UK

I have finally convinced  my wife to have with us and another man


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Im 39 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 39 from Oxford, UK

I'm 39 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.


Straight

Looking for, ages 30-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Webcam

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Looking for NSA fun …. I prefer social/drinks on a first meet and then who knows.. Female 57 from Buckingham, UK

I’m a 57 year old open minded female just looking for fun … if you like what you see then come and say hi …..


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Looking for, ages 41-57. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

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Hi gentlemen great to catch up here Female 35 from Oxford, UK

hi rose here am new to this online dating site looking for a sex relationship


Straight

Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, Couples, Dirty Talk, MILF, Oral, Sex Talk, Webcam

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IM A PROFESSIONAL DOMINANT WOMAN HOPING TO FIND A SUBMISSIVE TO EXPLORE OUR SEX.. Female 38 from Oxford, UK

am very sensual but intelligent with a wicked sense of humour..

I am experienced in and enjoy all aspects of BDSM, delighting in making my Sub squirm in My presence.

Being a dominatrix is very much a part of me a natural part of my whole person chemistry


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Looking for, ages 69-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

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Im Mistress J Gold, a beautifully perverted yet sadistic mistress that packs a p.. Female 43 from Oxford, UK

Im a creative, intuitive, playful dominatrix. I have the power to easily shift into different modes: sensual, teasing, assertive or whatever may be necessary to take you deep into that wonderful headspace before luring you back into my dark sadistic realm.My allure will have you sucked in and you will soon find yourself submitting to me in ways you never thought possible.


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Looking for, ages 34-80. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

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Let have meet and have a good fun together Female 30 from Oxford, UK

I love a nice man to have fun with cherish man or guy


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Looking for, ages 20-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

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Couple wishing to meet interested male, for friendship and more Couple 63, 59 from Oxford, UK

We are your average couple M/F  wishing to meet a male for occasional meets in friendship and more, discretion to us is important and likewise with the gentleman we choose to see, we are very open and respect peoples wishes  Gary and Julia


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Looking for, ages 53-73. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Threesomes

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Hi we are a happily married couple looking to have some fun with other like mind.. Couple 38, 38 from Drayton, UK

I’m male 33 larger guy love having fun and exploring new things

Kathy is 31 larger lady with big tits love to have fun with both guys and women new to the bi side but has given it ago and enjoyed it


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Looking for, ages 40-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Roleplay, Threesomes

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  • Oxford /
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