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I want to have a fantastic relationship with you as my obedient slut and I look .. Female 54 from Oxford, UK

Meeting new friends around the neighborhood and listening to music


Straight

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It’s really nice to exploring this lifestyle, Dominate in nature Female 34 from Oxford, UK

I’m a Dom,looking for a submissive one to explore more of this lifestyle with


Straight

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Just dipping my toes into this side Female 21 from Oxford, UK

Ideally I’d love to meet someone who has experience with shibari rope tying and would like to practice on me!


Bisexual

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New to this lifestyle! Just looking for some fun. Couple 49, 49 from Buckingham, UK

We’re happy seeing each other happy! Fun makes us both very happy


Straight, Straight

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I will whip you in to line and will reward you great Female 23 from Oxford, UK

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Straight

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My name is goddess lucy , a lifestyle mistress with caring and straight forward .. Female 36 from Oxford, UK

Mistress Lucy is exceptional. I'm a genuine lifestyle Dom lady who loves stripping away a submissive's control and self respect. Expect to see my eyes sparkle with pleasure as i pushes you to take more punishment and you will be desperate to take more to please me, my interests lie in long term, deeply engaging, personal and highly satisfying D/s relationships, i give my precious time to a submissive who's willing to serve and please me xxx


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Tired of vanilla sex looking to explore more on the bdsm lifestyle. Female 29 from Oxford, UK

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Who is going to be my little bitch?
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Straight

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Just here for fun..Good vibes only Female 24 from Oxford, UK

I love trying something new ,I dance for fun and also like traveling


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Looking for a submissive sub to explore with in the lifestyle Female 32 from Oxford, UK

Am into BDSM social lifestyle, looking for a man to explore with


Straight

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Sweet loyal and caring Mistress looking for a fit mature man,that has a high sex.. Female 33 from Oxford, UK

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Straight

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Am new here and am looking for some Öńë serious Female 46 from Oxford, UK

I'm 46 years old, living in the Oxford region.
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I am New to this and I hope we can each contact Female 43 from Oxford, UK

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Straight

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Looking for straight male for threesome sex Couple 64, 64 from Sydenham, UK

I have finally convinced  my wife to have with us and another man


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Looking to Explore more on the bdsm lifestyle Female 30 from Oxford, UK

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Straight

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Straight

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Looking for a lovely LADY to join us for an adventure, please NO SINGLE MEN OR .. Couple 57, 58 from Drayton, UK

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Im an experienced mistress…….. Female 33 from Oxford, UK

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I am mistress Holly looking to explore with submissive kinksters Female 34 from Oxford, UK

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Bisexual

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A dominant mistress looking for a submissive submissive male to explore all her .. Female 33 from Oxford, UK

The best place for All submissive male is under my feet
New babies are welcome


Straight

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I am looking for a partner who is my age Female 56 from Bampton, UK

I need some excitement in my life I was too closed a person


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Hey there I’m new on here looking forward to meet up and to experience new thing.. Female 40 from Headington, UK

I dont mind you been sadist i love pain and i sometimes like been bisexual depends on what my man want i am  just looking  for a real relationship i like laughing but enjoy making others laugh more than i do


Straight

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Let have meet and have a good fun together Female 30 from Oxford, UK

I love a nice man to have fun with cherish man or guy


Straight

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Looking for NSA fun …. I prefer social/drinks on a first meet and then who knows.. Female 57 from Buckingham, UK

I’m a 57 year old open minded female just looking for fun … if you like what you see then come and say hi …..


Straight

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