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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Oxfordshire
If you feel you need a dominant lady and you are puns town , feel free to say hi !!
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I’m a Dom,looking for a submissive one to explore more of this lifestyle with
Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM

I'm 33 years old, living in the Shipton Under Wychwood region. I'm interested in meeting a couple aged between 24 and 46.I'm Hispanic / Latino with a Slim body shape Black hairI live for booze I smokeI will travel for hookups
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 24-46.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Full Swap, Threesomes

100% real
looking forward to pleasing you & getting to know you. I am sweet, sexy, well mannered, genuine ..everything you ever wanted. I love the company of a mature, generous, intelligent man. You will be my only focus during our time together. Let me be your fantasy
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Oral, Petite, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

I'm 44 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Mature, MILF, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

We’re happy seeing each other happy! Fun makes us both very happy
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 25-50.
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Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap

Seeking for loyal and obedient men, don’t come at me faking!!!
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Sex Toys

If you win my heart with your submissive goals we can build a kinky relationship in this lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

Honest, easy going looking to explore some fantasies
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I've been into this lifestyle for 7years I'm well trained in this. I'm looking for a loyal and willing sub to explore my kinks with. it would be a glorious experience..
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Webcam

I enjoy traveling the beaches mountains and especially the deserts. I enjoy windsurfing
e-biking walks being on the water, amusement parks
anything that might be fun to try
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 39-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

I like surprise dating kissing and weak end outing some different dating in hotels
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-35.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM

I am an assertive, strong woman during the day but loves to submit to a dominant. I appreciate it when a man takes control and has that self-confidence that goes with it. I'm also looking for someone who will cater for my needs just as much as his.
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-56.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sub

Ideally I’d love to meet someone who has experience with shibari rope tying and would like to practice on me!
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 30-73.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Discreet Meets, S&M

Reading just like that’s the only activity I can do
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap

I am looking for a successful, kind and loving man with whom I will feel safe
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-82.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Webcam

I have finally convinced my wife to have with us and another man
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 40-73.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism

I'm 39 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Webcam

I’m a 57 year old open minded female just looking for fun … if you like what you see then come and say hi …..
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-57.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

hi rose here am new to this online dating site looking for a sex relationship
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Couples, Dirty Talk, MILF, Oral, Sex Talk, Webcam

am very sensual but intelligent with a wicked sense of humour..
I am experienced in and enjoy all aspects of BDSM, delighting in making my Sub squirm in My presence.
Being a dominatrix is very much a part of me a natural part of my whole person chemistry
Straight
Looking for, ages 69-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Im a creative, intuitive, playful dominatrix. I have the power to easily shift into different modes: sensual, teasing, assertive or whatever may be necessary to take you deep into that wonderful headspace before luring you back into my dark sadistic realm.My allure will have you sucked in and you will soon find yourself submitting to me in ways you never thought possible.
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-80.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

I love a nice man to have fun with cherish man or guy
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-75.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

We are your average couple M/F wishing to meet a male for occasional meets in friendship and more, discretion to us is important and likewise with the gentleman we choose to see, we are very open and respect peoples wishes Gary and Julia
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 53-73.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Threesomes

I’m male 33 larger guy love having fun and exploring new things
Kathy is 31 larger lady with big tits love to have fun with both guys and women new to the bi side but has given it ago and enjoyed it
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Full Swap, Roleplay, Threesomes

Active member locations
- Yarnton /
- Oxford /
- Headington /
- Summertown /
- Drayton /
- Oxford /
- Appleton /
- Witney /
- Woodstock /
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