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We’re looking for couples who share our perspective on intimacy and are open to exploring a variety of sexual styles. We appreciate partners who prioritize taking care of themselves physically and emotionally and value open communication. We’re drawn to gentle and considerate lovers who understand the importance of mutual respect and consent. If you enjoy a diverse approach to sex and are open to exploring new experiences, we’d love to hear from you.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-38.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Threesomes

First of all, I am looking for a great friend for me, kind, responsible, honest, purposeful, generous, and with a good sense of humor.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Feet, Mature, Oral, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I am writing these words from my heart to a man who is looking for life changes and is ready to let a real woman in his life. I will fulfill our lives with passion, love, care, romance and lot's of positive emotions. I am good looking, intelligent and successful in my profession and have a variety of interests. I am at the age when I clearly know who I am and what I want. I have a passionate heart and curious mind. I am trying to become better each new day and discover now things. Christian foundations are important to me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-86.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, Body Hair, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Feet, Impact Play, Lingerie, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub

Let's talk cause I got a lot of things that makes happy .
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub

Seeking for a loyal,newbie or experienced submissive man to train and explore more of kinky fantasy….
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I'm imperfect, down to earth.. I'm fun to be with, like vodka sometimes
Straight
Looking for, ages 20-75.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I like traveling, good food, being around positive people, reading, visiting historical places, learning new hobbies, watching movies and TV shows, even reading comics and playing board games. I like doing household chores. I love to cook something tasty and unusual and try new recipes.My future man is honest, kind, loving, caring, understanding, supportive. I am faithful and expect the same from my man! I hope that we will make each other better and learn every day something new from each other!
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Roleplay, Sex Games, Sex Talk

I’m a pretty girl with all the good vibes you want
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-84.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Curves, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Webcam

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection. But I will play casually with those who request politely.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Feet, Fetish, S&M

Anyone wants to play, can be discreet, just looking to have safe fun. Male bi here.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Couples, Crossdress, Discreet Meets, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes, Webcam

Whatever Mistress says goes. I love a good boy who is a attentive listener. Do as you’re told. It makes me happy when you are eager and enthusiastic about serving and spoiling me. I might even let you worship my feet.
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Hey Fellow perverts! Mature and secure couple looking for couples and select singles for regular play in and outside the bedroom that are d.d.f We are an easy going couple with experience in the lifestyle but don’t let that intimidate you newbie’s as we are no pressure but ask you to be as genuine as we are. We like a few different dynamics of play so hit us up and see if it clicks with your type of kink? Wife is a Sexy and classy submissive vixen that is very Fun! If this sounds like your style hit us up and let’s make it happen. Happy hunting fellow kinkster!
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 35-60.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Exhibitionism, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Send naked pics, Tell naughty stories, Threesomes, Voyeurism

California girl born and raised! I'm single with a fur baby. In my free time I love to cook, travel, and read. I'm a book worm and read mostly smut. I love when men fall at my feet and worship me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-75.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction

I'm 51 years old, living in the Santa Clara region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 82.
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-82.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, ASMR, BDSM, Body Hair, Impact Play, Temperature Play

I'm a girl who loves material things. I'm not a golddigger, but I value men who take care of their women. Giving me a gift goes a long way in my heart. Although gifting is not my love language, I like it when my man buys me a gift every time. It makes me feel important and tells me how much he loves me. I know you can give someone you don't like or love a gift; you buy a gift for someone you love.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub

I'm completely dominant and experienced ,I would like to share my fetishes as a DOM woman with kinky males on here..
Straight
Looking for, ages 21-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I’m an easy going lady who can go with anyone, I am responsible,GOD fearing and very respectful.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-71.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, shemales, panties/lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
Don't like blood, or pain.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

I love traveling, swimming reading and most importantly the bds world. I love to be with a sub who see's me as his goddess. Who would love to be with me always and love to travel the world with me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-74.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

If you want to know more about me you can easily ask it away, But I do love to travel read books and sing.
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-76.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bukkake, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish

Im a single woman with no partner and very passionate and erotic I enjoy having as much fun as I can and i want to meet the same person
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-74.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Sub

Erotic texting, and foreplay are fascinating to me, I would love to try out and learn new things and try to awaken the longing of passion and pleasure. I would love to be able to have multiple orgasms, I have never had that before.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 36-50.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I’m a very good person and love outside and love to make friends
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Age play, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lingerie, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Webcam

have been mistress for more than 12 years now and I am an active member of a group of dominant women in the city and all over the world.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I’ve got a lot of fantasies I will love to explore…pegging and so on
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

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