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Am looking to explore my kinki experience or diversity here Female 43 from San Francisco California, USA

I am born dominant looking for some slave to sever and worship me


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Dominatrix mistress. BDSM course available.. kinky events has several Dom and BD.. Female 29 from Washington California, USA

I am a professional Dominatrix who will take over your soul and body. I have several years of experience in climate. I tailor the session individually, having a very strong influence on the emotions, which I will sadistically control. Through pain you will experience pleasure until every painful stimulus reminds you of me. Like a demon, I will make you dependent on me so that you will never be able to forget about me. You will crave more sessions with me and you will look forward to the next ones. What I value most about femdom is the feeling of full control, I love seeing fear, devotion and excitement in the submissive's eyes. Controlling the submissive's emotions is my greatest fetish. FAVORITE PRACTICESFACESITTING , FOOT FETISH, CORPORAL PUNISHMENTOTHER PRACTICESEROTIC DOMINATIONTEASE AND DENIAL, MAGIC WAND, RUINED ORGASM, JOI, CEI, VACBED, CHASTITY BELT, STRAPON ORAL AND ANALMENTAL DOMINATIONSPITTING, NAME CALLING, ROLE PLAY


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Curvy and Nerdy woman searching for a Sir/master/dadd y. Is in an open relatio.. Female 32 from Oakland California, USA

I’m a 31 year old submissive woman that loves video games, anime, cosplay, and TTRPGs. I also enjoy making art and cooking. I’m excited to find a dom for me that will take care of my needs and spoils my fantasy kinks one day. I’m in a relationship with my wife , we are open and poly so there’s no drama with keeping this secret as she knows I do this.


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Lets learn more about each other ,create some strong bond of connection and buil.. Female 60 from San Jose California, USA

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Lost both parents due to Covid. I’ve learnt to grow and believe in myself whatev.. Female 43 from San Francisco California, USA

Well, I'm just your lowkey woman, living life to the fullest! I'm a lover of all things cozy – you'll often find me curled up with a good book and a cup of tea. I'm passionate about my hobbies, like gardening and baking, and I enjoy spending time with my friends and family, whether it's hosting dinner parties or going on outdoor adventures. Overall, I'm just trying to make the most of every moment and spread a little joy wherever I go


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As a matter of fact...its obvious that i want a man that is not too hurt and not.. Female 28 from California Hot Springs California, USA

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Lonely milf looking for a serious man who’s ready to make me happy often sexuall.. Female 27 from Santa Clara California, USA

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Hello handsome am ready to mingle Female 39 from San Francisco California, USA

I am an extremely open, emotional, cheerful and persistent person. I am very sociable, active, tender-hearted, caring and passionate. I live guided with my own principles and I am open to new experiences and new feelings. I am able to love unconditionally and faithfully. I love beauty and don't like monotony. I like style, life rhythm and intelligence.


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As a female dominance on this BDSM dating site I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.

Mentally, I am intelligent and analytical, with a deep understanding of the psychology of power exchange. I am skilled at reading my partner's body language and non-verbal cues, and I am always looking for ways to push their boundaries and challenge their limits.

In terms of my BDSM interests, I have a wide range of kinks and fetishes that I enjoy exploring with my submissives. From bondage and impact play to humiliation and worship, I know how to create a safe and consensual environment where we can both explore our deepest desires.


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Im an experienced dominant female seeking submissive ones for pleasure. Female 30 from San Jose California, USA

I'm a kinky female with a lot of experience as a dom. I enjoy a lot of fantasies and definitely open to trying new kinks and subs


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Im in need of a man that wants to spank me and dominate me Female 64 from Sacramento California, USA

Im fun i have big tits im 5"2 average built. Im looking for an older gentleman who likes to be in control. I want a man that will turn me over his knee and spank me when I talk back or when I'm out of line. I always want to be in control and I need a man to take my control away. I need a good hard spanking


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Am here for a serious relationship with marriage Female 31 from Union City California, USA

Am kind and caring and like to play with my cat and dog


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I will really like to see where this leads Female 36 from Atherton California, USA

soft and tender lady who likes adventure and loves to explore new things


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Im 25 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 26 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 25 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 60.


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Ask me and anything tell me an more Female 42 from Orangevale California, USA

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We are new to the lifestyle. Very curious to explore new things together. Very o.. Couple 36, 34 from Sacramento California, USA

Him: Athletic, charismatic, dominant, very hung, fun, outgoing, social, seductive.

Her: athletic, big ass, fun, submissive, slutty, very outgoing.


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Looking for my soulmate and hope you are here? Female 45 from Atherton California, USA

The most important quality I have; I'll tell you when we meet. I can say for sure, I am an optimist. I feel like I'm at the stage in my life when everything should be fine. I am not afraid to make discoveries, to explore something new and unknown for me in feelings and a relationship. I don't want to spend my life alone, I am a cheerful and loving woman, I want to give love and affection! I want and can prove it in real action, perhaps you'll notice it first. Our happiness is in our hands, agree? Less words, more action!


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Im a vibrant, captivating woman who thrives on embracing lifes endless possibi.. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

I am self-confident, funny, friendly and loving. I love this life and would like to share my love with my special man. I am optimistic, energetic, devoted, active. I prefer reasonable talks and compromises.


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INTELLIGENT AND CARING MEN IS A TURN ON..LETS GET FREAKY AND KINKY..CARREER LADY.. Female 34 from Santa Clara California, USA

KINDHEARTED AND HERE FOR SERIOUS MINDED MALE. . DON'T COME IN HERE AND TALK DIRTY. . MIND YOUR WORDS AND BE INTENTIONAL. . LOVER OF GOODNESS AND CARING MEN.  I MAKE HAY WHILE THE SUN SHINES.  LOVE VACCATIONS AND NEW ADVENTURES.


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Looking to explore and reconnect with this part of my identity. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

Hello! Thanks for checking out my profile. I recently separated from my husband who was very vanilla and am looking to reconnect with this side of my identity. Feeling safe is important, please don’t message asking for a random meetup. I need a human connection before meeting. Also, please don’t message me if you live in another state. Only local people, thank you. I look forward to hearing from you!


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Looking for a loyal and honest sub and more Female 34 from Carson City Nevada, USA

I can a pain in the ass both the in bedroom and outside the bedroom


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Im 43 years old, living in the Tampa region. Female 43 from Atherton California, USA

I'm 43 years old, living in the Tampa region. I'm interested in meeting a submissive sub aged between 40 and 90.


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Submissive older woman wants phone sex only about sexual spankings, talking dirt.. Female 69 from Paso Robles California, USA

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Looking for the man to be with Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

I do not think that I am not better than others, but I hope to be the best for my future partner. You will see that I`m active and spontaneous. I like to laugh and always try to be positive. I always try to understand others and it is easy for me to make friends. I am honest and open with my close people. I have everything to become an excellent wife or a lover to make my man happy sexually and be the best friend and a passionate lover for my man!


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Im Understanding Kinky Dominant woman with lots of experience. Female 45 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I'm willing to meet new people and explore all of kinks with them.


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