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Hello dear, how are you doing today.Nice to meet you, Id love get to know you b.. Female 52 from Sacramento California, USA

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I’m a model, also a great mistress. Just want to meet subs and have fun Female 31 from Bakersfield California, USA

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I am a dominant woman So are you here now to submit yourself to me, to serve me?.. Female 37 from California Hot Springs California, USA

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Im 32 years old, living in the Marina region. Female 32 from Marina California, USA

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I am looking forward to meet a serious man who will be my future partner. Female 35 from San Jose California, USA

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Respect is the one of the greatest expressions of love Female 37 from Stockton California, USA

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i am 52y/o dom with over 30 years in the lifestyle seeking sub for discreet hook.. Female 53 from Monterey California, USA

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Hello... My name is Mistress Sarai and I am a sensual, elegant dominant who enjo.. Female 41 from Sacramento California, USA

Fun loving and cheerful personality, I generally stay positive and try to encourage and support the people I care about.  I tend to get along well with most people. As far as relationships go,  I separated more than a year ago after a very LTR, and I am getting back out there slowly now. I am honest, confident, creative, caring and kinky. Open minded and here for the discovery of meaningful play, that may lead to a more with the right person. I am happily single and really love my life, but I know from experience that I really prefer a relationship with someone special. I am seeking an honest and open minded personality. Someone who has qualities that  extend beyond just sexuality. I enjoy good conversation and a good sense of humor. I also hope to find someone who would enjoy fun outdoor activities, beach, boating, hiking, fitness, music, entertainment,  good food and travel. That being said, I want someone who matches my desires and passion for pleasure.


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