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I LOVE TO MAKE EVERYONE AROUND ME TO SMILE THAT WHY I LOVE TO SMILE AND BE HAPPY.. Female 51 from Sacramento California, USA

I am good looking lol, extremely romantic and passionate. Will be your best friend. I exercise daily. I communicate like a canary and don't use foul language. I am sincere and responsible....I am an excellent cook and love good wine. I am a neat freak. I'll dance on the beach with you.

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Disciplinarian and bondage mistress. Dominant lady you wouldn’t want to cross. Female 34 from Stockton California, USA

A dominant lady who’s demanding, intolerant and sometimes I can be an utter bitch. Don’t come to me with false desires. Once you click you’re hooked.

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I am open minded person looking for fun. Female 27 from California City California, USA

I love to travel more often , I love outdoor stuff like surfing and hiking.

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Looking for a sub to fund our lifestyle Couple 23, 23 from Oakland California, USA

What gets us excited is Being in control, taking trips, and having fun with our subs.

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Im an extroverted, cheerful, and friendly woman. Im very talkative. Female 45 from Fremont California, USA

I am always optimistic, resourceful and curious. As well as sociable, empathetic and friendly. I will always support my man and inspire him every day with my smiles and warm words. I think I will be a great wife and our home will always be cozy.

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Looking for, ages 50-86. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Oral, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play

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As a female dominance on this BDSM dating site I am a confident and experienced .. Female 40 from San Francisco California, USA

Physically I am blind yet powerful with a commanding presence that demands attention. My soft voice can be both soothing and demanding, and I know how to use it to get what I want. I have a penchant for dressing in black leather and lace, and I take great pride in my appearance as a dominant woman.

Mentally, I am intelligent and analytical, with a deep understanding of the psychology of power exchange. I am skilled at reading my partner's body language and non-verbal cues, and I am always looking for ways to push their boundaries and challenge their limits.

In terms of my BDSM interests, I have a wide range of kinks and fetishes that I enjoy exploring with my submissives. From bondage and impact play to humiliation and worship, I know how to create a safe and consensual environment where we can both explore our deepest desires.

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37 subby and 57 cucky husband in the Daggett region. Couple 37, 56 from Daggett California, USA

~~under construntion, come back later! ~~uh... not really sure what to say. My husband and I want a bi Dom to tease and pleasure us both. husband is bi and cucky, but vanilla otherwise, and im a subby, bratty, girl so it doesn't really work as well as we would like. and i know hes capable of so much more. just sort of browsing right now. he's new to the scene so have to be gentle lol. im a little more experienced, but I wouldn't know the first thing about making a vanilla into a dom, so now I seek wisdom from the Elders, or whatever lol ~~oh, i am fat now, but I'm already started on my weight loss journey, so i expect to be more attractive very soon...ish.... husband is stoic and needs to learn a thing or two, like how to give in ~

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I know you will never read this, but I want everyone to know that I love you wit.. Female 47 from California City California, USA

I am quiet new to this and not good at it and am out here on the app considering the fact i am exhausted with loneliness, just tired of being alone and would like to be happy with my life again, Any real man out there to get acquainted oneopheliatgnale leave me a short note if you’re smart enough to figure out the my personal contact to get a hold of me ASAP

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Skilled and experienced DOM seeking a long term relationship with ONE submissive.. Female 44 from San Francisco California, USA

I love traveling, swimming reading and most importantly the bdsm world. I love to be with a sub who see's me as his goddess. Who would love to be with me always and love to travel the world with me.

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Im very honest and caring seeking the same in my man Female 51 from California City California, USA

Caring honest lady , Calm Humble and hardworking ,I like to give

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My name is nancy, I am here to try out my fantasies so they come alive, lets ma.. Female 28 from California City California, USA

make me Squirt and run out of breath, I will love you forever

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I taste for a long romantic warm kiss in time of night sleep and a deep suck coc.. Female 46 from Fremont California, USA

I'm looking for friends, possibly friends with benefits. If that goes into a LTR, great. If not, that's ok as well. I'm just very lonely and need a friend. Tired of sleeping naked and single all the time. I need a peaceful fun.

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I’m a lovely lady with a pure heart ❤️it’s all love Female 33 from Union City California, USA

I’m happy when I make people happy, I do like to have fun as well. I love to draw, and paint. design clothes, sing, play the guitar, drums, bass, violin, and piano. I've been playing music since I was five years old. so music's been a part of My life... forever.

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Im 41 years old, living in the Wollongong region. Female 41 from Atherton California, USA

I'm 41 years old, living in the Wollongong region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 99.

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I will really like to see where this leads Female 36 from Atherton California, USA

soft and tender lady who likes adventure and loves to explore new things

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My wit, skill, and ferocity form a formidable trio that will leave you at my mer.. Female 28 from Sacramento California, USA

I go by Nora, and addressing me as Mistress is non-negotiable. With few years of expertise as a professional Dominatrix in Brisbane, I prioritize authentic encounters over predefined menus. Although I prefer the organic experience, here's a brief overview of my expertise, including Latex fetish and worship, Bondage using various materials (chains, ropes, leather, plastic, etc.), and indulging in Foot fetish and worship, among other skills.

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Tired of loneliness let give it a try Female 56 from Livermore California, USA

I want to look for a man who is patient, easy-going and responsible. Simple happiness is enough and what I want is a simple life with my husband in the future. don't be shy to say hi to me am waiting to hear from you

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Of course Im not 18 years old, but do you know why women of my age are better?!.. Female 40 from Atherton California, USA

My main hobby is my work, because it not only gives me income, but also pleasure. In my free time, I go in for sports, as well as dancing "High heels" and "Twerk". During the dance, I forget about everything and completely dissolve in them, discovering more femininity and sexuality in myself. Intrigued? .Maybe in the future I will dance just for you, who knows?) I like to travel, watch light erotic films, spend time with people close to me.

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I am a very good and reliable woman, i believe in love at first sight, i dont wa.. Couple 45, 45 from San Francisco California, USA

I am a very good and reliable woman, i believe in love at first sight, i dont want someone that will harm my peace of mind

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I’m here for fun and meet up , will like to meet up Female 25 from Universal City California, USA

Let meetup and spend good time together, let get to know each other better

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Im a Dominant Tranny mistress and I train sissies and sluts and Im available f.. Female 26 from San Francisco California, USA

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Im 33 years old, living in the Sacramento region. Female 34 from Sacramento California, USA

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I will love to try something new and different I’m just as good as you wanted just be yourself

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