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Single hoping to meet my dream man on here and i also know that nothing good com.. Female 45 from Atherton California, USA

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Hi I’m new to all this dating stuff and am single looking for a serious long ter.. Female 39 from Union City California, USA

I’m mercy and am god fearing woman I'm caring, faithful, loyal, truthful,generous, sincere, goals achiever, honest, spiritual oriented, future driven, confidential, understands the ups and downs of life, Committedto relationship, reader, visionary, conservative, passionate, romantic,and loving

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Hey, Lets chat and see where this will lead too Female 34 from San Francisco California, USA

Love going to the beach and love going out to high on whiskey

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I am Nesha Mewara want to meet a God fearing man here. Female 45 from Walnut Creek California, USA

I smile and my ♥ moves for you life is all about the magic of love

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Looking for a long term relationship Female 45 from San Francisco California, USA

I am serious and i want to love and to be loved again. I don't joke about stuff like this when feelings are involved,or play any head games.i am very serious, at the beginning i was just not sure about the distance but you have changed my mind. i want someone to spend time with, doing things together, share everything together and more. I just want one man, in my life, one I can love, and cherish, and be with. Share my sorrows, and my happiness. My good times and bad, would hope he would share the same with me.

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Looking for a serious Male Dom, for a long term relationship. Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

I'm a girl who loves material things. I'm not a golddigger, but I value men who take care of their women. Giving me a gift goes a long way in my heart. Although gifting is not my love language, I like it when my man buys me a gift every time. It makes me feel important and tells me how much he loves me. I know you can give someone you don't like or love a gift; you buy a gift for someone you love.

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Curvy and Nerdy woman searching for a Sir/master/dadd y. Is in an open relatio.. Female 32 from Oakland California, USA

I’m a 31 year old submissive woman that loves video games, anime, cosplay, and TTRPGs. I also enjoy making art and cooking. I’m excited to find a dom for me that will take care of my needs and spoils my fantasy kinks one day. I’m in a relationship with my wife , we are open and poly so there’s no drama with keeping this secret as she knows I do this.

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I am looking for an older special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

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