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I'm 29 years old, living in the San Jose region.
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I am quite mature and I know what I want from life. Female 48 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I started dancing since I was 4 years old. I like the plasticity of my body. Another hobby of mine is cooking. I adore trying something new and I need someone who will taste everything that I cook. Maybe it is you? Spending time outdoors is my favorite form of recreation. I like to have long walks on the seashore.

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