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I think life can never be without a relationship Union City California, USA , 28

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Im here looking for my soul mate and not here to play games like some women do... California City California, USA , 38

I want to fall in love for all the right reasons and I trust thought this might be a good way to get started in finding my life partner. I have been alone and single most of my life.

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Can you text me me your email or your phone number and you will hear from me whe.. Daly City California, USA , 25

I am a young woman who loves to explore new things and live life to the fullest. I have a passion for travel and love to immerse myself in different cultures. I am a very outgoing and social person, and I love spending time with my friends and family. I am also very passionate about music, and love attending concerts and festivals whenever I get the chance. Overall, I'm excited to see what the future holds and am looking forward to meeting new people and making meaningful connections but the main purpose I'm here is to find a nice man to create a family with!

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Have contact with new friends and get to know them more better

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Im 38 years old, living in the San Jose region. San Jose California, USA , 38

I'm 38 years old, living in the San Jose region.
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I want someone calm both inside and outside, an honest, loving, caring, trustwor.. Union City California, USA , 36

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I am here to meet people and have a good time Sunnyvale California, USA , 30

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I am new member here and I am here seeking for a serious man who’s very loyal, h.. California Hot Springs California, USA , 36

I’ve being for a while now and I don’t actually know much about this page .. can we text on other platform

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Here for a good time, not a long time. Looking to meet new people and have fun San Francisco California, USA , 27

All happy girls are alike; every unhappy girl is unhappy in her own way. My kind of unhappy is full of self-deprecating humor, double IPAs, and Is actually pretty rad.Let me know if you want to be miserable together.

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However a big fantasy of mine is to sort of control a sub from a distance. Be th.. San Francisco California, USA , 28

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Most of all I wish to find a life partner so that together we can set up our goa.. Fremont California, USA , 39

I want to enter into a relationship with a man whom I can completely trust, to whom I will be endlessly devoted. I am sure that my man will be the kindest, generous and loving partner.

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I am the Goddess of Pleassure! San Francisco California, USA , 32

Goddess understand ma your need to submit and obey. I am an experienced mistress , young looking matured lady. I enjoy helping gentlemen to explore their kinks and fetishism at all levels, whether it be for pure fun or to fulfill a desire to relent full control to a beautiful and a dominant woman

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Looking to meet new, fun friends. Maybe more. Pahrump Nevada, USA , 42, 40

Very laid back. Quiet mostly. Always down for good conversations, swap music, random thoughts...

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I am a nice friendly Lady who likes meeting new people who share similar interes.. Simi Valley California, USA , 35

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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. California City, California , 35

I am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.

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Let’s explore that part of you that needs to be explored San Francisco California, USA , 28

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make me Squirt and run out of breath, I will love you forever

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Couple looking for a women for a threesome encounter only Sacramento California, USA , 51, 54

We are a easy going couple looking for new experiences to explore. Discreet no strings attached.

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I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissi.. San Francisco California, USA , 36

I am a DOMINANT woman,  who enjoys    Face sitting feminization, bondage, Chasity,
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Don’t like blood, faeces or pain

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Couple looking for MMF Cuckold situation Reseda California, USA , 39, 39

Fun couple looking to both submit to a BBC or BWC. Must be rough with the woman.

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I’ve been single for so long, I need a genuine man to share my life with Fremont California, USA , 40

I’m simple woman who is looking for a genuine man to spend the rest of my life with, I don’t care where you from, what matters is what the heart has to offer for each other

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A caring and honest lady seeking for a true love San Jose California, USA , 38

lovely and caring want my own soulmate who wont hurt me

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Im 27 years old, living in the California City region. California City California, USA , 27

I'm 27 years old, living in the California City region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 99.

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