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Im looking for a sub to train for a long term relationship
Straight
Looking for, ages 39-83.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom
I'm a girl who loves material things. I'm not a golddigger, but I value men who take care of their women. Giving me a gift goes a long way in my heart. Although gifting is not my love language, I like it when my man buys me a gift every time. It makes me feel important and tells me how much he loves me. I know you can give someone you don't like or love a gift; you buy a gift for someone you love.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-85.
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Interests, BDSM, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sub
I’m a happy woman kind and caring woman looking for my true life partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-87.
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Interests,
I'm 49 years old, living in the Fremont region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 80.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-80.
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Interests, Sex Talk, Sex Toys
Cool vibes cool people. Outside inside ,Looking to meet men woman or couples that like to work hard and play hard .
Straight, Bicurious
Looking for, ages 31-68.
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Interests, Couples, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes
High Sch00l sweethearts that have spent our lives together. We Have Now we're experiencing and experimenting our fantasies and fetishes with eachother.
Straight, Bisexual
Looking for, ages 26-52.
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i am looking for a good person with so much love,not looking for a perfect person but want to feel what true love is all about.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-82.
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Interests,
I’m single and honest , looking for a serious person not here for a game ...please text me up
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-39.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Voyeurism
I'm here to explore every aspect of this alternative lifestyle, I'm well experienced and continually learning to be the best for myself and my partner. Will you allow me to explore with you?
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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My family owns a cable company. Growing up, my life was full of celebrities, fancy parties. I was never interested in any of that. I believe you do not get the inner peace and happiness from the material things. Since I graduated college, I started helping my family with the investing. I've made quite a lot for my family and myself. As for personalities, I am honest, kind, hardworking, easy-going and cheerful. In relationships I can be really loving and giving and romantic!
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-75.
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Interests, Mature, Oral, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub
I’m new on here. Looking for fun and seek pleasure.lol
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-90.
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Interests, Lace, Lingerie, Oral, Sex Talk
Having fun gets me excited. My dog is what makes me happy
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-55.
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Interests, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Full Swap, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Webcam
I am a very pretty, interesting and open-minded girl. I like my life, because I live in harmony. I have many interests and I like to try new things. I like to have fun, but I can also be serious when it is needed. And of course I have a very good sense of humor
Straight
Looking for, ages 31-51.
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Interests, Dirty Talk, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Tickle Play
I like when a man has a good sense of humor. I am very talkative so we will find a lot to speak about. You will never be bored withe me! If you are every bored or upset, I hope you will like my kisses. I do not have any special requirements to my man. I just want you to be yourself and open your heart to me!
Straight
Looking for, ages 54-90.
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Interests, Body Hair, Curves, Dirty Talk, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage
Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it. I have my own business. I love new experiences and new challenges. I am sure I will also give you a lot of surprises when you get to be together with me. Do you think I am a type of your lady? Come and get to know
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam
I think my goal in this life is to make people happy and enjoy life. I really enjoy helping others and feeling their gratitude. I am as delicate as a flower, but I need a man who will help this flower grow and bloom. In a relationship, I like to share love and passion and get it from man. I am a kind, easygoing, feminine, lovely woman. I am a very optimistic person and always try to keep calm. I hope we will never argue with my future husband. I am a very cheerful person. I love life and this world. I consider myself as a positive, smiling, attentive, passionate, caring, family-oriented and affectionate woman. I am looking for a partner with whom we can enjoy this life together.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, Body Hair, Crossdress, Cuckold, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Lingerie, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage
I like exploring with people. Finding out what sensations they enjoy, what narratives are going on in their heads, & how we can connect those things to create a scene that makes you feel how you want to feel, satisfying my desires is the only purpose you serve
Straight
Looking for, ages 23-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Crossdress, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Dom, Electro Play, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sub
Need a loyal and humble sub to have control and willing to serve me all of his life
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-77.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom
Am Kelly,I have great respect for great men.I try to treat him tenderly and with kindness. All I have ever wanted in life is to be with a man who I am attracted to and he is attracted to me You can get me on together we both can make hoping we can share some love and get to know each other,
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-89.
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Interests, Sub
I am here to find a man with whom we will have a mutual understanding and the same goals in life. With whom we can enjoy something fantasy and lifestyle, enjoy something each day of life and expand our limitations.
Straight
Looking for, ages 22-72.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys
I'm experienced Dom been into this lifestyle for many years looking for something ongoing hope it turns into something serious permenant
I seek a lil lost kinky SUB who will love honor worship serve & obey me that¡¯s in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love guidance control protection!
Straight
Looking for, ages 42-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub
Welcome to My world, the world of Femdom.
The world in which men exist only to satisfy My desires..
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 22-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub
I'm 30 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 60 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys
Classy and experienced sensual goddess fulfilling desires.
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-86.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Sub, Webcam
As a Bisexual Mistress, I embody the art of dominance with finesse and passion. With years of experience, I create a safe space to explore your deepest fantasies and embrace every aspect of your submission. Whether you seek discipline, devotion, or sensual exploration, I am here to guide you on an exhilarating journey of self-discovery and pleasure. Let's delve into the realms of BDSM together, where boundaries are respected, desires are fulfilled, and fantasies come to life.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 53-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys
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