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Her: athletic, big ass, fun, submissive, slutty, very outgoing.

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Don't like pain.

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I'm 29 years old, living in the Fremont region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 90.

Nice people and music. I want to explore possibly being sub to a stable and good hearted man/ disciplinarian .

Despite my age, I am an open, active woman, free in thoughts and judgments. There is no taboo for me, but freedom, sincerity, feelings, emotions are very valuable. I am straightforward and confident in the goals that I set myself

Hello there I'm an easy going but firm person, not here for games but for fun and to explore my fantasies.... however, seeking like-minded persons!!!

Hello am new on here seeking for a long term relationship

A goddess seeking for a submissive male to worship body and feet

I love good Sex And I Can engage in all types of crazy Sexual adventure….Just give me good sex

I am looking to be spoiled and treated and to give attention and companionship back.

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- Modesto California /
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