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We are a couple in Bakersfield looking for fun spots in the area Couple 45, 45 from Bakersfield California, USA

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I am very happy with who I am as a Person, and I want to share and experience Li.. Female 45 from California City California, USA

I'm 44 years old, living in the California City region.
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I’m here for fun and meet up , will like to meet up Female 25 from Universal City California, USA

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I like reading, movies, music, DIYing. I love the water and nature.

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am looking to explore and play with someone who is also inexperienced so I dont.. Female 26 from Tracy California, USA

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looking for a partner i cant wait to have Female 53 from Sonora California, USA

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Hello Im new here and would like to make more friends Female 37 from California City California, USA

Hello I'm new here and would like to make more friends

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Let’s explore that part of you that needs to be explored Female 28 from San Francisco California, USA

I’m a dominant female seeking a submissive male to dominate

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Im 28 years old, open to anything Like to explore Female 29 from Modesto California, USA

I'm 28 years old, I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 19 and 86.

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I like multiple partners. Both having multiple women and sharing my wife with another man.

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Im looking for long term relationship Im Angela new on here, just signed up in.. Female 48 from Santa Clara California, USA

I am a quiet, creative and intellectual person. In a relationship I would bring a lot of joy, happiness and respect. And above all a lot of love and loyalty. For me, loyalty is very important, when I love I only have eyes for that person and I give myself completely and I expect the same from him. If you had the opportunity to have a date with me, what would be the first thing you would ask me?

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Male female couple looking for more. Couple 63, 67 from Fallon Nevada, USA

We are looking for friends lovers and fwb. Country type folks, retired looking for open minded people with consecutive values

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Any responsible man outta here? Come closer Mr. Don’t be shy, I’m here now. Female 32 from San Jose California, USA

I am a gentle and sensual girl at heart, but my work and my work responsibilities made me to be strong and responsible. I love my job and do my duties well, but frankly I'm not doing a good job with my personal life. I'm here to change my life, I want to be happy. I want to be perceived as a woman, not as a good employee.

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Ask me anything you wanna know Female 34 from Union City California, USA

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I was born and raise in Canada and when i was at the age of 18years old i lost .. Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

I am not looking for a perfect man, because he will be the BEST for me. He

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Married and looking for hookups outside marriage. Female 33 from Sacramento California, USA

I’m compassionate, affectionate, inquisitive, sexy, clean with no diseases. I’m looking into meeting someone for quality fun.

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I would like my man to be kind, tender and romantic. I would also like him to ha.. Female 44 from San Jose California, USA

I am a lady who likes to give joy and happiness to people around me. I am an active person, but also like calm and romantic evenings, good company and walks in nature. I love to appreciate each moment of my life.

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Im a ready for the obedient ones if you are ..lets explore Female 25 from California City California, USA

Commanding my submissive, pegging them. give I goddess happiness .

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Dominatrix with a touch of love Female 24 from Fremont California, USA

Master of psychological dominance, finding exhilaration in unlocking the hidden cravings of those who dare to enter my realm. I am ready to to dominate who ever is willing to submit to me, let's explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to dominate.

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I am a professional Dominatrix who will take over your soul and body. I have several years of experience in climate. I tailor the session individually, having a very strong influence on the emotions, which I will sadistically control. Through pain you will experience pleasure until every painful stimulus reminds you of me. Like a demon, I will make you dependent on me so that you will never be able to forget about me. You will crave more sessions with me and you will look forward to the next ones. What I value most about femdom is the feeling of full control, I love seeing fear, devotion and excitement in the submissive's eyes. Controlling the submissive's emotions is my greatest fetish. FAVORITE PRACTICESFACESITTING , FOOT FETISH, CORPORAL PUNISHMENTOTHER PRACTICESEROTIC DOMINATIONTEASE AND DENIAL, MAGIC WAND, RUINED ORGASM, JOI, CEI, VACBED, CHASTITY BELT, STRAPON ORAL AND ANALMENTAL DOMINATIONSPITTING, NAME CALLING, ROLE PLAY

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I just want to be adored and spoiled. Female 25 from San Francisco California, USA

I just want to be adored and spoiled. Can you do that for me? Looking for a sissy boy I can dress up so we can be little dollies together.

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Im 32 years old, living in the Oakland region. Couple 33, 33 from Oakland California, USA

I'm 32 years old, living in the Oakland region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 50 and 90.

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