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I’m a dominant mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understanding sub to b own coller on

Life is too short for inhibitions, right? I'm all about living in the moment and making the most of life's offerings.

I'm 46 years old, living in the California Hot Springs region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 81.

Looking to explore and have some fun with someone.

An inspired dreamer. Creative and talented. My life is like a raging river, rapid and filled with various events, laughter, great mood, sincere feelings. I always follow the call of my heart, strive for my desires and believe in my dreams, do not obey my fears and boldly do what I like

am here to have fun and also explore.. dont be rude when sending a message.

I dream of meeting my soul mate on here . I'm sure when I meet him I'll understand! This lightning of love will pierce our hearts, connecting them! I will give my husband confidence in life, comfort at home.

I'm Professional Dominant i teach and train how to exhibit 100% of your submission as you will be tied and trained with my wet pussy and ass hole in your mouth ,Spanking, Paddling, whipping ,erotic s, role playing and Humiliation 38 years old, living in the San Jose CA. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 51 and 77.

Handsome … I will be very happy to know more about you and if you really very interested in me because I want someone who is ready to make me feel like a woman and also a very supportive person who ready for me as we both help each other in terms of needs and wants handsome … but it is very important to meet up for real .. so please get in touch with me here so that we Can make it happen for real

As a matter of fact...its obvious that i want a man that is not too hurt and not too hard to trust....again and can give himself to a wife to be loved and taken care of in a way that will bring a joy of life and an appreciation he will lookgfforward to every day...

I’m seeking for my soul mate and a long time relationship with a honest person who is ready to love

Free spirited open minded easygoing laidback and a cool cat

I'm very dow to earth , God fearing and caring at heart ready to love and settle for good

First of all I am looking for a true honest and faithful GENTLEMAN, you never have to impress me with a LIE, never start a relationship out with dishonesty it will not go far. Just be true to yourself and then you will be truthful with me. (yes I have been lied to and cheated on continuously throughout my previous relationship) therefore I am not giving up on finding true love and honesty from a true GENTLEMAN. I have closed that chapter in my life, looking to start my final chapter of love.

I'm 29 years old, living in the Sacramento region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 99.

I like to be used for others pleasure. Looking for someone that wants to be selfish.

Making new and interesting friends when around the people who love me and will always accept me the way I am , cheering up and believing in God is the best ❤️

I’ve been a Dom for quite some years now
I’m an adventurous and a Single .
Looking forward to owning a sub exploring fetish kinks.

Let's make it real, I'm tired of being lonely, I'm loving, caring, educated, fun to be with and I've got a good heart to humanity, Text me if you wish to know more about me as soon as you see my hands,

I’ve being for a while now and I don’t actually know much about this page .. can we text on other platform

I'm 49 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.

I'm a girl who loves material things. I'm not a golddigger, but I value men who take care of their women. Giving me a gift goes a long way in my heart. Although gifting is not my love language, I like it when my man buys me a gift every time. It makes me feel important and tells me how much he loves me. I know you can give someone you don't like or love a gift; you buy a gift for someone you love.

Well am new here and am looking for a serious relationship that will be ending in marriage, but best friend first to know more about each other and see where it goes from there

I'm 37 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 97.

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