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Im 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. Female 36 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 35 years old, living in the Los Angeles region.
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Hello nice to meet you here guys hope you have a great day Female 38 from California City California, USA

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Im looking for long term relationship Im Angela new on here, just signed up in.. Female 48 from Santa Clara California, USA

I am a quiet, creative and intellectual person. In a relationship I would bring a lot of joy, happiness and respect. And above all a lot of love and loyalty. For me, loyalty is very important, when I love I only have eyes for that person and I give myself completely and I expect the same from him. If you had the opportunity to have a date with me, what would be the first thing you would ask me?

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Im 48 years old, living in the Santa Clara region. Female 48 from Santa Clara California, USA

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I have been in the lifestyle for 6 years,its something i practice outside my va.. Female 33 from Santa Clara California, USA

when i have my sub for myself alone and he's obeying me the right way i asked him to

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Im 33 years old, living in the San Francisco region. Female 33 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 33 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 32 and 79.

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nothing good comes easy so I always kept looking since I will one day find a man.. Female 49 from California City California, USA

I think my goal in this life is to make people happy and enjoy life. I really enjoy helping others and feeling their gratitude. I am as delicate as a flower, but I need a man who will help this flower grow and bloom. In a relationship, I like to share love and passion and get it from man. I am a kind, easygoing, feminine, lovely woman. I am a very optimistic person and always try to keep calm. I hope we will never argue with my future husband. I am a very cheerful person. I love life and this world. I consider myself as a positive, smiling, attentive, passionate, caring, family-oriented and affectionate woman. I am looking for a partner with whom we can enjoy this life together.

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Am sexy and strict i want some holes worship and lovely sessions Female 40 from California City California, USA

Am always training my sub under my bondage and some spanking alot

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I’m here seeking for something special Female 38 from Santa Cruz California, USA

I’m here seeking for something serious, With no games nor drama

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WISH I COULD COLLAR A SUB TO CHAIN AND TRAIN AS MINE Female 31 from Santa Clara California, USA

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Don't like blood, or pain.

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Im 48 years old, living in the California City Female 48 from California City California, USA

I'm 48 years old, living in California I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.I'm Mixed Ethnicity with a Average body shape Blonde hairI drink socially I don't smoke

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single n seeking for love,how about u Female 42 from California Hot Springs California, USA

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