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37 subby and 57 cucky husband in the Daggett region. Couple 37, 56 from Daggett California, USA

~~under construntion, come back later! ~~uh... not really sure what to say. My husband and I want a bi Dom to tease and pleasure us both. husband is bi and cucky, but vanilla otherwise, and im a subby, bratty, girl so it doesn't really work as well as we would like. and i know hes capable of so much more. just sort of browsing right now. he's new to the scene so have to be gentle lol. im a little more experienced, but I wouldn't know the first thing about making a vanilla into a dom, so now I seek wisdom from the Elders, or whatever lol ~~oh, i am fat now, but I'm already started on my weight loss journey, so i expect to be more attractive very soon...ish.... husband is stoic and needs to learn a thing or two, like how to give in ~

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