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never married and had no kids, i am here looking for my soul mate to build a lon.. Female 38 from California City California, USA

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Hi there. Im Erica. My husband and I have lived in Roseville for14 years . I gu.. Couple 48, 53 from Antelope California, USA

Hi there. I'm Erica. My husband and I have lived in Roseville for14 years, I am bi/pan sexual and enjoy the time i can have with a woman, my husband only wants me to be happy. We are fairly new to this as well. All we would want is for you to be comfortable. We would love to get to know you better and maybe enjoy an evening together.
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