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im loyal honest and faithful lady who's a little shy, but i enjoy reading and cleaning the environment especially where i live.

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Im 54 years old, living in the Mountain View region. Mountain View California, USA , 54

Very humble and honest and ready to start a long term relationship together with the right man

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IM A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING A OBEDIENT SUBMISSIVE TO TRAIN Santa Clara California, USA , 32

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood , or pain.

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I have a very kind soul and an open heart! I am very kind to people! Especially to those who need my help! I like helping people, and I will always come to the rescue and will not pass by those in need! I help orphanages and do charity work. I am very tired of being alone and I dream of mutual and pure love!

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I'm 27 years old, living in the California City region.
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I am searching for someone who shares the following qualities with me. Thoughtful, loving, goal oriented, along with sense of humor,  softspoken, well mannered,  dedicated. I also love to read and travel for my job.  My interests are many. An honest man,  intelligent,  loyal,  affectionate,  easy going,  romantic, soft-spoken and sensual

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Looking for someone serious to know each other !! Courtland California, USA , 49

I enjoy music from the 60s & 70s, R&B,Cools,Country songs- Van Morrison, Rod Stewart, David Campbell, Jimmy Barnes, Neil Diamond, Chris Rea and Elton John.Andrea Bocelli,blues and jazz. I like the theater but not the ballet

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I’m a very loving person but lately my Libido has been crazy. I would like to find a man who is affectionate a great kisser and knows how to please me so I’m begging for more! I Love going to the movies day trips and love the rain and want to be made love to by a fireplace! Thanks for reading my profile! I’m not looking for a long distance relationship unless there’s great potential!

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I love to travel more often , I love outdoor stuff like surfing and hiking.

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Im 33 years old, living in the Lodi region. Lodi California, USA , 33

I prefer you to ask me more about myself rather than making it public

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Im 34 years old, living in the San Francisco region. San Francisco California, USA , 34

I'm 34 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
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Im Beth, Open minded and down for some fun San Francisco California, USA , 29

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I'm 34 years old, living in the Germantown region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 31 and 83.

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I am here to meet people and have a good time Sunnyvale California, USA , 30

I am always excited about vacations, shopping,

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I am a professional dominatrix, lifestyle Mistress, and one of the most naturall.. San Francisco California, USA , 35

Authenticity is an essential part of my sessions. My lust for control and my naturally seductive nature equate to intensely atmospheric experiences for everyone involved. I am a firm believer that I should enjoy my time spent with my submissives just as much as they enjoy their time with me, their mistress.
Nothing makes my pulse race quite like having a submissive at my feet; willing to endure whatever I have in store for them for my enjoyment, for my pleasure.
When in my presence, rest assured that you’ll be in safe hands in a judgement-free environment, you are encouraged to discuss your interests in an open and honest manner. I am well-educated, intelligent and understand the complex psychological notions behind the yearning to visit a professional mistress.
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I’m a mistress looking for a dom or sub to explore different sexual fantasies wi.. California City California, USA , 27

I’m a dom or sub with love for leather and many other kinks

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Hi I’m new here wanting new adventure and hoping to meet. San Ramon California, USA , 51

I'm 51 years old, living in the San Ramon region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 47 and 73.

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Im not kiss and tell but im open for anything California City California, USA , 26

I'm prepare to have something that will both satisfied.

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However a big fantasy of mine is to sort of control a sub from a distance. Be th.. San Francisco California, USA , 28

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