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Im 39 years old, living in the San Jose region. Female 39 from San Jose California, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the San Jose region.
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I have been in the lifestyle for 6 years,its something i practice outside my va.. Female 33 from Santa Clara California, USA

when i have my sub for myself alone and he's obeying me the right way i asked him to

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Looking to explore and reconnect with this part of my identity. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

Hello! Thanks for checking out my profile. I recently separated from my husband who was very vanilla and am looking to reconnect with this side of my identity. Feeling safe is important, please don’t message asking for a random meetup. I need a human connection before meeting. Also, please don’t message me if you live in another state. Only local people, thank you. I look forward to hearing from you!

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My limits would be anything that I dont like and I will let you know when neces.. Female 35 from Sacramento California, USA

I am a dominant woman. I am not a dominatrix. This is not a profession, an act, or a role that I play. I am dominant by nature. I do not consider this a "lifestyle". This is how I am, has always been, and will always be. I am not just dominant sometimes. I am dominant all the time! I can’t turn my personality on and off. I am not just dominant in the bedroom. I am dominant in every room and everywhere.
I am not submissive in any way, nor will I do anything that is submissive. That means you or anyone else will never fuck me. So don’t expect a cuckold relationship because I am not nasty and have no interest in being with a bunch of people.
I will have a long-term relationship with a guy who knows his place. You will be in chastity almost daily. A LIVE-IN situation is what we will have.

Straight

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Hello I am new here and look forward to meeting new friends Female 34 from California Hot Springs California, USA

I am looking to be spoiled and treated and to give attention and companionship back.

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We are here for a good time not along time trying something different new to thi.. Couple 33, 32 from Sacramento California, USA

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Im here looking for my soul mate and not here to play games like some women do... Female 38 from California City California, USA

I want to fall in love for all the right reasons and I trust thought this might be a good way to get started in finding my life partner. I have been alone and single most of my life.

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37 subby and 57 cucky husband in the Daggett region. Couple 37, 56 from Daggett California, USA

~~under construntion, come back later! ~~uh... not really sure what to say. My husband and I want a bi Dom to tease and pleasure us both. husband is bi and cucky, but vanilla otherwise, and im a subby, bratty, girl so it doesn't really work as well as we would like. and i know hes capable of so much more. just sort of browsing right now. he's new to the scene so have to be gentle lol. im a little more experienced, but I wouldn't know the first thing about making a vanilla into a dom, so now I seek wisdom from the Elders, or whatever lol ~~oh, i am fat now, but I'm already started on my weight loss journey, so i expect to be more attractive very soon...ish.... husband is stoic and needs to learn a thing or two, like how to give in ~

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Im looking to have a kinky experience here! Female 28 from Sacramento California, USA

I'm completely dominant and would like to explore and meet new submissive people here.

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Seeking a wide kinky relationship with an openminded people Female 28 from Stockton California, USA

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection. But I will play casually with those who request politely.

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I’m new here seeking for my soul mate and a long time relationship with a honest.. Female 43 from California City California, USA

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