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Im 28 years old, living in the French Camp region. Female 28 from French Camp California, USA

I'm 28 years old, living in the French Camp region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 72.

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Any responsible man outta here? Come closer Mr. Don’t be shy, I’m here now. Female 32 from San Jose California, USA

I am a gentle and sensual girl at heart, but my work and my work responsibilities made me to be strong and responsible. I love my job and do my duties well, but frankly I'm not doing a good job with my personal life. I'm here to change my life, I want to be happy. I want to be perceived as a woman, not as a good employee.

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I am here to meet people and have a good time Female 30 from Sunnyvale California, USA

I am always excited about vacations, shopping,

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I enjoy discovering the world, meeting new people, trying new food and feeling new cultures. I also enjoy cooking and gardening. Growing roses and taking care of them makes my soul happy.

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I want Someone calm if you want to talk to me both inside and outside ,honesty, .. Female 29 from Newberry Springs California, USA

I want someone to love me for me and me alone and not love me for what I do for them cause I give it all when it comes to a relationship and always there for my man, if he does this, I will treat him like no woman as ever I treated him and make him my one and only Love. Mostly

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Seeking a wide kinky relationship with an openminded people Female 28 from Stockton California, USA

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection. But I will play casually with those who request politely.

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I married my past Sub but he is late. I want a submissive male who knows what he wants and is willing to give up control and serve his mistress.

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Am new here single soul looking for a soulmate Female 39 from California City California, USA

i want a good honest man who wants a good woman as a wife

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Im looking for long term relationship Im Angela new on here, just signed up in.. Female 48 from Santa Clara California, USA

I am a quiet, creative and intellectual person. In a relationship I would bring a lot of joy, happiness and respect. And above all a lot of love and loyalty. For me, loyalty is very important, when I love I only have eyes for that person and I give myself completely and I expect the same from him. If you had the opportunity to have a date with me, what would be the first thing you would ask me?

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I have a great desire to learn new and interesting things. This is my main hobby.. Female 29 from California City California, USA

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Im a dominant woman who derives pleasure beyond imagination with sub. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm looking for that distinct older one who will relight the blaze of passion and desire that have been quenched, someone i can confide in and ready to live the bdsm kinky Lifestyle with

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I am a woman looking for that one devoted man for me Female 34 from Union City California, USA

I am beautiful caring,kind when treated nice and bossy and I go by my policy .

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Lets give this a try, Im honest, caring and loving Female 44 from Atherton California, USA

I am cheerful, honest whom wants a bright future, I am very loving and caring, I have a huge heart. I like to cuddle a lot

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I am real with many positive sides and flaws. I am here because I want to meet a.. Female 49 from San Jose California, USA

. Dreaming of sun, sand, and salty air. On a mission to find my own little piece of paradise. I'm passionate about making the most out of every moment. Let's make memories together.

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we are looking to explore i want to find her a bull but a female ok too or coupl.. Couple 28, 38 from Sun Valley Nevada, USA

i am a mexican 5’11 and shes a 5’5 thick filipina we are looking for a male/female

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Loving, caring, truthfull and responsible Female 34 from Lodi California, USA

I prefer you to ask me about myself rather than making it public

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I am searching for someone special and adventurous who would love this type of B.. Female 31 from Fremont California, USA

I'm a dom and I train subs to serve, i am searching for a submissive kinky sub to serve me in a serious long/ short term permanent M/s D/s relationship and he must have a good heart, open minded, truthful, caring, honest, loyal, obedient, respectful, straight, kinky, listens, submissive, etc. Someone special and adventurous who would love this type of BDSM scenario.

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I have been a mistress for more than 15 years now and I am an active member of a.. Female 39 from California City California, USA

I'm experienced Dom been into this lifestyle for many years looking for something ongoing hope it turns into something serious permenant
I seek a lil lost kinky SUB who will love honor worship serve & obey me that¡¯s in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love guidance control protection!

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