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Skilled and experienced DOM seeking a long term relationship with ONE submissive man in Los Angeles California or adjacent state
I am an understanding and patient teacher for newbies and a firm, fair and loving Dom for the experienced Submissive man
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-86.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Soft Swap, Webcam

am proud of who I am and have become in our community. I live and breath the lifestyle with a passion. I need my kink, I need to be able to train and teach my submissives and they are my priority.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

my name is Gloria, i'm 59 years old, i have been single for 3years now, i'm here to give it a try if i can be lucky enough to meet with my partner
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play

Am looking for serious man and am looking for serious and am caring
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM

I'm 49 years old, living in the Los Angeles region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 60.
I'm White / Caucasian with a Average body shape Light brown hair
I drink regularly I don't smoke
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 18-60.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

I'm sexy mistress Susan ready to teach and explore this lifestyle with a submissive who is willing to learn the most interesting part of the lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Findom looking for new loyal subs, I love shopping, and going out with my girlfriends to brunch, girls trips vacations wherever.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 24-44.
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Interests, Dom

I am a true romantic woman and believe that there is something as a soul mate, but they are not easy to found, out of millions of people those 2 souls must meet by chance and circumstance.
Straight
Looking for, ages 70-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Sex Toys

I’m new to this site seeking for a loyal submissive partner who’s ready to obey my wishes to explore side of my kinks lifestyle with in BDSM.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Full Swap, Group Sex, LGBTQIA+, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Sub, Threesomes, Voyeurism

I'm easygoing lady look for a man that will be submissive,so can get naughty and exploit our wildest fantasies
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Threesomes

I'm on the lookout for a hot and very romantic man on this dating site. I know it's not easy to find, but I'm hopeful! It's hard to put into words exactly what I'm looking for, but I know I want someone who is kind and genuine. Maybe that could be you? I'm a bit of a romantic myself, so I'm hoping to find someone who shares my passion for love and all things sweet and affectionate.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Mature, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Threesomes

I'm 46 years old, living in the California Hot Springs region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 81.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age Gap, Body Hair, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Group Sex, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Oral, Petite, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Webcam

I'm 38 years old, living in the Monroe region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 60 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-76.
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Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish

Hi, I'm Belinda and I'm a single mom.. I am looking for someone I can get to know for something serious and long term but only time can tell about that you know? So if this interests you, don't hesitate to hit me up. Thanks and have a great day ahead...
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-71.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Crossdress, Pegging

I enjoy festish sex and the whole idea of having a man under my leash, I live for female supremacy and I do my best to practice what I preach!
Straight
Looking for, ages 28-81.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

I am fun loving, great sense of humor. Always make fitness and healthy eating a priority, but love to indulge with a great pizza and sundae! Kayaking and hiking are so fun and I love anything outdoors. Staying in and cooking together, watching a movie and cuddling is something I look forward to doing with you! Looking for someone who also makes fitness and health a priority, loves the outdoors, loves to laugh and have fun..
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-67.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I’m 27 from California. I love sex,concerts, music,art, being treated like a goddess, watching you beg to orgasm , spending other people’s money and being in control at all times. I have been a FinDom for 2 years now and i don’t play games i always commit to my subs and their needs i expect the same. I am very controlling everything should be my way but at the same time I can be loving and gentle. I enjoy all things BDSM, Findom, choking, spanking, making you get on your knees and worship me you know the usual stuff. I am very big on communication in all ways if there’s something you desire tell me doesn’t mean I’ll do it but at least i got to hear about it lol.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 30-54.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Roleplay, S&M

I'm 46 years old, living in the Santa Ana region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 90.
Straight
Looking for, ages 48-90.
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Interests, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BDSM, Bondage, Bukkake, Cuckold, Curves, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Mature, MILF, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Voyeurism

I'm 38 years old, living in the Phoenix region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 34 and 74.
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-62.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Sex Toys

I’m a DOM,I have been into this lifestyle for many years looking for something ongoing hope it turns into something serious permenant
I seek a lil lost kinky SUB who will love honor worship serve & obey me that’s in need of training discipline punishment pleasure love guidance control protection!
I’m a good lady good person good woman strict but fair w firm hand great kisser/lover!
I LUV giving oral & anal pleasures mixed w passionate kisses bondage & spankings!
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-70.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Pegging

I am very positive and adventurous person, always with a smile on my face. I love traveling and meeting new people. My friends would describe me as an outgoing person, always ready for new challenges. On the other hand ..
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets

I get excited when meeting people. It also makes me happy when someone appreciates me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-70.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests,

I am pleased when a male want to be spanked and serve me as their goddess
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Dom, Fetish, Pegging

I’m available for any kind of kinks Also a professional mistress Hit me up only the serious
Straight
Looking for, ages 29-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, Bondage, Couples, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Mature, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes

Looking for anything fun and safe meet up, down for relationship and hookups as well.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 24-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

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