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We are a couple looking for new friends to hang out beers maybe more we are open.. Couple 37, 35 from Sacramento California, USA

Easy outgoing couple ,fun  and  really horny wife and we want to explore more and more


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We are new to the lifestyle. Very curious to explore new things together. Very o.. Couple 36, 34 from Sacramento California, USA

Him: Athletic, charismatic, dominant, very hung, fun, outgoing, social, seductive.

Her: athletic, big ass, fun, submissive, slutty, very outgoing.


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Looking for that loyal submissive to fully explore the BDSM Lifestyle and have a.. Female 46 from Atherton California, USA

My interactions are generally passionate, affectionate, warm and kind. One thing I know is true is; submissive have needs. I seek to satisfy those needs.


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Seeking a wide kinky relationship with an openminded people Female 28 from Stockton California, USA

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection.  But I will play casually with those who request politely.


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Smut books have led me here Female 31 from Lodi California, USA

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Hello... My name is Mistress Sarai and I am a sensual, elegant dominant who enjo.. Female 41 from Sacramento California, USA

Fun loving and cheerful personality, I generally stay positive and try to encourage and support the people I care about.  I tend to get along well with most people. As far as relationships go,  I separated more than a year ago after a very LTR, and I am getting back out there slowly now. I am honest, confident, creative, caring and kinky. Open minded and here for the discovery of meaningful play, that may lead to a more with the right person. I am happily single and really love my life, but I know from experience that I really prefer a relationship with someone special. I am seeking an honest and open minded personality. Someone who has qualities that  extend beyond just sexuality. I enjoy good conversation and a good sense of humor. I also hope to find someone who would enjoy fun outdoor activities, beach, boating, hiking, fitness, music, entertainment,  good food and travel. That being said, I want someone who matches my desires and passion for pleasure.


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Freaky sexy woman , new here ! no points to meet a chat but focus here Female 45 from Fremont California, USA

I am a lot missing a bedroom play, cuddles , good touch and romantic sex through the nights.


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I’m looking for that man who is ready to {“Suffer the pain of discipline or the .. Female 29 from San Jose California, USA

Outgoing, happy, fun, loving, caring person.  Looking to encounter a fun,  loving caring man,  but also knows how to take care of a woman and knows how to be committed and submissive when serving a mistress without any limits or cause for .


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Hello I am new to scene and hope to find a friend who I can trust. Possibly for .. Female 55 from San Francisco California, USA

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I’m single and honestly looking forward to meet my life partner Female 48 from San Jose California, USA

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Looking to Share Activities….. Female 61 from Clearlake California, USA

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I'm 36 years old, living in the Union City region.
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My name is ann single never marriage am very lovely and passsionate Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

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I’m an experienced Beautiful Mistress open to all kinds of kinks sexual activiti.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 60 and 90.


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Lets love lead no head games as a saying communicaton is the key to every succes.. Female 40 from Union City California, USA

I am a very pretty, interesting and open-minded girl. I like my life, because I live in harmony. I have many interests and I like to try new things. I like to have fun, but I can also be serious when it is needed. And of course I have a very good sense of humor


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Wanting to try something new and fun curious about threesomes Couple 50, 72 from Burney California, USA

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LOOKING FOR A NICE TIME GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND HAVING SOME FUN. Couple 39, 46 from Rohnert Park California, USA

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I am soft, sensitive, sincere and sexy. I crave for moments of intense passion t.. Female 25 from San Jose California, USA

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Am dominant mistress seeking for a male submissive to train and own is collar as.. Female 39 from San Francisco California, USA

I Like feminization, bondage, Chasity, shemale, /panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging, anal, alot if things really
Don't like blood, faeces or pain


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