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I’m looking for that man who is ready to {“Suffer the pain of discipline or the .. Female 29 from San Jose California, USA

Outgoing, happy, fun, loving, caring person.  Looking to encounter a fun,  loving caring man,  but also knows how to take care of a woman and knows how to be committed and submissive when serving a mistress without any limits or cause for .


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Surrender to temptation and explore a world where pleasure knows no bounds Female 27 from Danville California, USA

I'm your naughty companion ready to guide you through a world of pleasure and exploration


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Im 32 years old, living in the Marina region. Female 32 from Marina California, USA

Im interested in Women and Men. Im a burn survivor so 85% of my body is covered in scars and i embrace them and feel beautiful which took some work to feel this way about my. I'm 32 years old, living in the Marina region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 90.


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I’m an experienced Beautiful Mistress open to all kinds of kinks sexual activiti.. Female 30 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 60 and 90.


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Seeking a wide kinky relationship with an openminded people Female 28 from Stockton California, USA

Do you craved to belong to a Mistress who will truly own you, know you, teach you, train you? Do you dream of going to the depths of subspace that only a real D/s relationship built on trust can create? Do you wish to serve, obey and be cherished for it? I am highly experienced in D/s relationships and BDSM. I lived many years as a Mistress, I have preferred to be dominant to submissive Male's. I have experience in most BDSM activities from sensual to hardcore. However, now I am ready to find a submissive Male's to train and serve me a submissive who is willing and like to be told what to do I mean one who need this in he's life. I am kind but strict, caring but sadistic, understanding but exacting. I will take the Male I accept far, perhaps farther than he knows is possible. I am only seeking for that one true submissive to get to know and train for an ongoing serious connection.  But I will play casually with those who request politely.


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Im 34 years old, living in the Santa Cruz CA Female 50 from Santa Cruz California, USA

I am a charming, sensitive and sincere, passionate, hot, romantic, single lady. I want to find true love and a true man on this dating site. It is important for me to receive love and give it in return. I am a person who really knows what she wants, and who is ready for a real meeting! Life is short. Do not waste your time!


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I am searching for someone special and adventurous who would love this type of B.. Female 31 from Fremont California, USA

I'm a dom and I train subs to serve, i am searching for a submissive kinky sub to serve me in a serious long/ short term permanent M/s D/s relationship and he must have a good heart, open minded, truthful, caring, honest, loyal, obedient, respectful, straight, kinky, listens, submissive, etc. Someone special and adventurous who would love this type of BDSM scenario.


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I am a good entrepreneurial and very educated woman, I like to give my best ever.. Female 45 from Pittsburg California, USA

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Let’s embark on an electrifying adventure where pleasure and pain come together,.. Female 44 from San Francisco California, USA

I’m gonna keep it brief. I’ve been kink for quite a while with experiences in a good number of kinks. Right now I crave entering into a kinky routine relationship with a mature mind.


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Im down for anything fun just hit me up, DOM and SUB. You can always hit me up .. Female 25 from Atwater California, USA

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I want to look for a life partner who lives a healthy life style. It would be gr.. Female 34 from San Jose California, USA

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I taste for a long romantic warm kiss in time of night sleep and a deep suck coc.. Female 46 from Fremont California, USA

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Male female couple looking for more. Couple 63, 67 from Fallon Nevada, USA

We are looking for friends lovers and fwb. Country type folks, retired looking for open minded people with consecutive values


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Looking to find that special someone. Female 50 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm 50 years old, living in the Bates City region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 99.


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Im 37 years old, living in the San Mateo region. Female 37 from San Mateo California, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the San Mateo region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman or a man aged between 35 and 68.


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Dm if you need any support for your home bills Female 25 from Union City California, USA

just try to believe me you gonna I’m good honest woman I understand you’re struggling so I can never do anything to hurt your feelings


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Let get to know each other and explore fantansies Female 57 from Berkeley California, USA

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Let me be the only thing on your mind all day Female 28 from Santa Rosa California, USA

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Skilled and experienced DOM seeking a long term relationship with ONE submissive.. Female 44 from San Francisco California, USA

I love traveling, swimming reading and most importantly the bdsm world. I love to be with a sub who see's me as his goddess. Who would love to be with me always and love to travel the world with me.


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I’m a sexy dom, that is is looking for a submissive man Female 38 from San Francisco California, USA

I'm ready to dominate whoever is willing to submit to me, Let's explore and enjoy the kinky side of this lifestyle, bondage and submission is the dream but I choose to Dominate


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I’m a dominant woman seeking submissive ones Female 41 from San Francisco California, USA

I enjoy a lot of kinky activities which includes training newbies. I’m a wild and experienced dom


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I’m looking forward exploring my kinky desires with a subordinate older male and.. Female 41 from San Jose California, USA

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considerate lovers who understand the importance of mutual respect and consent. .. Couple 27, 43 from Rio Linda California, USA

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Looking to meet someone that wants to be themself not someone that wants to do t.. Female 36 from Walnut Creek California, USA

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Just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 35 from California Hot Springs California, USA

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