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Am new here single never been married , Looking for someone to spend the rest of.. Female 42 from Lenox Iowa, USA

Am caring , Easy going , kind heart , looking for someone to spend the rest of the life together


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Hi Greetings ♥ to you Im Esther By Name Single and Lonely Looking forward to me.. Female 34 from Arkansas City Kansas, USA

Hi Greetings ♥ to you I'm Esther By Name Single and Lonely Looking forward to meeting a date this Morning before i get off the site


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Looking for NBSP; that Nbsp; special older one , who will rekindle the flame of .. Female 24 from Iowa City Iowa, USA

Looking for NBSP; that Nbsp; special older one , who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship, Someone  willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly


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I’m just a honest and trustworthy mistress Female 38 from Nebraska City Nebraska, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood  or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways unexplainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.


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im new on here trying to figure whats on here Female 33 from Tulsa Oklahoma, USA

im jovial and God fearing i love to joke lol like i said im new on this site but im not really new to the lifestyle


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I take pride in my art , I will lead and Dom you like never before Female 38 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

I get a mental turn-on from it. The mental high of dominating someone and making them submit to me is unlike anything else, and I get so much gratification out of feeling them melt like putty in my hands.


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just to keep it simple; Im an honest faithful understanding passionate and roma.. Female 48 from Dearing Kansas, USA

It will be great to simply meet a sincere, loyal, affectionate, and romantic man. A man that is down to earth


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me It is believed that people of my star sign Capricorn are inherent character t.. Female 66 from Cheney Kansas, USA

I'm think, that I'm really energetic and enthusiastic. I like getting new experience, meeting new people.


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Like a sailor, I’m on a voyage of discovery, so if you think you possess what I’.. Female 44 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

Domination has been a lifestyle for me, and many at times misunderstood by others, if you’re willing to be dominated. Hit me up..


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Hi there, new here and ready to meet new people Female 27 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I’m happy, calm, warm, honest, independent woman, positive outlook on life, highly respectful to myself and others, sincere and kindhearted.


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As to my personality, I am proud of the following trait of character, like being.. Female 48 from Missouri Valley Iowa, USA

I am an energetic, lucky and purposeful lady. I strongly believe that if I really want something, I'll definitely get it. Now I dream to find my soulmate and share my life with him. You must be sure I am positive and kind person, it is easy for me to find common language with different kinds of people. I am honest and frank. I am perfect hostess and I adore cooking.


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Kinky and understand the concept of this lifestyle Female 33 from Mcpherson Kansas, USA

Being dominant is not by look it’s by attitude and knowledge


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I’ve been a mistress for a long time and I know how well to treat my sub . You a.. Female 31 from Pella Iowa, USA

I love my man fearless and bold . Come make me squirt!


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Want to Keep Me for a weekend Female 54 from Junction City Kansas, USA

50  years  old from Junction City
Want  to keep  me a week  end?
I enjoy  loss  of control,and being
bound and gagged. A little  about
me  i   am divorced two  years  now
living with a  daughter. My   hobbies are
travel,shopping, crafts,camping,and  many other  things.
I work  as a  CNA. I enjoy  the company  of  women as well as  men .
Stay  safe
Linda


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I love giving than receiving. Any lucky one out there? Female 37 from Wichita Kansas, USA

They say I am a very lovely woman. I am a happy and fun woman, easy going and respectful with so much love for humanity and therefore people feel comfortable with me. It's been a while since I had any erotic experience.


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We are a much in love by couple looking to have fun with bimail or bi couple Couple 46, 46 from Macon Missouri, USA

We love making n have great exotic loving
We're looking for a bimale or bi couple


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Looking for my Daddy Dom to begin a long term relationship. Female 40 from Hutchinson Kansas, USA

I have a very high sex drive but very limited sexual experience. Always been denied kink and never had the choice to be submissive. I really want to learn and grow in the lifestyle while dating and having fun. I'll buy us tacos and you can touch my butt. Seems like a good place to start. So let's go, message me.


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Just here to make new friends and see what happens next Female 31 from Arkansas City Kansas, USA

I love playing golf, swimming and going out with friends


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Am Dominant mistress seeking for male submissive to train and own is collar as m.. Female 43 from Oxford Arkansas, USA

I enjoy pegging, anal, spankings, body / ass worship. Those are what I have experienced so far. I am open to the other things you mentioned although I’m hesitant about the chastity (although willing to try). Also don’t like blood or feces. Some pain ( spankings) is ok though.


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I am a woman who has life experience and knows what needs to be done in a relati.. Female 37 from California Missouri, USA

I am a woman who has life experience and knows what needs to be done in a relationship to make us happy . I'm used to giving more than receiving, so I give all of myself in a relationship. I want to be close to a serious man who makes a commitment to take care of me and never hurt me. I strive for loyalty and honesty in relationships, so I always demonstrate these qualities myself. When I feel love, I try to make every effort to make that love stronger every day. Through this dating site, I am looking for a man who openly shows his feelings and is ready to create a relationship in real life. I am not characterized by arrogance or pathos, and I know how to find a common language with people of different backgrounds, regardless of their interests or desires.


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New to the scene and looking to explore more. Female 51 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I like my hair being pulled. Being spanked. I have enjoyed lit bondage. Looking to explore more.


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I am a happy woman, optimistic, kind, friendly, honest, loyal, attentive. Let’s .. Female 57 from Manhattan Kansas, USA

Ask me. We could get to know more about each other..


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Are you willing to become Goddess special subbie , are you certain you the one f.. Female 36 from Wichita Kansas, USA

I dominate whoever is willing to submit to mistress, you wanna explore and enjoy your kinky lifestyle, bondage, submission is a dream but trust me I DOMINATE


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Rosie ❤Sexy Erotic Juicy pussy ❤ Busty Horny Female 35 from Dearing Kansas, USA

Am very respectful person
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I am a dom looking for my very first sub. I want to find someone who wants to be.. Female 41 from Malcom Iowa, USA

I am fun, loving, caring. But I am also stubborn, and can be a brat at times lol. I am looking for someone to worship Me. Someone to make me happy and that I can make happy.


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